Would Like To Try But Hesitant

[Love2Jerk]

OK, so an older kid, a friend of mine, forced me into doing things to him sexually when I was a kid. For that 1 summer, we did have fun though it was so long ago, I don't remember too . I was with only girls/women since then until shortly before covid and I met up with a smallish handful of guys for car fun. Mostly stroking and watching each other, mutual jerking, and I received oral twice from the same guy. I am totally fascinated by cocks. Love to see, touch, fondle. I was a bit nervous the first time (not including the times with my friend) but quickly got over that. Those were the days of Craigslist. Doublelist, which I've tried more recently, sucks.

But for a few years, I have fantasized about sucking cock. But I would not try with a friend, only with a stranger. I can't risk it with friends. And finding the right guy is a challenge. But putting that aside, there is the bigger issue for me. I love the idea of sucking another guy in the same way as I enjoy touching and stroking a cock. I just am not sure I can go through with putting his cock in my mouth. I have tasted my own cum before and not at all against that but not sure I want another guy unloading in my mouth. Sure, I can tell him to let me know before he cums so I can stop sucking and finish him off with my hands but girls/women have told me that in the past when sucking me and sometimes you just can't control it. Yea, I could try sucking with a condom but that has to taste terrible. I am sure some of you might respond by telling me the best way to get over the hesitation is to just go ahead and do it. Knowing that I truly want to try and keeping in mind that finding someone has proven to be a challenge, I'm up for suggestions from those of you that have faced this hesitancy and overcome it. Thanks!

[KDaddy23]

Yeah, I know some guys who'd love to suck a cock... but are of a mind that they can't. I won't lie to you: When it's your first time and there's a dick right there in your face and waiting for you to take it into your mouth, it's scary as fuck and I know this because I've seen this in a lot of guys. I know that in that moment, there's so much shit going on in your head and one of two things are going to happen once your brain gets overloaded: You're either not going to be able to do it or you're going to say, "Fuck it..." to yourself and do it.

I will tell you that despite what you might be thinking, there's nothing to be afraid of. It's gonna be weird and, yeah... getting cum in your mouth. Those of us who have gotten past this will tell you that there are few things that can compare to sucking a guy's cock and taking him cum in your mouth and once you do, you'll always want it in your mouth and that's no lie. You just have to find it within yourself to be able to suck a cock and find out if you can... acquire the taste. I can tell you that every last one of us who suck cock and swallow cum had to learn to get past this moment and, again, you just gotta want to get past it and many will tell you that you're not going to feel right about yourself until you... suck that dick and take his cum from him. You don't have to swallow it - it is considered polite to spit it out, get it shot on your face or some other place but... if you suck cock, taking the cum... just makes sense and even I can't explain it - but I know it.

Personally, when the man who gave me my first taste of cock and cum slid the head of his dick between my lips, I really didn't know what was going on but what I did know was that... I liked it. It felt amazing in my mouth and my tongue was all over it and it tasted good and the next thing I knew, something warm was in my mouth; it tasted kinda sweet, kinda salty, there was "a lot of it" and... I swallowed it. Been hooked on it ever since but, again, I've given a lot of guys their first experience at sucking cock and I know how scary it is and how guys think that they can't do it... and then they say, "Fuck it..." and they just do it. And all of those guys have said to me, "I don't know what I was afraid of... and I don't know why I didn't do this before now!"

[tryinbi]

All I can say is if you're thinking about it and don't try it you'll never stop thinking about it, you're either gonna love it or not care for it, if you do love it, you'll find it's very addicting and wonder why you waited so long.

[KDaddy23]

Exactly.

[skuz69]

I was always attracted to both men and women, but never acted on the attraction to men until I was 70. I sucked my first cock, he came in my mouth, and I swallowed. Loved it! Just resolve to get past your first time, and you're going to be addicted to it, I promise. You will find that some guys' cum tastes a lot better than others. But so far, it's all been good.

[Hubie]

When I was very young, was 'coerced' into performing oral on a older boy.
In my very early teens, started 'experimenting' with a school chum. Both performing oral on each other. Later, a couple other friends joined in the fun.
When a bit older, and finding females, that occupied sexual fun for years. Had a couple 'fleeting' bi experiences over the decades.
Now, in my 60's the desire to suck cock resurfaced. Much was probably due to wife and I enjoying MFM's.
In one, i tried fucklicking, and kept getting his cock shoved in my mouth. Wasn't bad, lol.
Since then, we've sucked cock together, and she's held a cock while I sucked. Great fun!
Hoping to keep it up, circumstances have delayed that. Still hoping though.
Go for it while you can.

[Love2Jerk]

As the original poster, I should have mentioned this... I did say that an older kid (he was 15, I was 12 I think) forced me into having sex. What I did not say was that it all started when we were in the basement storage area of an apartment building he lived in with his parents and sister. It was summer and we were in our bathing suits. As we snaked our way through boxes of people's stuff, he stopped, took his bathing suit down, then told me to get down and suck him. I did though not sure why I just went along with it. After a short time he had me get up, drop my bathing suit, bend over, and in it went. It hurt like hell but didn't take too long. I know he came in me, though not at the time, since I was all wet back there and it was running down my thigh. He reversed it all and sucked me for a bit then had me pump him. I don't recall if I came in him or not. Think I did. I remember very little except when his dick was in my mouth. The 2 main things I recall were: 1) he was rock hard but the skin was silky smooth, and 2) his dick had a kind of funky taste. Not an especially bad taste, just different and not like skin. Point here is that I did suck dick that one time. Not sure if I ever sucked him again that summer. I just do not remember.

[licyou69]

I flaked out quite a few times before finally giving my address to someone who wanted a blowjob. Getting a picture of what you're going to be sucking helps get your juices flowing when it's a cock that attracts you. Choose a 5"-6" cock to start with. Just do it. My first one was about 5". He wanted me naked when he arrived and I was more than happy to do that. Once he's there you'll have no problem going through with it. Sexual tension is tremendous as you get on your knees and he's undoing his pants. When his cock first comes you'll be so worked up that your mouth will be instantly drawn to it. From that point on your mind just goes blank from wanting nothing more than to feel his cock spurting his cum into your mouth or throat. After he came and zipped up his pants and left there was zero regret. Within a couple of days I was on my knees again sucking another one.

[KDaddy23]

As the original poster, I should have mentioned this... I did say that an older kid (he was 15, I was 12 I think) forced me into having sex. What I did not say was that it all started when we were in the basement storage area of an apartment building he lived in with his parents and sister. It was summer and we were in our bathing suits. As we snaked our way through boxes of people's stuff, he stopped, took his bathing suit down, then told me to get down and suck him. I did though not sure why I just went along with it. After a short time he had me get up, drop my bathing suit, bend over, and in it went. It hurt like hell but didn't take too long. I know he came in me, though not at the time, since I was all wet back there and it was running down my thigh. He reversed it all and sucked me for a bit then had me pump him. I don't recall if I came in him or not. Think I did. I remember very little except when his dick was in my mouth. The 2 main things I recall were: 1) he was rock hard but the skin was silky smooth, and 2) his dick had a kind of funky taste. Not an especially bad taste, just different and not like skin. Point here is that I did suck dick that one time. Not sure if I ever sucked him again that summer. I just do not remember.

I have found that even when a guy experiences it "way back then," if that was the first/last time he did, having the urge resurface can make one hesitant and more so when that first experience was, bluntly, traumatic in any way. While I've seen guys in this situation say, "Fuck it!" and go for what they know, some guys, perhaps, haven't really processed that early trauma and... that was then. If you feel that you're still "reliving" that moment, it may or may not be "easy" for you to suck a dick again but I maintain that you really have to be determined to do it and no matter what; if you can get to the point in your mind where you can say to yourself, "Fuck it - I'm gonna do it!" then... do it and have fun.

[querty]

As the original poster, I should have mentioned this... I did say that an older kid (he was 15, I was 12 I think) forced me into having sex. What I did not say was that it all started when we were in the basement storage area of an apartment building he lived in with his parents and sister. It was summer and we were in our bathing suits. As we snaked our way through boxes of people's stuff, he stopped, took his bathing suit down, then told me to get down and suck him. I did though not sure why I just went along with it. After a short time he had me get up, drop my bathing suit, bend over, and in it went. It hurt like hell but didn't take too long. I know he came in me, though not at the time, since I was all wet back there and it was running down my thigh. He reversed it all and sucked me for a bit then had me pump him. I don't recall if I came in him or not. Think I did. I remember very little except when his dick was in my mouth. The 2 main things I recall were: 1) he was rock hard but the skin was silky smooth, and 2) his dick had a kind of funky taste. Not an especially bad taste, just different and not like skin. Point here is that I did suck dick that one time. Not sure if I ever sucked him again that summer. I just do not remember.

I don't wanna be a Debbie Downer (with apologies to Debbies), but I'd recommend talking to someone professional about your experience. Sounds unresolved and I'd be concerned it will limit your experience. But, thats for you to determine

[Cum1st]

I don't find the actual taste of cum objectionable, or a culinary treat. It's part of the turn on and thrill of great sex. Consider the whole act.

Tits are fun to play with. So is another man's cock. Get into it. Fondle his cock. Feel the exquisite smoothness of the head on your tongue. Take it in your mouth tasting the precum. If you're willing to swallow his precum...

His cock in you're mouth becomes the center of his universe just as much as it is to you. Feel it swell as you work on/play with it. When he is getting ready to cum it swells even more. This is the time for you to give him your best. Think about it. Do you know any guy that want's to pull out to cum?

Don't obsess about it. If you're worried about the cum you'll enjoy the whole sexual encounter less, and so will he in the end. If you take it deep in your mouth (not gag deep) he will get much more out of it, and your reflexes will cause you to swallow it automatically as it cums out. Furthermore, all this talk of huge loads? It hasn't been my experience.

Do you want to make the most of it? A little bit of cum is no big deal. It's not like eating your own cum after the urge is gone.

[Love2Jerk]

I don't wanna be a Debbie Downer (with apologies to Debbies), but I'd recommend talking to someone professional about your experience. Sounds unresolved and I'd be concerned it will limit your experience. But, thats for you to determine

I understand where you're coming from. But I do not have unresolved issues. I actually look upon it somewhat fondly. I am glad I had that experience I did a number of sexual things with my friend the rest of that 1 summer. I do not think that my hesitation is at all related to that early experience. It has more to do with cleanliness, disease possibility, and a mouthful of cum. But I do appreciate your comment. Thanks.

[BackyardShaman]

It might be best if you get to know someone that will suck you and wait until you’re ready to return the favor, I had to do this there were 4 times I wanted to and the other guy sucked me but I just couldn’t bring myself to put my mouth on the head. Once I did it I found it very natural and enjoyed it and the guy was very clean and a regular size. I tried later on to suck one guy that had a bad tasting cock I think he was just dirty and needed s shower. So I can understand why your apprehensive about that. If they’re not clean refuse.

[niceguy4moresex]

It's really a very personal experience - getting a guy to cum in your mouth - and I can tell you that it comes down to whether or not you have a friendly relationship with the person you're sucking off.

I have been coerced and even forced to blow men who were bigger and stronger than me, and been repulsed by the taste of their cum.

And I have been lucky enough to be approached by a friend who allowed me to make that decision myself.

'Herb' was a nice man who was a couple-3 years older than me. He invited me up to his condominium and came out to me one night. I realized he was completely exposing himself to me, and - because I wasn't with a girl at that point in my life - made the decision right then to give in to him.

He started out kissing me as I lay in his bed, naked; I really didn't enjoy being kissed by a man at that point, so I rolled him over onto his back and went down on him.

I didn't stop until after his throbbing penis had dumped every drop of his cum inside me, and it just made sense to swallow with each pulsation, to avoid choking or gagging on the whole nut at once.

Because he was a friend who had been nice to me in the past, I didn't mind the taste at all.

Does that help?

[macbi60]

I'm very much like you L2J. I did have an experience, wasn't forced, we just tried. There was no cum involved just the act. Today when I see large cock in porn it drives me crazy wanting to suck a cock off and take the cum. I even have shared and fantasize with my wife about me sucking a stud off while she watches and encourages. Don't think it will ever happen and always feel negative after thinking about it. Oh well.

[BiVers240]

I had been curious for a long time but hesitant to explore sexual pleasure with men. One day when my wife took the kids to a family reunion a couple of states away (I try to keep my distance from the rest of my family) while I would spend the weekend at the library studying for the CPA exam. I decided to take advantage of the opportunity. I perused the personals of Craigslist to get a feel for how an ad should read than posted an ad of my own. I showered up while waiting for my ad to go live. Got dressed and sat down at my computer. I already had a couple dozen replies. I chose the least-sketchy one and three hours after placing my first ad I had cock in my mouth for the first time. This was twelve years ago. My only regret is that I did not take this leap much earlier in life.

[atxbi]

I know with me, just like the previous poster, when I walked out of that bookstore I was asking myself, what the hell took you so long to get a dick in your mouth!

[Jozyxt]

I know with me, just like the previous poster, when I walked out of that bookstore I was asking myself, what the hell took you so long to get a dick in your mouth!

Me too. I now wish I had been able to take advantage of having a gay middle school friend who made himself obviously available for me. Or the younger gay kid in boy scouts I protected.....

I suppose there are men that walked away and never wanted to do it again. But of course we wouldn't have them on here.

[phalluster]

I REALLY want to try but I'm hesitant because my wife would not be OK with it. And bringing it up to her would just not go well, and I'm not willing to risk our marriage over my unfulfilled desire to sock cock and swallow cum. As others here said I know once I tried it I'd be addicted!

[BiBedBud]

If you're asking me.... When people think too much about sex, they're doing it wrong.

TL;DR at bottom of this post. WARNING: Long read below, not entirely edited.


I don't mean the fantasizing, which is normal; or the fond or not so fond rememberings of previous encounters -- this is also normal. The abnormal thinking about sex includes all that "neuroticism", the ways and thoughts of a "neurotic". Wikipedia observes "individuals with high scores for neuroticism are more likely than average to be moody and to experience such feelings as anxiety, worry, fear, anger, frustration, envy, jealousy, pessimism, guilt, depressed mood, and loneliness. Such people are thought to respond worse to stressors and are more likely to interpret ordinary situations, such as minor frustrations, as appearing hopelessly difficult."

Overthinking sex to the degree that one is overcome by anxiety and worry, instead of lust and an outlet (rinse and repeat); breeds an obsessed mind that is consumed by worry about a potential calamity, instead of playful thoughts of sex (which can be actualized/satisfied with or without a partner, through (masturbation and) orgasm). Sex is play for adults; and also stress-relief. Worrying so much about impending or potential sexual situations is not a way to play. In terms of how to manage sexual urges amid the rest of your life; you've got to find an outlet or remain trapped in an anxious cycle of "catastrophic" dissatisfaction. Worrying is like pacing back and forth across a carpet -- over time, you'll wear it down thinner and thinner, until you've put a hole in it. Overthinking this will put a hole in your mind, or at least your sexuality (same thing, I would say, as one's sexuality is a facet of the mind more than the body -- the brain is the largest sex organ, remember that).

I'd strongly suggest, the OP is experiencing "play anxiety" which must be overcome or it will consume a completely unhealthy amount of brain power through worry and the attendant anxiety and resulting inaction that it brings. OP seems "seized" by this issue, and needs to free himself to grow beyond it (one way or another).

Pushing it out of mind, is simply not an option. So, accept that and deal with it.

One must listen to his or her own body, to decide how to proceed or not proceed, sexually, with anybody in any given situation. Trust your gut. Don't overthink it. I'm not saying to turn off your entire intellect; just the worried, anxious part. Be reasonable: Find a nice, healthy guy with a nice cock to suck, a clean, healthy cock with an appealing owner/operator. Consider it a playful sort of experiment, a "sexperiment", if you will. Perhaps you'll have an experience that leaves you wanting more; or perhaps you'll find that you've had enough of that. Whichever the case, you'll know, and won't have to worry about it, and factor the possibilities and probabilities while calculating innumerable aftermath scenarios.

It could be that your first time sucking cock will be underwhelming and no big deal; AFTER you've done it. You might decide it's not for you, after just a single try. Or, it might increase your curiosity, and you'll be off on a new journey of discovery. You may or may not change your mind at a certain point, but either way, this endless loop of anxious/inhibition will be over -- will be surpassed.

Afterward, you'll have tangible knowledge -- indeed, carnal knowledge -- which will be ten billion times more informative and instructive to your mind, body and soul, than would a trillion years of anxious worry about something as simple as sucking a dick. Lots of people do it. In the end, you'll find it's no big deal.

React as your instincts would instruct in the moment. Be present in the moment. Remember it's a "sexperiment" so try to observe and remember everything you can, so that you can better reflect on the sexperience, afterward. This brings me to a really important point, often missed in this scenario.

EYE CONTACT!

You are not sucking some disembodied organ!

There's a whole person attached to it!

FELLATE THE WHOLE FELLA!

Arrange a position that lets you make and hold good eye contact the whole time you're licking and slobbering and bobbing over and sucking on his cock. (RE BALLS: Licking balls always pleases, but some guys are too sensitive to suck their balls, so save sucking balls for later on. But, by all means, lick those balls while you're also teasing his cock with licks and kisses.) Borrow one of my lines and tell him "I like a man to look me in the eye when he comes in my mouth". It's a playful challenge and lets him know where I want "it". Smile at him a lot with his dick in front of your face/mouth or directly on your wet lips and outstretched tongue. Let him see how fun this game is for you. Hold out your tongue flat and shake his hard cock left-right-left-right, while sliding your tongue right-left-right-left across his frenulum (underside of the head of his cock, where the glans meet the shaft). Also, play at breathing over and literally blowing on his wet dick to cool it momentarily, then take him back into your warm, wet mouth for a while; then repeat like that. Let your hands wander too. Lots of guys have sensitive nipples that react to touch even more when he's aroused, like when he's bumping-up against the back of my throat. Gently tugging and teasing his nipples with your hands while he's coming in your mouth, may greatly enhance his orgasm and the amount of cum he shoots down your throat. (It's a nerve thing, and your response can be cultivated -- men's nipples are sensitive too!)

The pitfall I almost always try to avoid here is that if I make him cum too hard and too much from that first BJ, he'll need longer to "reload" before he can top me (usually my main objective). So I've learned, that if I'm sucking a dick with the hope of getting topped soon afterward, I have two options. First (and preferred option) is to stop sucking him before he orgasms, so he can top me promptly. (NB: Dry the shaft of his cock but leave the head wet when you put the condom on him; that way the rubber stays on him better and he feels more too.) Second option is necessary when he wants me to suck him to completion; promising to top me "soon" afterward. (This can often be a con-job to get a blow-job, as men in this situation often mean after a nap if not a backrub and a nap -- meaning some hours later.)

I understand he might be tired, but I've got my needs! He can nap all he wants, after I've got mine! The trick I use on him is intended to give him his satisfaction from the BJ, without letting him wad too much of his load. This makes the second erection come a lot sooner. It also diminishes the volume of cum he is able to spooge.

It's a simple thing to do: When sucking his cock and especially when he's getting "close", be sure to keep his balls hanging-low. You don't have to tug or pull on them or anything. Just use the flat of your palm to keep a distance between his balls and the base of his cock. This way, when he does orgasm and cums, the balls are not able to draw up and add their sperm to the flow of juices (for the most part, but *NOT* entirely -- this is *NOT* a birth control method).

By leaving some or most of his sperm in his balls, his 'refractory period' will be shortened. Just keep him well hydrated throughout the day, and his body should be able to quickly produce more seminal fluid (in the prostate gland), needed to ejaculate the sperm outta them balls, down that cock and where ever it's going. The trick hinges on playing a trick with male anatomy. You see, before a man ejaculates, his balls get pulled-up close to the base of the shaft of his cock. By preventing those balls from getting pulled-up all the way, the sperm won't be added to his cum when he wads (for the most part). Instead, it'll just be *mostly* seminal fluid (from the prostate gland, not the balls -- which is quicker to "refresh"). NB: This is not a method of birth control! There'll still be sperm there, but just not as much -- not like it'll taste any different -- just that his body will recognize that he still has "breeding capacity" and so will muster-up an erection that much quicker.

With this technique, I have been "double lucky" many times, getting a good taste upfront, and also topped soon afterward.

Not to be too routine about things, but I've developed a pattern that works for everyone, really well. It starts with a BJ using the above method, followed by a nice backrub where I'm straddling him as he's face-down, and I'm sitting with my bare ass on his bare ass, luxuriously rubbing his back (deep tissue, slow movement). It's not even a chore for me, it's a pleasure to give pleasure, and I love all the sex-soaked skinship! Plus, it's a great workout for my hands, massaging anyone, for any reason. A little backrub, and maybe I'll cuddle-up and wait for the inevitable "change of mood for the sexier"!

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In my experience, the longer the foreplay/build-up and more "sex buttons" that are pushed at the same time; the greater will be the amount of his cum, that first go of it (YMMV). Diminishing returns will result for subsequent orgasms, for most men, unfortunately. (SPECIAL INSERT: If the idea is just to suck him just a little, before he tops you, you really don't want him to cum too much in your mouth, so he can "reload" his dick quicker and screw too.) This is the way for you both to be present in the moment, and to get all that feedback you'll learn by watching him like a hawk while you're sucking him like a popsicle.

You are studying his reactions, as much as you are recording your own.

Mirrors are also helpful. If you can catch a view of yourself sucking his cock, you can let that image sit with you as well; to ponder afterward if that's erotic for you or not. Personally, I'm a fiend for eye contact, and for mirrors. Have him stand next to a full length mirror, and watch yourself sucking his cock; then look him in the eye, then watch him in the mirror, go back and forth like that -- maintain his gaze and soak-in that energy exchange that is going on, in the moment. When it's really good, you might even close your eyes like when kissing; but always look him in the eye when you can. Afterwards, you'll have much less to wonder about, and you'll also know how you reacted in the moment -- especially how your body responded -- which no amount of forethought can instruct you.

NOTE: I'm not one who refrains from kissing male partners. This is not something I've ever been able to understand or relate to. I've never sucked a man I haven't kissed first. I think, among other things, that kissing sets the correct mood for oral sex and subsequent sex acts. Kissing is IMO the prerequisite act. If this is a hurdle you cannot overcome, I'd suggest maybe you're not ready to suck a dick, after all. If OTOH you can accept that a kiss is a kiss, whether it comes from a man or woman; and you're already on kissing terms with your partner, oral sex can be the natural next step if both parties are wanting that -- even if only 'sexperimentally'.

IMPORTANT SAFETY CONCERNS__________

Not only does your partner's hygiene matter, so does your own. Make sure beforehand, that your own mouth is healthy. Bleeding gums are disqualifying. You've got to maintain a consistent daily habit of tooth brushing and gum flossing. This is the only way to ensure you don't have inflamed gums. However, you don't want to brush or floss your teeth within 6-8 hours of a novel sexual encounter. When meeting a new partner for the first time, be sure that first kiss is at least 6 hours since the last time you've brushed or flossed, as these activities can open small wounds that would allow a pathogen to enter your body. A healthy mouth is your first line of defense, when it comes to staying healthy after oral sex.

A second line of defense I would suggest, is to carry a small amount of booze with you, and swish a big swig around your mouth right afterward, then swallow and chase it down with a second big swig. Make sure that booze is at least 40% alcohol by volume, and drink it "straight" even if your motivation to wash the cum down is queer as fuck! Between the booze and your stomach acid; and with your tip-top oral health; you should be comparatively safe enough to suck any *good guy's* safe-looking, clean-smelling, nice-tasting cock; and live to tell the tale, or not. ENJOY!

ADDITIONAL THOUGHTS_______(which I'm not sure why I'm sharing, but anyways...)__________

I have learned that I like cum when it's warm, when it's HOT! But, cum quickly cools in contact with air and somehow becomes much less interesting by the moment (I don't know why, just my impression). Hence my preference for a man to cum directly in my mouth when I'm sucking him; which I swallow without hesitation. Sometimes, someone's cum will spill or spurt across a stomach, chest, back or face (or someone's "junk"); and I never, never hesitate to lick it up and swallow it immediately upon sight (except when anal is involved). I'll use my fingers if I need to, but prefer to just lick it right up. (If I lick someone's face, I'll instantly dry that with the back of my hand, out of consideration.) I'm not even into "snowballing" and will quickly swallow whatever cum I can. I'm unabashedly greedy like that, about cum. It's something I don't think about, no matter if it's my own cum or my partner's or a mix thereof. I think, in part, it's a practical approach I take to avoid any awkwardness or delay or suspension or disruption of the moment. Ideally, nobody has a thought about a mess or dealing with a mess or cleaning-up a mess, so the sex just continues without distraction. For another thing, for me, it's part of the animal experience of sex. Doing sexual things without thinking about them; but enjoying them all the same, as if by reflex -- this is how I live in the moment, and how to be present with my partner(s) and alive in the full, earthly sense -- as is your natural birthright, made as you are, of flesh!

When I think about these moments afterward, I always smile! It's a part of what satisfies me about sex.

You can live this way too! The hardest part of it all, is finding the right partner(s). When you do, don't spoil the opportunity with anxious hesitation.


Now for an interesting tidbit about cocksucking that may further motivate you________________

Many years ago, I saw some computer tomography images of the external electromagnetic field generated by the human body. The images were created by a specialized scanning device that used a physical probe to approach hundreds and hundreds of points all across the body, measuring electromagnetic field strength all along the path of the probe. The 3D imaged results illustrated that the electromagnetic field around the human body extends from several centimeters to over 30 centimeters away from the surface of the skin (between a couple inches and as much as a foot away from the skin -- though a more sensitive probe might find more at greater range).

Field strength and shape seemed to be somewhat dependent on neurological activity and blood flow, with the head (cranium) and spinal column exhibiting sharp field effects. It was explained to me that red blood cells and many body tissues are red because they contain iron, and iron has electromagnetic properties. Also, all neural signalling in the human body carries an electrical charge -- so it only makes sense that field strength is greatest where there are many stimulated nerves and much blood flow.

It's really too bad, they didn't scan the subject while he was sporting a massive hard-on. I'm pretty sure it would have shown a really big electromagnetic field around his swollen member, if they had scanned him while he was fully erect.

Among all the various things that are involved with sucking a cock, there is also this mysterious but measurable phenomenon. Our partner's electromagnetic fields are intertwined and intermixed with our own, as we have sex together. Cocksucking provides a really, REALLY intense example of these overlapping electromagnetic fields during sex. I can only wonder how much is it taken for granted because we're swamped with so many stronger sensations at a moment like that, and how much is it felt, perhaps below the threshold of ordinary sensory experience?

I am someone who is very sensitive to other's moods and emotions. I frequently will know what someone is going to say, before they utter anything, but just before they're about to, as if I can pick-up on the impulse. Exactly how much information is carried by this electromagnetic field, and am I actually sensitive to that, or just lucky/intuitive by other means?

The possibilities are fascinating. I look forward to further science on the subjects involved.

For my part: This all calls for a great deal of sexperimentation!

TL;DR -- The hard part is finding the right guy. If you've satisfied yourself that you have, look him in the eye and SUCK HIM! Try to catch sight of yourself in a mirror while doing so, to make it more memorable. TAKE YOUR TIME! It's not a race. Let your hands wander. Be playful. ENJOY YOURSELF! AFTERWARD: Chase his cum with Vodka, Rum, Tequila or Whiskey, as the situation dicktates. It's a matter of taste, but make sure it's 40% alcohol by volume or stronger; and swish it around before swallowing it down -- as an added measure of safer sex. DICKSCOVER: Does it make you smile, or not?