Trying to bottom, no good experience so far

[jimhi]

I am usually a top, but recently tried to bottom without much luck.

My first experience was with a girl I dated on Tinder; she used a butt plug on me, and I didn't get any sensation. Her ex appeared to have enjoyed it.

Then I met a versatile guy and tried to bottom for him, again I didn't enjoy, it was pain and no sensation or turn on.

Am I doing something wrong, or is it normal that some guys do not have those sensations?

Thanks

[dicktrobing]

Am I doing something wrong, or is it normal that some guys do not have those sensations?

Thanks

A butt plug may not give much in the way of sensation other than the anus opening area, a vibrating one can be stimulating. Butt plugs are good for stretching.

The main thing for enjoyment of being buggered is a willingness to do it, the gradual warm up, don't expect to take a 8 incher the first time.

Lube is key and body position.

You seem to be willing to try, don't give up, it will need a few attempts find a skilled top / vers who know how to hit the prostate

[Neonaught]

An experienced and compassionate top will know and take the time to get you well-lubed and dilated before going in. I sed this toy and it works just fine.63620

[DLazguy]

I am usually a top, but recently tried to bottom without much luck.

My first experience was with a girl I dated on Tinder; she used a butt plug on me, and I didn't get any sensation. Her ex appeared to have enjoyed it.

Then I met a versatile guy and tried to bottom for him, again I didn't enjoy, it was pain and no sensation or turn on.

Am I doing something wrong, or is it normal that some guys do not have those sensations?

Thanks

It probably depends on if you really want to bottom or not. My first time bottoming was with a guy who was 8+" long and thick. No lube, just saliva. There was no pain at all. The only warm up was sucking each other and then he fucked me. Now all I want are long and thick cocks. I like using a thick, 10" dildo. I enjoy the deep stretch.

6362163622

[chongster]

I can relate. I have always loved to have my ass played with. I've slept with a lot of women over the years but most are not at all interested in a guys ass. There have been a few and it was always a huge turn on for me. One GF would use vibrators, plugs on my ass while sucking my cock. This led to us getting a strap on for her with a not to thick cock to use on me. I would jack off while she fucked me with it, it was a huge turn on and a great cum. But I think it was more of a mental turn on than anything else.
The one time I was fucked by another guy really didn't do much for me. I like fucking him way more than him fucking me so after that I just topped other guys and sucked cocks. I love to fuck a hot ass (male or female) and I love to suck cock and eat pussy. A hot pussy cream pie is really hot

[Gregshaw]

Some guys just don't enjoy anal no matter what. Others find it unbelievably pleasurable & pain free. Its just the way they're built. You MAY be in that first group, but its possible that anxiety is creating a barrier that you'd need to overcome. Dildos are they way to go, start small & use lots of lube. Massage your balls & jerk off at the same time, this way its possible that your body will relax enough to let you discover whole new world of pleasurable sensations.

[chongster]

It probably depends on if you really want to bottom or not. My first time bottoming was with a guy who was 8+" long and thick. No lube, just saliva. There was no pain at all. The only warm up was sucking each other and then he fucked me. Now all I want are long and thick cocks. I like using a thick, 10" dildo. I enjoy the deep stretch.

6362163622
I would love to fuck that smooth hot ass!

[DLazguy]

I can relate. I have always loved to have my ass played with. I've slept with a lot of women over the years but most are not at all interested in a guys ass. There have been a few and it was always a huge turn on for me. One GF would use vibrators, plugs on my ass while sucking my cock. This led to us getting a strap on for her with a not to thick cock to use on me. I would jack off while she fucked me with it, it was a huge turn on and a great cum. But I think it was more of a mental turn on than anything else.
The one time I was fucked by another guy really didn't do much for me. I like fucking him way more than him fucking me so after that I just topped other guys and sucked cocks. I love to fuck a hot ass (male or female) and I love to suck cock and eat pussy. A hot pussy cream pie is really hot

I'm not interested in getting pegged. I want the real thing. Plus, my wife would never agree to pegging. I've only bottomed once, but I want to feel another thick cock in me. I'm very picky, so a dildo will have to do until I find me a hung top. I would like to fuck my wife while having a big plug in me

[notsureif]

First guy was only one I've ever enjoyed. Ive tried few other guys and it's been hurtful and uncomfortable.