Meeting guys at a gym

[bikurinpa]

I been thinking of joining a gym to work out. What is the chance of meeting other bi guys at a gym. Is it true it happens or just fantasy talk?

[tenni]

Make sure that you know what you are looking for. a/ work out routine? b/ hang naked with a guy(s) in the locker room? c/ sex with a guy that you met at the gym

I would not expect sex with a guy from the gym. Most guys do not hang around the locker room too long. I noticed in the past decade that the younger guys tend to wrap a towel around them while the older guys let it all hang out going from the shower to the locker. Look quick if a guy gets naked beside you in the locker room. The same silent rules about standing at the urinal Spotting on the bench press may help begin a friend ship that may lead to hanging naked in the locker room. I have not heard of a guy getting smacked in the face for being suggestive sexually but I would not be surprised if he did and he would have exposed himself to ridicule.


Good luck

[KDaddy23]

I wouldn't have a lot of expectations either. I know my protege regularly goes to the gym and he has yet to tell me that he got "lucky" there. I've never been a gym rat but when I did go to a public gym, there were guys who'd look "suggestively" but never approached me or a guy might see me looking - and because he's in my field of vision - and he'll hurry up and wrap a towel or put on underwear.

I'll wish you good luck as well.

[wifekinky4husband]

I am wondering about bath houses? Is that not a thing in the U.S.? I would think that could be an interesting place. I'd love to have a camera in a place like that. Might be an interesting business run by ladies - All Male Bathhouses. The insurance would probably be crazy.

[69luvr]

I seldom have luck in a gym. I love looking though.

[KDaddy23]

Bath houses aren't everywhere in the US; as far as I know, there are no bathhouses where I live. As I recall, one of the local YMCAs had a steam room and if anything was going down in there, I didn't see it in the few times I dared to go in... because it was fucking hot in there! Like adult books stores: There aren't any where I live that I know of and the last time someone tried to open one, the cops wound up raiding it so much that it got closed down.

You could be more likely to run into a like-minded guy... at the supermarket. Or pumping gas. I somehow think that if you go to the gym and are looking to get ahold of some of those dicks in there, you may be disappointed because a lot of guys are very weird about talking to another man while they're naked - but they'll talk to you if they're wearing a towel or partially dressed.

Guys are funny as fuck... but, yeah, it'd be interesting if women started such a business - but could they get away with making it men only? I dunno...

[wifekinky4husband]

Guys are funny as fuck... but, yeah, it'd be interesting if women started such a business - but could they get away with making it men only? I dunno...

Yes you gents are... lol

I know, darn society and all its quirks. Someone would want to ruin it and say, "It's sexist." I'd reply, "That is what we are going for, Sexiest! bunch of naked men playing around - Oh my Goodness!" Ha, make the other ladies pay a fee to hang out at the large looking glass. ;)

KDaddy - I think you and I should run all society trends. We could be mega influencers... I think our go with the flow would be much more fluid and a lot less stepping on others (yes it will still happen).

[KDaddy23]

"KDaddy - I think you and I should run all society trends. We could be mega influencers... I think our go with the flow would be much more fluid and a lot less stepping on others (yes it will still happen)."

I don't try to "influence" others so much, but I keep it real and, well, I'm old now and I know stuff - but I always did because bisexuality has always fascinated me and drove me to learn all I could and to experience all I could, too. Society-at-large still has its head stuck up its ass and we have a choice: Wait for society to get unstuck or... go for what you know and wait for the rest of the world to catch up with you. It pains me to see so many bisexuals sitting on the bench and afraid to get in the game - and because the social angst worries them more than working toward being... themselves in this. Yeah, toes get stepped on but less toes would get hurt if we just learn to accept that going both ways is just as normal as being straight or gay is and when you're bi, the whole sexual world opens up before you and now you're only limited by your imagination and your sense of adventure.

If there's a way to have sex, I've probably done it... and more than once or twice. If I haven't done it, I probably didn't want to - but not like I never had the chance to.

So, yeah - let's run this!

[Jozyxt]

I noticed in the past decade that the younger guys tend to wrap a towel around them while the older guys let it all hang out going from the shower to the locker.



Me too.

I tend to drape the towel in front after I have dried off. When was in high school, we went to a fairly upscale health club that had a men's bar attached to the lover room. There was one old guy that would sit naked in there and drink his smoothie. Not even a towel on the chair. I thought it was gross.

I enjoy the naked men and imagining sucking their cocks these days. But still wish they wouldn't sit naked on the benches. Or put there shoes there either.