Monogamous Bisexual?

[DuskTillDawn]

How many of you are bi and are completely monogamous?

there is lots of talk on this site about polygamous bisexuals but i dont think iv read about any monogamous 1s. I know they exsist so im curious as to how common they are in comparison to polygamous.

Thx

[candigirl]

How many of you are bi and are completely monogamous?

there is lots of talk on this site about polygamous bisexuals but i dont think iv read about any monogamous 1s. I know they exsist so im curious as to how common they are in comparison to polygamous.

Thx


I would be very committed to my woman and man. I would tell her that i wanna be the only WOMAN in her life. And the same goes to the man in my life. Of course there's gonna be men wanting threesomes. As soon as he ask i'mma have to leave him. I don't trust them after that question. :tong:

[meteast chick]

I can't see ever not being monogamous. My girl is thousands of miles away and even though I don't have a chance in hell of seeing her right now or for awhile, I'm stressing over whether or not I should step. I've been told over and over again I should because there is nothing I can do about it right now. The fact is I love this woman and can't get her out of my head. What's a girl to do? Those who know what I'm talking about I'd love your opinion. I just went on a friendly 'date' with a coworker and it just felt so wrong. It was nice and at the same time I hated myself for it.

I'm a one person woman, and that's who I am, nothing else. I could maybe see 'dating' around as long as I premised a 'relationship' with letting them know I just got out of a marriage and didn't want anything serious, but not very sure how someone would take this.

Anyway, sorry for the :soapbox:
All in all, I'll stand up for the monogamous bisexual!

luv and kisses,
xoxoxoxoxoxox
meteast

[innaminka]

Why is this question asked and re-asked?
I don't really think Bisexual and monogomous have any connecting relationship.
We're all people.
Some are monogomous - some aren't. Nothing really to do with our sexuality!
Nothing!

[DuskTillDawn]

Why is this question asked and re-asked?
I don't really think Bisexual and monogomous have any connecting relationship.
We're all people.
Some are monogomous - some aren't. Nothing really to do with our sexuality!
Nothing!


I apologise if this has been asked several times, i havent come across a similar forum and i was curious so i didnt think people would mind me asking.

personally i am monogamous but i havent heard of anyone else mentioning being monogamous and bisexual so i figured i could find out how common it was this way.

So far it does however apear that bisexuality and polygamousness (is tht a word?) are loosly linked. Alot of bisexuals seem to feel they cannot be fully satisfied by only one sex for long periods of time and there for need interaction with more than one person.

This is just how it appears to me, feel free to rpove me wrong.

[TorontoGuy2007]

Why is this question asked and re-asked?
I don't really think Bisexual and monogomous have any connecting relationship.
We're all people.
Some are monogomous - some aren't. Nothing really to do with our sexuality!
Nothing!

i agree with this analysis. sexual orientation and types of desired sexual activity are mutually exclusive..

[TorontoGuy2007]

How many of you are bi and are completely monogamous?

there is lots of talk on this site about polygamous bisexuals but i dont think iv read about any monogamous 1s. I know they exsist so im curious as to how common they are in comparison to polygamous.

Thx

there's definitely a perception in society that bisexuals tend to be more polygamous than non-bisexuals, but i'm not convinced that this really is the case. i think the perception exists because bisexuals are more open and honest and willing to admit to and discuss their poly desires and activities.

what you don't hear very often is stories about the monagamous bisexuals, like myself, but we are out here..

[flexuality]

There are actually a lot of people who are bisexual and monogamous on this site.

Some define it a bit differently than just "only having sex with one's partner." Like for example it might be only having sexual activity together as a couple with other people that are agreed upon by both.

Look through some of the previous threads....wasn't too far back that there was some great discussions on this. :)

[GreenEyedLady(GEL)]

Some people are relatively new to this site, and have questions. I know this topic has already come up , but they might not have known :)

Myself , If I guess I might be bi monogamous. I say only might be because Im currently not interested in dating a man. However, I only date one person at a time. Whether they are male or female. That to me is what bi monogamy is.

[Avocado]

Depends on the circumstances. Would never cheat behind someone's back though.

[happyjoe68]

I think that there is subliminal pressure - if you want to call it that - in the bisexual world. I think it works on the same level as commercial advertising, in that people feel that if they dont have the latest plasma TV they will be unhappy or that their lives are not complete. I feel that in the bisexual world a similar pressure exists perhaps (albeit unintentionally) to make people feel that in order to be Bi they have to engage in poly type scenarios, and that they "must" be like this because they "can be" and that this is the only way to express their sexuality and they are selling themselves short if they do not.

Just because you can do something doesn't mean to say you have to

[bi-robin-calif]

Just because you can do something doesn't mean to say you have to

Ah, yes! The famous Woz Principle!

[deletetacount123]

monogomous :) I don't want to share. lol

[julie]

Why is this question asked and re-asked?
I don't really think Bisexual and monogomous have any connecting relationship.
We're all people.
Some are monogomous - some aren't. Nothing really to do with our sexuality!
Nothing!

i disagree innaminka...

the only reason i am even exploring where non-monogamy fits with my personal value system is because both the man i love deeply and myself are bisexual.

this is a hugely important and deeply painful issue for us to explore. and although i am very glad to hear you seem so clear where you stand on this innaminka.. i wonder what drives you to to ask why this question keeps returning ?

surely, the question repeatedly gets asked and re asked because it keeps needing to be explored and re explored by those of us who are not as fortunate as you in being 'sorted' about where we stand here?

i feel saddened that Dusk til dawn felt the need to apologise to you for asking this question.

ask away DtD... this is an open forum, i'm not aware that a hierarchy of relevant questions exists where more senior members have the authority to belittle issues that other members are still struggling to make sense of...

correct me if i'm wrong.

julie :female:
(still really struggling to make sense of this so many thanks for bringing this back to the forums dusk til dawn x)

[free2peek]

Monogamous by choice here. Married as well. My wife knows I am bisexual, b4 we got married, and actually gets turned on by it. I don't think being mono or poly is a sexual orientation but a personal decision. I know many heteros that live poly life styles as well as mono. It comes down to ones own self and what they think is right for them.

[TorontoGuy2007]

Some define it a bit differently than just "only having sex with one's partner." Like for example it might be only having sexual activity together as a couple with other people that are agreed upon by both.

flex, that is all fine and good, but if a couple engages in sexual acts with a 3rd party, doesn't that fit the technical definition of consentual polygamous sex?