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Blondeblowjob7
Apr 13, 2023, 2:55 PM
I have a question for everyone here. Was there a specific moment where you knew with absolute certainty that you’re a complete and total slut? Was there a specific moment when you knew for sure that you had a full-fledged sexual fetish? Was it a gradual transition for you, or was there a sudden moment where it just dawned upon you what a slut you truly are?

For me there was definitely a very specific moment in time when it suddenly dawned upon me as a male cocksucker that I’m a complete and total slut with a major cum fetish. I realize this story may not be everyone?s cup of tea. However, for me it was a specific moment of sexual awakening when I realized that I’m actually a complete and total slut with a major cum fetish.

It happened to me less than a month after first becoming a male cocksucker. Long story short, I never actually thought about giving blowjobs to other guys until the day I gave my first blowjob. Now my first feeder was best friends with my boss at work. My first feeder eventually told his friend, my boss, that I was a great cocksucker. I was an assistant supervisor in the company we worked with. It was very common for me as an assistant supervisors in our company to have lunch meetings one on one in our supervisor’s office about three times per week. We would discuss work matters over lunch. Well 2 weeks after becoming a cocksucker my boss made a very obvious pass at me about becoming his cocksucker during our lunch meetings. Now my boss had a beautiful and large white cut cock that I honestly couldn?t resist as a cocksucker. To this day my former boss had one of the nicest cocks that I’ve ever given a blowjob to.

I was soon absolutely thrilled that I had accepted his offer to be his cocksucker. So for two weeks at work I’m spending about the first 10 to 15 minutes of our lunch meeting three times per week on my knees happily giving my boss a blowjob before we ate lunch and talked about work matters. Now my boss had absolutely massive cum loads that to this day are some of the biggest cum loads that I’ve ever seen as a cocksucker. He had a cum load that often completely filled my mouth with cum.

Now I happen to be an absolutely huge salad lover. Some people have told me that I’m the biggest salad lover that they’ve ever met, or that they’ve never met someone as addicted to eating salads all the time as I am. Vegetable based salads like a good chefs salad or Cobb salad are definitely two of my favorite foods. I almost always packed a big salad to eat for lunch each day at work.

Well about two weeks after becoming a cocksucker at work I’m giving my boss a blowjob in his office. I had brought a Cobb salad for lunch that day that was sitting on top of his desk right next to us as I?m on my knees giving a blowjob. Well my feeder is getting close to cumming from my blowjob. So I?m very quickly bobbing my head up and down his cock as he approached his orgasm. All of the sudden he grabs my salad off his desk, and he literally cums all over my salad. Well I was seriously ticked off at him for just ruining my lunch! I told him that he was a real jerk for doing that, and that it was a gross thing that he had just done. I made it very clear to him that I was not happy at all. As I mentioned before, he had a copious amount of cum with each of his loads. His cum heavily covered the large salad I had brought for my lunch.

My boss quickly told me to calm down and to listen to him. He mentioned how much I loved the taste of his cum, which was true. Then he said we both know that you?re an absolutely huge salad lover. So why shouldn’t the two go together? Well even though I was still mad at him, and still grossed out by his idea, I had to admit that maybe he had a point that the two would perhaps taste good together. So I said to him; “You actually want to see me eat a salad covered in your cum?” He said “yes.”

Well again a long story short, I actually tried a fork full of my salad drenched in his cum, and I had to admit that I actually loved the taste of his cum and my salad together. So there I am with a huge smile on my face happily eating a salad covered in cum. It hit me like a ton of bricks at that moment that I was a complete and total cocksucker whore and cum slut. It was also definitely the beginning of my cum fetish that I quickly developed as a cocksucker. In truth, despite being initially grossed out by the idea, I have to say that it was a beautiful moment of sexual awakening for me in discovering just how much I truly love cum, and in discovering what I slut I really am.

I was actually getting extremely turned, and felt very happy and content in eating a salad covered in cum. My boss told me that he was also very turned on by how quickly I had become a total slut for him. He told me that this world actually needed more cute, young, and impressionable cocksucker cum sluts just like me who were willing to do things sexually that not many people are willing to do. He told me that I was actually the type of cocksucker cum slut most men dream about. He also said that I should fully accept, embrace, and take great pride in being a total cocksucker cum slut. Well I have ever since then, and it has given me so much happiness and sexual satisfaction in being a complete and total cum slut! I don?t think I would have things any other way.

KDaddy23
Apr 13, 2023, 3:50 PM
I think it was the day when me and nine of my friends decided that it would be fun for all of us to take turns sucking everyone off... and since I loved sucking dick, I volunteered to go first. I got to the fifth guy and the moment I started to swallow his cum, I... threw up all the cum in my stomach. I'd felt pretty slutty and even more so when I just rinsed my mouth out, drank a little water, and went on to finish sucking off the rest of the guys. About a week later, the same ten of us decided that it would be fun for everyone to take turns... being fucked and "slutty me" volunteered to go first. I'd gotten so comfortable that I nodded off while Guy #4 was fucking me and only woke up when he yelled, "I'm gonna do it!" and came in me. By the time the last guy unloaded in me, I was a spermy mess; it had been leaking out of me since the second guy and when I stood up, yeah, what a mess! I cleaned my ass as much as I could and got at the end of the line to await my turn to fuck.

If I didn't know what a slut was before, I knew it after these two events. I was definitely a slut for sucking dick; you didn't have to ask me - if you pulled your dick out, I would be all over it.

dicktrobing
Apr 14, 2023, 3:39 AM
I have a question for everyone here. Was there a specific moment where you knew with absolute certainty that you’re a complete and total slut? Was there a specific moment when you knew for sure that you had a full-fledged sexual fetish? Was it a gradual transition for you, or was there a sudden moment where it just dawned upon you what a slut you truly are?


When I was on all 4's being spit roasted by 2 guys and they swapped with 2 other guys and then swapped back ................. I was fucked by the end of it butt the cum all over me was great feeling

licyou69
Apr 14, 2023, 8:03 AM
I knew after sucking my first cock I was a total slut. He walked in and dropped his pants. At his request I was already naked when he got there and I immediately got down on my knees. I licked around on his cock and balls until he began to get hard and soon took his hard cock into my mouth. He was a little less than 6 in so there was no gag reflex problem as I let him stand there, hold the back of my head and fuck my face, then shoot his cum right down the back of my throat. I knew I would be on my knees regularly after that and sure enough just a couple of days later there I was again on my knees with another cock in my mouth.

Footstep40
Apr 14, 2023, 11:16 AM
The time I went to a gay pool/sex party with my boyfriend at the time. I had a bit of liquid courage, and his blessings to fool around with other guys. He regretted it as we left and he called me a drunken slut, which was true as I did have quite bit too much to drink and quite a bit of sex with many men. I had fun though! First time in a swing.

cornholejoe
Apr 14, 2023, 1:47 PM
i knew i was a slut because i loved being fucked in the ass and sucking cock anytime i could do it liked it better with 2 or more men

Jazminedress
Apr 14, 2023, 7:22 PM
Never considered myself a slut, I have a healthy sexual appetite, I am discriminating of who I am with, and make sure I satisfy my physical needs as well as the other persons

Tight1-4u
Apr 16, 2023, 12:39 AM
yes for me after spending that summer with my cousin and his 3 friends I went home and soon was back at school and things returned to normal for me.. there was about a 5 year period where things were very ordinary childhood.. then when I was a junior in high school and playing football.. I was staying late for extra practice with coach.. about 3 weeks into these extra practices I was in the shower after..we had gang showers.. I was at one end of the shower and coach came in and started showering on the other wall and end of the shower.. he was soaping up his cock and I couldn?t help but notice.. I must have been starring as he turned and showed it to me.. it was about half hard and the biggest cock I had ever seen.. I am sure still Starring he ask if I liked it.. not even sure if I answered him.. next thing I know he is standing in front of me his cock is touching mine.. he reaches out and just kinda guided me to my knees.. I just instinctively opened my mouth and swallowed as much of it as I could.. he face fucked me for what seemed a long time but I bet it was only like 5 min.. then he lifted me up and turned me toward the corner of the shower.. he put his arm around my waist and pushed on my neck bending me over and pushing me into the corner.. he adjusted the two shower heads closest to me so they were spraying on my lower back and running down my ass.. then he spread my cheeks and found my pussy hole.. he put his cock to my hole and started bouncing and pushing into me.. my mind was on fire.. I knew what he was doing but I was powerless to do anything about it.. I instinctively spread my legs and bent my knees.. as he entered me I gasp and wimpered.. he posed for e second then started again pushing.. he entered me balls deep as I moaned and gasp for air.. my shoulders were pinned in the corner I couldn?t move.. he started pumping and thrusting,, for about an hour he plowed my furrow until he stiffens up and exploded inside me,, filling my pussy full of his man juices.. the he pulled out and told me to clean his cock so I washed it for him.. he told me to clean up and go home.. as I drove home I remembered all the sexual feelings I had that summer with my cousin and his friends.. my body felt amazing and my mind was focused on the feelings of that summer.. the next day I was called to his office.. I was nervous and a bit scared.. as I entered his office he was seated at his desk.. he ask if I was ok?? I told him yes.. he ask how I felt about last night?? I told him ok.. he ask if I wanted to be his aid 2 hours a day?? I told him yes.. he told me to go to the medical room and get naked and wait for him.. I did.. I sucked him and he fucked me every school day for the next 2 years.. I knew that day that I was a slut,, his slut!!! I throughly enjoyed his fat cock every day.. I knew my place and wanted to be in my place,, under him!!! He filled my pussy with his dna every day.. I loved it and will never forget that man..

cornholejoe
Apr 24, 2023, 3:27 PM
i first realized i was a slut 10 years ago i had been fucking and sucking but this man i met on a dating site really showed me what a slut i was we met in a bar down from his motel he took me to the bathroom and pulled it out and said kiss the head and i did he then said give me 10 minutes and come up to my room and he left he was 8 inchs and thick and he fucked me 3 times that night and next day i could barely walk but as i was leaving he said i will call you next time i am in town so i would see him 1 or 2 times a month and it was always a all nighter but i wanted it and missed it when we finally parted ways

biguycancun
Apr 28, 2023, 12:46 PM
After one incident when I was 16, I didn't engage in my fantasies until my my late 30's. I was enjoying a brief interlude with a woman who worked in my business. She invited me back to her apartment and did a rather good job of seducing me. I was spread out on her bed and she was sitting astride me with my cock buried inside her. I reached up to fondle her tits, which she encourage by loosening her front closing bra. I stripped it from her shoulders but held onto it, eventually draping it on my face to smell her scent.

When I came she reached for her bra and I held onto it for a moment. She asked, "Would you like to try it on?" and I said yes. One thing led to another and I found myself wearing her panties as well. She could see how hard I had gotten by the tent in her panties. She told me to roll over as she began rubbing my shoulders and then my back and then my ass. In very little time she was finger fucking me and I was moaning with this new found pleasure. Of course this led to a dildo and then to a strap-on and an hour later I had my first real anal orgasm.

Our affair continued for a while and we played back and forth with my feminine side with my going down on her becoming a regular prelude to her dressing me, even to the point of applying makeup on me. One evening she asked if I had the nerve to go to a party with her with my bra (she had started buying me stuff), panties and stockings under my clothes. In one of those "what the fuck" moments I agreed and off we went. Well, it was a hell of a party, more accurately an orgy, and off she went with another woman. As I watched her walking off to a corner I guy tapped me on the shoulder and as I turned to face him, he pulled me into an embrace and kissed me full on the mouth. "Do you want to play?", he asked, and of course I said yes. Off we went to a bedroom. I sank to my knees as he stepped out of his pants and took him in my mouth. He came rather quickly and I swallowed it all, with no difficulty. We went to the bed and he undressed me, with a wry smile as he saw my underwear. He asked, "Do you want to wear your things?" and I said it wasn't necessary. But he made a show of undressing me, caressing my tits, taking me in his mouth as he slid the panties down, and rubbing my legs as he slid the stockings off my legs. Returning to my cock, he continued to fondle my tits until I almost cried, "Fuck me, please fuck me."

He said, "On your hands and knees." and I rolled over and did what he told me to do. Soon his tongue was in my ass, and then his finger, and then his fingers, and then his cock, slowly and gently until he was balls deep inside me. I began rocking back and forth and he matched my movements until he couldn't wait any longer and began thrusting hard and fast and as I felt the head of his cock swelling and then sensed the flow of his cum filling me, I came, leaking my cum onto the bed. Over the next couple of hours we continued fucking until neither of us had anything left. By then I knew this was what I wanted. It was also the last time I actively sought a woman, although over the years there have been several. But I am happiest with a cock up my ass, slut that I am.

hung4you
May 2, 2023, 12:35 PM
Growing up in a very rural area of Northern Minnesota, I learned that visiting both sides of the fence was in my future. I don’t recall the reason I turned Bi, however it is a lifestyle I still enjoy now that I’m in my sixties. I do however remember that I tasted a cock before a tasted a pussy, I knew what a cock felt like in me ass before I poked a pussy. It’s funny how ones childhood memories gets roused up when forced to think about it. When you are young you listen and learn from older ones in your group. For me it was a natural transition into sex.

For me it was perhaps the day my best friend and I were in our fort, yes you people I was 15 yrs old and as a kid we had a FORT IN THE WOODS. We would both steal our daddies hustler and playboy magazines and stock piled those in our fort. I remember looking at those pictures of girls sucking men’s cocks, cum included in the hustler mags and we looked at each other and decided to give it a try. At 15 yrs of age I swallowed my 1st load of cum, that same day I felt what it was like to have a boys mouth on my cock as I cummed.

Piont is there are many experiences that contribute to our sexual awareness. Mine began when I was a teenager and have never looked back with any regret. To this day I have cultivated many a close like minded relationships with othe like minded men, and take note. Even though in my 60’s I get more pussy and cock than most porn stars.

Bi-Rõnin
May 2, 2023, 2:18 PM
I had 2 defining moments that come to mind. 1 was a hookup about a half mile from my house. Doggy style, he pulled out and came all over me. I didn't bother to clean up. Just walked home with his cum running down my back, ass and thighs. Loved every tickling slippery slimey feeling.
2nd was a business trip last year. Trying to hook-up online, 1st guy ghosted me. Had another guy come to my hotel room, he fucked me prone and left the second he was done. Wasn't maybe 15 minutes after when the 1st guy messaged me apologizing and asking if I was still looking. Well. Ibwas still horny and had him come over and fuck me missionary. Honestly, i would have done that all morning if i could have.

Chester1954
May 2, 2023, 2:32 PM
The first time a guy sucked me off was at a video arcade in the old town section of Chicago called the Peeping Tom, I enjoyed it very much. I went back the next week and a guy started to suck me but then he stopped and stuck his cock through the hole. It was much larger than mine I stroked and caressed it then got down and put it in my mouth. It felt good I enjoyed it, I felt the bottom of his cock start to spasm and soon a warm liquid was filling my mouth going down my throat. It was at that point I knew I wanted to be a cock sucker.

Franco
May 3, 2023, 4:21 AM
After I became a complete cuck in my marriage to my hotwife and she had sex almost exclusively with our well-hung bull, I started seeing men on my own.

I had become more and more submissive to them as a couple. She was submissive and responsive to his sexual needs and I was more and more submissive to her sexual desires with her new lover, including preparing both of them for sex and cleaning up after them.

This prompted me to go to a gay sauna. At the beginning, I would just walk around and watch a lot and I was very picky, looking out for big cocks like our bull's. Eventually, I would find someone with a cock I liked and get invited into their private cabin to suck them. It took time, but I would find the big cocks I craved. After two months of going to the sauna 2-3 times a week, I overheard someone describing me as a "real size queen." And it was true.

As time went on, I got bolder and responded to more men who came onto me. I was still picky but I was opening up to invitations and I was sucking more cocks. When I was really picky I would hang out for hours and get one good sized cock. By being less choosy, I was sucking 5 or 6 cocks per visit and at least one of them had the size I craved - either big or fat. As I got less picky, knowing a good fat cock would fill my mouth eventually, I started sucking more cocks, often sucking 10 or 12 men each night. Two or ore would usually have what I really wanted - big balls or a big knob of a cockhead or an extra long cock - but I was sucking a dozen guys to get them!

Soon, I started craving it more and more. I would leave work as soon as possible to spend more time at the sauna. I would skip other activities to go to the sauna. If it wasn't crowded and I had less choices for big cocks, I would be disappointed and took out my frustration by throwing myself into cocksucking. I sucked more men and eventually almost anybody who put a cock in my face. Now, I realized that I was looking for another cock like my wife's bull and that I was slutting myself out doing it.

Before, I would taste some cocks and suck them for a while but not to completion - now I just abandoned myself to cock and cum and after many months, my reputation went from "Franco the size queen" to "Franco the suck slut and sperm pig." I could suck a dozen or more cocks a night and drain half of them. After the first few cocks, I was less and less choosy and only wanted more and more cocks. Up to then, I had been sucking in private cabins but then I was attracted to a dark maze where you could hardly see anything and had to feel for cocks. I would sit on a bench and wait for men to brush by me and I would feel for their cocks and balls. I put a lot of cocks in my mouth - sometimes for only a minute but it was a lot of cocks. Once, when I was on my knees sucking a juicy cock, another man brushed his cock on the back of my neck and I moaned to encourage him and reached around to touch his cock. He moved to face me and now I had two cocks in front of me and I put both of them in my mouth - something few men in the sauna did. Soon it became my specialty and I would suck two at time while the others waited, sometimes masturbating and coming on my head or on my ass. Thursday nights became my night to practice my double cocksucking specialty and boy did I practice!

I knew I had become a cockslut and spermpig.

But the real moment came when I graduated to a room that was partially lit and you could see the men standing and being sucked and others on their knees sucking. If there weren't many men around, I would get behind a man being sucked that I found attractive and fondle his balls while another guy sucked him and if he responded to that, I would lick his balls. A lot of times, the guy would turn around and give me his cock after he finished with the other guy and I would clean off the cum on his cock and get him hard again. Some of the men would spread their legs while I was licking their balls and open their ass cheeks with their hand to give me access to their assholes and I moved up from licking their balls to licking their assholes, giving long loving licks and learning how to tongue their assholes deeply for a complete rimming. Not all of them were clean and I discovered that I enjoy eating a somewhat ripe and smelly ass. I had become a total rimpig. And for a long time, that's all I wanted, to move from licking cocks and balls to licking asses back and forth all night.

One man that I got know and was one of my regulars told me that I was insatiable and would never get enough sperm to satisfy my need but he proposed that "urine is a proxy for sperm" - and did I want to try that. So you want to piss on me, I asked. Yes, he said. Where, I asked. First on your face, then in your mouth, he clarified. We went to the showers and I received my first golden shower there. First, as he had promised, all over my face. It was a strong, fast stream of piss covering my face and as he told me it was coming to an end, I spontaneously opened my mouth to receive part of his stream of piss in my mouth. Several men were watching and I discovered that I enjoyed that. When he finished his piss, I pulled him close and sucked his cock in front of the others in the showers. They were masturbating while they watched us. After he gave me a load of cum in my mouth, the others came closer and I stayed on my knees and took each of them in my mouth in turn. And I asked them if anybody needed to take a piss. Two of them did and I asked them to piss over me while I sucked the others. This was getting more attention from the men entering the showers and one of them with a short but fat cock and big balls wanted to piss on me from behind and asked me to hold my ass open for him and he knelt behind and gave a long steady stream of piss that I could feel hitting my asshole. He asked me to arch my back to lift my hole for a better angle for the piss and I felt intensely excited by the warm piss simulating my asshole. You can guess what happened next.

I sought out men who wanted to piss on me while I sucked others in the showers and especially craved piss over my ass and into my hole.

Now I was a total slut. I went from being a size queen (still am when I can get big cocks) to being a pure cockslut and sperm slut, then a ripe rimpig, and a piss whore. The change was that I didn't care about the men like I had at the beginning, talking to them, getting to know them as if we were on a date. Once I accepted that I was there for sex and sex only - I just wanted cocks, balls, cum, ripe asses, and piss. Their faces were a blur - I often didn't even see them - just felt their cocks or their cum or their piss. I managed to keep this up and attract regulars and fans because I would do what their wives or lovers would not do - and most men at the sauna wouldn't do it either. And I loved being an exhibitionist and being watched in sexual action.

I was trying to make up in quantity what my hotwife was getting in quality from her bull who was hung like a horse. And they fucked and fucked and fucked almost every day or night - and I sucked and sucked and sucked as many men as I could. The difference was that she had fallen in love with him and made love to his big cock while I was totally focused on cock. I had given up on being lovable and decided to become a whore.

SophiasChoice
May 3, 2023, 9:17 AM
I was always a late bloomer. My first time sucking cock was when I was 24. It was all I craved, all I wanted, and I didn't even care if I orgasmed or not, I just wanted to satisfy the guy I was with. My first regular fling was with a guy with an on-and-off girlfriend. He was a big guy with a big cock, and I never said no to anything he wanted. That's when I knew I was a slut.

Plumpkin
May 6, 2023, 10:25 AM
Drunk, and invited 2 guys back to let them do 'first time' anal with me (they were busy all night) in the morning my bum hole was very sore ad I knew I was a slut.

Rest85
May 7, 2023, 2:43 PM
I realized I truly was a slut when I went to the rest area sober on a Sunday afternoon. Prior to that I would only go there after partying. I think I convinced myself that I only went there because I was drinking and didn't find a chick to take home from the bar.

I woke up horny one Sunday and it kept building throughout that day till I decided to cruise through the rest area just to see if there were guys there during the daytime, too There were.

I sucked my first cock while completely sober and found out that the tactile sensations of another man's cock in my hands and mouth were even more enjoyable when I not under the influence...not to mention that the taste of his cum was more enjoyable also.

babyrmd
May 10, 2023, 6:32 AM
Fist time I sucked cock when I was in my early teens and my friend held the back of my head and forced me to swallow his cum, I knew that is what I was meant for...I sucked cocks for about 20 yrs then at 32, I bottomer=d for the first time. I did not think I was a slut either of those times, until the man that tained me to bottom had his friends come over one day about 3 weeks after he had been fucking me 3 to 4 times a week. After Ifinished sucking him, he told me to suck, his buddies, I did but they both fucked me 2 times each also. By that time my buddy was hard again and I rode him until I made him cum. Did it all outside by the pool on a hot day...THAT is when I knew I was a slut

Neonaught
May 11, 2023, 6:55 AM
babyrmd if having such a great time poolside makes you a slut then you are certainly *my* kind of slut!

Jozyxt
May 12, 2023, 11:48 AM
I am not sure the was a moment. I was hooked on cock the moment I took my first one in my mouth. I had had an unacknowledged desire since even before puberty. And acknowledged but unfulfilled since my 20's. It took the third cock to get a man to cum. It was mind blowing and took me a long while to integrate this into my life. Not I can proudly say I am a cum slut and prefr to suck cock rather than get sucked. But do try not to be selfish so I let guys suck me.

tenni
May 12, 2023, 10:47 PM
Never considered myself a slut, I have a healthy sexual appetite, I am discriminating of who I am with, and make sure I satisfy my physical needs as well as the other persons

Well stated Jaz.

The word "slut" carries a lot of shame and negative judgement even though some want it to be seen as positive. Bisexuals don't need condemning other men as slut shameful and trying to make it a good word of pleasure.

Some other posters seem to be trying to make the word slut attaching it to reclaiming the word for some reason unknown to me. Using language that reflects a mental health outlook to see bisexuality influences more than cock suckers and multi partner's pride.

Where are the posts about being a slut for bi women or hetero female sluts?

darkeyes
May 13, 2023, 5:53 AM
Well stated Jaz.

The word "slut" carries a lot of shame and negative judgement even though some want it to be seen as positive. Bisexuals don't need condemning other men as slut shameful and trying to make it a good word of pleasure.

Some other posters seem to be trying to make the word slut attaching it to reclaiming the word for some reason unknown to me. Using language that reflects a mental health outlook to see bisexuality influences more than cock suckers and multi partner's pride.

Where are the posts about being a slut for bi women or hetero female sluts? Lesbian women of course never get referred to as sluts!! Or are ya trying 2 wish us out of existence, tenni, darlin'?��

It isn't something I call ne 1 and mean it. Between friends is one thing for fun.. Demeaning another human being quite another. I did often when younger refer to myself as a slut, but we put away childish things when we grow up.��

KDaddy23
May 13, 2023, 3:23 PM
Methinks it's demeaning when you're not referring to yourself. I bridle to hear guys calling women sluts (and if she is one, it's her business); I grew up having to get used to women calling themselves a slut and them saying that, no, they're not demeaning themselves but they're telling a "truth" about themselves and not uncomfortable telling it. We tend to take being slutty as a "badge of honor" to reflect how much we love sex and the things we'll do having it; being "out there" and willing to do whatever. I very much remember the day when Adult Me realized that Younger Me was... a slut. Hmm, okay, the shoe fit. My first wife is bisexual and often told me how slutty she felt with other women and, of course, like it was the bad thing we all know it to be; I told her that there is zero shame in enjoying the sex she was having with women and to the fullest extent possible and that if she let that word fuck with her head, she'd just be inhibiting herself. I've slept with straight women who were also self-professed sluts and... they weren't lying about how much they loved to have sex and giving it their all. My #1 poly wife was a slut and she loved reminding me that she was one. A woman I had an "affair" with told me that men want a lady in public and a whore/slut in bed and... I winced to hear a woman saying this but, guess what? She was not only right about that, she was 100% a lady in public and 200% a whore/slut in bed and had zero shame telling me that she was and then showing me that she was and it didn't bother her one bit. Then again, she was also a woman who knew how... prudish we can be about having sex and letting it be known how much we really enjoy it.

Being polite, you don't call someone a slut and especially if you don't know them like that or out of anger - period. If they say they're one, then that's how they see themselves and you can ask them not to refer to themselves as such because of your own sensibilities over this word and one that, these days, doesn't really seem to carry the same negativity as it used to.

Long Duck Dong
May 13, 2023, 10:06 PM
I follow the old celtic ways.... and a slut was a term for a woman that cared little for herself and what others thought of her......

My partner calls herself a slut in the bedroom, she loves sex and the different sexual experiences and she has the saying of a slut will sleep with anybody, a bitch will sleep with anybody else other than you.

I tend to agree with dark eyes and Kdaddy, a person that calls themselves a slut is very different to calling another person a slut, specially when its said in an demeaning and offensive way......

Ironically some radical womans rights activists and radical females use the stand that its female empowerment and owning ones sexual desires and interests, when a female has multiple sex partners, yet are still quick to rubbish guys that do the same thing