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ajr12002
May 30, 2023, 7:25 AM
Wanted to inquire if you have an erection when you are being anally penetrated? I see plenty of pictures where that is case. I am wondering as we get older when that doesn’t happen, is it just part of life as we age. Thanks in advance for your experiences and feedback

KDaddy23
May 30, 2023, 9:57 AM
I've rarely had an erection when being penetrated; had one before the fact but once he started going in, it went away and only returned if my dick was being played with. I have no idea why, though but I've suspected it has something to do with, possible, the vagus nerves that are in our backsides - they can make being spanked feel good.

ajr12002
May 30, 2023, 10:02 AM
I've rarely had an erection when being penetrated; had one before the fact but once he started going in, it went away and only returned if my dick was being played with. I have no idea why, though but I've suspected it has something to do with, possible, the vagus nerves that are in our backsides - they can make being spanked feel good.

Thank you!! I will have to research that. Appreciate the input.

Neonaught
May 30, 2023, 10:36 AM
I have long noticed that the majority of my bottom partners will not stay erect while being fucked no matter their ages. Some men do and some don't. I suspect it has to do with individual anatomy and pressure on the pelvic nerves. I'd love to find a good, hung bi bottom that the wife and I could share and make him the man in the middle: him fucking my wife while I take his ass from behind!

jjourneyman
May 30, 2023, 1:06 PM
I can't speak for everyone, but for me personally, having an hard cock positioned at my ass gets me extremely aroused and makes me hard. I have often cum while being penetrated... mostly involuntary. The bigger the cock, the harder I seem to cum. I think it's mostly in our heads (no pun intended). Having one in your mouth at the same time is just a bonus. I can cum two or three times while getting fucked and sucking.

sissyjackie
May 30, 2023, 4:00 PM
When I was younger yes but as I aged no and for the last few years don’t get hard anymore because of I am a diabetic only semi hard but do orgasm and cum but cum dose not shoot out it just dribbles out

cornholejoe
May 30, 2023, 4:58 PM
i get hard and also cum several times

Fiddlestyx
May 30, 2023, 6:46 PM
Back in my younger years I always got harder when I had a cock thrusting in my butt. Now it is sorta 50/50 and I usually deflate at least a little, sometimes losing it altogether. Funny thing is that when I'm softer the prostate orgasm is stronger...

Tight1-4u
May 30, 2023, 8:25 PM
I for one get very aroused during fore play.. but when being penetrated I loose my erection.. stay just semi hard.. I do have anal orgasms that are very powerful and get stronger and last longer do to repeated orgasms.. by the time I am up to the third anal orgasm they are mind blowing a last for a long time.. almost continuously.. as one wave of sexual pleasure subsidies another begins.. I an in a continual state of orgasm.. shaking, quivering, gasping for air, toes curled, neck and back arched, mind in a sexual blur, my world only consists of him fucking me.. it is amazing and very exhausting,, once in this state I have lost all inhibition and control.. all I want is for it to continue as long as possible.. I am his and in his power.. he can do anything he wants and I am powerless to stop him!!

Neonaught
May 31, 2023, 9:05 AM
I for one get very aroused during fore play.. but when being penetrated I loose my erection.. stay just semi hard.. I do have anal orgasms that are very powerful and get stronger and last longer do to repeated orgasms.. by the time I am up to the third anal orgasm they are mind blowing a last for a long time.. almost continuously.. as one wave of sexual pleasure subsidies another begins.. I an in a continual state of orgasm.. shaking, quivering, gasping for air, toes curled, neck and back arched, mind in a sexual blur, my world only consists of him fucking me.. it is amazing and very exhausting,, once in this state I have lost all inhibition and control.. all I want is for it to continue as long as possible.. I am his and in his power.. he can do anything he wants and I am powerless to stop him!!

I used to have a Korean-Amercian buddy who was just like you: he'd have a continuous anal orgasm during the entire fuck. I love giving that kind of pleasure!!!

KDaddy23
May 31, 2023, 5:21 PM
It's my personal belief that we can watch porn, see a guy getting nailed in the ass, and homey is very hard from beginning to end and, well, that's what's supposed to happen when you fuck a guy, right? Yeah, not so much and as many of us find out. Again I've been rock hard and the moment he presses his knob into me... bye-bye boner and, nope, no idea why but I'm thinking that it's... okay if you lose it when you're getting it... maybe. I've had guys get in me and play with my dick and I'll get hard but if he stops - or I do - then no more erection and I don't know if it's a physical thing or something in our hindbrains that says, "If he fucking you, you can't be erect when he does..." or some shit like that.

I'd say that being hard while being fucked... depends on some stuff.

greengrow
May 31, 2023, 6:07 PM
Hit or miss for me , when my partner pegs me , sometimes I am as hard as a rock amd sometimes its half stiff , sometimes floppy , most of the time its half stiff or floppy if I am not jerking it

Tight1-4u
May 31, 2023, 7:23 PM
I used to have a Korean-Amercian buddy who was just like you: he'd have a continuous anal orgasm during the entire fuck. I love giving that kind of pleasure!!!
it is not all the time for me.. as I do get fucked very regularly.. my two hubbies for sure get me that wound up.. but most guys I have sex with don’t.. yes I really enjoy sex with them and get pleasure from having sex with them it’s just that I spend a lot of time and energy making sure they get what they want and need..
by the time that they cum in me and are ready to be done I am just getting started.. Dan and my mayor hubby last a very long time, enough time to push me over the edge.. course it could be that I am in love with them too!!!

Robtiti
Jun 1, 2023, 9:00 PM
It's a toss-up for me. Sometimes I am, sometimes not.

redngoldpride
Jun 2, 2023, 9:48 PM
Some get very hard and stay hard all through our sex , some get hard but do not maintain once I am sliding in and out , almost all cum during our fun as for me both women and men have fingered my tight hoe while giving me oral I stay very hard and cum so good , but in any case we all get satisfied with whatever it takes which makes it so good and enjoyable.

Sundazzled
Jun 15, 2023, 7:02 PM
I'm not that experienced with anal sex. I've only been f*ck*d six times all by the same partner) and have had a dildo worked in my backside a few times during threesome play. If I'm in a position to stroke my own cock during sex, or my partner is in a position to stroke me, I'll generally maintain my erection. Without being manually stimulated I'll either stay semi-hard, or go completely soft.

Although I'm usually fully aroused, I've only orgasmed once when a friend jacked me off while his GF pegged me from behind with a large jelly dildo.

In any event, I have always had unusually powerful orgasms and prolific ejaculations after being anally penetrated -- presumably because of prostate stimulation.

BackyardShaman
Jun 18, 2023, 4:52 PM
It varies for me but often when I’m penetrated I have a delayed reaction hard on that comes after my prostate has been stimulated for a few minutes, usually right after he pulls out.