My first sub

[Jazminedress]

To be honest, I wasn't really looking for that tonight, I was feling frisky and was just thinking about a quickie and done. Two guys flaked on me. I think it was simply new to this and nerves. I mean meeting a guy is stressful enough, meeting one in a dress, I am guessing even weirder to wrap your head around

So, ended up with a sub, I figured be good for shits and grins. Honestly, it isnt for me. I mean it was cool being able to tell him what to do and where I like things.................but, when I am with a guy i like them to take charge, not in a dom /sub way. but like a man

This just felt weird to me, I dont think I could do it in role reversal either..............but hey, I tried something new, didn't like it, back to the girlfriend experience type of thing

[Rest85]

Yes, it is best to experiment to find what you like best, and if you have a partner that fits comfortably to your interests, then great, intense orgasms follow.

Speaking for myself, I love being the sub cocksucker, but I'm a bit of an odd mix. I don't like the sub role in order to be told what to do. I much prefer to have a cock presented to me and to be allowed to pleasure it orally the way I like. I feel like I can make a dom man happy with the way I fondle and suck it, spellbound in my role of cock worshipper. While it's nice and a good variation to be controlled and mouthfucked, being expected to follow orders, etc., I like being sub for the most part, in the sense of knowing that I am expected to pleasure him with no recip, but also to be allowed to pleasure his cock at my own pace.

Also, I love to be talked dirty to while I am in that lusty cock fog. Call me names, tell me you can see that I love sucking a hard dick...that you know I want your cum shot in my mouth...etc. etc. While I suck it you can talk freely about fucking my gf or having her over to be gangbanged by you and your friends. Most all dirty verbal talked aimed at making me understand that I am sub for your superior cock is what makes me very aroused. Verbal domination is incredibly exciting, to me!

Many years ago I loved to be sub for guys, then I could turn right around and take on the role of dom while he sucked me off. Now, after having had prostate surgery that left me with some incontinence and ED, I have gladly taken on the role of no recip sub and I relish it.

Id like to hear other's take on the dom/sub subject, or if you like to be involved in a more equal footing with guys. It's all interesting to me. We all know what we like. The key is in finding a good match to help us have our best pleasures and orgasms.

[Jazminedress]

see, I cant do the name callling either, he wanted that, but, I wasnt comfortable with it

[NJwood]

On another couple of sites I’ve had guys approach me to be their dom and it just doesn’t work. I’m uncomfortable with the whole power play and name calling/humiliation thing. I’m all about being on an equal footing with whomever I’m with and would actually prefer to bottom but not sub.

[csreef]

Yes, Mistress Jazmine. No, Mistress. Thank you, Miss. . . More. . . Please. I'll try to be better next time, please more!

[cornholejoe]

i have done it both ways but since i got older like being the sub better

[KDaddy23]

I've been with a few subs in my life and it's been interesting in that they had wanted to be commanded and all that and I'm like, "Dude, let's just be dudes and do this like dudes!" My first "sub" was the cousin I had sex with but not without him wanting to play, "Master and Slave" and me ordering him to do whatever or him "begging" me not to make him do this or that... and it drove me batshit crazy. I kinda/sorta understand submissive guys and it is what it is. For me, it's not about "taking charge" or whatever - we're here, we're naked, let's just do what we came here to do. My mind just doesn't work in that dom/sub way but, yeah, I do try to be accommodating even if it rubs me the wrong way.

[bikeracer13]

same here, dont like being a dom, let's just pleasure each other

[Jozyxt]

see, I cant do the name callling either, he wanted that, but, I wasnt comfortable with it

I have tried to work with guys that like to be called names. I'll easily call a guy cocksucker or "boy" for the types that want an older daddy. I called a one openly gay guy a faggot after he had requested to be put in his place and had called himself that. He wanted more.
But my mind just doesn't run much further along those lines. And I am a polite friendly guy that wants to treat people like equals.

I have had a black and a Chinese cocksucker that each prompted me to use racial epithets by each repeatedly saying how much they loved serving white cock. No way I'll go there. That kind of stuff degrades speaker even if it is wanted.

I also have a hard time with subs that want to be told what to do. My response Is a true sub doesn't need to be told but will seek out ways to please me without being told to. That always drives the needy subs away.

Overall I want a partner to explore with.

[Tight1-4u]

me I love being sub!!! I love being manhandled.. pushed into positions.. dirty talk.. spanked.. him being in charge and taking control.. taking what he wants ( sexually)!! Fallowing his lead.. giving him what and how he wants.. I am sub make me moan!!

[Jazminedress]

me I love being sub!!! I love being manhandled.. pushed into positions.. dirty talk.. spanked.. him being in charge and taking control.. taking what he wants ( sexually)!! Fallowing his lead.. giving him what and how he wants.. I am sub make me moan!!

You know, if it makes you happy, then do what works, I just couldn't get into it. I like the dim light being grabbed, long deep kiss, hands running up and down me, layed on the bed lips on my neck working down kind of thing

[Jozyxt]

me I love being sub!!! I love being manhandled.. pushed into positions.. dirty talk.. spanked.. him being in charge and taking control.. taking what he wants ( sexually)!! Fallowing his lead.. giving him what and how he wants.. I am sub make me moan!!


There are times I feel like being dominating and demanding with a sub like you would be fun. I can really see how it would be if it were consensual and explicitly arranged. But when it comes to doing it, the actions bring up uncomfortable things from my past. And that just takes all the interest away.

The few subs that have said they want a dom back off when I am not immediately aggressive enough. Apparently telling the to talk to me about how to dominate them is not the domination they want. Whereas, I think demanding someone to reveal inner secrets and plead for them is very dominating.

[Mmpmm]

I'm not interested in the whole yes mistress or master I will obey you. I will be at your service any time. No I have a life outside of sex. While I would like to experience some lite domination i.e. handcuffs, spanking, verbal humiliation type thing, I'm still an adult and you need to understand this is about a fun role play. In my normal life I'm a dominant personality and have to be a hardass but that's not my real personality.

[Mmpmm]

So confusing who am i? Lol:tongue:

[Tight1-4u]

There are times I feel like being dominating and demanding with a sub like you would be fun. I can really see how it would be if it were consensual and explicitly arranged. But when it comes to doing it, the actions bring up uncomfortable things from my past. And that just takes all the interest away.

The few subs that have said they want a dom back off when I am not immediately aggressive enough. Apparently telling the to talk to me about how to dominate them is not the domination they want. Whereas, I think demanding someone to reveal inner secrets and plead for them is very dominating.

My idea of being sub is to submit my self to your pleasure.. I truly believe it is my place as sub to give you what ever you want as long as it dose not cross the lines I have.. but that being said pretty much anything goes.. as long as it is not harmful to either and there is not blood scat or kiss involved.. just be in charge be in control and take what you want ( sexually )!!! Put me in what position you want and go for it.. I love feeling you inside me.. I love knowing you are getting what you want and how you want it.. I love hearing you grunt and moan as you fuck me.. I love you making me moan loudly!!! I love knowing that I an other guy has given you all that you needed to blow your seed deep inside of my pussy

[Tight1-4u]

I'm not interested in the whole yes mistress or master I will obey you. I will be at your service any time. No I have a life outside of sex. While I would like to experience some lite domination i.e. handcuffs, spanking, verbal humiliation type thing, I'm still an adult and you need to understand this is about a fun role play. In my normal life I'm a dominant personality and have to be a hardass but that's not my real personality.

I totally understand and agree.. in real life I am very much alpha and on top of everything around me.. and when having sex with men love giving over that dominance to my partner.. I love being manhandled and put into positions that he wants.. I love when they take charge and control.. I love when they take (sexually ) what they want and need.. I love being able to relax and just go with the flow and provide to and for then what they want and need to get off deep in my pussy.. where as the bulk of the guys I service are sexually frustrated married men..