Being Watched

[mcliff128]

My ex-girlfriend (who is the only one who knows i'm bi) always wanted to watch two guys having sex. Two nights ago I made her fantasy cum true. She's known i've had sex with men but she was so turned on by watching me and him go at it. Has anyone else let someone watch you having sex? And does it turn you on?

[deletetacount123]

No.
I don't want to be watched by someone. It loses the inmate feeling.

[etncple]

We went to an on-premise swing club once to see what it was like. We didnt play with anyone there but we did watch others and we had a lot of people watch us. It was a huge turnon, and we were like teenagers the whole next week, couldn't keep our hands off each other. My wife loved the first time she saw me with a female and I love seeing her when we play with a third person. We find both watching and being watched very erotic. :three:

[jo69guy]

Before my ex-wife shut down completely in anything sexual, she watched me interact with a guy a few times. We would then go home, and were like rabbits........ :2cents:

[darkeyes]

I have been watched and it is something about which I have mixed feelings. On the one hand it can be a fun erotic and exciting experience. On the other, depending on my mood, the people who watched and their acceptance of the limits which I allow them, it can also be an experience which is anything but, and simply makes me feel dirty.

[tell_no_one99]

me and my ex discovered by accident that it was a huge turn on to be watched. we were on vacation when it first happened (long story)

since that time we both had watched eachother with a number of partners it always seemed to be quite thrilling we had even started making our own porn tapes and showing them off to other people we'd include in our sexual escapades.

I guess it all boils down to what turns you on I guess. Myself I find it a huge turn on to be watched

[TaylorMade]

I'd like to be watched or to watch, but I guess I get specific as to the act I'd like to witness or be witnessed doing.

What appeals to me more is the possibility of getting caught, though.

*Taylor*

[darkeyes]

I'd like to be watched or to watch, but I guess I get specific as to the act I'd like to witness or be witnessed doing.

What appeals to me more is the possibility of getting caught, though.

*Taylor*oo God yea taylor..they danger...sighhhhhhhhhhhhh

[anne27]

*coughs and blushes* Yeah, the chance of getting caught thing is...nice...

I've watched and been watched. I'm somewhat of a voyeur and my spouse is a bit of an exhibitionist, so it keeps life interesting.

[Randy from Pa]

I have been both, watched and i have watched. both were a totally turn on. I watched a couple having beautiful sex/love. Also have been watched while in a MFM 3some. Loved it all. And i guess i am a voyuer. Would love to watch cpls in the philly area.

[DiamondDog]

I personally love to be watched during sex or when I do BDSM. I'm a voyuer too but I'm not obsessant and sometimes it can be as simple as watching two men kiss or watching/hearing/smelling a man or woman piss.

I've had MMM 3 ways with couples who I'm very good friends with and I'm OK with having someone watch certain sex acts we do, but I make sure that he won't feel left out and I also give him some attention and let him have some time with his partner so I can watch too!

I once had sex with a friend and this guy we met at a party and it was nice since we were all in a cuddle pile on the floor watching a movie and it just happened and there was a large group of men, some who were casual acquaitances or strangers watching and it was a hot time!

Another time I got my ass swatted with a big piece of leather in a crowded bar and that was sexy! I also let my hetero friend and his roommate use thin branches to switch my ass in my friend's front yard and that was a rush too!

I also get off on spanking others in public or being spanked unexpectedly in public!

I've never streaked and I dunno if I'd want to, but a friend of mine did and even taped it hee hee!

I have ran around in only my underwear at times at private parties, like my friend's birthday party or whatever. Another time when I was a teenager I was staying in a hotel and in the deserted pool area I took off my swim trunks and did laps naked!

I've never been caught but the idea of being caught or having someone walk in unexpectedly, excites me and turns me on!

The first time I ever did anything sexual with a guy my mom caught me and didn't flip out and just closed the door and later told me how lots of guys do that sort of thing together, as we were really young.

As an adult the first time I ever had sex with a woman I let my friend and some random stranger watch and I didn't mind that at all.

The first time I had sex with a guy as an adult we had it in his car and some guy watched us and it was apparent he knew what we were doing and then just got into his car and left.

Another time I was in a club bathroom and I let a friend watch me piss and I wanted to see his P.A. (prince albert, a piercing that goes through the urethra of the penis) and I played with it a bit.

In college I never had sex with anyone in a public bathroom, not even the cruisy one with the glory hole and the survey that I and other men had filled out on the bathroom wall but I would jack off in EVERY single bathroom on our small campus almost daily, in hopes of finding a guy that was my type to have sex with. I never did since the cruisy bathroom seemed really dangerous and I never saw anyone there having sex when I was there having sex alone, and I didn't want to wait around for hours. But one time I was masturbating and the stall door was broke and some guy opened it up and just as he did that I came and I could have turned around and flashed him but he probably got nervous and ran away since he saw that the stall was in use.

I've masturbated in a varitey of public places some of which include: a train station (it was an outside one), a hotel hallway, an airplane bathroom, lots of public bathrooms, my friend's room, my friend's bathroom, in a hotel bed in the same room while my parents slept in the bed across from mine, in a car with a guy, in a car alone, in a train bathroom, in most public restrooms at my old university, in front of my friends, in the woods, in a field, at school, and lots more places I haven't remembered now.

Sometimes even just doing a hot "look but don't touch" jack off scene can be sexy too!

[BreeIsMe]

to me being bisexual means that I enjoy being with both women and men and the two together is incredible. As part of "threesomes" one person "watching" the other two is an integral part of the experience in my mind. Therefore, the process of having another woman watch me with a man is exciting (I prefer to think of it as "helping" me please a man). Conversely, having a man watch me make love to another woman is also exciting. Therefore, I would have to say that I very much enjoy having someone else watch and I don't find that it interferes with intimacy since the people I am involved with are generally intimate with each other so there is no loss.

The issue of doing something and getting "caught" and being watched by a total starnger is different in my mind. I have made love in the middle of Golden Gate Park in the middle of the day in San Francisco and it was nice but not because there might be someone who "watches" For that type of activity, I don't think I really am attracted.

Good Thread!

Bree

[Dr.StrangeLove]

Never have, but its a fantasy that will hopefully become a reality :tong: I don't know if my wife would want to watch me with another guy though...we've done it in public, but no one was around to watch.

[sexybicplinwv]

I'd like to be watched or to watch, but I guess I get specific as to the act I'd like to witness or be witnessed doing.

What appeals to me more is the possibility of getting caught, though.

*Taylor*
Well said hun!!! I have been watched, And i have watch, But the thrill of geting caught turn me on so bad :female: