attractions to men and women

[Daisy999]

Is anyone else here like this?

I've noticed when I masturbate about men that it's more personal and romantic, I know the men I'm thinking of.

But with women it's more sexual, anonomous, and not romantic.

This isn't to say that I don't fall in love with both men and women since I do.

Sometimes I'll let the dominant gender, the one I'm more into take over, and sometimes I'll just think about both.

Anyone else here like this? Where would this put me on they kinsey scale that I see in people's profiles?

[biwords]

The possibilities are infinite. I'll daydream about a guy but never masturbate thinking of one (well, not since I was 13). With women I'll do both...

[Domino]

Don't you people know you should not masturbate,it makes you go blind.

[TashaSW]

Don't you people know you should not masturbate,it makes you go blind.

It DOES?!?! :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:
*gasp* where is the light going.......

[TorontoGuy2007]

masturbating for 20 years has not made me blind, but it sure as hell wrecked my arm and elbow!

different people will have different interests in each sex. many people who have recently discovered their bisexuality will be excited and curious, therefore same-sex thoughts will be mostly sexual, while opposite-sex thoughts will be more along the lines of love/romance.. these thoughts may change and interchange over time.

[gentlepen9]

I've noticed when I masturbate about men that it's more personal and romantic, I know the men I'm thinking of.

But with women it's more sexual, anonomous, and not romantic.



Actually, for me it's the other way around. Women= more personal and romantic.
Men=sexual and straight to the point albeit this is just in fantasy. In reality I prefer the personal and romantic whether it's a man or a woman.

[bm_jim]

Personally I find myself when I masturbate I think of men personal and romantically, and ussually someone I know, women, I tend to go both ways with, I fantisize of them in a personal romantic way being someone I know well or as an anonamous lover using me in a purely sexual way.

[kitten]

It depends on my mood and what I may have experienced recently. I worked temporarily with a beautiful woman and she was the subject of my fantasies for quite a few sessions. I had an interesting cyber encounter and that was what helped me get it done. A very attractive man caught my eye at the grocery store and we kept meeting each other going up and down the aisles in opposite directions to the point of almost embarrassment, that was nice source of fantasy, too. And then there is always the favorite movie character or novel heroine...each day can be different for me. Yes, daily at least once...

[sexybicplinwv]

I always been turn on by both sex's. The joy of both worlds :female: :male: (((Always be true to yourself))) :bibounce:

[Daisy999]

so what would I be on the kinsey scale I see on peoples profiles here?

A 3 or equal? I've seen the real scale that starts with zero and ends with six on google searches.

[Buck Naked]

Don't you people know you should not masturbate,it makes you go blind.


I'll just keep doing it till I need glasses :tongue:

[midwestseeker]

I feel the same way, just in reverse.

When i masturbate thinking about women (im primarly attracted to them) I tend to get those warm "flutters" when I do it; It certinly feels more "personal".

When thinking about men...it's hard to call up an image of a certian man..(although I can sometimes), generally I can only summon up a vauge imagine of what I'd think to be the "ideal" man for me to have sex with...along with the situation it would be happening it (sometimes, it's thinking about the situation that is hotter, in my opinion, since im mostly straight.)

[IanBorthwick]

The terror that comes up in my heart when fantasizing about someone I know and have feelings for...usually cool me off. Male, female...doesn't matter. If it isn't some nameless person in pictures and I know they are real, I have to get to know and trust them before I can consider sex, even fantasy sex.

[izzfan]

Hi, most of my fantasies tend to be about anonymous people [usually women or transvestites for some strange reason despite the fact I prefer sexual activities/intimacy with men in real life.... strange]. Yeah, when I was about 13-14 I went through a stage of fantasising about people I know and it just got me very paranoid, guilty etc... if I even went near them the next day. So for my psychological well being I tend to fantasise about anonymous people or people I know I will never meet [eg: porn actors/ actresses].

Izzfan :flag3: