Pictures

[mannysg]

I guess in a way this is something that I want to bitch about.

I put up some pics here. I wasn't going to put up any "Cock" pictures because I don't like cock pictures. I much prefer seeing the whole person. But a couple of guys said they wanted to see my cock, so I put up 2 pics for them (or anyone) to see.

I am FAR from modest. In fact, I had a porn site for 2 years. I stopped taking memberships, and my site will be coming down one day this week. ( http://www.southern-gents.com/manny/photos.htm ) Want to see pics of me eating my own cum? I have them. Want to see pics of me jerking off? I have them. Want to see pics of a dildo in my ass? Yep, got them also. But you can no longer join my site, so you'll have to take my word for it unless you want me to email a pic to you.

OK, now my "bitch" begins.... Why is it that so many guys ONLY put cock pics in their profile? Not just on this site, but on many other sites also. Many of the emails I got from members of my porn site had cock pics attached. I rarely got to see anything but their cocks. My wife had a porn site also and guys sent her cock pictures all the time, and very few of them send face or full body pictures, most just sent cock pics.

Yes, I like seeing a guys equipment. But I would rather see more then just is package. I like looking at pics of naked women of course, but I don't just want a close-up of her tits or pussy.

If you want to show me your cock, fine, but show me everything else also.

[Bi_Jay]

lol I know exactly what you mean, I have one cock pic in my pro just so anyone who wants to see it can but I have my 2 face pics too. I dont have many pics all together but I have very few cock pics, I need to get more face and full body pics. I just dont like it when I ask for a picture of someone and they send a close up of there dick, dont get me wrong I love dick as much as the next guy but I asked for a picture of you! lol. But yeah man I hear ya.

[GalacticiaActual]

Why? Because they want to.

As important as your individual decisions are to you, so are everyone elses to them.

Our differences define our humanity.

Kinda simple, ain't it?

[12voltman59]

I really do not know why so many guys only put up "cock shots"--this site is not unique in that aspect--what gets posted here as a rule is more tame than at other "bi" sites.

I have to say that it does not bother me that they do--I look at those pics---not that I am interested in putting such a shot of myself up----

I guess the thing is--if you don't care to look at the pics--don't look then---

[LoveLion]

Its not something I would ever do, but some guys probably find it erotic. Theres also alot of people are reluctent to put whole pictures of themselves on the internet or on sites such as this one for fear of being recognized or because of all the horror stories you hear about online meetings and such.

I dont really mind it, but I prefer that if you put up a picture of cock then it would be nice to see something else as well

[the sacred night]

I find them funny more than hot... a full body pic would be hot, even if it does cit off at the neck for fear of being recognized. A dick pic, though, that just makes me laugh. It is kinda hot if the person put pics of their tattoos if they have any. My one advice about this, though: if you want a pic of part of your body, just as with a full body pic, please have someone else take the pic! I have seen so many terrible pics of tats that are probably really cool, but the people tried to hold the camera behind their backs or at some other odd angle and the results were not good.

[IanBorthwick]

I have to say, I have no idea why they do it. No pictures I put in an open and easily accessed forum EVER show my frank and beans. EVER. I am sensitive about it's size mainly and not looking to have anyone denigrate me. But realistically it doesn't turn me on to see a cock and no face. But the reason I am given about why they show the nether region and not the face is that the people are "Closeted". They fear anyone seeing them they know. Funny thing is that ANYONE who sees them would have to be Bi or looking into Bi (or gay stuff for me on another website I removed my pix from) to see it. I understand the fear but not the reasoning behind it. Respecting their decision is all I can really do and just click out the profile if I see no facial features.

[Sitka]

Though it's not because i'm worried about my size, i have some to lose; I would never put up a cock pic. they're not at all classy.

[Chuck]

LoveLion put up the reason why they do it. At least it's the reason why I do it. I've heard way too many horror stories about the predators on the internet. Put your face out there, especially on a sexually explicit web site, and you are asking for trouble. Anything from blackmail to murder. For me the choice is nothing, a pic of a total stranger, which I think is a terrible thing to do, or just a cock shot. I opted for the cock shot.

[BI-FREE]

I know when my wife and I get a response from someone on this site, we always go check out their profile and if all they have in their profile is a pic of their cock, they automatically get eliminated as a possibility. We want to see the person that we might possibly get to know, not the cock we might possibly play with.

[yoyo4u]

Well......as they say: "You've seen one, you've seen them all!"
Ask a gynecologist if he, or she gets excited seeing a pussy. Chances are... not!
I guess the cock-pix guys would like to hear a feedback, like "Oh my God, it is big" or something similar.
I personally would never meet, or get involved with someone because I saw their dick, whether live, or on a picture.
In fact the friend couple I was intimate for years, were friends before we ever got involved.

I have one more comment.
When I get private messages, of course I read the senders' profile and (beacuse of lets say there is none) ask them to exchange "pictures", and I'll never hear from them again.

yoyo :cool:

[wss30152]

I would never just put up a pic of my cock. I want people to see my asshole too.

[biandu]

I agree. dis-embodied body parts...

i love the whole body.... not just the pussy and cock.

but the arms.. the hands.. the bellies.. thighs.. and omg the EYES and mouth of a person.. wow.

I understand the need to be discreet.... but damn.. there is so much more to see than just somebody's box or package!

and a friend of mine once told me.. he was much more turned on by NOT seeing.. letting his imagination wander about.

i agree. not seeing .. is much more erotic.

[kittylovers]

I think it has a little to do with the "lemmings effect"... Someone goes to a site and sees the pics, and assumes that's "just what you do"... Now had they not seen those pics, would they take a normal pic? Just my :2cents:

[musqrat]

i for one am very paranoid about naked pics of me on the net, so if i post any pics on a profile it would be clothed. but i do email the cock pic upon request. and when i do, it's disembodied because i wouldn't want to be recognized.

[AndrogynousLuv]

Well, I was going to refrain but thought, why not drop my own thoughts into this ....
First of all, I respect eveyone's thoughts, opinions,and preferences here as that is what they are......but I also see shades of arrogance and superiority as to view points as well. I agree so much with this idea about seeing the entire person and yes, it does get tiring sometimes just seeing a cock posted and nothing else. The idea of seeing the whole person certainly is more interesting.....
But I would venture to say and I KNOW for sure some of you also do get very stimulated from just seeing pics of cocks...
I am not trying to sway those of you who don't or are tired of it to change your thoughts on this...but in defense of us who DO enjoy pics of cocks by themselves if that's all a person wants to show (and I being one of them) that it shouldn't be a big deal. There are very legitimate reasons as to why guys only show cocks...
Now if someone is just showing just to show off their package and they've nothing else to offer...maybe there's an argument there as yes, that is tiring...depends on the person showing and what the content of their character is...
Maybe this isn't the place to show...and we should only show or be required to show our entire face, body, etc...if we're going to show. Let's place restrictions so that certain people will be happy.....
Yes the entire person is it...but at the same time, just seeing that part of the body alone too is beautiful and can be appreciated as such....
Again, all of this is completely based on preferences...no one's view is superior on this matter than anyone else's....
I think we all should be careful about such broad sweeping statements or judgements....

[mannysg]

My post here wasn't meant to be taken as I NEVER want to see cock pictures.

Also, I fully understand the need to not be recognized on some sites. Blurring out the face or cropping the pic to only show from the neck down is cool.

Like I said, I enjoy looking at a guys cock and balls, but I am more turned on by seeing all of him, even if the picture is cut off at the shoulders to protect his identity. By comparison, I LOVE looking at a woman's tits. I like pics that only show her tits, but (again) I am more turned on my seeing the rest of her also.

OK, now for a disclaimer: The MAJOR turn on is the person's personality.

[codybear3]

i for one am very paranoid about naked pics of me on the net, so if i post any pics on a profile it would be clothed. but i do email the cock pic upon request. and when i do, it's disembodied because i wouldn't want to be recognized.

Cool...E-mail me a couple of pics... :tongue:

And pics or no pics, who am I to say what should or shouldn't be on a persons profile... :paw: :paw: