We bisexuals apologize

[coyotedude]

In another thread, Lousiebrookslover posts the following quote that got me thinking:

"The gay community has yet to apologize to straight people for all the damage that they have done." --Bill Donohue, of the Catholic League.

I can't speak for the gay community, since I'm bi. But I think ol' Billy boy makes a good point. We bisexuals also owe the straight community profound apologies for all the damage we have done to them, yes?

For instance, I personally apologize to Bill that I have twice as many opportunities to get laid as he will ever have.

I also apologize that I am attracted to Brad Pitt's ass as well as Angelina Jolie's. That must be a heartbreaking psychological wound for Billy.

Anyone else out there want to confess to our great sins?????

Peace

[jedinudist]

In another thread, Lousiebrookslover posts the following quote that got me thinking:

"The gay community has yet to apologize to straight people for all the damage that they have done." --Bill Donohue, of the Catholic League.

I can't speak for the gay community, since I'm bi. But I think ol' Billy boy makes a good point. We bisexuals also owe the straight community profound apologies for all the damage we have done to them, yes?

For instance, I personally apologize to Bill that I have twice as many opportunities to get laid as he will ever have.

I also apologize that I am attracted to Brad Pitt's ass as well as Angelina Jolie's. That must be a heartbreaking psychological wound for Billy.

Anyone else out there want to confess to our great sins?????

Peace

LOL - Hmmm....

Do we really need to apologize for being more intellignet, open minded, and wishing to be treated as the regular everyday people we are and not some demon spawn sent to corrupt the innocent (yeah... right) people in his church, or society en masse for that matter?

[raffe]

I'm sorry that I get to date people of four different sexualities... straight and bi males as well as gay and bi females...

also, I'm sorry I have both a boyfriend and a girlfriend... I guess that makes some people jealous... :eek:

:bipride:

[ambi53mm]

......"pology cepted...Now s'pose you just drop dem pants n let mi rod n staff comfort ye a little

ur bud
Ted Haggert

[DiamondDog]

I know this is a joke; but fuck that I don't owe any apologies to the heterosexual majority.

[wanderingrichard]

never apologize for being who you are

[jookboxcharlie]

I'm not apologizing to anyone! Here it is Saturday night, not getting laid. And I thought being bi doubled my chances!

Oh, that's right- 2x0=0. :(

[IanBorthwick]

I apologize for being born different, for having to withstand the beatings, molestations and attempted immasculations of the straights.

I apologize for the pains you felt you had to go through to make me feel unwanted and unaccepted.

I apologize for wanting to be ME in a world that walks lock-step to the tune of those more ready to kill than love....someone that won't accept murder as the way to scare others into submission.

I apologize for fearing being ALONE more than I fear religious imperatives.

I apologize for being what god made me and finding that I was happiest when I stopped pretending.

Will you forgive me?

[littlerayofsunshine]

I'm not apologizing to anyone! Here it is Saturday night, not getting laid. And I thought being bi doubled my chances!

Oh, that's right- 2x0=0. :(


I'm with ya charlie.

Even being bi and married doesn't guarantee a romp of any sort on a saturday night. :confused:

[Solomon]

I apologize for being born different, for having to withstand the beatings, molestations and attempted immasculations of the straights.

I apologize for the pains you felt you had to go through to make me feel unwanted and unaccepted.

I apologize for wanting to be ME in a world that walks lock-step to the tune of those more ready to kill than love....someone that won't accept murder as the way to scare others into submission.

I apologize for fearing being ALONE more than I fear religious imperatives.

I apologize for being what god made me and finding that I was happiest when I stopped pretending.

Will you forgive me?

well put Ian :cool:

[Solomon]

When it comes to realizations I make about me I apologize for nothing.

I have no control over how others choose to percieve me.

I just can't bring myself to be funny about this.

[jookboxcharlie]

I'm with ya charlie.

Even being bi and married doesn't guarantee a romp of any sort on a saturday night. :confused:

Heh- I had a less than zero chance when I was married...

[12voltman59]

I have to wonder what damage that mindless fuck from that Catholic group wants gays to apolgize for?????

A large majority of the great paintings, music, art, science, engineering, etcetera, etcetera, etcetera have been created throughout the ages by those who were gay or bisexual.

The list of those who were exclusively gay or at least had a same sex lover is too long to note--but includes most of our great creatiive minds throughout the course of human history--the world would literally not be the same if not for their contributions.

If anyone has anything to apologize for--it is idiots like Bill Donohue who should be apologizing for having their heads stuck firmly in the sand and for being ignorant fools that we are forced to suffer!!!!

[bicomrade]

Of course the catholics, muslims, hindus, buddhists and just about any religion interested in controlling people are hugely upset by GLBT community. What goes on in your pants is their business. This site is totally anarchy and suggests people make up their own minds about their sexuality. I mean thats about as satanic as you can get. People have no right to chose their own destiny outside of God's specific instructions. Can we all just bow in reverence to God's will and obey his annointed leaders in all matters of sexual pleasure?

CS

[12voltman59]

It did come to me after putting up the above post--I bet old shit for Brains Bill would repond with the Biggie: HIV/AIDS!!

Well--in the US, UK, and Europe and I suppose Australia as well it was initially the case that gays were the primary group who first contracted and spread that disease.

But, the first Westerner known to have contracted and spread the HIV virus picked it up in Africa---while he may have gotten it from having gay sex--the disease first came into the human population in the African heterosxual population.

In most parts of the world--HIV/AIDS is largely a hetero disease spread by men who have unprotected sex with as many other women as possible in addition to their wirves.

It is pure macho that requires them to be "real men" by having sex with as many women as possible without using condoms.

AIDS may have been brought to our country by a gay man but it would have gotten here eventually anyway--with the probability it would have been a hetero man who brought it--after he had had sex with dozens of kids in some third world port-of-call.

As far as pedohillia is concerned--statisically--most pedophiles are not gay--they are upper middle class, middle aged white professional males (around age 42)--I don't see Bill demanding YUPPIE straight men apologizing for that.

Watch those NBC Dateline "To Catch A Predator" series-not one of those guys has been gay--they have all been straight guys--usually married middle aged guys.

If you have watched and noted--while most of the time they have had the "bait child" being a girl--it has also been on many occassions--a boy.

[Cerealk]

Basically, we are but slaves to "Gods" we created ourselves for protection against anything we cant understand.

I dont want to start anything about this, but I think its time for most of humanity to move on with it and grow up. Personnally I do not believe in any religion, but you could say I kinda created my own believes based on what I needed to cover up about the absurdity of my own existence.

If people could just be more open minded towards themselves, if they could learn more about what they are, I think the world would.. hmm ("tourner plus rond?") be a better place to live in, for us and any other living or not creatures.

>.>
CK

[wanderingrichard]

I have to wonder what damage that mindless fuck from that Catholic group wants gays to apolgize for?????

A large majority of the great paintings, music, art, science, engineering, etcetera, etcetera, etcetera have been created throughout the ages by those who were gay or bisexual.

The list of those who were exclusively gay or at least had a same sex lover is too long to note--but includes most of our great creatiive minds throughout the course of human history--the world would literally not be the same if not for their contributions.

If anyone has anything to apologize for--it is idiots like Bill Donohue who should be apologizing for having their heads stuck firmly in the sand and for being ignorant fools that we are forced to suffer!!!!

when you have your head stuck firmly in the sand, you leave your ass hanging out and exposed..now, how do we use that exposure to our advantage?

[darkeyes]

Wers ther apologies for millenia of hurt? Of oppression? Of beatin's? Of Murderin'? Of mutilation? Of deprivin' of dignity? Of treatin' us as shite? Of humiliation? Wers ther apology for simply not even tryin' 2 understand an' accept difference? Ther ignorance?

From this criticism me excepts the many wonderful str8s who struggle 2 understand us an 2 accept who were r, an for standin beside us in our fiight for not simply tolerance but acceptance. To them we owe such a debt as without them the progress we hav made against all oddss cud neva hav been achieved!!

But 2 the religions an' ther holy leaders, 2 the bigotted, 2 the closed minded who still think us as perverted scum wer r your apologies for believin an treatin' us as devil's spawn?

Wot hav we done 2 apologize for?

[bigdreams3250]

Okay, eyes down for a full house as they say at the Lotto. This is number one from me and I want to give a brand new persons slant on things, and we have all been there.

I am currently 62 not out and enjloying life quite incredibly. I have a very close girl friend, as opposed to girlfriend, who I was talking to the other day, and believe me, apart from being beautiful, she is dead set sexy. She was talking about a porn picture I had sent her on the internet. Two ladies enjoying each others company big time when she expressed a desire to 'lick pussy' as she put it.

I thought for a moment and asked her if she was bi, because she has a very strong and loving relationship with her male partner. YES! She said and just about knocked me socks off. What about you?

Well that put the cat amongst the pigeons and I waffled and puffed and said I didnt think so. End of conversation.

She actually asked two questions, the other one being would i ever get married again. I thought on these questions over night and came up with the answer yes to both of them. I dont expect to get married again but I am Bisexual!!

Did that take a quantum leap of faith, well yes it did. I am on a couple of websites and have the typical Yahoo and Windows Live Messenger, access. I talk to many many folks during the day and have broached the subject with many of them. So very very surprisingly my Bi and non-Bi contacts are equal and I would not have known that except for the question that was asked of me.

I searched and found Bisexual.com and it seems great. The point of all this, apart from telling a personal journey, is why on earth should I have to apologize to anyone. I will apologise when I am wrong, but what happened to me over the past few days, not even a week, where I found a new sexual freedom that needs me or any other Bisexually oriented person to apologise.

What have I got into, what have you guys been up to? I would suggest it is four fifths of five eighths of fuck all!! A week ago I had a list of Contacts on Yahoo Messenger that were just that, Contacts. Now I have a list of Bi and non-Bi contacts. So where is the difference and why were they not apologising for their sexuality. The only reason I have split them is for my own convenience, they are still the same people as last week. What have they done wrong?

I do not consider myself Gay, I just find that I have expanded my horizons. It may be that no-one will touch me with a vaccinated corn cob, but the opportunity is there. In women I always looked for friendship and trust and then lovemaking. Sex is for the back of the car, love making is with a friend. Now I consider the same for men. My vista has expanded quite considerably.

I aint apologising to anyone for being Bisexual. Whomsoever thought that I and other Bisexual folks should do can go take a flying fagoogie!! And that can hurt!! :flag4: :kiss:

[Herbwoman39]

Whomsoever thought that I and other Bisexual folks should do can go take a flying fagoogie!! And that can hurt!! :flag4: :kiss:


LOL! To which I will add one of my father's favorite phrases. To those who think I need to appologise for being bisexual: You can all take a flying leap in a rolling rubber dough nut!

:flag3: :flag4:

[bigdreams3250]

Thanks for those comments, absolutely brilliant phrase from your dad. Mine came from my youngest daughter 'cos she was not allowed to say fuck. So she made up her own expletive and it sounds good, but rolling donuts is kool. :bibounce:

[coyotedude]

I hope people realize I was being a wee bit sarcastic????

When faced with other people's follies, we have three choices:

Cry
Scream
Laugh

There is a place for each. Sometimes you have to laugh at the idiots if you don't want to be driven insane yourself....

Peace

[LoveLion]

Im sorry they have to limit themselves to so few people. Must be hard to find someone when you cut out half the opportunities right off the bat