has anyone had their kids catch them looking at gay porn

[my-00-stang]

hey i was just wondering if anyone had ever been caught by their kids either watching or doing bisexual things

[codybear3]

I have not been caught doing anything bi-sexual or otherwise...But I do not keep secrets from my son...I don't talk in detail about my bi-side but I do not hide it when he has asked questions... :paw: :paw:

[innaminka]

Yes - with another gal. A close friend. Totally stupid of me.
Fortunately clothes were still on!!!! I "passed" it off as a time when we were both upset and she we needed consoling.
.....My daughter (mid teen) accepted it, but she ain't stoopid!!!! :eek:

I'm sure she suspects Mummy is a little quirky.

[Trinity-Fl]

I moved in with a couple 8 years ago. We were a 3sum from the beginning and we shared the same bed every night. Their 20 year old daughter lived in a garage apt next door but came and went in the home all the time. Early one morning she came looking for some papers she needed to take to school with her. She couldn't find them so she pushed open the bedroom door and said, "Has anybody seen those papers I have to take in this morning? Mom, Dad, Jeff!" We pulled the covers up (as we slept naked) and answered that the papers weren't in the bedroom. :)

She actually took it all very well and never seemed to have a problem with our triad. Once I had to explain that I wasn't "gay" becuase liked both her mom and dad the same. Later she came to a poly meeting to join a discussion of having parents in a "different lifestyle."

The triad is no longer but her mom and I (now a couple) still smile about her first introduction to the lifestyle.

[mcliff128]

I was caught by my kids, but when i was 17 I was caught by my dad. I was jerking off to a shemale mag. He never said anything, and we never talked about it. I think he might have know I might be bi or even gay but just never said anything about it.

[flexuality]

Well, not by my kids....but I did have one time where me and Solomon (my hubby) were talking on the phone rather...intimately to say the least!

Sol and I lived 3000 miles apart when we met, so we talked alot on the phone before he came up here and we got married....anyway....

I was laying in bed talking very descriptively with him and getting really turned on by our conversation...and my mother walked in. (yeah, I know...weird...my mother just waltzed into my bedroom...) I quickly threw the down quilt over myself and claimed that I was cold - it was 98 degrees out that day! lol

Later I found out that my ex (bless his fucking moronic soul) had tapped the phone and recorded it!

The two of them were totally disgusted with me lol! My ex even gave the tape to my mother. lol!

When my ex confronted me with this (he was always trying to take the kids from me and would stoop to just about any means to do that) I looked him square in the face and said "By the way....which phone call did you record? Was it the kinky one with the feathers or one of the others? And did you enjoy it?"

He never brought that up again! lol!! :) :tong: :)

[my-00-stang]

well i was wondering because the other day i was on the computer camming with a guy and i had my vibrator out going to town on myself and strokin had a good hard orgasm when i looked up my 13 yr old son was standing there watching, they had gotten out of school early due to the storms, now i was butt naked i tried to cover up real quick and he was smiling i said i'm sorry you saw all that he said it was okay because he already knew he had found my vibrator and ky jelly a long time ago, then he decided to tell me that he and his friend had already started to experiment with it as well and had used my vibrator on several occasions, i keep it hid in the garage in my tool chest. he said he was scared to tell me at first and i explained to him that it was okay and that i started with my friend at his age. he seemed very relieved to be able to tell me.

[flexuality]

well i was wondering because the other day i was on the computer camming with a guy and i had my vibrator out going to town on myself and strokin had a good hard orgasm when i looked up my 13 yr old son was standing there watching, they had gotten out of school early due to the storms, now i was butt naked i tried to cover up real quick and he was smiling i said i'm sorry you saw all that he said it was okay because he already knew he had found my vibrator and ky jelly a long time ago, then he decided to tell me that he and his friend had already started to experiment with it as well and had used my vibrator on several occasions, i keep it hid in the garage in my tool chest. he said he was scared to tell me at first and i explained to him that it was okay and that i started with my friend at his age. he seemed very relieved to be able to tell me.

I think it's great when parents and kids can talk about sexual issues honestly and without judging. :)

I really believe its the PARENTS who are more afraid of these conversations than the kids are!

Although I would NOT promote gettin the vibrator out, pullin up the porn and callin the kids in! lol :eek:

But at least the outcome was positive for both of you by the sounds of it. :)

[my-00-stang]

yeah i wouldn't suggest that either and i agree with you i think the parents are more scared to talk about it than the kids, but even though it was a bit embarassing at first we did have a good talk about it and i told him that what he does is fine, just to be careful and enjoy himself. :)

[FriedDuck]

well i was wondering because the other day i was on the computer camming with a guy and i had my vibrator out going to town on myself and strokin had a good hard orgasm when i looked up my 13 yr old son was standing there watching, they had gotten out of school early due to the storms, now i was butt naked i tried to cover up real quick and he was smiling i said i'm sorry you saw all that he said it was okay because he already knew he had found my vibrator and ky jelly a long time ago, then he decided to tell me that he and his friend had already started to experiment with it as well and had used my vibrator on several occasions, i keep it hid in the garage in my tool chest. he said he was scared to tell me at first and i explained to him that it was okay and that i started with my friend at his age. he seemed very relieved to be able to tell me.
y not buy him his own vibrator? my sis bought me 1 when i found hers.

[tink1978]

With my children being 4 and 2 the subject has not come up, but if and when the time comes I will be as open and honest with him as I have been with my parents. I think that is the big thing, open and honest. It may change when they are older but right now it sound like an idea.

Tink :2cents:

[diamond_tether]

Haven't had any of my own kids do it (don't have any kids), but a few years ago I had some younger cousins (each about 13/14) go digging through my stuff (as they all did when they came to visit because my family would put all the male cousins in my room for sleeping arrangements). Eventually a couple of them found some of my gay mags when looking for my straight stuff. I came out to them about it right then and there. I'm kind of the black sheep of the family so, they were kind of confused and caught off guard by it, but not really 'surprised'. Thus far only two of about 4 cousins who used to stay in my room know and neither of them really cared enough to even mention it after that. However, one of my mags did go missing after a big family visit. The two who knew adamandtly denied taking them, which I believe because they know I would have simply given it to them if they asked. I told them I would if they were ever curious and they're just turned out to be comfortably straight. So, now I have two cousins that I can't help but smile at randomly whenever they visit.

We recently babysat a neice for a week and the lady of the couple hid the pink collar she wears from the girl's mother (the family itself really wouldn't understand), but not from her. She's only 2, so we know the youngin' won't remember it, but we figure introducing her to our idea of 'normal' from the beginning is the better way to go.

[bi-robin-calif]

I'm sure she suspects Mummy is a little quirky.

Well, if she's your daughter, I suspect she's probably a little quirky, too! :bigrin: