Questions about Sucking dick.

[dowmass]

I have an offer to suck a nice hung dick.

The guy has an 8 inch cut dick, is married, a traveler from out of town, has a 8 inch cut dick. He says that he takes ?awhile?? to cum, can get hard again soon and come again.

it?s been a long term since I sucked a dick. So I am quite excited but also nervous.

Can you please offer suggestions or advice, about how to approach this? He?s at a nice hotel in Downtown Dallas.

Sorry if this sounds silly, but I had to ask this to be sure about everything.

[kneelsoften]

What a great opportunity. Here are my suggestions:

Practice on a dildo to be able to accommodate comfortably

Don't forget to give his balls a nice tongue bath

Take your time, kiss and lick it, play with it,

Remember that you are there to please. Make his cock the center of your world.

Swallow.

Repeat.

[KDaddy23]

It's kinda like riding the proverbial bike: Once you suck a dick, you never really forget how to do it. Okay, he's big and it's been a while. If it takes him a while to cum, that's your opportunity to refresh yours skills but more than anything else, be confident that you can suck him. Being nervous is normal but don't dwell on this because it'll only make you less confident and more nervous and now is the time to get this out of your system and before meeting him. Go and have fun. Don't overthink it.

[hung4you]

If you really want to make sure you get him off and you get your just reward, try this. after some forplay, licking kissing and rubbing his cock and balls and once you are really into it, try to relax and deep throat if you can and work your throat muscles on the head of his cock. ii swear he will come hard and he will love every minute of it. My regular suck buddy often comes over after fucking his wife and it doesn't take me long to pull a load out of him with this method.

[atxbi]

Once you get your mouth on that cock, just let it happen and before you know it, you should have a mouth full of cum

[Small one]

Take your time make love to his cock the longer you last the more you will enjoy yourself and remember your experience. Also don't forget to rim if he is into it you can make an entire night of it that way. Just my 2 cents.

[cornholejoe]

once you get started he will cum

[licyou69]

Take it nice and slow at the start. Savor the feel of his balls aching for that release and his cock swelling in your mouth. There's no rush. You'll be swallowing his cum soon enough.

[phalluster]

I hope you took the opportunity and will share how it went!

[bambam692]

I'm nervous about sucking dick. How do you overcome that feeling for someone who hasn't done anything like this before?

[fredward]

I'm nervous about sucking dick. How do you overcome that feeling for someone who hasn't done anything like this before?

What are you nervous about? Every one has to start somewhere. We were all newbies once.

If you're worried that the other guy won't like it, just tell him you're new it it and want to go slowly. Ask the guy to tell you what he likes as you do it. Watch those teeth, and don't feel like you have to take more in that you're comfortable with.

But really, don't do it until you feel ready. There's no rush. And if you finally do it, you don't have to do it again if you don't like it. You're not branded with a big CS on your forehead afterwards.

Be prepared for some ambiguous feelings afterwards. For most of us, these feelings (guilt, shame, etc) go away over time as you start to embrace this new side of you.

[atxbi]

Bambam, just go out of your comfort zone, try to ignore the feeling of nervousness, and think to yourself, let’s get this done. When you do finally get that dick in your mouth, the nerves will go away fast, and you will be thinking to yourself, damn, what took me so long.

[Jozyxt]

I'm nervous about sucking dick. How do you overcome that feeling for someone who hasn't done anything like this before?

Let a few guys suck you. You will get the hang of the interaction pretty quickly. Then you'll be ready. Once you do you should come to feel great about it.

[bambam692]

What are you nervous about? Every one has to start somewhere. We were all newbies once.

If you're worried that the other guy won't like it, just tell him you're new it it and want to go slowly. Ask the guy to tell you what he likes as you do it. Watch those teeth, and don't feel like you have to take more in that you're comfortable with.

But really, don't do it until you feel ready. There's no rush. And if you finally do it, you don't have to do it again if you don't like it. You're not branded with a big CS on your forehead afterwards.

Be prepared for some ambiguous feelings afterwards. For most of us, these feelings (guilt, shame, etc) go away over time as you start to embrace this new side of you.


Thank you for your advice, hoping I can try it out soon.

[dowmass]

Update: The guy whose dick I was to suck, is out of town for a few more days.
Meanwhile I have a 40 year old who wants his cock sucked. It’s 6 inches , cut, DDF… mmmm nice.

There's just one catch though. He says that calls for patience. Reason : he says he generally takes sn hour to cum. I thought 15-20-30 minutes is normal, but 60 minutes? Could this be correct? Have you heard of anybody that takes that ling to cum? Well that is a a bit hard. I thought I’d ask and get your opinion.

Thanks in advance!!

[KDaddy23]

I'd say that some guys just got it like that. I can remember taking an hour sucking off a guy... because he jerked off before I arrived so it took him all that time to get over his masturbatory refractionary period and cum again. Nothing to be done about that situation but, yeah, putting in a hour's worth of hard work while trying to remain excited and engaged in what you're doing is a bit of a stretch, in my opinion. A guy tells me this today and I'm probably not going to suck his dick because I don't have that kind of patience.

[KDaddy23]

I'm nervous about sucking dick. How do you overcome that feeling for someone who hasn't done anything like this before?

Being nervous about that first time is normal. Like someone else said, every one of us who sucks dick had a first time, with or without nervousness but, yeah, nervous enough to want to jump out of your skin. My "advice" would be to not dwell on being nervous because I've seen guys do this and... they become even more nervous and wind up talking themselves out of doing something they want to do. I've been doing this since I was nine... and I still get nervous before I'm about to suck a guy, but I've learned to calm myself and that comes with practice and experience. My question to you is what's making you nervous about it? Could be talking about it can help ease your nerves...

[Bidirectional4u]

lucky you, i'm down Stephenville way, kind of a dead zone here. i'd love to have a regular buddy

[dicktrobing]

I have an offer to suck a nice hung dick.

The guy has an 8 inch cut dick, is married, a traveler from out of town, has a 8 inch cut dick. He says that he takes ?awhile?? to cum, can get hard again soon and come again.

it?s been a long term since I sucked a dick. So I am quite excited but also nervous.

Can you please offer suggestions or advice, about how to approach this? He?s at a nice hotel in Downtown Dallas.

Sorry if this sounds silly, but I had to ask this to be sure about everything.

Eat it like you would an elephant .................. one bit at a time :bigrin:

[jjourneyman]

Update: The guy whose dick I was to suck, is out of town for a few more days.
Meanwhile I have a 40 year old who wants his cock sucked. It’s 6 inches , cut, DDF… mmmm nice.

There's just one catch though. He says that calls for patience. Reason : he says he generally takes sn hour to cum. I thought 15-20-30 minutes is normal, but 60 minutes? Could this be correct? Have you heard of anybody that takes that ling to cum? Well that is a a bit hard. I thought I’d ask and get your opinion.

Thanks in advance!!




I used to have a married FWB (whom I met online through Grndr) who would take a long time to cum. He would tell his wife he was going golfing and come over to my place for long head sessions. I would sometimes cum two or three times before he would. I wouldn't ever complain, but my jaw would be sore for hours after he left.

One afternoon, after having finally sucking him to completion, I worked up the nerve to ask him how he stayed hard for so long without cumming? That's when he told me he had been in a bad motorcycle accident when he was younger, had nerve damage in his back and lost some sensation in his groin area, and his wife had given up on trying to satisfy him sexually.

I've also had female lovers who needed a vibrator and my hand in their vagina to cum.

Orgasms happen in the mind. Sometimes it just takes a skilled and willing lover to unlock them. Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

[Rest85]

I have an offer to suck a nice hung dick.

The guy has an 8 inch cut dick, is married, a traveler from out of town, has a 8 inch cut dick. He says that he takes ?awhile?? to cum, can get hard again soon and come again.

it?s been a long term since I sucked a dick. So I am quite excited but also nervous.

Can you please offer suggestions or advice, about how to approach this? He?s at a nice hotel in Downtown Dallas.

Sorry if this sounds silly, but I had to ask this to be sure about everything.


I would let him know of your concerns. When I haven't sucked a cock for awhile I have concerns that my lips will become 'tired' and possibly put me in danger of scraping the guy's cock. If there is something the two of you can agree on to get him off before that happens, talk about it.

I will let a guy know that I enjoy sucking lightly on the tip of his cock while he strokes himself, if he likes to do that. He can get a nice visual of the tip of his cock being pleasured while he jacks off into your mouth....this is just one thought. Some guys are into 'no hands' suck offs, so that may not be an option. Offer to lick his balls while your lips recover if need be. There are options.

Either way....try to be willing to do what helps him get off best. I always offer to be 'subject to' his verbal interests, if he'd like. Some guys are hesitant to be verbally dominant but it might be the trick that helps him cum hard.

Talk about it...see if you can both come up with ideas that best work for his pleasure