Interesting night at the gym last night

[Bicuriousity]

I work out at a gym at the local university. While I see attractive members of both sexes working out there, I never go to flirt I just go for the exercise and health benefits of it.

Last night however, after finishing the workout and going to the shower, I almost think a guy was sending signals to me.

I was already showering (and these are big group showers with several separate fountain heads).

No one was in this rather large area and there were several areas to shower nearby, but a guy came up right next to me to shower.

He didn't talk, he was just whistling a song or something.

I was so aroused by the boldness in a way that literally I had to turn to hide an erection.

I finished showering and came back to my locker. It turned out his locker was close by. Another guy was nearby so I purposely took my time changing and was hoping I'd have a chance to talk to the first guy, but later a friend he knew walked by and he started talking to him.

From the guys voice he was European (want to say Spanish). So this make explain it as a cultural thing (also explaining the nice short swimsuit and underwear).

I'm not totally sure I was attracted to him, but his boldness was a huge turn on. I'm not sure if he's bi or gay or not, but I'd like to learn more.

And for the record, this is a very nice university gym, not a place where this stuff would typically happen.

It was late towards the time the gym would close and since I know people are creatures of habit, I may just have to make sure I keep my locker nearby where he went, so next time I might have a chance to chat with him.

Pretty amazing, in all my years of gym going this had never happened. I must have been on last night as well because on the way in a girl I didn't know started talking to me and I knew she was hitting on me.

[Sexy_Latina]

OMG That's hot!! He really sounds like a very confident guy to go take a shower exactly right next to you..That's a big turn on..lol specially if he looks good. You should had said why next to me just join me..LMAO maybe he is bi-curious too. come on with all that space to take a shower and right next to you? he sounds bi, either that or he just went straight to the shower and nothing more,you know like dint worry about who was around watching him.. but come on!! are people so distracted to not notice you are showering right next to someone when there's more space around to take a shower..LMAO.. Guys are naughty!! He probaly knows you are bi and was like" I'm gonna go turn him on" ha..ha..

He sounds spanish..lol I'm spanish and when you said the humming of the song & boldness.. I've seen well I've heard..lol Guys who would go in and take a shower humming a song and dint care if the whole world was watching them..LMAO yeah they are very confident of there body!!

I'm gonna go join a gym to see if a hot girl takes a shower next to me,I'm gonna be like take a shower with me or go to the other coner but don't come turning me on..ha..ha ..yeah right I'd be so quiet & wet..I mean wet due to the water...LMAO..

I wish you Good Luck!!

[Rick30907]

I work out at a gym at the local university.

And for the record, this is a very nice university gym, not a place where this stuff would typically happen. .
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You'd be surprised at what "typically" happens--everywhere.

Next time, make eye contact with the man and just ask a simple question like, "How's it goin'?" or something similar. From his response, you'll *know.* Just chat him up & get him talking, and it won't take long till he lets you know what the score is. Then just take it from there.

[noostoo]

I recently read in an old'ish book on coming out as a gay man. The cruising chapter suggested looking at a man's crotch and licking your lips. not sure how this would go down in the shower if you got the wrong guy though :bigrin: :eek: ;)

[12voltman59]

"And for the record, this is a very nice university gym, not a place where this stuff would typically happen."--Rick30907

I had one exprerience some years back at a place I used to work out where I am sure the guy was "hitting on me" but I was still very early into this and was kind of surprised at it so I did not take him up on what I think he was offering.

I do have a friend who recently told me that several area workout places---a Bally's close to me and our main YMCA both see lots of man-on-man action--I never knew that---guess I must be thick!!!!!! LOL

I think that more of this goes on at such places than we might otherwise be aware or think possible!!!!

[Rick30907]

I think that more of this goes on at such places than we might otherwise be aware or think possible!!!![/QUOTE]
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<chuckle> And it's not just at gyms...it's wherever you might happen to be. I've hooked up with men at reasturants and with men who were stopped at a traffic light next to me and with men who were just out for a simple walk in a public park and with men I just happened to notice in department stores, parking lots, you name it. You just have to keep your eyes open...and make eye contact & see what happens. It's easier than people think. And you can get lucky anywhere, anytime IF you just keep your eyes open. Best wishes to ya, bud!

[DiamondDog]

I think that more of this goes on at such places than we might otherwise be aware or think possible!!!!

<chuckle> And it's not just at gyms...it's wherever you might happen to be. I've hooked up with men at reasturants and with men who were stopped at a traffic light next to me and with men who were just out for a simple walk in a public park and with men I just happened to notice in department stores, parking lots, you name it. You just have to keep your eyes open...and make eye contact & see what happens. It's easier than people think. And you can get lucky anywhere, anytime IF you just keep your eyes open. Best wishes to ya, bud!

yes cruising is very easy to do. I find it funny when bi men say that they have no idea how to tell if a guy is into them since it's rather obvious if he is.

If you have sex in places such as parks, public bathrooms, adult bookstores, parkinglots, gym bathrooms, or department store bathrooms it truly is disgusting. Is it really that hard to find a place to have sex or split a hotel room? It's something that closted men or men on the down low (usually married) who aren't comfortable with their sexuality do, and I don't respect people who have sex in such places.

Seriously it's 2007, log onto the internet and find someone or go to a queer bar/club.

[LoveLion]

Nice story. Hooking up in a pubic shower is my number 1 fantasy :bigrin:

[Bicuriousity]

Damn the more I think about it, it was hot.

This was a Friday night just before it closed, I'm not usually there that late , but I may just have to go back at this time, because it isn't so busy there.

It was pretty wild and I did get aroused. So next time I'm going to try to do about the same thing.

As far as cruising and all that and public sex, yeah I'm not looking for that at all, I never did see the appeal in that.

As far as meeting another bi guy I am into that for sure. Being bi has made it tough and to be honest other than bi or gay.com I really haven't met alot of guys because I'm afraid to flirt with them and I just don't give off any bi or gay vibes to people as far as I know.

I do try to leave some clues to show I'm bi though. It sounds funny but I always like to wear my sexiest underwear there when I change (I have alot of hot 2xist stuff and other small briefs that are hot). I also wear some tighter stuff that my gf's have picked out for me (a bit metro, but sexy).

This gym has an awesome Olympic pool too. I'm not much of a swimmer but I got a hot Brazilian swimsuit (the kind most American guys don't wear! because it's skimpy but not tacky like most Speedos). I think wearing things most straight guys wouldn't might help tip off some guys. But I work out alot and wouldn't dare wear it if I wasn't in shape enough.

I do get turned on just by showering there naked and thinking someone bi might secretly be taking notice. And I shaved it smooth down there, so I always wonder what someone might think.

It's another great reason to go to the gym and I'm going to keep y'all posted on this cute Spanish guy. I know for sure, I'm going to start a convo with him if I see him again and use some Spanish as a conversation starter.
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[12voltman59]

Just a comment on what Diamond Dog said--

It ain't my thing to just hook up with someone in some public place-but it might be kind of fun to have someone "hit" on you though----and who knows--you might just hit it off well with someone you meet in a setting like that.

It is a slightly different thing--but a very good buddy of mine had been married once--that was a disaster--about two years later--he was in a restaurant and literally bumped into a woman as they were making their way through a crowded lobby--he got her number, called her--they went out-had a great time and long story short--are celebrating their 20th wedding anniversary this year---so--ya never know who or when or under what circumstances you will meet somebody great---you just got to be open to it!

[the sacred night]

My bi cousin hooked up with another chick in a gym shower once, she told me about it... I wish that would happen to me.

[LoveLion]

I find the idea of having sex (especially gay sex) in a public place very erotic. Just the idea of it being public and the idea that anyone could walk in on us at anytime is very exciting. In practice... I dont thing I would really be able to go through with it, but in my fantasies...

[onewhocares]

Well, seeing that I do not frequent a gym ( and Bicuriousity YOU know that ) I would not be likely to find a suitable mate. Also, I have yet to come across open showers for both men and woman so I will be left in the dust again.

Now, what I have had was when I was at a nudist resort, and there are communal showers some really hot and interesting men. What they saw in this tall curvy blonde is beyong me. But it was an enjoyable way to get your back scrubbed.....

Belle