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dowmass
Sep 29, 2025, 11:47 AM
Just curious- what is CHEMISTRY, according to you?

I have had folks say - you can suck my dick- and I will top if there is CHEMISTRY.
I have had others say - let us meet and see if there is chemistry.
i am finding it hard to comprehend what Chemistry is. Who defines it- the top or bottom?
I thought the concept of chemistry kicks in after both the top
and bottom have undresses. Maybe I am wrong.

Neonaught
Sep 30, 2025, 9:38 AM
I think that "chemistry" in that context mean compatability.

centillini
Sep 30, 2025, 4:12 PM
To me, it is that special unity you feel with a person. Like being around them, enjoy there company, that special aura

DLazguy
Oct 1, 2025, 10:55 AM
I would say chemistry is how comfortable and attracted I feel with the guy. I've met up with the intention of just getting a bj, but open to more. If I didn't think he was very attractive and the meeting didn't feel natural, I either left or I just let him suck me. When I did feel that the guy was attractive and our initial encounter felt natural, we did more. He stroked me, sucked my dick, rimmed me, and I sucked him.

Jazminedress
Oct 2, 2025, 12:47 AM
its the same as meeting people without having sex............if I aint feeling it with them, we aint doing anything else. I have met great looking guys that were an immediate turn off, and decent looking guys I enjoyed being around.

If I am not feeling it, then why ?

chongster
Oct 2, 2025, 10:27 AM
If you turn each other on.

tongueteaser
Oct 3, 2025, 12:49 PM
I am not really attracted to guys but just like what is connected to it.. I do postings to find a potential cock to suck and all I get is STATS!! or send piccs... I will never post pics.. Im not wanting to date you.. I want to Meet Face to Face and talk a few. That is my only way of seeing if compatible.