whats everyone experience with having a regular bj bud?

[stephmtl]

Hi, just curious what others experinces are like. I have been inactive trying to find the right bud. Either its another bi married guy and no one can host or, the rare times I have met someone it has been a one time thing. Either because something spooked me or them. Am I just being too picky? how hard is it to find - and maintain a reulgar bj bud. I d love to know about others experience. As bi guys doing this on the side how long do your fwbs usually last?

Thanks really enjoying the forum and discussion. Great to have someplace to share this side of life!

[licyou69]

I would love to find a straight married guy who I could get down on my knees for and service on a regular basis, but it seems most guys on DL are bi, not straight, and either looking for the same thing or looking for swap.

[Lucky 61]

I think if you find a guy who's looking to receive head from another guy on a regular basis, you can't call him straight. I'm curious as to why you're opposed to swapping?

[KDaddy23]

Off and on throughout my life, I've had "buddies" (not really including the boyfriend I had) and, yeah, it's hard to find (a) the right guy and (b) a guy that's going to participate more than a couple of times. It's convenient and, usually, if a buddy called or came around, there was no question about what we'd be doing but, sometimes, we'd just hang out. It's my personal opinion that some guys looking for the FWB suck buddy... sets the bar too high. Some 'basic' things to consider: Is he of legal age to consent to sex? Is he healthy enough to have sex - and this includes being disease free? Is he not your idea of an asshole? Can either of you host? If not, are you both willing to get a room in an agreed-upon location? How often do you want to see him - and what does your day-to-day life consist of that could make the two of you being "regular" a problem?

My last buddy was my 3rd floor neighbor. Decent guy, not the "best looking" guy and not my idea of an asshole; a couple of years younger than me; nice dick, gave and received head and was open to anal... but his wife would cockblock him and there were times when we were in the middle of arranging to blow each other and... she's yelling for him or blowing up his phone. All of this had to be worked around and we worked around it until he moved elsewhere. I'm not really looking for a regular buddy but I'm not opposed to having one.

[BackyardShaman]

I’ve had a couple of these type of friends but not for now and haven’t seen them since before the pandemic. It was nice really, the longest duration guy was married like me and bi sexual in the closet. Not a jerk, very mellow, clean and decent and in my age group. We could get together discreetly and knew what to expect really taking turns sucking each other sometimes me first going down on him and sometimes him first on me. If we had time and the mood was right I bottomed for him and it was very enjoyable. He has a very wide cock and uncut so his is very different from mine, which is cut but average width. He doesn’t like a cock up his ass so we understand each other.

[cornholejoe]

had a few men who i met regular for sucking and fucking but over time things just happen you move on

[WOaksFan]

Have you considered joining a j/o group? Coincidentally, this is my first visit to this site in a while, and I was going to inquire about other's experience with these groups. I was emailed an invite to attend a Music City Jacks gathering last week and not sure if it would be my thing or not. Personally, I am thinking a group setting would let you ignore the AHoles and should provide reasonable amount of safety in numbers. My biggest concern is the likelyhood that it is a group of more promiscuous guys and sexual health may be endangered. The "Jacks" groups are for all sexualities and estimates are that 50% are gay, 10% are straight, and the rest are bi, unsure, etc...
I don't mean to hijack your question, just offering a possible alternative.

[gmansam]

I live in a small hamlet and frequent the nearest village so it's hard to say the least. If I could find a regular "BJ" buddy i'd be on it.

[stephmtl]

Thanks for all the responses! really wide range of experiences. Interesting to read them all!

[hung4you]

I love having a trusted private friend whom I share man to man sex with. What’s really convenient is he is my neighbor for the last 5 yrs. Most of our play happens in the very early morning hours when we are both hard as rocks. I travel frequently for work but we make up for it on weekends when the wives insist on sleeping in. He loves swallowing cum as much as I do and we play often sometimes twice a day on weekends. When we have lots of private time I am mostly a bottom, on occasion I will top him but mostly it’s me getting rammed. Even after a couple weeks he can normally slide his cock into me with little to no effort. When I know he was some ass I will stretch my ass with a butt plug. There’s something about having a private trusted friend whom you can trust.

[Tag200]

Have you considered joining a j/o group? Coincidentally, this is my first visit to this site in a while, and I was going to inquire about other's experience with these groups. I was emailed an invite to attend a Music City Jacks gathering last week and not sure if it would be my thing or not. Personally, I am thinking a group setting would let you ignore the AHoles and should provide reasonable amount of safety in numbers. My biggest concern is the likelyhood that it is a group of more promiscuous guys and sexual health may be endangered. The "Jacks" groups are for all sexualities and estimates are that 50% are gay, 10% are straight, and the rest are bi, unsure, etc...
I don't mean to hijack your question, just offering a possible alternative.


i am interested in this as an option as well

[stephmtl]

wow that sounds really hot @hung4you!

[BeauKnerr]

It can be a tough racket if you’re the one looking to be the regular cocksucker. Not so much if you’re the one looking to get sucked. If sites like Craigslist (of the past) and Doublelist are a general indication, it seems there is an oversupply of aspiring cockscukers for a relatively smaller pool of guys looking to be sucked on the regular. All other things equal, the advantage goes to cocksuckers who can host and who have flexible schedules. If you’re a guy like me who is married and works a day job, it’s tough to be competitive in finding a guy to service. On top of that, you’ve got to weed out the “sketchy” guys, and the market gets even smaller. My target market is the married and/or generally “straight” guy who just wants his cock well sucked often, and I really don’t want recip as I need to stay “ready” for my wife. It’s tough to find such guys who only want no-recip head.

If you’ve read my recent thread about the “elderly” gent, you know that I finally got lucky in finding such a guy, who lives just a few minutes from my house. My trade off was that I had to compromise the upper end of my age range (he’s 77). But after meeting him and sucking him a couple of times so far, I am very pleased with the prospect of it being an ongoing regular thing. As long as that cock can get hard, respond to a good blow job and cum, what’s not to like?

I was recently contacted by a guy I had communicated with a few years ago when I lived in a another state. He was married at the time, so we never met up. He was reaching out recently to say that he is now divorced and is seeing a regular cocksucker. He agreed that a guy like me is exactly what he needs and we commiserated that it “sucks” that our timing and locations didn’t work out. But some lucky cocksucker is going to get to be his regular. Pro-tip: divorced guys who can host are a good pond to fish in.

In the end, it’s a numbers game, like fishing in a sparsely stocked pond. You’ve got to keep your line in the water, be patient in adhering to what you’re looking for, and eventually you may well get a bite and find yourself regularly on your knees feeding your hunger.

[willingcumdump]

It has been a long time since I had a regular friend to play with but at the time we didn’t have much responsibilities so it was easier to get together. In the past I’ve been more interested in a mutual suck buddy but from what I’ve seen most here are looking to suck only. I’m open now to any of the three options. If anyone here is around the Charlotte NC area and looking to suck, be sucked, or mutually suck each other I’m down.

[julyguybill]

I have had a couple regulars one we met 3 times a week for 4 months then it ended. The second guy was a black guy and I sucked his dick once or twice a week for 3 years before he moved . Both of these guys we would meet,then my friends would drop their pants I would pull my pants down to my ankles get on my knees and suck their cock until they came after this they both left.I miss them lots. I want more but have not found another regular. I wish i.had 7 or 8 to suck often

[Fiddlestyx]

I've been playing with the same bi married friend for a bit over three decades now. Sometimes we've played at my place (impossible these days, but...), sometimes his, sometimes at a rental property he has, occasionally on his sailboat and lately most often at a "no-tell". We've both been super busy so it has been a while, but we're on for this Wednesday afternoon. Not just BJs, mind you and it has never been just one of us doing the other - always reciprocal, usually a lot of 69 and more often than not anal. Just depends on the mood.

[stevelover]

I have been looking for someone to feed...thought I had found one a few times but so far they have fallen through.

Met a gay soldier who wanted to be submissive to a straight married guy. We got together once, and then he got deployment orders to Europe. I left him alone to make his arrangement.

I was chatting with a guy on Scruff, looking for a soulmate. Told him I was already married and just looking to get sucked. He offered that he was okay with that too, but went quiet whenever I tried to move to the next step. He'd reach out a few weeks later and talk about stopping by on his way home then pull the same bullshit. I finally just started ignoring him. Several months later I'm getting ready to move cross country, he wants to come by that day! Sure enough he showed up, sucked me off and left. He said he would stop by every day, I said I have contractors some days and too busy other days but I'm game. He went quiet again, I was busy, stressed, and tired of his BullShit so I blocked him. I'm pretty sure he was married and maybe I was his first blowjob.

Now I live in another state, thinking about activating my Scruff profile again. My wife and I also swing, sometimes all the trying to find "for real" people who want to fuck is too frustrating!

[hung4you]

I have a very private buddy whom I share my adult sex with. He is my neighbor and know one knows what we do beside closed doors. we are both early risers and thats when the fun begins. We take turns going to each others house, mostly its mine as I have a manacle with a couch and we play allot on that couch.

[Rest85]

It can be a tough racket if you’re the one looking to be the regular cocksucker. Not so much if you’re the one looking to get sucked. If sites like Craigslist (of the past) and Doublelist are a general indication, it seems there is an oversupply of aspiring cockscukers for a relatively smaller pool of guys looking to be sucked on the regular. All other things equal, the advantage goes to cocksuckers who can host and who have flexible schedules. If you’re a guy like me who is married and works a day job, it’s tough to be competitive in finding a guy to service. On top of that, you’ve got to weed out the “sketchy” guys, and the market gets even smaller. My target market is the married and/or generally “straight” guy who just wants his cock well sucked often, and I really don’t want recip as I need to stay “ready” for my wife. It’s tough to find such guys who only want no-recip head.

If you’ve read my recent thread about the “elderly” gent, you know that I finally got lucky in finding such a guy, who lives just a few minutes from my house. My trade off was that I had to compromise the upper end of my age range (he’s 77). But after meeting him and sucking him a couple of times so far, I am very pleased with the prospect of it being an ongoing regular thing. As long as that cock can get hard, respond to a good blow job and cum, what’s not to like?

I was recently contacted by a guy I had communicated with a few years ago when I lived in a another state. He was married at the time, so we never met up. He was reaching out recently to say that he is now divorced and is seeing a regular cocksucker. He agreed that a guy like me is exactly what he needs and we commiserated that it “sucks” that our timing and locations didn’t work out. But some lucky cocksucker is going to get to be his regular. Pro-tip: divorced guys who can host are a good pond to fish in.

In the end, it’s a numbers game, like fishing in a sparsely stocked pond. You’ve got to keep your line in the water, be patient in adhering to what you’re looking for, and eventually you may well get a bite and find yourself regularly on your knees feeding your hunger.

You made the perfect comments about what life is like out here for a no recip sub cocksucker who is looking for a regular bud!

[Older Past]

I've only had one regular friend but we where both married submissive bottoms but I'm good sized and could get it up so I'd let him suck me and I still did enjoy it.

[Jozyxt]

I am lucky to have found a divorced guy that is also bi. He has a small apartment not to far away. He is on disability and works occasionally helping out an old guy so his daytime schedule is flexible which helps because I visit during my "gym" time. I found him on DoubleList when I put in an ad for a regular. It was strongly worded since my previous ads had not gotten any real replies and that hit with him.

Like any other relationship it has to be managed. You have to be responsive to communications and willing to make an effort when you are not fully in the mood. Like a lot of guys we both prefer to provide rather than to cum ourselves. So we have to manage it so that we each get what we want. Often by taking turns.

There is still friction too. He only told me a little of how he started but I gathered he was orally raped as a young man. His thing is usually to play out the same scenario and is resistant to not doing that. Whereas I want to try different things. I also like to discuss what I feel during sex but he keeps quiet. I feel like he is coming around to being more open as we hang out more.

But we work it out. The funny thing is we are both opera fans and have vigorous debates over the new stagings of classics and the quality of modern opera. We usually start by talking about opera outside his apartment so he feels like there appears to be a vanilla reason for the visit. And he occasionally plays an opera video when the upstairs neighbor is in.

I suppose that if I found a friend that was more in line with what I like, I might drop him. But so far he is the only guy that checks my boxes for being a regular friend.

[momandson30]

had a older gay friend I met on grinder, he wanted a friend he can suck all the time... he wanted me to be his son so I played the role of his son. He said his dad would always suck his dick, so he wanted to do that to me.. Everyday he would come over or I would go to his house so he can suck on my dick. he got so addicted to sucking me he would just take it out and suck on it... I told him he can molest me like your dad.. the fun part was when he handcuffed me and suked me...it was a great time.. He started getting sick and losing his heath and eventually passed away.. He never let me suck him, he just wanted to suck me...

[SAW1969]

I have a neighbor that lives 4 houses down I've sucked 3 times last year. It's pretty difficult to arrange hookups with our spouses being around. I need more than what I get from him.

[babyrmd]

I have had many regulars here in my area of Maryland (not just bj's, we do everything you can think of) over the years, some 2 to 3 years and some 5 to 9 yrs. It is nice having them because they protect me to make sure I don't catch anything hahah, when they have their friends over to use me with them. Sometimes I would have 3 to 5 at a time and would have very busy weeks seeing them, sometimes 3 in a day, because they lived close to one another. So when I had regulars, up until 6 yrs ago, I was having lots of fun with men. Too bad all have either transferred area for their job, retired and moved or passed away. I had 2 groups I was attending once a month for each but that is now drying up. One of the hosts moved and the other just has not had one over the last few months. But I will tell you one thing, THIS SITE sure has not helped meeting anyone either. Seems all there are is a bunch of wanna be's in my area of Maryland and the ones that want to get together are 100 miles or more away.

[jimkimball]

I always enjoyed it , growing up me and a friend sucked each other all the time it was nice just being able to walk up to him or him me and start feeling each other's cock and going down on each other or 69ing was a good thing.
Have had a few grown up relationships with guys but the never last but a few months ,but I would enjoy a FWB relationship with a guy if I could find one.

[SAW1969]

I've sucked my neighbor 4 times now, still not on a regular basis for my liking. I've also been chatting on Sniffies with another neighbor that lives on the same block. We've tried twice in the past but those 2 times didn't work out but we're both open to try a 3rd time. I need cock more than I'm getting.

[needalittle05]

as I gotten older I have searched for a fellow bi0male to have fun with with no luck. back in the day my wife would enjoy 4somes and met a bi-couple (didn't know he was bi since the ladies enjoyed playing but he didn't attempt anything until one night she invited me over and before he got home she asked me if I ever had a guy suck me off. I told her just once. she said he wanted to that night and I said all he had to is ask. that was a great night. the 3 of us sucked and fucked for hours. the wife loved hearing about it. over the years the we played whenever we could. they split up about the time wife's health started to to go down hill so things stopped. been wanting to enjoy by myself but partners have been far and few being older. but haven't given up yet

[notsureif]

Best friend and me use to party in my garage all the time. Most times our girlfriends joined and we were all always naked. Played darts, drank , listened to music , went swimming in pool , cornhole and such. One afternoon just me and him throwing darts , as I went to board to grab my darts I dropped one. As I bent over Dave said , I tapped that. We both laughed, and continued. My gf was at here moms for weekend and his didn't have a babysitter so we were on our own. He was bitching that he wasn't even gonna get a blowjob that night. During our games I almost always won especially if we have been drinking. We'd occasionally make challenges like throwing left handed and that's what we were doing at time. He won two in a row and was feeling cocky. We had already killed half a bottle of Red Stag and feeling good. He says , 2 out of 3 and loser sucks others cock. I said sure, confident he couldn't keep winning (if you'd seen us play, as I said I almost always won). First game i did win easily. Second game i was winning when he hit 3 Bullseyes in a row to pull out win. Last game I couldn't hit crap and lost. So I went over to barstool he was sitting at and got down to start. He said didn't really have to but I said a bet is a bet, plus I was determined to make sure he would have to to me later. I wasn't very good at it but eventually he blew is load. I choked when he did but was able to swallow it all. Sure enough I easily won next 2 out of 3 winning two in a row. He sucked me off and we decided no more bets that night. Couple weeks later was just two of us again and out of blue he said let's do 2 out of 3 again loser sucks. That night we ended up wher he got two and I received 3. From then on anytime was just the two of us we always did this.

[dowmass]

I live in Dallas, and here’s my problem.
Belueve me when I say this: it’s hard to find someone that needs his dick sucked in the Dallas area:
Reasons:
1) There’s fierce competition .. there are more cock suckers than folks who want their dicjs sucked.
2) Hosting is an issue, and many want their dick sucked in a car.. which I won’t.
3) Many of them will let me suck their dick only if I let them reciprocte. I have occasional ED, and I do t know if it’s fun to have a soft dick sucked.
4) it’s not often that you find a healthy dick to suck. Married guys with healthy dicks can’t host, Which is a big issue.
5) Flakes.. I don’t need to say much about that.

Don’t have any solutions, views, ideas ?

[stephmtl]

Not just Dallas! I have a lot of similar issues. Really difficult to find that perfect fit of a sane, discreet clean guy. Who can host! it's a lot of boxes to tick off. Nice to hear that I'm not completely alone on this though. Was thinking I was just too picky or something sit has been difficult to find a regular.

I will keep looking and every once and awhile I feel the urge so strongly that it is a fine line to avoid risky behaviour. Difficult!

[swvsucker]

I was always the blowjob bud. At one point I was regularly sucking off three guys. One was feeding me 4-5 times per week on my lunch break, one was around three times a week after I got off work and one was my cousin (cock I am sucking in my profile pic) who typically fed me at least twice a week after he got off work in the evening, so it wasn't super uncommon for me to suck them all off in a single day.

How did I manage it? Simple. I decided I wanted it and went after it. Being scared, nervous, unsure, etc. was just going to make it not happen and I wanted it too bad to let that happen. You just have to decide that you want it bad enough to take a risk and go for it.

[BiInVA]

Starting in grade 6 everyday except Tuesdsy after school he would come to my house and we'd play and make each other cum. That summer I finally made him cum in my mouth and then it was everything we could be together...we'd suck each other..he'd pull my cock out just before I came but he came in my mouth for me to swallow. Slowed down around grade nine but when we could through grade 12. In grade nine added a new friend who was uncut..I loved to suck his uncut cock and swallow his cum. He never sucked my cock...but it was ok...I loved his big uncut cock..especially when it was sliding in and out of my mouth and spurting cum in my mouth.

[loves oral]

Quick background, in my teen years a buddy and I got caught up in show me yours and I'll show you mine. Which quickly turned to suck mine and I'll suck yours. From the first time I knew I really liked it, my buddy wasn't so sure about sucking mine, but I loved sucking his. So, for 8/9 years I'd suck his cock 3/4 times a week. He got serious with his girlfriend and said we needed to stop, so I thought that was the end of it for me. A couple years later coming out of a XXX theater a guy asks if I want to fool around, At first I said no, then thought why not. I discovered 2 things that night I liked sucking dick in general, not just my buddies, and I really like having mine sucked.
Over the years I've met up with guys on and off and enjoyed it, but being shy I always find it awkward and it's a miss way more than a hit. I like to chat a bit and get a feel for the guy and most guys can't get through a text or two. I'm also overly cautious, so it's on me also. I'd also like a regular, that's reasonably close, some guy's believe 45 miles is reasonably close. When it's been a while, and I get the urge to suck cock, all I want to do is suck cock, I don't care if it's mutual or not. If a guy just wants to lay back and enjoy a blowjob I'm good with that.
A week ago a guy sent me a text, close by, but an anonymous profile. We text for a while and I feel ok with him and he's super horny and would really like blowjob. Unfortunately the times didn't work out and I thought it was a missed opportunity and I wouldn't hear from him again. This morning I get a text from an anonymous profile. "hey", hey back, "We've talked before" , ok, can you give me a little more to go on? "my profile is messed up and it's showing me in a different city". Still not ringing a bell. "I live close to you, a week or two ago I told you I was really horny and you offered to suck my cock" Ok, now I remember. "So I'm horny again, are interested in sucking me off".
Well the timing was right and he took a quick shower, I like cleanliness. He showed up fifteen minutes later. Nice guy, he knew why he was there, so no awkwardness. We went up to the bedroom and suggested he can strip down to whatever was comfortable and lay down on the bed. He stripped down to his shirt and I got to check out his nice cock, not hard yet, more fun for me. We got to chat a bit while I played with his cock and balls, rubbing his thighs, his moans told me I was hitting it right. As his cock got hard he laid back and just enjoyed being stroked and caressed, while I enjoyed playing with his cock. Then I leaned over and started licking up and down his cock, licking the precum off. It was time to enjoy that that feeling of having a cock in my mouth, I always like the contrast between being so hard and so soft at the same time. As I took him into my mouth to the base he let out a gasp and I knew he was going to like this as much as I was going to. I slowly worked him into and out of my mouth , at times just holding him there, feeling his dick twitch and jerk in my mouth. then I felt his cock start to swell and he took my head in his hands and started pumping his cock in and out of my mouth, followed by a soft grunt as he started to cum, four strong spurts and he started to relax, while I swallowed his cum. I gently sucked his dick clean and he was spent. My year long drought was over, man I love the feeling of a guys cock in my mouth. While getting dressed he said it was great and he hopes we can get together regularly. I told him I hope so too.

I hope this is the start of a regular BJ bud.

[Lucky 61]

Quick background, in my teen years a buddy and I got caught up in show me yours and I'll show you mine. Which quickly turned to suck mine and I'll suck yours. From the first time I knew I really liked it, my buddy wasn't so sure about sucking mine, but I loved sucking his. So, for 8/9 years I'd suck his cock 3/4 times a week. He got serious with his girlfriend and said we needed to stop, so I thought that was the end of it for me. A couple years later coming out of a XXX theater a guy asks if I want to fool around, At first I said no, then thought why not. I discovered 2 things that night I liked sucking dick in general, not just my buddies, and I really like having mine sucked.
Over the years I've met up with guys on and off and enjoyed it, but being shy I always find it awkward and it's a miss way more than a hit. I like to chat a bit and get a feel for the guy and most guys can't get through a text or two. I'm also overly cautious, so it's on me also. I'd also like a regular, that's reasonably close, some guy's believe 45 miles is reasonably close. When it's been a while, and I get the urge to suck cock, all I want to do is suck cock, I don't care if it's mutual or not. If a guy just wants to lay back and enjoy a blowjob I'm good with that.
A week ago a guy sent me a text, close by, but an anonymous profile. We text for a while and I feel ok with him and he's super horny and would really like blowjob. Unfortunately the times didn't work out and I thought it was a missed opportunity and I wouldn't hear from him again. This morning I get a text from an anonymous profile. "hey", hey back, "We've talked before" , ok, can you give me a little more to go on? "my profile is messed up and it's showing me in a different city". Still not ringing a bell. "I live close to you, a week or two ago I told you I was really horny and you offered to suck my cock" Ok, now I remember. "So I'm horny again, are interested in sucking me off".
Well the timing was right and he took a quick shower, I like cleanliness. He showed up fifteen minutes later. Nice guy, he knew why he was there, so no awkwardness. We went up to the bedroom and suggested he can strip down to whatever was comfortable and lay down on the bed. He stripped down to his shirt and I got to check out his nice cock, not hard yet, more fun for me. We got to chat a bit while I played with his cock and balls, rubbing his thighs, his moans told me I was hitting it right. As his cock got hard he laid back and just enjoyed being stroked and caressed, while I enjoyed playing with his cock. Then I leaned over and started licking up and down his cock, licking the precum off. It was time to enjoy that that feeling of having a cock in my mouth, I always like the contrast between being so hard and so soft at the same time. As I took him into my mouth to the base he let out a gasp and I knew he was going to like this as much as I was going to. I slowly worked him into and out of my mouth , at times just holding him there, feeling his dick twitch and jerk in my mouth. then I felt his cock start to swell and he took my head in his hands and started pumping his cock in and out of my mouth, followed by a soft grunt as he started to cum, four strong spurts and he started to relax, while I swallowed his cum. I gently sucked his dick clean and he was spent. My year long drought was over, man I love the feeling of a guys cock in my mouth. While getting dressed he said it was great and he hopes we can get together regularly. I told him I hope so too.

I hope this is the start of a regular BJ bud.

I got hard as hell reading that!

[Maxxine]

I am meeting a potential new "bud" today. We connected through the DL site. I usually ask to meet for coffee first as I am in no rush. i am definitely not into blow and go type of meets. I usually get a lot of one liner responses, flakes or whatever else. This guy agreed to meet first which I thought was a good sign. He pretty much checks all boxes of what I am looking for, married guy who is a top, older, nice beefy body with a very nice big cock. So hoping this works out. Wish me luck!

[Maxxine]

I am meeting a potential new "bud" today. We connected through the DL site. I usually ask to meet for coffee first as I am in no rush. i am definitely not into blow and go type of meets. I usually get a lot of one liner responses, flakes or whatever else. This guy agreed to meet first which I thought was a good sign. He pretty much checks all boxes of what I am looking for, married guy who is a top, older, nice beefy body with a very nice big cock. So hoping this works out. Wish me luck!


Well I met the guy... sort of... not really! We agreed to meet at a DD coffee shop. I was on time parked waiting for him. He came about 10 minutes after and pulled up next to me. As soon as he saw me he abruptly said, I changed my mind and took off! WTF! Anyway, I messaged him to find out why he peeled outta there so fast! It's almost as if he saw a leper LOL! Anyway, he said that the 'guy vibes' killed it! What he meant was he was expecting me to show up all dressed up (read crossdressed) with wig, make up, the works to the fucking coffee shop. For real? Perhaps my fault but the last thing I thought was him expecting me showing up as a CD. That was for a later time not for a first quick coffee meet!