Anal Plug Suggestions

[Lucent]

I like to wear an anal plug, but sometimes have difficulty with it staying in place. Does anyone know of any that don't present this problem?

Thanks for your reply!

[welickit]

There is one you can insert and then inflate it with a hand pump. Never tried it but have seen them in ads. Have also been told that inserting a Tampax will do the same thing because the Tampax swells when in contact with moisture. :2cents:

[spartca]

I've heard some folks suggest using a relatively tight thong with some structural stability - women often complain that their thong irritates their buttholes, so you know it's in the right place to keep a buttplug in, if the single strap up the back between the butt cheeks strong and tight enough.

Some women use similar tactics to keep objects inside their vaginal all day.

[dans94]

Your post brings a lot of poor business practices to mind but I'll answere your questions first.

I haven't found one. Obviously, the higher the ratio of the plugs neck to its bulb, the better are its chances of staying in place. The trouble is, the people who sell toys usually do not give dimensions and often don't even give material info. I mean, what the hell is 'Spectra Gel'? I have a box full of toys that weren't even close to what was advertised.

There are a couple of reasons the plugs don't stay in place, besides their design. First is the body's peristolic action. Even though you like the feeling of having something down there your body thinks it's feces and tries to eliminate it. I don't think this process goes away with time and familiarity either. The second reason is we're told to use LOTS of lube. If you want to keep something in your cavity, use less lube and use water soluable lube so it is absorbed into the body over time. There are two problems with doing this however. One is that the lube is what makes having a plug inserted and rattling around in there so much fun and two is that less lube makes it very difficult to remove.

I use a thong now and like the security it gives me. It doesn't alwasy keep the plug in but when the plug comes out, I don't have to worry about it falling down through my pant leg. ;) If you want extra security wear some tighty whities over the thong to keep it from escaping your crotch area.

Good luck,
Dan

[billy_campbell]

Here are some links to some products.

http://www.extremerestraints.com/male-butt-plug-harness_530.html

http://www.extremerestraints.com/locking-butt-plug-harness-with-inflatable-butt-plug_1734.html

http://www.extremerestraints.com/locking-anal-plug-harness_224.html

http://www.mr-s-leather.com/cgi-bin/mr-s/D35.html

[mrandmrs]

Two words-----"DUCT TAPE" :eek:

[swans]

Try this out...Buy a pair of latex pants that has an internal "butt plug" already fitted. I bought one some time ago and its great. I suggest getting one that has an open ended latex tube at the front to slide you cock into (try to do this whilst your penis is still soft-ish as you may have difficulty sliding it in!). With just your nob sticking out at the end; this "tube" also acts like a tight cock ring and helps keep you very hard.

The feel of the tight latex and the smooth hard plug is very horny- not to mention the sight of a swollen nob poking out at the front!

Have fun.

[Sapphrodite]

Dunno if a girl's p.o.v. is what you're looking for, but I'm happy to lend one... I'm pretty new to the anal arena, so it's only my two cents' worth :2cents:

I *totally* agree with the too much lube thing - I find that the lube is fine for play but not to 'stay' in for any length of time. The material the toy is made from also makes a difference: I found that the slender jelly toy I bought wouldnt stay in worth beans, plus because it didnt have much of a 'base' I was afraid of it getting lost :oh: but that others I have tried have stayed in much better. Click HERE (http://www.stagshop.com/gcimages/products/classicplugwhitesmalllarge.jpg) to see the type I think are pretty useless.

The other thing is shape - if you can find the right shape/size for you, then you're laughing. Too small and it will slide out and too big and it aint going anywhere. I have found that the traditional tapered ones (unless medium or larger) dont work well because the difference between the toy's width and the slender part at the base isnt enough of a difference to keep it in. The ones that seem to make more sense are the bulb or egg-shaped ones with a wider base, because they are gentler to get in and out (and a good number of them come with vibration - an added plus)! There is a company called "Sex Bubbles" that has a very interesting assortment of twistly, ripply and sculptured butt plugs that are anti-bacterial and I can imagine these staying put due to their tapering at the base. Click HERE (http://www.stagshop.com/gc/gc_search.exe?SC=Y&ST=Y&X=100&V=Brief&F=S&K=sex+bubbles&R=H%2Fcatalog%3ASex+Toys%3AAnal+Products%3AButt+Pl ugs&SN=03062338157412185123243&FF=H&FK=catalog%3ASex+Toys%3AAnal+Products%3AButt+Plugs&AU=&Z9=0) to see the Sex Bubbles line.

I recently bought a small purple silicone one from Pure Vibes (about as big as a beginner like myself could manage) but it has a great shape that stays in - period. Plus the wide base means it stays put, plus it has a nice quiet waterproof 4-speed vibe: Click HERE (http://www.stagshop.com/gc/gc_item.exe?F=D&K=11000423&R=H%2Fcatalog%3ASex%20Toys%3AAnal%20Products%3AAna l%20Vibes&SN=03062338157412185123243&FF=H&FK=catalog:Sex Toys:Anal Products:Anal Vibes&Z9=0) to see the Pure Vibes toy. Click HERE (http://www.stagshop.com/gc/gc_item.exe?F=D&K=11000373&R=H%2Fcatalog%3ASex%20Toys%3AAnal%20Products%3AAna l%20Vibes&SN=03062338157412185123243&FF=H&FK=catalog:Sex Toys:Anal Products:Anal Vibes&Z9=0) to see another one with a similar shape but is inflatable as well.

I've learned a lot about toys since a friend of mine has recruited me to help with her toy parties, but nothing is as fun as trying them out!! Good Luck!!! :tong:

Sapphy