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Texian
Dec 4, 2022, 2:51 PM
How many of you experience fetish or kink play with your side friend that your spouse would never consider?

My spouse is vanilla as vanilla can be. Period. Penis goes in vagina. We both cum. Done. We fit together nicely, but that's IT.

My buddy and I, on the other hand, are exploratory and welcoming of each other's secret desires. Every time one of says " I was thinking about....", it happens. No judgment.

And this really is part of the attraction we have for one another.

Anyone else?

KDaddy23
Dec 4, 2022, 4:11 PM
I've felt that a lot of guys find that they can... better express themselves sexually with another guy and they can discover what two guys can do and if they're not afraid to... experiment. I think that some guys (a) find that this is a great outlet for any kinks or fetishes they may have or (b) find that they have some kinks/fetishes that they may not have really known about but one of the hallmarks of having sex with a guy is that you can usually do stuff with a guy that you can't do with a gal.

And if kinks and fetishes are involved, okay. If no one minds, it's not going to matter all that much. It is, "at first," about discovery; what's liked, what can be done, stuff like that and it can be rich and excitingly satisfying to have sex without inhibitions getting in the way or just stepping away from plain old vanilla sex. Having said that, my lady is pretty kinky when she wants to be. I personally don't have any kinks or fetishes.

Rest85
Dec 4, 2022, 10:45 PM
How many of you experience fetish or kink play with your side friend that your spouse would never consider?

My spouse is vanilla as vanilla can be. Period. Penis goes in vagina. We both cum. Done. We fit together nicely, but that's IT.

My buddy and I, on the other hand, are exploratory and welcoming of each other's secret desires. Every time one of says " I was thinking about....", it happens. No judgment.

And this really is part of the attraction we have for one another.

Anyone else?

My female partner would never be dominant with me. I love to be verbally 'demeaned' while sucking cock. And, of course, she can't have me suck her cock because, well....you know.
If she was into having me suck a dildo during sex I'd find that highly erotic, but that ain't gonna happen.

Most all of the kink play that my lady friend can't or won't supply revolves around the fact that she doesn't have a cock and that she doesn't talk dirty in the way I'd like. And she's not the dom type.

And, the truth is that I am more willing to be open with a guy about my kinks. I have not had positive reactions from any of my lady friends about my desires to be dominated. I'm not into masochism but crave being sub and mouthfucked by a sopping wet pussy as well as a stiff cock. I haven't found a woman who enjoys that sort of thing...yet. Dirty talk too....while she's using my tongue.

Jozyxt
Dec 4, 2022, 11:14 PM
How many of you experience fetish or kink play with your side friend that your spouse would never consider?

My spouse is vanilla as vanilla can be. Period. Penis goes in vagina. We both cum. Done. We fit together nicely, but that's IT.

My buddy and I, on the other hand, are exploratory and welcoming of each other's secret desires. Every time one of says " I was thinking about....", it happens. No judgment.

And this really is part of the attraction we have for one another.

Anyone else?

You marital situation is much like mine. I sure wish I could find a male FWB that would be as experimental as your friend is.

Long Duck Dong
Dec 5, 2022, 12:01 AM
I have the reverse situation, lol.... my female partner is intersex ( born with a cock and pussy rather than an enlarged clit ) and she has a higher sex drive than me...... we are also in a closed group of her, myself, another male and two female, everybody is bisexual and we have our own kinks.....


We live in a town of around 30k people that can swell to 60k when the seasonal workers hit town specially in summer, and kinksters / swingers are hard to find in our town...... there are many people that have expressed an interest in casual hook ups, one night stands etc, and get told no..and lol we get told to be more open minded and adventurous.... and our response is we already have our hands full, and mouths and other body parts within our group.......

Also, all of us in the closed group, have been in vanilla relationships, and not just sexually, lol.....vanilla relationship means you do not socialise, go out for dinner and drinks etc....... you work, come home, have dinner, watch tv, go to bed, have vanilla sex......rinse and repeat....and all of us have said NEVER again....

cornholejoe
Dec 5, 2022, 5:36 PM
i just enjoy sex any way i can do it i am on the kinky side so was my late wife i can and have done it a lot of ways just depends on who i am with

Tight1-4u
Dec 5, 2022, 6:43 PM
I have got to say that I am very kinky myself and the fact that I service the guys that I do: well they all have kinks that they like to try out.. I am always open to doing most anything they want to try.. I love sex with my guys.. I guess the kinkiest thing I have done would be having an impromptu gang bang in a rest stop one night.. there were showers there and we were camping a few miles away.. we went to have a shower.. while there met a black truck driver so we went out to one of the tables.. I started sucking him to get him hard.. so he could fuck me.. next thing I know there was a line to fuck me.. all in all they my friends said they counted 20 different guys step up to fuck me.. and most went twice!! It lasted all night long.. I was so full of Cum that I was sick to my stomach.. I leaked cum all the next day and was sore for most of the next week.. the four friends that I was with fucked me every day that next week.. all in all it was a good week

dicktrobing
Dec 9, 2022, 2:33 AM
Wearing rubber, leather. Bondage and restraint, nipple torture, cock n ball torture, sounding needle play. Water sports .............................


:yikes2:

With either male or female partner


:love87:

Is that kinky enough

macbi60
Dec 9, 2022, 7:58 AM
Very Hot Rest85! I'd love to sub slut to a dominant large cock and balls. lots of dirty talk as well... suck my balls, throat that cock, etc.. My wife will try whatever I want, it's just I can tell when it's not doing anything for her. It then becomes a why bother issue. Though when she sucks my nipples and plays with my man boobs, she tells me to go ahead and suck that big cock. This sends me!