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Flipper60
Apr 9, 2024, 1:52 PM
I?m a frequent, some would say chronic, joiner of dating apps for flirtation and fun. With guys I?ve only hooked up with a few for sensual rubs downs with oral, both me receiving and a few times giving. But traditionally I?ve fled before contact.

I recently had a foray on A4A that was mostly kinda creepy. Guys either wanting a blo and go or guys wanting to fuck me and also go. I met Loy who is in my town and we hit it off but he didn?t seem to respond often enough for me to think he was interested. I probably wouldn?t have done anything and eventually I deleted my account.

On Sunday I was doing errands and when I was looking at some items in a crowded Costco I heard a woman speaking Thai. I turned around because Thais are my weakness. Ask Grant lol. She asked me if I worked there, I laughed and said no, then when she turned to talk to a Costco guy this short and slender man - Loy! - said ?we met on Adam, how are you?.

It wasnt awkward, he wasn?t upset, and he is kind of cute. Just my type! I reached out and touched his arm and said goodbye, and smiled at him every time I saw him again in the store. Zero embarrassment or nervousness.

Is this attraction to act upon? I continue to think about Loy, it was more than a week ago. Thoughts welcome!

Hubie
Apr 10, 2024, 5:50 AM
Can't help with advice, sorry. Thais are really great people. Love their attitude. We're here in Bangkok now, spend quite a bit of time here. Not really looking forward to all the 'water fights' over the next few days though, to be honest, lol.

Flipper60
Apr 10, 2024, 9:53 AM
Can't help with advice, sorry. Thais are really great people. Love their attitude. We're here in Bangkok now, spend quite a bit of time here. Not really looking forward to all the 'water fights' over the next few days though, to be honest, lol.

Songkran is fun! Once lol

I lived there for nearly five years. Another member of this group - Grant - lives there, too!

Flipper60
Apr 13, 2024, 12:47 PM
I rejoined Adam4Adam and sure enough, he was online. Thong and I have exchanged cell numbers and are planning to meet and go for a walk together to get to know each other. I feel like a high schooler anticipating a first date.