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Itsmejj
Oct 27, 2022, 8:57 AM
So I am curious on how many of you had had fun on a business trip away for a night. I am heading away for a long weekend for work to St.Louis and was wondering if I would have a higher chance possible meeting someone in hotel bar or a local establishment. So looking for advice. I am very new to this but am very curious to possibly get some interaction.
Warmnsalty
Oct 27, 2022, 10:03 AM
I used to travel a good bit for work and loved hooking up out of town. Back when craigslist was active it was the perfect place to post an ad. Doublelist is it's "replacement" but have found it hit or miss in my area. I've never had any luck just randomly picking a guy up in a bar. I've found it best to try and find someone before you get to town. Give doublelist a try, post an add guy in town can host in hotel. There are a lot of bi guys who can't host. Are you on Adam4Adam? or grindr ... both are good alternatives. Good luck and have fun.
BiGuyinMA
Oct 27, 2022, 11:40 AM
+1 on what Warmnsalty said... I personally have had some good luck with Doublelist. Post your add before you head out, be specific about what you are looking for and be prepared to weed out the flakes.
I would just add that ahead of a business trip I start posting about a week ahead then put up another post every other day to keep you add on the front page. Posting ahead also gives prospective hook-ups the time to lay their own 'ground work' for and possible meet.
Good luck and let us know how you make out...
Lucky 61
Oct 27, 2022, 11:50 AM
You might want to check out the Sniffies app. The free version lets you chat and connect with anyone on line at the time
Fredrock4fun
Oct 27, 2022, 11:52 AM
Wish I could meet you while in STL! Unfortunately I’ll be gone on business myself.
I agree with the other suggestions though. Search DL, Grindr or any other that you fancy.
mtnmen2
Oct 27, 2022, 11:59 AM
I try and play whenever I'm out of town. Had some pretty good hook ups. Doublelist works good for me but only when I place the ad never had any luck responding to an ad.
Happy Tongue
Oct 27, 2022, 12:49 PM
An out of town business trip a few years ago was where I started exercising my bi bone! Met a nice guy by chance at a theater and enjoyed the encounter and my hotel time. And then followed up discreetly on a regular basis ever since. I found Silver Daddies a few years ago. For your purpose they even have a travelers" section there so you can post your visit.
Have fun!
csreef
Oct 27, 2022, 1:56 PM
The few times I have stayed at a Hotel I did go down to the bar, but nothing. Also, after driving for7 hours, I was justa little tired.
Jozyxt
Oct 27, 2022, 9:23 PM
I met a man on the silver daddies traveling section who periodically comes to a hotel near me. We both agreed to what we wanted before the fisrt meeting. He want me to sit on his face and I want to cum in his mouth. It?s a great arrangement.
When I visited nyc this year. One of the two guys i met there was from SD too. He was a younger gay man that likes sucking older married guys who would question is masculinity. I tried but am not too good at that. He asked me to come unshowered but I was on my way to a show so I couldn?t oblige him.
The guy in nyc who came to my room was from DL. A really hot looking guy but was super nervous and wouldn?t let me touch him.
hung4you
Oct 28, 2022, 4:14 AM
I travel frequently for work, needless to say there are some lonely times and some fun times. Thankfully I travel to well known destinations and over the yrs have been able to cultivate some fantastic friendships. There is some piece of mind getting to a familiar location and being able to send a text or a phone call to a trusted like minded friend who enjoys the same evening entertainment that you seek.
Tight1-4u
Oct 29, 2022, 3:21 AM
I have related this before but it is relevant here: when traveling on business one way I have found that has worked rather well for me is.. now this sounds kinda odd but hear me out.. I call it sending the message.. when I arrive at my hotel I if not already wearing very sheer lacy silk thong or g string panties put them on.. then a loose fitting pair of shorts or sweats.. then a shorter t shirt.. the shorts or sweats fit so they ride quite low on my hips.. so that when I sit at the bar my panties are revealed.. I walk in look around to show that I am not familiar with the place.. go to the bar usually find a stool with no back or sit at a corner closest to the center so I can be seen by the most people.. my shorts are low my shirt is high and my panties are on display.. sending the message.. I try to find a seat that has at least one empty seat next to me.. someone interested will come sit next to me and strike up a conversation about my panties.. if I am not interested in him I tell him it was a golf bet I lost with my buddy and I always pay my bets.. other wise my panties got me a night of fun..
Jozyxt
Oct 29, 2022, 9:48 AM
Tight1-4u, I'll keep an eye out for you next time I travel solo.
Tight1-4u
Oct 29, 2022, 11:18 PM
Tight1-4u, I'll keep an eye out for you next time I travel solo.
Keep an eye on the bar and look for my panties!!!
wifekinky4husband
Oct 30, 2022, 2:08 AM
Does anyone know of anyway to find bi couples when traveling? It'd be great to meet new people of like mind. We travel all over GA and North FLA.
fredward
Oct 30, 2022, 2:54 PM
Does anyone know of anyway to find bi couples when traveling? It'd be great to meet new people of like mind. We travel all over GA and North FLA.
Swinger websites are your best bet. Most women there identify as bi-something and increasingly many men are also identifying as bi-something too (tho in many few numbers still). I think you're less likely to find bi-only websites tho.
We used a swinger website that's only local to our area, so that won't help you, but there are other sites that are more international such as swingingheaven or fet life (lots of non fetish people on fet life).
papasmurph
Nov 2, 2022, 12:05 PM
Hotel hook-ups are intriguing.
I have seen ads in Double List and "hosting" posts on Sniffies
I've never followed through - never gotten responses. Maybe it's my age - a businessman may be hoping for some fun with a younger guy.
After reading posts on this topic, I have thought about going to a local hotel bar for a drink and scoping it out. It might be fun to just see what happens.