Multi-Partner Home

[Star Gazer]

Would you want to be part of a multi-parnter home?

3 or 4 men & 3 or 4 women.

I have long thought it would be great to share a home with a group of bisexuals.

[secret_fantasies]

Its a great idea Star gazer, I also think of that sometimes. I wish i could find people to do that. The bisexual intimacy would be incredibly arousing in such a setting! I'm in people ;)

[LoveLion]

It worked in the show Boston Legal, although the court made the trio divorce officially, but could still live together and all. They even raised kids. it was a M-F-F relationship. But then again that is TV lol.

PS. Boston Legal is the best show on earth. Watch one episode and you will be hooked!

[Seigun]

I actually used to imagine such a living situation as pretty nice--
Only it wasn't one where everyone was nessecarilly involved with each other.

A house with a couple of my lifelong friends-- plus or minus thier partners-- with my own partner(s) and other buddies dropping by often enough so that they might as well live there, anyway, sounds WAY cozy enough for me. :bigrin:

As opposed to when I was younger, I also find the idea of marriage sort of limiting, now. But maybe I haven't found the right lifelong companion, yet.

*thinks a moment about the living description*
"Partner(s)"?
I never actually thought of myself as poly, before. I need to re-examine that.

[happyjoe68]

Hmm, an interesting proposition ...

Is just this just a gang of Bi people living under the same roof or a poly type arrangement?

Would you want to live under the same roof with that many people without wanting to hit at least one of them for getting on your nerves/not doing the washing up/talking too loudly at breakfast/or generally being a twat?

But seriously, it would raise as many issues as it would solve. I'm on the periphery of a poly relationship (well, I'm not at the centre of it), and in some ways it would make life easier for the person at the centre and those in orbit, but for as many problems it would solve it would raise new ones, and sometimes I think its better to have minor problems left unsolved than have major problems take their place.

[holybane]

Hmm, an interesting proposition ...

Is just this just a gang of Bi people living under the same roof or a poly type arrangement?

Would you want to live under the same roof with that many people without wanting to hit at least one of them for getting on your nerves/not doing the washing up/talking too loudly at breakfast/or generally being a twat?

But seriously, it would raise as many issues as it would solve. I'm on the periphery of a poly relationship (well, I'm not at the centre of it), and in some ways it would make life easier for the person at the centre and those in orbit, but for as many problems it would solve it would raise new ones, and sometimes I think its better to have minor problems left unsolved than have major problems take their place.

I have to agree here, just having one roomate made it very difficult for me and my girlfriend and such things weren't even involved. People are messy and irresponsible more often than not and you have to think, and it's kind of scary also, what if you don't know these people well. Like stated above... it would create many problems as well, like if you did want privacy at one point. It could work with the right people though.

[happyjoe68]

Hmm, an interesting proposition ...

Is just this just a gang of Bi people living under the same roof or a poly type arrangement?

Would you want to live under the same roof with that many people without wanting to hit at least one of them for getting on your nerves/not doing the washing up/talking too loudly at breakfast/or generally being a twat?

But seriously, it would raise as many issues as it would solve. I'm on the periphery of a poly relationship (well, I'm not at the centre of it), and in some ways it would make life easier for the person at the centre and those in orbit, but for as many problems it would solve it would raise new ones, and sometimes I think its better to have minor problems left unsolved than have major problems take their place.

[Star Gazer]

I would want this to be a multi-partner group.

Where sex with any and all can happen.

M M

M F

F F

M M F

M M M

M F F

F F F

M M F F


The various 5 person group, and all 6 together also.

Years ago I was in a M M M relationship for about 3 years

Have also been in M F F and M M F

I think my favorite has been M M F

The largest group I have participated with was 20 people, 5 women and 15 men.

With the right group of people this could work out.

[multiplesofsix]

A situation like that is actually kind of a dream of mine, although I'm not yet sure if I'm poly or not.




The largest group I have participated with was 20 people, 5 women and 15 men.



Wow! How did you all hook up?

[ghytifrdnr]

Wow Star Gazer, you gotta write up your experiences and share them with us. :grouphug:

[citystyleguy]

as i have stated in other threads, such a polyamorus marriage would be the most satisfying for true bisexuals. however, for myself and others that share my orientation, THAT many people together would or could drive some of us insane. i have always been far too selfish of my own desires and needs (outside of sexual parameters) to share such an enviroment; a perferred alternative would be to possess your own material environment and share your other common interests as the moment shapes itself.

the now common shape of legally sanctified marriage is due for a major overhaul!

[Avocado]

If I was single and wasn't in love with anyone, then yes why not.

[innaminka]

Why am I not thinking about the sex? :female: :male: :female: :male: :female: :male:
But thinking about the sock and underpants on the floor? The toilet seat would be NEVER down and Sport would always be on the tube??? :eek:

Multi-partner???? One is hard enough!!!!

[Trinity-Fl]

We shared an MFM triad home for about 4 years. We actually bought the house together. Since we broke up we've missed it.

We belong to several poly groups here in central Florida so we've seen a number of arrangements. I think the most interesting was "The Quad"... 2 couples who lived together and then switched partners and separated. :) In speaking about it they all agree that it was a great time for them. The fact that it ended just meant a new time for all involved. "New doors" so to speak.

We still think about the multi-partner home. We have a platonic roommate now. Maybe some day we'll have that multi-relatrional home again.

And, Innaminka, it's my fem partner I have to pickup after. :)

[innaminka]

And, Innaminka, it's my fem partner I have to pickup after. :)

Touche!!!

Ok, I have 2 daughters I should have known better........ :(

But at least concede the toilet seat!

[twodelta]

Touche!!!

Ok, I have 2 daughters I should have known better........ :(

But at least concede the toilet seat!

Some of us guys do put the toilet seat down(well, most of the time)

But seriously, poly relationships can be just as varied as everyones level of being Bi. We are friends with several poly relationships in our area, and the dynamics of each are different. The first responce of most people is to label it as an ongoing orgy. But it really is about more than sex. Cat and I would love to find another guy that could fall in love with each of us and we with him. Will we ever find that? Don't know, but can't hurt to look! :three:

[cutiepie35]

I think with the right people anything is possible. It has always been my dream to have a husband and wife.

[Star Gazer]

The large group was a party, an orgy, and a lot of fun for a weekend.

the three somes that I have been a part of.

the first a M M M, was for a couple of years, I lived alone about 5 miles from them and visited their home often. We did a lot together.

The M M F was an friendship with bennifits for all three of us.

The M F F, was two mostly lesbian friends who wanted to from time to time. I visited their home on and off for about two years. That friendship was a lot of fun and they gave me lessons in good oral sex.

After that time I was with one man for a little over a year, than met the woman who I married and she was the mother of my children. She left me for a relationship with another woman and man, we were divorced.

Since the divorce I have had only one friendship with bennifits, with a woman who knows that I am bi.

I have not found another gay or bi guy yet, and am open to finding one.