On the Subject of Cunnalingus!

[ChickaHalifax]

Hi Guys,

I'm recently married to a man (I'm Bi, he's strait.), but we've started to experament with 3soms and 4soms. My question is how to give good oral to a girl! I've never tried it before, and my hubby and I are ok at it with me, but haven't got it all down yet. Any suggestions?

Chicka. :female:

[Bi-ten]

Hello Chicka,

This is one of my favourite topics! The first thing I'd like to say is that you have the edge over most men out there, since you have the same equipment and know what feels good to you and what doesn't:)

That being said here are a few things I have been told, read about, experimented with.

1. Easy does it, most women like to warm up, moving energy from outside to inside. For example, hot tongue and breath on the lower stomache, buttocks, along the inner thighs, taking your time, lick and suck the outer lips (labia majora), watch the teeth...dont just dive in, seduce her, make her beg!

2. When licking use the whole tongue in a long smooth motion, up from bottom to top, top to bottom, or across. Gently wrap your lips around her clitoris and suck it slowly, messaging it with your tongue, and penetrate her sweet vagina from time to time to give her a break,... lots of saliva gets everything nice and wet. Don't flick the tongue lick in porn movies, I hear it is just annoying.

3. Use all your equipment, lips tongue, nose, breasts, fingers...well you get it. Nothing like the smell of pussy all over your body...let her try some if she likes, or show you where she likes to be touched. Explore her with your hands, not just down below while you are enjoying her.

4. Enjoy her? let her know! tell her how good she smells or tastes, moan groan give her some feedback, it will pay off. It is a treat if she will cum while you are eating her.

Thats it for me, I'm feeling hungry.

[nubiwoman]

Hello Chicka,

This is one of my favourite topics! The first thing I'd like to say is that you have the edge over most men out there, since you have the same equipment and know what feels good to you and what doesn't:)

That being said here are a few things I have been told, read about, experimented with.

1. Easy does it, most women like to warm up, moving energy from outside to inside. For example, hot tongue and breath on the lower stomache, buttocks, along the inner thighs, taking your time, lick and suck the outer lips (labia majora), watch the teeth...dont just dive in, seduce her, make her beg!

2. When licking use the whole tongue in a long smooth motion, up from bottom to top, top to bottom, or across. Gently wrap your lips around her clitoris and suck it slowly, messaging it with your tongue, and penetrate her sweet vagina from time to time to give her a break,... lots of saliva gets everything nice and wet. Don't flick the tongue lick in porn movies, I hear it is just annoying.

3. Use all your equipment, lips tongue, nose, breasts, fingers...well you get it. Nothing like the smell of pussy all over your body...let her try some if she likes, or show you where she likes to be touched. Explore her with your hands, not just down below while you are enjoying her.

4. Enjoy her? let her know! tell her how good she smells or tastes, moan groan give her some feedback, it will pay off. It is a treat if she will cum while you are eating her.

Thats it for me, I'm feeling hungry.


er BI-TEN... will you marry me? :tong:

[SweetBlackAngel]

er BI-TEN... will you marry me? :tong:

Before you do that, nubiwoman, I'd like to borrow him for 48 hours... :tongue: ;)

Yowza. :flag3:

[jaytoppin]

I totally agree with bi-ten, excellent nfo there. Let me add three things.

1. Try the ABC's while you're down there. Use a flat broad tongue stroke and make your way through the alphabet slowly. Listen for signs on which letter she enjoys best.

2. To insert or not to insert, ah there's the rub (pun intended). I would wait on inserting fingers while you're down there performing. Just let your tongue do most of the work, some playful rubbing with your nose on the clitoris. Use a gentle touch with your fingers to move any hair or lips out of the way. Every once in a while insert your tongue into the vagina and see how she reacts. Most women, I've found, will either tell you or show you so there'll be no mistaking when their ready for some inside friction. Then grab a dong, dildo, your fingers, her husband, your husband, something, anything, for crying out loud f*ck me NOW!!! Sorry got off track there. Some women like to be taken past the point of wanting something inserted and some even past the point of needing something inserted. Depends on the woman. When in doubt, ask.

3. Food is good too. Ice and popcicles are fun. I've done the banana treatment once. My best advice is to make sure it's on the green side so it's not so mushy. I hear Pop Rocks candy is fun. I know I enjoy someone with a mouth full of pop rocks going down on me. :bigrin:

[jaytoppin]

From another post of mine, you can try the Chinese butterfly...

Put your palms together, fingers spread out like you're showing someone the number five. Now place your chin between your thumbs. Insert your middle and ring fingers (all four of them) into the vagina. If she's up for it, insert your pinkies into her anus (if she's not recpetive to that just curl them back). Now with your index fingers, you can part her lips and enjoy easy access to her clitoris. Experiement with licking her hood and rubbing her hood between your index fingers. Find out what she likes and doesn't like.

[Bi-ten]

Hey Ladies,

I'm glad you liked my note! It's not hard to excel at something when you love your work;)

P.S. SweetBlackangel- I love that you quote Rumi...beautiful.

Hugs all.

[SweetBlackAngel]

Hey Ladies,

I'm glad you liked my note! It's not hard to excel at something when you love your work;)

P.S. SweetBlackangel- I love that you quote Rumi...beautiful.

Hugs all.

Hey, Bi-ten. Thanks. Yes, Rumi is awesome and...beautiful. :flag1: :)

[ChickaHalifax]

Hey Guys,

Thanks for the info! Keep it Cumming (pun intended). *hehe*

All good stuff! Can't wait to try it.

Chicka. :bigrin:

[billy_campbell]

"She Comes First" is a great book about giving a woman oral sex. I read it and gave a copy it to my ex wife, who is bi, and she read and gave it to our daughther and told her to make sure her boyfriend read it.

http://www.shecomesfirst.com/scf.html

[bigregory]

I do think that the outer lips need some attention too.
When i dive in i like to grab them with my fingers,message and pull them apart as i dine.then the clit and hole can get the attention they need. :grouphug:

[leredacteur]

Mostly good advice here, but one thing has been omitted and there's one thing I strongly disagree with.

1) Wash your face and hands, and rinse your mouth out vigorously, before going down on a woman. Pussies are delicate things, self-cleaning and -protecting but nonetheless susceptible to bacterial and fungal infections that can be transmitted through manual or oral contact.

2) Don't do the food thing, please. Foodstuffs (even freshly-peeled bananas) can be contaminated with bacteria or fungi. That means no red wine or other liquids, as well.

Bon appetit !

[innaminka]

All wonderful advice, but as a practising bi..

Just do what you'd like done to you. Slow, meaningful, gentle. :female: :tongue: :female:

[smokey]

there is only one thing better than eattin out a nice clean pussy and that is eatting one out that is full of cum. :bigrin: yum!!!! it kinda like having your cock and eatting her too :tong: or an eclair without the calories ;) heeheehee

[jedinudist]

I enjoy performing oral sex on my wife, and according to her, I'm pretty good :)

That being said-

Be considerate, gentle at first (gauge what you should do based on her reaction), avoid insertion until she is ready, don't just concentrate on one stroke or pattern- suddenly going in a different stroke or pattern can drive her wild (you may suddenly have legs clamped tightly around your head!) and of course - Practice makes perfect - lol

Or you could do what I was told to do when I was 15 (it works for the first orgasm, but after that you'd better get creative) - find the little man in the boat and wear him out!! - lol

Good luck to you!

[Nara_lovely]

Agreed with all the advice.....emotional connection adds to the experience. I listen to the other woman; Her breathing, pulse, moans, body movements. My attention and reactions then work in beautiful harmony with her needs. It's made easier to be with another woman who is attuned to her own body and gives those excellent signals.

....I found a deep/low rumble moan has a very nice vibration response (I have an alto voical range so can get to the lower notes easilly).
Oh and have fun!

[bigregory]

there is only one thing better than eattin out a nice clean pussy and that is eatting one out that is full of cum. :bigrin: yum!!!! it kinda like having your cock and eatting her too :tong: or an eclair without the calories ;) heeheehee
Cream pie Yumm :bowdown:

[onewhocares]

Well, I thought that I was straight, but after all this talk, I think this leopard is changing her spots. Imagine that. Bi-ten, if the others do not love you, then please, there shall always be a candle in my window for you.

The advice from all of you is so amazing. And I thought my teachers we good. Boys are you listening? The sense of tenderness and intensity of the sensuality is bewitching. Makes me want to go right out and find a woman. Goodness, ask and you shall receive.


Belle

[yama23]

All is great advise, i however never had any luck with food. I am a big fan of a woman's flower. Here is what i have just recently discovered while going down on a woman. Most of what i am going to explain i have learned from a little porn star named cytheria, she is a squirter, she is amazing.
1. Like bi-ten had said starting off slow is the best way, gets her juices flowing and adds to the delicious taste and perfume of her little button. I like to start by licking the inside of her thighs, right at the crease of her pelvis and her thighs, then before spreading her labia i softly lick from the bottom to the top of her lips, just lightly so she knows i am there, then starting back at the bottom with each pass i start to push my tongue further into her lips feeling her wetness and then by this time she is usually begging me to stimulate her clit.
2.when i have her ready for me to go for her little nub, i don't use my fingers i just push my tongue into her lips and with my tongue kind of cupped i find her clit and with mild pressure i hold it there until she starts to rock her hips that is when i know she can't stand it any longer and i start slowly a licking her nub with long slow strokes, just with moderate pressure, changing the t speed but never flicking her clit.
3.(this part is from cytheria) when i want her to cum, and she comes hard in my face which is pretty much the best feeling, taste and sound in the world. What i do is take my left hand, (I'm right handed) and wrap it around her right leg and just above her pelvis and below her belly button, i take three fingers and push on her stomach i guess you can call it, and push down and up towards her navel, this pulls the clit up and out, so that your tongue really hits it directly, i usually quicken the pace and add some pressure. The good thing is that she will be moaning really load by now, a little panting to, it is great. When she is getting close to cumming you can really tell because she will flex her abbs, so with your hand pressing down and up you can really tell what she likes.
4. Now here is the best part, when she is close to cumming you have to stick your middle finger of your right hand in your mouth and lub it with the pussy juice and the saliva and then slowly insert it into her. But you have to curl it up towards you as soon as you get in her. You will find a little round pad in there. i have also noticed there is almost two lines on either side of this pad,kind of pointing from her hips to her clit so you will know when you find it. Still with your hand on her stomach and pushing down and up and your tongue on her clit start to make the come here motion and add some speed to the finger. again remember the abbs they will tell you how you are doing, they will tighten if your in the right spot or loosen if you have to relocate some thing.
Trust me she will get off in no time, the best feeling in the world is when she squeezes your head in-between her thighs and says stop...then you keep liking her clit for another 10 seconds and she squeezes hard on your head and then pushes you off her pussy and won't let you touch her b/c she is too sensitive and the look on her face is priceless...

[OralBradley]

Hi Guys,

I'm recently married to a man (I'm Bi, he's strait.), but we've started to experament with 3soms and 4soms. My question is how to give good oral to a girl! I've never tried it before, and my hubby and I are ok at it with me, but haven't got it all down yet. Any suggestions.
Chicka. :female:

Think about what feels good to you. What would you like from a partner? She very like will enjoy the same. You might start out kissing and fondling first, do some kissing of breasts and sucking of nipples, and then finally work your way down to her pussy and enjoy what happens.
The same basic process also applies to sucking a cock.

[OralBradley]

there is only one thing better than eattin out a nice clean pussy and that is eatting one out that is full of cum. :bigrin: yum!!!! it kinda like having your cock and eatting her too :tong: or an eclair without the calories ;) heeheehee

The only thing that I can think of that is even better is to suck on the clit of a cock-filled pussy until the woman has had a couple of orgasms, then have guy pull out of her and cum in my mouth while his cock still rubs agains her clit.

[yama23]

I forgot to add that when you are going down on a girl remember it is all about her and how she is enjoying it, don't rush it enjoy yourself while your down on her. You will get off on her getting off, it is a great feeling to know that you have given her one of her best orgasms ever...

[Confused4life]

All very good advice here....let me tell you, I should not have read this thread at work....Good God I need some ice....

Here is a link to something that I found helpful...

http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip_250/283_love_tip.html

Peace and Love
C4L

[onewhocares]

Where has all this most extraordinary advice and desire come from. Maybe it is the change in the season, the birth of Spring wanting all things bright and beautiful to flourish. Just learn to love what you do and love the one you are loving.

YAMA, astonishing!!!!