deletetacount123
Mar 25, 2007, 3:55 PM
Im bored and today was doing some spiring cleaning. :-)
Did some things today that made me realize I have moved on and don't care about the ex at all. :-)
1. Getting a letter from a collection agency, accidently opened it (had so much mail that day I opened them all before opening).... I was like "What the heck?" but then saw it was addressed to MY address but my EX'S business. So ya, he never changed the address....
Collection Agency is demaning he pays 182.00 or actions will happen... I was a little concerned cause IM NOT paying something that has nothing to do with me lol so I asked a friend who said "Your names not on it, they can't do anything to you." so that made me feel better.
One thing about my ex, Im actually glad hes in trouble cause he NEEDS a lesson taught.... he likes to pay bills when he feels like it and often forgets to. ME on the other hand tend to pay bills as soon as I get it or on time
Since I didn't know my ex's new address I just put it back in the envople....
2. Found a few things of his today when cleaning and they auto went into my trash bag.... since he hasn;t been here for over almost a year, clearly hes not missing them.
3. Find pictures of him in the photo albums and fed them one by one to the hungry paper shedder and that was FUN!!!!!!!!!! lol
4. Found the box I put my wedding things in.... tossing this and that, Ugh, saw a picture of the posion cake that made me, my little Tummy actually... very ill... I think I know what caused it after talking to a pastry chef friend of mine who had an idea what caused it but sheesh, it was BAD... she said I was lucky I didn't end up in the hospital.
and sadly when I saw the one of the first signs just how caring my ex was!!!
Really, if your loved one got really ill, would you make sure shes ok and be concerned, rarely leaving her side OR would you just say "I'll be back in awhile" and go out and hang out with friends ??????
5. The discovery of the pocket watch I bought him which wasn't cheap I might add, I got it cause hes always wanted one.... BUT after 2 months he never wore it again!!!!!!!!
IF ANY OF YOU GUYS want a pocket watch, let me know or Im gonna pawn it or something lol (I have piccies and all.)
6. The wedding dress.... so pretty, so 1980s!!!!
Was gonna donate it but um.... I put it on the floor in the hallway while cleaning the closet... and accidently spilled my tea which went SPLASHING on the dress!!!!!!!! (I tripped over a small bag that was nearby and wasn;t watching where I was going) AAAAAAAAAACK
Oh well..... what to do now?? Guess I don't need to wait for halloween to dump vampire blood on it :-) *grins*
7. The rings!!!!
When I told several friends I bought my own wedding ring... they were like "YOU BOUGHT IT?!?!?!" and another said "ok, thats just wrong... the groom buys the wedding rings not the bride!!" People agreed with her...
And now I know why the sales girl had a questionly but puzzled look when my ex told me to pay for it lol
The rules are that the groom buys the wedding rings.
I have them both still (engagment and wedding) but Im having a hard time selling them on ebay.
CAN SOMEONE that sells jewerly without a problem take them and sell them for me?? pleeeeeease? lol
(or maybe help me by pointers and such)
8. Im giggly... the law says you have to wait 1 year as separated before you can file divorce papers... THE YEARS ALMOST UP!!!!!!!!!! So on June 17th I can sign the papers!!!!!!!!!!! *bounces*
Ah... my life is getting better... Im gonna end my being 27 years old VERY HAPPILY. :) :) :) :) :) :) (Not just cause im done with my ex but cause I also GOT A JOB!!! after all this time... its funny tho cause the store was the only store I didn't apply for all those times I did my resume thing lol)
My last wish for 27 is to have a girlfriend :) Which Im trying not to think about cause I do believe my cousin when she said "quit thinking about it, she'll come to you when you don't expect it"
So in the mean time I'll just make friends :) And flirt with those I like *smiles*
OOOOH the sun just peeked out of the clouds when I typed that "flirt" line
lol SUNNY!!!! SPRINGS HERE!!!
Okies Im getting hyper... what was in that tea? lol To much sugar perhaps?
Back to cleaning... doing my little sexy silly dance too !!!
Tasha
Did some things today that made me realize I have moved on and don't care about the ex at all. :-)
1. Getting a letter from a collection agency, accidently opened it (had so much mail that day I opened them all before opening).... I was like "What the heck?" but then saw it was addressed to MY address but my EX'S business. So ya, he never changed the address....
Collection Agency is demaning he pays 182.00 or actions will happen... I was a little concerned cause IM NOT paying something that has nothing to do with me lol so I asked a friend who said "Your names not on it, they can't do anything to you." so that made me feel better.
One thing about my ex, Im actually glad hes in trouble cause he NEEDS a lesson taught.... he likes to pay bills when he feels like it and often forgets to. ME on the other hand tend to pay bills as soon as I get it or on time
Since I didn't know my ex's new address I just put it back in the envople....
2. Found a few things of his today when cleaning and they auto went into my trash bag.... since he hasn;t been here for over almost a year, clearly hes not missing them.
3. Find pictures of him in the photo albums and fed them one by one to the hungry paper shedder and that was FUN!!!!!!!!!! lol
4. Found the box I put my wedding things in.... tossing this and that, Ugh, saw a picture of the posion cake that made me, my little Tummy actually... very ill... I think I know what caused it after talking to a pastry chef friend of mine who had an idea what caused it but sheesh, it was BAD... she said I was lucky I didn't end up in the hospital.
and sadly when I saw the one of the first signs just how caring my ex was!!!
Really, if your loved one got really ill, would you make sure shes ok and be concerned, rarely leaving her side OR would you just say "I'll be back in awhile" and go out and hang out with friends ??????
5. The discovery of the pocket watch I bought him which wasn't cheap I might add, I got it cause hes always wanted one.... BUT after 2 months he never wore it again!!!!!!!!
IF ANY OF YOU GUYS want a pocket watch, let me know or Im gonna pawn it or something lol (I have piccies and all.)
6. The wedding dress.... so pretty, so 1980s!!!!
Was gonna donate it but um.... I put it on the floor in the hallway while cleaning the closet... and accidently spilled my tea which went SPLASHING on the dress!!!!!!!! (I tripped over a small bag that was nearby and wasn;t watching where I was going) AAAAAAAAAACK
Oh well..... what to do now?? Guess I don't need to wait for halloween to dump vampire blood on it :-) *grins*
7. The rings!!!!
When I told several friends I bought my own wedding ring... they were like "YOU BOUGHT IT?!?!?!" and another said "ok, thats just wrong... the groom buys the wedding rings not the bride!!" People agreed with her...
And now I know why the sales girl had a questionly but puzzled look when my ex told me to pay for it lol
The rules are that the groom buys the wedding rings.
I have them both still (engagment and wedding) but Im having a hard time selling them on ebay.
CAN SOMEONE that sells jewerly without a problem take them and sell them for me?? pleeeeeease? lol
(or maybe help me by pointers and such)
8. Im giggly... the law says you have to wait 1 year as separated before you can file divorce papers... THE YEARS ALMOST UP!!!!!!!!!! So on June 17th I can sign the papers!!!!!!!!!!! *bounces*
Ah... my life is getting better... Im gonna end my being 27 years old VERY HAPPILY. :) :) :) :) :) :) (Not just cause im done with my ex but cause I also GOT A JOB!!! after all this time... its funny tho cause the store was the only store I didn't apply for all those times I did my resume thing lol)
My last wish for 27 is to have a girlfriend :) Which Im trying not to think about cause I do believe my cousin when she said "quit thinking about it, she'll come to you when you don't expect it"
So in the mean time I'll just make friends :) And flirt with those I like *smiles*
OOOOH the sun just peeked out of the clouds when I typed that "flirt" line
lol SUNNY!!!! SPRINGS HERE!!!
Okies Im getting hyper... what was in that tea? lol To much sugar perhaps?
Back to cleaning... doing my little sexy silly dance too !!!
Tasha