(What is) The joy of bottoming

[fredward]

Dear friends,

Man-sex was so easy when it was all about reciprocal BJs and topping, but now I have ED (f*ck you, cancer), and need to shift roles and expectations. So, about bottoming ...

I've only bottomed a couple of times but I want to give it a more serious try now. So far, I've just found it painful and I've had to ask the guy to stop after a minute or two of getting all the way in. (Yes, we used lube and condoms; he wasn't super long but he was pretty thick and hard as a rock. He did manage to cum twice in my ass in two short sessions tho.)

I'm a total newbie at this end (ahem) of things, and have a couple of kinda dumb questions:

(a) What exactly should I be hoping for that is pleasurable? I lost my prostate (f*ck you again, cancer) so that's not a goal for me. Is the non-prostate pleasure mainly mental? I'm not looking to embrace my feminine side and I'm not very submissive by nature, but the idea of allowing myself to be penetrated by someone I trust seems hot. Alas, I can't get past the discomfort when I try it.

(b) What can I do to make it hurt less? I mean I guess I could hit doublelist or squirt and try to find a selection of guys with small (thinner) penises, rank them in a list, and then work my way up, haha. Do people train with dildos and butt plugs? I mean, they must, but what do you do concretely?

Thanks for any hints and advice.

[KDaddy23]

I would say that a lot of it is mental because you have to find the joy in it. The physical part, i.e., yeah, it hurts going in, can be dealt with and usually by getting your mind to allow your body to relax as much as possible and not focusing on the pain of entry, which tends to make you tense up and... ouch. It's okay (I think) that you ask a guy to stop going in so you can adjust - willing yourself to relax and breathe - and now it's all about finding the joy in it and I'd guess minus your prostate now (sorry to hear this but glad you're cancer-free). Certainly thinner goes in easier than thicker but I think that once you learn how to relax and not "anticipating" the pain of entry, you can take any length or thickness in you and provided the guy doing you is being considerate.

I had this same conversation with my protege and this is what I told him about dealing with the pain and asking himself what did he want to get out of being fucked. It took a few times of him being topped before (a) he learned to relax and not be super-worried about it hurting and, as a result, finding the joy in it and especially after he had a guy in him who was quite thick - and he did send me a pic of this guy and his impressive erection. I suggested to him, in those early days, to get a set of butt plugs that vary in size and girth so he could train his butt - and his mind - to get used to something "big" being inside of him and that seemed to help him get past the pain part. He tells me that "It's not something I'd do all of the time!" but he is now very much more open to bottoming because he can ignore the discomfort and has found the joy in it. I'm sure others will have other tips and tricks for you.

I got used to it and found the joy decades ago so taking dicks ain't that big of a deal for me and I just learned to deal with it and most guys were okay with stopping to let me get used to them.

[sweetnuts69]

knowing your tight ass is pleasing a guy and you finding joy in making him cum hopefully a big load of cum +

[cornholejoe]

for me i just like it in the ass always have maybe because my late wife pegged me for a lot of years and really liked it in the butt

[Jazminedress]

As Kdaddy wisely said, some of it is mental............I think it varies from person to person. for me it is more mental pleasure than physical

[tongueteaser]

Yes I believe most is mental satisfaction. I am a bottom and not much experience but I like being submissive. That feeling of doing something naughty for someone to give them pleasure. Being slutty or their bitch . I get real emotional when I suck cock and have a mans stuff in my mouth. I like giving slow passionate head. Then knowing I caused that yummy thing to throb and cum.

[Tight1-4u]

for me I would say that yes there is mental pleasure.. but there is great physical pleasure as well.. I love the anticipation of things as he put me in the position he wants me.. anticipating his cock finding my pussy hole.. is all mental.. when his cock finds my pussy it feels nice knowing he is soon going to be getting inside me.. feeling him start to push feel my pussy start to open to allow him in.. to feel him finally enter me and start going deeper.. feeling him move my internals out of the way to make room for his cock.. to feel him bottom out in me, be in as deep as he can go.. then to feel him stroking in and out fucking me a guy as he would a female.. my pussy being stretched and being stirred up inside and feeling his balls slap agents my ass as he fucks me.. then to hear him grunting and feel him starting to stiffen up.. feel his cock swell up inside me.. feel him pound his cock hard inside me.. then he drives in as hard and deep as he can and exploding inside my pussy,, feel his hot slimy cum deep in me.. feel him thrusting again to drive his cum even deeper inside me.. yes for me there is great mental pleasure but also physical

[wifekinky4husband]

I wish you hadn't gotten sick and had to have an operation sir.

I do not know how that will affect you but I know for myself and my husband, we both have orgasms from anal. Since I do not have a prostate I would assume it would be similar. My husband has multiorgasms from anal and he gets done a lot! Some guys I have heard say they loose that but not my guy. If he is getting f***ed he is orgasming like mad and the guy inside him is cumming inside him. We know our people and it's all bareback. My husband swears it is the only way to go but yes you better trust them. We compare notes and we think his orgasms are like mine until he ejaculates, then if he has dual it is probably the closest to my dual orgasms (DP). My husband is as good at anal as I am and the men in our group say he is as good F as any of we ladies. I know from feeling his body as he is taking it anally, his orgasms are massive. For me it is mental, for him it is physical, but if he ever watched it while it is happening - look out he gets down right wild! We have great Screen placement all about and everyone love holding cameras to show off.

[monaohio]

for me its cause i love feeling same as a woman when a guy makes love and cums in her pussy or asshole and i love being the girly man in bed with another man

[KDaddy23]

One of the things I learned from other guys about bottoming that makes it harrowing is... knowing that they're gonna be fucked like a woman. My protege "complains" to me about feeling girly and bitchy and I try to explain the psychology of this feeling and highly suggest that instead of fretting about it - and because he admits that thinking about this feeling makes him tense - embrace it. To make it work for him and not against him. He's been trying to do this and tells me that the last time he bottomed, he really enjoyed it more than before and now he finds that the bitchy feeling adds to his pleasure.

I congratulated him for being able to find the pleasure in it. I'll note that this guy, in the beginning of me mentoring him, swore on a stack of bibles that he would never bottom.

I think (again) that you have to come terms with yourself as to why you're bottoming and what it means to you and as some of the fellas have already said and then be determined to find the pleasure and enjoy it since it doesn't make one bit of sense to do something that you're not going to enjoy. It's very mental and the trick is to not let "bad" thoughts get in the way of what pleasures your body is feeling and, I'd say, don't expect it to be glorious "right off the bat;" it takes x-amount of time to get used to being screwed and once you do, there won't be too many dicks that you won't be very excited to take inside of you and, of course, the more you bottom, the better: Practice always makes perfect!

[licyou69]

Haven't bottomed but I expect my joy would be the same as what I get from sucking and swallowing, since taking another man's cock and cum in my mouth doesn't directly bring sexual pleasure for me. It's the act of submitting to another man for this pleasure, and feeling him orgasm while inside me that makes me want to do it and ultimately enjoy it.

[BootyBuffet]

knowing your tight ass is pleasing a guy and you finding joy in making him cum hopefully a big load of cum +

Exactly! I love the feeling of a guy sliding his cock in and using my ass to cum. The feeling of him pounding into my ass and making him cum is a mental rush. I am tight too, but feel nothing but pleasure, including with one of our friend's 9 incher! And my hot wife loves to see it too!

[Gregshaw]

I'd say that you should practice with dildos & find out what works for you & what doesn't. If you want to this could be something you do with another guy so you can lay back & get comfortable with it.

But some guys are just not wired to find anal penetration pleasurable. There's only one way to find out, just find someone who you can trust or do it yourself.

For me I didn't like it too much initially although it was never painful. But one day something just kinda clicked & it was like an explosion of pleasure. Just keep trying different things until you can be sure one way or the other.

[sissyjackie]

For me it's mental as well as pleasurable. The mental part is feeling feminine and giving myself up to his desires. I get pleasure from his cock sliding over my prostate and on top of all that I love being submissive to one's desires.

[RisingBi]

I agree with @Gregshaw: first try practising with dildos. I did the same for years actually, since because of what I now know was internalized homophobia, every time I was naked with a guy, I lost all desire for him, as a top or bottom. It was so weird, and for 21 years! In all my fantasies and love of gay porn, I was crazy about fucking male ass and getting fucked by cock, and even fantasized about romantic love with a man. But when I headed to a bathhouse and was there in front of a guy ready to do stuff, I lost all desire for him.

So I ended up trying all kinds of different toys and positions over many years of fantasizing, fucking my ass while imagining it was a real guy. Even though it's nothing like a real man, those rubber cocks really gave me a lot of pleasure--even anal orgasms. For me personally, I found the best was me on top, holding that dildo under me, and sitting my asshole down on top of it, and then bouncing up and down, fucking my ass like wild.

But initially I started slowly, first with just a finger, then two fingers, and eventually with smaller dildos (I tried hard vibrators as well, but I liked the soft rubber instead). Eventually I was able to fuck my ass with thick, 8 inch dildos. I always preferred to use tons of my own saliva as lube, imagining a guy was rimming me. But it's not really the best, because it quickly dries, and you have to generate a lot of saliva repeatedly, so you better be hydrated. But I just found saliva the sexiest.

When I was finally up from using my fingers to a dildo, I would lie on my back, put tons of saliva on my hole and tons of saliva on my dildo, super relax my hole, and begin to slowly insert the tip of the head of the dildo. You just slowly work more and more of it in, always pulling out, relaxing, relaxing, and relaxing, breathing, and inserting again with a fully relaxed sphincter. Because you're doing it yourself, and over many sessions even, and therefore have total control, you can really begin to figure out how to relax your asshole. And you get to know your own sphincters--the voluntary outer one and the involuntary inner one.

Eventually you have the entire dildo-cock deep inside your ass, and the feeling is extraordinary, of course while imagining it's a real man with a real cock. You can pull out halfway, or all the way, and slowly in again, and eventually you're fucking yourself missionary style (I even put a pillow over me to simulate the man's body, have my other hand wrapped around his body, holding him close, and I would be kissing the pillow as if we're passionately French kissing while he's making love to me). When the dildo is deep inside you, you might feel like you need to take a shit, but that's just because your rectum is full of cock, not poop, so don't worry about it. And when you're pulling the dildo out, it may feel like you're dropping a big load, but don't worry about that either. It's just a man pulling his cock out of your butt, lol.

You can try lots of other positions, like doggy using your hand to hold the dildo, or affixing a suction-dildo on a closed door and backing your asshole over top of it and fucking your ass that way, and on top, by holding the dildo again with one hand, or a suction dildo on the floor (but in the bedroom of my current place, I have wooden floor boards that don't allow the suction to hold), and lowering your asshole down on top of the cock dildo. The reason I love this position the best is twofold: first, with you squatting over a dildo or cock, you're in a position with your knees bent and close to your chest (which you can achieve in other positions too), which straightens out the rectum and lessens the chance of a particular muscle (the pubo-rectal sling) in the rectum from getting jabbed by a dildo or cock and producing sharp pain; and, secondly, and more importantly, because I can really work my prostate in this position and I have mindblowing anal orgasms, and out of this world hands-free cock orgasms shooting tons of cum. I of course understand that you don't have this particular source of pleasure at your disposal anymore, @fredward, but I'm just writing that for others who might be reading this. There are all kinds of nerves along the sphincters and in the lower part of the rectum that can give all kinds of pleasure.

Once you get a lot of experience fucking your ass with dildos, and getting really good at knowing your own asshole, then you're ready to offer your most precious hole to another man. Because I'm versatile, I understand what that hole might mean to another man. First of all, it looks incredibly beautiful, at least to me, and I can't get enough of licking and tonguefucking it with a hunger you can't imagine. I feel so close to my lover when I'm eating his ass. Then with every molecule in my body I want to merge with him, become one with him by inserting my cock deep inside him. The feeling is out of this world when I rub my bare cockhead against his asshole opening, teasing it, rubbing it around and around that heavenly doorway. I'm not on PrEP, so I don't fuck bareback yet, but I'm hoping to change that soon. So it takes every ounce of willpower that I have to not plunge my entire bare cock into him. I so desperately want to do that in that moment. But I manage to stop myself, and get a condom on.

But still, even with a covered cock, to have my cock very deep inside another man, and fucking him sensually at first, and finally at a primordial beast level, making love with him, all to his powerful grunts of extreme pleasure, is the most wonderful feeling that you can't imagine. It is the absolutely greatest high for me. The first time I fucked a guy made me connect to the gay side of myself like never before, and I loved my gay side beyond words. It truly changed my life.

Perhaps having this kind of understanding of what's happening for the top will give you a profound appreciation of what you are offering to him in bottoming for him, in giving your beautiful ass to another man. Just keep your mind focussed on the joy that you are bringing him. Physically speaking, I think it's the greatest gift you can give to another person.

In the days when I was fucking myself with my dildos, I didn't bother douching (so poop did *sometimes* appear on my dildos). But I do personally douche when I think I might bottom with the guy who's house I'm heading over to. But the general official consensus is that it's not necessary to douche, especially if you've had a good bowel movement before getting fucked. Poop doesn't normally abide in the rectum, but just in the colon above it: when the colon is full, nerves trigger the brain to start letting poop go into the rectum, and when the rectum is full, nerves tell the brain that it's time to take a shit. So if you've taken a good shit, the rectum should be empty, and it usually is from what I hear anecdotally from gay men.

But if you wish, clean your rectum beforehand. First, keep your diet filled with lots of fibre, and take a good crap sometime in the day beforehand. Don't use the chemical douches, but instead just use a bulb with a thin nozzle, and warm tapwater (no soap, as it harms the sensitive lining of your rectum, which douching with plain tapwater does already a little bit, making you more susceptible to STIs, including HIV!).

Lube up your asshole and the nozzle with water-based lube, insert (try breathing out as you insert it), and squeeze the bulb to push the water into your hole. But don't push the nozzle too deeply into your hole, or squeeze too hard, because the objective is to just clean your rectum (and anal canal) and not get any water into your colon (large intestine). If you do that then you'll be forever trying to clean your hole. With water in your hole, pull out the nozzle, and try to hold the water in for a few moments. You probably should have some towels on the floor, and be right by the toilet when you're doing this. You can even jump up and down to swish the water around in your rectum while holding it. Then plop down on the toilet and "poop" out the water. Sometimes it takes a while for it to all come out. Check the contents of the toilet, and if it's not clean, flush the toilet and repeat.

When you're all done, jump into the shower and get yourself good and clean. Then you're ready to play! Some guys like to wait a while between douching and sex. This way you can be sure all the water?s drained out and allows the lining of your rectum to re-adjust.

And I'm thinking it's probably good to listen to the other advice saying try not to have too many strong expectations with your first time bottoming with a real guy, or maybe even second or third. But I suppose you may just end up finding sex with another man reaching a whole new level for you.

[Neonaught]

I have one very special male partner that is the only guy I bottom with. I had always been exclusively a top, even with him, but after knowing each other ten years he expressed how much he missed fucking so I allowed him to take me. I don't really get much physical pleasure from being fucked, but in my case, the joy of bottoming for me comes from seeing and feeling how much pleasure I am giving him in the act. Feeling his hot kiss as he drives into me and feeling his muscles tense a his orgasm approaches is deeply satisfying for me.

[papasmurph]

Well, @Fredward the loss of your prostate certainly does remove the pleasure of an internal orgasm from his cock stimulating it... I don't know what to offer there. But I can say there is that pleasure sensors at the opening of your anus that feels pretty incredible. Mine are very sensitive, it seems. Not all of us are built that way. Just as some guys will say their nipples are super sensitive. Mine are not.
I've learned and been taught a few things by some tops. One thing is to relax. We tend to tense up when we feel his cock pushing at our back door. The other thing that seems to work is this. Take a DEEP breath as he places his cockhead there, and as he pushed to enter; you exhale. I don't know what physical thing happens but for some reason it works. It allows you to open up. Of course, lube is important. The kind of lube is also important. I like coconut oil, personally. I also have a friend who tells me he believes that his backdoor track produces it's own lubricant. But I can' t go dry. There are differences in men and their tools and how they use them. Some guys just seem to have it all. Others do not. We're all different in what we like, too.

[DD788Snipe]

Well, @Fredward the loss of your prostate certainly does remove the pleasure of an internal orgasm from his cock stimulating it... I don't know what to offer there. But I can say there is that pleasure sensors at the opening of your anus that feels pretty incredible. Mine are very sensitive, it seems. Not all of us are built that way. Just as some guys will say their nipples are super sensitive. Mine are not.
I've learned and been taught a few things by some tops. One thing is to relax. We tend to tense up when we feel his cock pushing at our back door. The other thing that seems to work is this. Take a DEEP breath as he places his cockhead there, and as he pushed to enter; you exhale. I don't know what physical thing happens but for some reason it works. It allows you to open up. Of course, lube is important. The kind of lube is also important. I like coconut oil, personally. I also have a friend who tells me he believes that his backdoor track produces it's own lubricant. But I can' t go dry. There are differences in men and their tools and how they use them. Some guys just seem to have it all. Others do not. We're all different in what we like, too. Fred ward to add to my good friends advice as you feel your tops cock start to push into you push back like you taking a taking a poop. It opens you up and relaxes your spinter and will make his entry easier and you'll have a better experience. Just go slow at first. You have to stretch to accommodate his cock. Practice it with dildos. You've been thru a lot the past couple of years. I hope you find pleasure in your life my friend

[mtnmen2]

The joy of bottoming is a large part mental. I use to be mainly a top but as of here lately I've started to get more submissive. I have gotten into chastity which has put me in a submissive mindset then that further carried me into panty wearing and now into cross dressing. I love the feeling of having someone else in control. When I play now I'm almost always locked in chastity and wearing panties. This helps me feel really slutty and able to let my inhibitions down. When I'm bottoming I always try to get into the mindset to be the girl. I like when my partner is into foreplay and there is a lot of rubbing and caressing and kissing. I usually enjoy it more when I'm missionary or cowgirl with my partner so I can see his face and connect better with them than when we are doing it doggy and he is taking me to pound town. The orgasmic feelings of when you start to have an sissygasm is amazing you never realize that you could have an orgasm better than through penetrative sex until you experience it for the first time. To ease the pain I would just first recommend that you relax maybe a drink or two if your nervous. Always use plenty of lube!!! Being in a submissive mindset really helps a lot. You could also earlier that day use a dildo to help loosen you up and give you confidence that you can easily take his cock. Plus the dildo will help clean you out as you play with it. Hope this helps you.

[hung4you]

Having a top who also knows how to please me, I have had some who fucks me like a cheap whore, nothing good about that. My regular takes his time and makes us both feel good. Having a regular private friend is so fucking awesome. Let’s just say that when he cum in me the look in his eyes tells the whole story.

[KDaddy23]

One of the joys of it is knowing that you're man enough to do something that can turn the toughest guy into a big-assed chicken. There's joy in not fearing having a man inside of you and knowing that he's going to cum inside you and it can be so... erotic. Deliciously nasty, as I like to say. Being able to answer the question a lot of guys ask women: What does it feel like to be fucks and why does it feel good to you? You bottom... and you find the answer. The joy of finding your sexual self. Maybe even thumbing your nose at the taboo.

[fredward]

One of the joys of it is knowing that you're man enough to do something that can turn the toughest guy into a big-assed chicken. There's joy in not fearing having a man inside of you and knowing that he's going to cum inside you and it can be so... erotic. Deliciously nasty, as I like to say. Being able to answer the question a lot of guys ask women: What does it feel like to be fucks and why does it feel good to you? You bottom... and you find the answer. The joy of finding your sexual self. Maybe even thumbing your nose at the taboo.

I think this perfectly encapsulates what I was looking for, I just didn't know it. Yes, I want this. I just want it not to hurt like a bugger (literally, LOL).

OK so I need to find a patient guy with a (smaller) dick, I guess.

[Warmnsalty]

As others have said, the mental part for me is the greatest pleasure. I love being submissive with guys. I love the anticipation as I'm sucking his cock, knowing that when he's ready he will tell me to get in position. I love the initial resistance as his head enters me. If the guy is hung, the slow entry... just helps with the building desire. I love pushing back on him and getting the first full stroke. I like to push back and wait. LOVE when a top will go balls deep and hold it there, letting me enjoy the full feeling. Then I'll drop my head, arch my back and tell him to use me. Have had some tops that just love to pound, others that like to take long slow strokes building up to the climax, either if fine by me. As I'm being used I love to beg for their load, tall them how I want them to pull out and feed me. Most will, LOVE when a guy pulls out and finishes in my mouth. Much rather swallow a load then feel it run down my leg. That being said, there is a rush when a guy thrusts, balls deep and pulses his seed into my hungy ass. ahh.... the pleasures of bottoming :)

[dowmass]

As others have said, the mental part for me is the greatest pleasure. I love being submissive with guys. I love the anticipation as I'm sucking his cock, knowing that when he's ready he will tell me to get in position. I love the initial resistance as his head enters me. If the guy is hung, the slow entry... just helps with the building desire. I love pushing back on him and getting the first full stroke. I like to push back and wait. LOVE when a top will go balls deep and hold it there, letting me enjoy the full feeling. Then I'll drop my head, arch my back and tell him to use me. Have had some tops that just love to pound, others that like to take long slow strokes building up to the climax, either if fine by me. As I'm being used I love to beg for their load, tall them how I want them to pull out and feed me. Most will, LOVE when a guy pulls out and finishes in my mouth. Much rather swallow a load then feel it run down my leg. That being said, there is a rush when a guy thrusts, balls deep and pulses his seed into my hungy ass. ahh.... the pleasures of bottoming :)


Great reply. Have a question (not judging you or anyone).. Is it safe to take the cock out of a man-pussy and suck it?
Any precautions to follow?

[dicktrobing]

Dear friends,

Man-sex was so easy when it was all about reciprocal BJs and topping, but now I have ED (f*ck you, cancer), and need to shift roles and expectations. So, about bottoming ...

I've only bottomed a couple of times but I want to give it a more serious try now. So far, I've just found it painful and I've had to ask the guy to stop after a minute or two of getting all the way in. (Yes, we used lube and condoms; he wasn't super long but he was pretty thick and hard as a rock. He did manage to cum twice in my ass in two short sessions tho.)

I'm a total newbie at this end (ahem) of things, and have a couple of kinda dumb questions:

(a) What exactly should I be hoping for that is pleasurable? I lost my prostate (f*ck you again, cancer) so that's not a goal for me. Is the non-prostate pleasure mainly mental? I'm not looking to embrace my feminine side and I'm not very submissive by nature, but the idea of allowing myself to be penetrated by someone I trust seems hot. Alas, I can't get past the discomfort when I try it.

(b) What can I do to make it hurt less? I mean I guess I could hit doublelist or squirt and try to find a selection of guys with small (thinner) penises, rank them in a list, and then work my way up, haha. Do people train with dildos and butt plugs? I mean, they must, but what do you do concretely?

Thanks for any hints and advice.

What can you get from bottoming, it depends on what you want from guy on guy sex, if its the being with another man and the intermate company then you will enjoy the bottom role.

Training your annus is more about relaxing and position than forcing objects in, the key to anal is
Relax
Lube, use a lube designed for anal
Position
Lube
Take time and gently goes it

Foreplay with fingers and toys can help and don't forget Lube

[papasmurph]

As others have said, the mental part for me is the greatest pleasure. I love being submissive with guys. I love the anticipation as I'm sucking his cock, knowing that when he's ready he will tell me to get in position. I love the initial resistance as his head enters me. If the guy is hung, the slow entry... just helps with the building desire. I love pushing back on him and getting the first full stroke. I like to push back and wait. LOVE when a top will go balls deep and hold it there, letting me enjoy the full feeling. Then I'll drop my head, arch my back and tell him to use me. Have had some tops that just love to pound, others that like to take long slow strokes building up to the climax, either if fine by me. As I'm being used I love to beg for their load, tall them how I want them to pull out and feed me. Most will, LOVE when a guy pulls out and finishes in my mouth. Much rather swallow a load then feel it run down my leg. That being said, there is a rush when a guy thrusts, balls deep and pulses his seed into my hungy ass. ahh.... the pleasures of bottoming :)

THIS... a thousand times THIS.

[Grant_Norman]

For me, also ED, regular oral bottom is great. Once you develop a taste for cum, each load in the mouth is wonderful. Happy to suck and swallow every day.
Grant

[hung4you]

Last night from out of left field I received a text from a long time private friend, he is married but he too is in a sexless marriage . I replied back, I’m not far from you , do I come to you or you to me. He replied fucking eh you are kidding me, nope I’m only a couple of miles from your house, he sent me a cock pic and said please come over and take care of this for me. Wife is on the East coast so we can make as much noise as we can hotels limits the good moans. Bring your things you can stay here. I packed up and left the hotel and headed for his place in northern IL, I walked in and he was already ready naked stroking his cock as I approached him he guided my hand to his ass to feel the butt plug he was wearing, his cock was dripping with precum he looked at me with his Edgar eyes and said suck me now, I reached around to work his butt plug, swallowing his entire 8 inches as he groaned and grunted as he shot his huge 5 day load down my throat. He then turned around showing me his ass, he was pretty lubed up and wanted me to fuck him. Still in the entry way I shoved my cock deep into his ass, he screamed fuck me like a whore . After slowly making our way into the living room I busted a nut. Filling his tight ass he was breathing hard and all of a sudden became super relaxed. Fuck I needed that, I finished getting undressed and we showered, he has a hot tub out back behind a privacy fence. Soaking in the tub he smiled and said you know we have all night, have you been fucked lately. ? I reached down under the water to feel his cock and it was hard again. He stood up letting me taste his cock. We got out and headed to his den where he has a smaller bed, I laid on my back as he guided his meaty muscle into my ass. As he slowly lifted my legs up high and he thrusting his cock deep into me the pleasure on his face said everything. When he came I felt his cock throbbing and pulsating, him groaning saying oh fuck does that feel good. Just then I cummed hard with him just working my cum soaked ass, my chest was covered in my own cum and his was leaking from me. We played into the wee hours of the morning, I will staying here again tonight.

[Neonaught]

Great reply. Have a question (not judging you or anyone).. Is it safe to take the cock out of a man-pussy and suck it?
Any precautions to follow?

I know people do ass to mouth but I would NOT recommend the practice. No matter how carefully you clean out prior to anal sex there is still a significant amount of colonic bacteria present that can cause you GI problems. Ass to mouth also puts you at risk for hepatitis. If you must eat your top's load, just have him cum in your open mouth while avoiding actually sucking his soiled cock.

[Jozyxt]

You guys make me want to try bottoming.

[KDaddy23]

@Jozyxt, sure - why not? You really do have to learn the joy of it and there's only one way to do that. I knew a lot of guys who were 100% sure that they wouldn't like it - and my current protege is one of them and... he bottoms. He tries to convince me that he didn't like it all that much but, yeah, I know he does, and I've called him out on it many times. Even he came to understand that the only way you're going to know if it's likeable or not is to, well, spread those cheeks and find out what there is to like about it. He's not a fan of the entry all that much - and that's because he tends to pick guys with long and really fat dicks - but he admits that it feels good to be fucked and he really likes feeling the dick pumping cum into him as well as having his prostate stimulated.

Who knows - you just might find the joy in bottoming. It doesn't mean that you have to be a bottom - there is a difference between the two. But, sure, if you really wanna try it, try it.

[RisingBi]

@Warmnsalty & @hung4you: Damn, you're both good! Excellent descriptions, so HOT that I can't wait to finally give myself to another man. I guess my difficulty is I don't want to give my bottom virginity to just anyone, but a special guy, and I haven't met him yet. Maybe I need to lower my standards. I just want a connection with the guy that is more than just the serial hookup scene that is the "dating" websites and apps.

I JUST HAVE A QUESTION TO EVERYONE: with all this bareback fucking and anal breeding (which don't get me wrong, I absolutely would love), and from the hookup sites and apps it looks like that's almost what everyone does nowadays, are you all on PrEP? And what about monkeypox?

[Neonaught]

@Warmnsalty & @hung4you: Damn, you're both good! Excellent descriptions, so HOT that I can't wait to finally give myself to another man. I guess my difficulty is I don't want to give my bottom virginity to just anyone, but a special guy, and I haven't met him yet. Maybe I need to lower my standards. I just want a connection with the guy that is more than just the serial hookup scene that is the "dating" websites and apps.

I JUST HAVE A QUESTION TO EVERYONE: with all this bareback fucking and anal breeding (which don't get me wrong, I absolutely would love), and from the hookup sites and apps it looks like that's almost what everyone does nowadays, are you all on PrEP? And what about monkeypox?

Being a medial professional I have seen almost every sexually transmitted disease out there except for Monkey Pox. I'd recommend getting vaccinated if you are concerned but it might just be easier to reject anyone who has sores on his body once you get him naked and see them.

I'm in the camp that prefers to eat cum and fuck bare, mostly because I have never found a condom that fits and is easy to put on due to my larger cock head. I vet my partners carefully and I test every three months and I have never had a problem.

[69luvr]

it feels great!

[dowmass]

Being a medial professional I have seen almost every sexually transmitted disease out there except for Monkey Pox. I'd recommend getting vaccinated if you are concerned but it might just be easier to reject anyone who has sores on his body once you get him naked and see them.

I'm in the camp that prefers to eat cum and fuck bare, mostly because I have never found a condom that fits and is easy to put on due to my larger cock head. I vet my partners carefully and I test every three months and I have never had a problem.

Just curious: if one is on PreP, do they still need to get tested at regular intervals?
These days more people are ok with BB as they are on PreP.

[KDaddy23]

Dowmass, the answer is yes. Always yes. Better to err on the side of caution and to be safe than sorry. My protege, who is on PrEP, talks about a lot of guys thinking and/or acting like the medication is a magic bullet that'll be proof against all STDs even though it's been made clear that it only works to reduce the risk of catching the HIV viruses. So, you bet anything you want to that getting tested remains the smartest thing to do.

[Neonaught]

Just curious: if one is on PreP, do they still need to get tested at regular intervals?
These days more people are ok with BB as they are on PreP.

Yes. One of the requirements before and during use of Prep require regular testing. My playmates who are on it confirmed this for me.