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dowmass
Aug 7, 2025, 4:44 PM
This has been discussed here a zillion times but I am too lazy to look for the threads.
in your opinion, what?s the best place online to find a TOP?
It doesn?t matter if it?s a one time stand or a regular.
I plan to take a paid subscription. BTW, I live in Dallas, am closeted, am 60+, and silver daddies has not worked for me.

Jazminedress
Aug 7, 2025, 9:25 PM
SD is hit or miss, usually miss.................Grindr actually

Footstep40
Aug 8, 2025, 12:28 PM
I graduated from UCSD, never had any issues finding tops….of course, that was the late 90’s.. ahhh love that town. Pretty sure regardless of what city you’re in, Grindr is going to be your answer.

SAW1969
Aug 12, 2025, 9:09 AM
Grindr or Sniffies

Mrdiscreet2
Aug 19, 2025, 3:04 PM
I graduated from UCSD, never had any issues finding tops….of course, that was the late 90’s.. ahhh love that town. Pretty sure regardless of what city you’re in, Grindr is going to be your answer.
Thinks she’s talking about SilverDaddies.

Footstep40
Aug 19, 2025, 3:52 PM
Ohhhh..yeah… photo collecters are all I’ve ever usually encountered there. Was this nice older nudist guy I met through there, older fellow, always liked to hit the clothing optional hot springs and fuck me in his 5th wheel. He had to go and move to Florida.

bikurinpa
Aug 21, 2025, 10:27 AM
Grindr or Sniffies

These sites are great if you prefer just sex with random which is extremely risky. Finding a regular and a FWB, FORGET IT!!

redngoldpride
Aug 23, 2025, 2:17 PM
We are here , just take a chance see if we are like minded .
Fun is only a friendly hello away

azirish
Aug 24, 2025, 11:58 AM
I only use silverdaddies (love men 65 plus) and adam4adam. I also have a profile with my female friend on a life style site. She is also bi, but we play separately. She is only solo with women, but I play with both (mmf)..but mostly with older men. I takes a lot of patience to meet anyone, I'm versatile so I can match with lots of men due to most are oral only or bottoms.



This has been discussed here a zillion times but I am too lazy to look for the threads.
in your opinion, what?s the best place online to find a TOP?
It doesn?t matter if it?s a one time stand or a regular.
I plan to take a paid subscription. BTW, I live in Dallas, am closeted, am 60+, and silver daddies has not worked for me.

Shyguy1376
Aug 31, 2025, 6:05 PM
Great question as I’ve had no luck finding someone that’s a top only and not verse. Have no urge to have my own cock played with when I’m with a guy; only want to suck and make him cum. Would be a total bottom if I were to ever get fucked but alas, hasn’t happened yet.