Long Duck Dong
Jan 8, 2007, 9:51 PM
* be very careful when you read this article, that you don't take it personally.....I love, admire and respect the members of bisexual.com.....even the ones that annoy the hell outta me..... if anything in this article upsets, hurts or offends you, i am sorry and i apologize..... my only intention is to share something that is annoying the crap outta me....and sadly reveal something about me that i keep very quiet *
i regard bisexual people in a way that most people don't understand..... for a very good reason
as bon jovi sang....
It's my life
It's now or never
I ain't gonna live forever
I just want to live while I'm alive
and day after day.... i watch as people sit and talk about being bisexual and being married.....or being bisexual, and people not understanding.... or being bisexual and wanting to hook up.....etc
and i shut my mouth.... as much as i wanna reach thru the screen and smash some people into the next century.......
people wanna talk about bisexuality ?????? marriage ??? love and faithfulness ??? their rights to hook up ????
well... go for it....cos its my turn..... and believe me this is not gonna be nice either
my articles are only so bloody good cos the knowledge is in two places.... my head and yours......yeah... thats right..... in YOUR head.....now there is only one way that i would know whats in your head....and the answer is simple
for most of my life, I have been a sensitive intuitive ( psychic ).... a person with abilities of mental, emotional and spiritual perception... so enhanced ....that i tend to avoid direct touching with people cos i can *read * them in a instant, just by shaking their hand.....
i love bisexual.com... and the people in it..... its one of the best families I have had.... and i am not judged here...which in my life, is so rare... I have more chance of digging diamonds outta my nose, then finding another place like this site
but i am gonna say this .....
bisexuality is often being used as a excuse, to lie, cheat, betray, abuse, mistreat etc etc
i don't care what people think... and you can't argue that i am wrong....
cos i will not listen....cos i am not interested.......i know what i sense.... i have been doing it for years..... BUT I am not here to JUDGE ANYBODY... and nor am i gonna......cos its not MY life you are living, its YOURS... i just just sharing with people, what i see and so people can understand how much we can hurt the ones we love, using bisexuality as a excuse
is it a right of the bisexual to have a partner that they must understand and say " its ok for you to have sex with others " ???
is it a right of the bisexual to say, " I have needs and desires, therefore I have the right to have sex with both sexes...and people must accept me and respect my rights " ???
is it a right of the bisexual to enter into a relationship / marriage, and think its ok to betray the trust of their partner... and say that its ok cos bisexuals have needs and its not the bisexuals right that the non bisexual doesn't understand ???
don't get me wrong.... ALL sexualities do it....
and all too often I hear the bullshit excuse " i have needs, desires, wants that are not getting meant at home "
*snorts *.... hell i am not making the millions that I desire.... doesn't give me the right to wave a gun around and rob the bank....( put aside the fact its illegal.... and think of the true aspect )... some poor buggers gonna be so screwed up by me waving that gun, that it may take years for them to recover.....the gun may go off and injury or kill somebody... and thats gonna affect a damm site more people than just my selfish desire to have more money
but hey.... money sure as hell isn't everything....and i can sure as hell, not justify my selfish need for money as a right to affect the lives of people around me, in a negative and hurtful way
and infidelity is the same.....all too often, its used as a excuse to shit all over our partners... the same people we claim to love and respect
love is a combination of trust, respect, understanding and compromise...... and so many times i see that in bisexual.com members and it makes me cry cos i am jealous..... some are bi / bi curious / straight / married / single......and they are people i admire so much...... and i look past the faults in them.... their fantasies.... their issues....they are people that have needs, wants, desires...but they give the same level of love that they get..... and make the choice.....love over sex.......respect over swinging..... consideration over unfaithfulness.......btw i am jealous cos i want that in my life..... but i can't have it.... and don't tell me i can..... if you lived my life with my gifts you would understand.....
they worked it out..... bisexual is what they are..... but bisexual is a attraction, a desire, a way of being.....and as much as i wanna name and honor them people, i will not.... they know who they are in themselves... and i will simply admire them and wish more people were like them..... god I fuckin admire them so much...... they are role models for me, bless them
bisexuality will not be the hug in the morning.... the friendly coffee....the smile and wave.... and in the twilight years, when we are * dunrooting *.... bisexuality will not be the partner that tends to our arching backs, rheumatic joints....zimmer frames.... and our memories....
bisexuality will not be the long term marriage partner / friend / lover..... that helps us when we are sad... smiles when we are happy.... laughs when we laugh....supports us when we are down....
I am sorry for the people that feel that their sexual needs are important to them than their partners well being......but it happens..... and too many times i have seen long term marriages destroyed over bisexuality / infidelity
and so many times i sit there and watch as a partner / children / family etc... are torn apart cos of a persons desire to get a fuck at any costs
the price is just not worth it to anybody.....
i am not saying for anybody in that situation, to shut up and ignore their desires..... actually i want them to do the exact opposite... and face their desires.....
i want them to look at their lives, their relationships...their friendships... their families.... and their sexual needs, wants and desires..... and then ask themselves....are they wanting the whole fuckin world to change to fit around their bisexuality or are they happy to risk the happiness of the people around them.... and risk tearing lives apart....for the sake of a fuck
i am 36, never married.... single.... and living what i preach..... my bisexuality could rip my partners life apart....force them to choose to change to fit me...could pit them between their family, their beliefs, their feelings, and thoughts, their love for me.....and my bisexuality.....
that and i am past the world record for the most broken hearts suffered by one person.... and 99% of them are not mine... its the partners that have been betrayed and torn apart, when the desire for sex became more important than the love of our partners and the true value of our relationships
being honest hurts... and its hard....telling a partner that rejects you cos of your sexuality is very painful.......marrying them and then having them catch you out, being unfaithful....is a soul destroyer...I would much rather love and lose.... then love, lie and destroy somebody
hey lets be honest here.... some partners are gonna stay and lay down the law about your having sex outside the marriage..... lol they are not being selfish or unfair or cruel.... they are giving as good as they wanna get.....and its not a matter of understanding..... they are asking you to be monogamous.... and they are BEING monogamous..... I hardly call that selfish....
people may argue for open relationships.... go for it... if both partners know and agree, good on you both.....just remember that its bloody hard to let ya partner sleep around and NOT feel jealous or hurt sometimes......allow them to have those feelings and emotions.... they earn't that right by allowing your to having your desires fulfilled
polygamy...lol... do it, have it.... same thing applies..... you are getting your sexual needs met.... now meet ya partners emotional / mental needs and make sure they know they are loved totally and worried about
take the ethics rule book and throw it out the window.....
marriage is what YOU and YOUR partner make it......you both decide the boundaries of it.... the legal standing of marriage is for the legal system.....they don't do ya housework, clean up the mess or do the dishes... so marriage is only monogamous in the legal standing.....
who gives a rats ass about religious freaks yelling about the world ending cos gays have sex........we are here aren't we ???? jesus came and went.... and gays are still cumming and cumming and cumming....and the world still sucks...
screw world peace.... it will never happen... but your life will be a fuckin site more peaceful if you can live as you truly are, without hurting yourself or your partner thru deceit or dishonesty
95 % of the worlds pain and suffering is simple selfishness inflicted on others
see if you can make it 94%
i regard bisexual people in a way that most people don't understand..... for a very good reason
as bon jovi sang....
It's my life
It's now or never
I ain't gonna live forever
I just want to live while I'm alive
and day after day.... i watch as people sit and talk about being bisexual and being married.....or being bisexual, and people not understanding.... or being bisexual and wanting to hook up.....etc
and i shut my mouth.... as much as i wanna reach thru the screen and smash some people into the next century.......
people wanna talk about bisexuality ?????? marriage ??? love and faithfulness ??? their rights to hook up ????
well... go for it....cos its my turn..... and believe me this is not gonna be nice either
my articles are only so bloody good cos the knowledge is in two places.... my head and yours......yeah... thats right..... in YOUR head.....now there is only one way that i would know whats in your head....and the answer is simple
for most of my life, I have been a sensitive intuitive ( psychic ).... a person with abilities of mental, emotional and spiritual perception... so enhanced ....that i tend to avoid direct touching with people cos i can *read * them in a instant, just by shaking their hand.....
i love bisexual.com... and the people in it..... its one of the best families I have had.... and i am not judged here...which in my life, is so rare... I have more chance of digging diamonds outta my nose, then finding another place like this site
but i am gonna say this .....
bisexuality is often being used as a excuse, to lie, cheat, betray, abuse, mistreat etc etc
i don't care what people think... and you can't argue that i am wrong....
cos i will not listen....cos i am not interested.......i know what i sense.... i have been doing it for years..... BUT I am not here to JUDGE ANYBODY... and nor am i gonna......cos its not MY life you are living, its YOURS... i just just sharing with people, what i see and so people can understand how much we can hurt the ones we love, using bisexuality as a excuse
is it a right of the bisexual to have a partner that they must understand and say " its ok for you to have sex with others " ???
is it a right of the bisexual to say, " I have needs and desires, therefore I have the right to have sex with both sexes...and people must accept me and respect my rights " ???
is it a right of the bisexual to enter into a relationship / marriage, and think its ok to betray the trust of their partner... and say that its ok cos bisexuals have needs and its not the bisexuals right that the non bisexual doesn't understand ???
don't get me wrong.... ALL sexualities do it....
and all too often I hear the bullshit excuse " i have needs, desires, wants that are not getting meant at home "
*snorts *.... hell i am not making the millions that I desire.... doesn't give me the right to wave a gun around and rob the bank....( put aside the fact its illegal.... and think of the true aspect )... some poor buggers gonna be so screwed up by me waving that gun, that it may take years for them to recover.....the gun may go off and injury or kill somebody... and thats gonna affect a damm site more people than just my selfish desire to have more money
but hey.... money sure as hell isn't everything....and i can sure as hell, not justify my selfish need for money as a right to affect the lives of people around me, in a negative and hurtful way
and infidelity is the same.....all too often, its used as a excuse to shit all over our partners... the same people we claim to love and respect
love is a combination of trust, respect, understanding and compromise...... and so many times i see that in bisexual.com members and it makes me cry cos i am jealous..... some are bi / bi curious / straight / married / single......and they are people i admire so much...... and i look past the faults in them.... their fantasies.... their issues....they are people that have needs, wants, desires...but they give the same level of love that they get..... and make the choice.....love over sex.......respect over swinging..... consideration over unfaithfulness.......btw i am jealous cos i want that in my life..... but i can't have it.... and don't tell me i can..... if you lived my life with my gifts you would understand.....
they worked it out..... bisexual is what they are..... but bisexual is a attraction, a desire, a way of being.....and as much as i wanna name and honor them people, i will not.... they know who they are in themselves... and i will simply admire them and wish more people were like them..... god I fuckin admire them so much...... they are role models for me, bless them
bisexuality will not be the hug in the morning.... the friendly coffee....the smile and wave.... and in the twilight years, when we are * dunrooting *.... bisexuality will not be the partner that tends to our arching backs, rheumatic joints....zimmer frames.... and our memories....
bisexuality will not be the long term marriage partner / friend / lover..... that helps us when we are sad... smiles when we are happy.... laughs when we laugh....supports us when we are down....
I am sorry for the people that feel that their sexual needs are important to them than their partners well being......but it happens..... and too many times i have seen long term marriages destroyed over bisexuality / infidelity
and so many times i sit there and watch as a partner / children / family etc... are torn apart cos of a persons desire to get a fuck at any costs
the price is just not worth it to anybody.....
i am not saying for anybody in that situation, to shut up and ignore their desires..... actually i want them to do the exact opposite... and face their desires.....
i want them to look at their lives, their relationships...their friendships... their families.... and their sexual needs, wants and desires..... and then ask themselves....are they wanting the whole fuckin world to change to fit around their bisexuality or are they happy to risk the happiness of the people around them.... and risk tearing lives apart....for the sake of a fuck
i am 36, never married.... single.... and living what i preach..... my bisexuality could rip my partners life apart....force them to choose to change to fit me...could pit them between their family, their beliefs, their feelings, and thoughts, their love for me.....and my bisexuality.....
that and i am past the world record for the most broken hearts suffered by one person.... and 99% of them are not mine... its the partners that have been betrayed and torn apart, when the desire for sex became more important than the love of our partners and the true value of our relationships
being honest hurts... and its hard....telling a partner that rejects you cos of your sexuality is very painful.......marrying them and then having them catch you out, being unfaithful....is a soul destroyer...I would much rather love and lose.... then love, lie and destroy somebody
hey lets be honest here.... some partners are gonna stay and lay down the law about your having sex outside the marriage..... lol they are not being selfish or unfair or cruel.... they are giving as good as they wanna get.....and its not a matter of understanding..... they are asking you to be monogamous.... and they are BEING monogamous..... I hardly call that selfish....
people may argue for open relationships.... go for it... if both partners know and agree, good on you both.....just remember that its bloody hard to let ya partner sleep around and NOT feel jealous or hurt sometimes......allow them to have those feelings and emotions.... they earn't that right by allowing your to having your desires fulfilled
polygamy...lol... do it, have it.... same thing applies..... you are getting your sexual needs met.... now meet ya partners emotional / mental needs and make sure they know they are loved totally and worried about
take the ethics rule book and throw it out the window.....
marriage is what YOU and YOUR partner make it......you both decide the boundaries of it.... the legal standing of marriage is for the legal system.....they don't do ya housework, clean up the mess or do the dishes... so marriage is only monogamous in the legal standing.....
who gives a rats ass about religious freaks yelling about the world ending cos gays have sex........we are here aren't we ???? jesus came and went.... and gays are still cumming and cumming and cumming....and the world still sucks...
screw world peace.... it will never happen... but your life will be a fuckin site more peaceful if you can live as you truly are, without hurting yourself or your partner thru deceit or dishonesty
95 % of the worlds pain and suffering is simple selfishness inflicted on others
see if you can make it 94%