View Full Version : What would you rate as most important ?.......
Modude
Sep 11, 2022, 10:33 AM
In a new sexual partner ? For myself this would be the order;
1. Hygiene
2. Personality
3. Body Type
These would be the main three ( for me anyway ) but it could be switched around some depending on the circumstances of when you meet. Maybe they have a great personality and your preffered body type but have been working and not had a chance to shower.
Just interested in what everyone thinks......
Texian
Sep 11, 2022, 12:34 PM
Hygiene, then personality. Body type is overrated in my opinion...to a point.
GayGuy04
Sep 11, 2022, 1:55 PM
Nice personality
Hygiene
Knows what to do to pleasure someone
KDaddy23
Sep 11, 2022, 2:16 PM
Hygiene, then personality and body type is overrated...
tongueteaser
Sep 11, 2022, 2:38 PM
I say hygiene and then body type and then personality. I would get turned off by smell. I am strictly a bottom type that likes giving passionate head and I dont like hair so I am turned off by unkempt or wiry hair. I like smooth bare flesh. Then I dont like a cocky guy or abusive type. I dont mind a guy commenting about how nice I suck dick but not calling me a whore and stuff.
Jazminedress
Sep 11, 2022, 2:45 PM
Hygenie
Personality
where they rate on the douchebag scale
how hairy they are
body type, you know, I am not overly concerned about looks, I mean lets be real, some people do get to the poin that they are disgusting and that would be a no, but overall, for the majority, looks are not a deal breaker.
cornholejoe
Sep 11, 2022, 7:55 PM
Hygenie and not be asshole want to be able to carry on a conversation
Long Duck Dong
Sep 11, 2022, 9:26 PM
hygiene, personality and what they want.....cos I do not do hook ups or casual sex, so I would be wanting a long term FwB and by hygiene I mean shower once a day, and shower before sex, cos I do the same.....
With relationships, its always been personality, hygiene and conversation......
Jozyxt
Sep 11, 2022, 9:33 PM
Hygiene is a must
Personality that will respond and act like an adult is prefered.
Body type, not important to the point that I can't get to his cock if I am sucking him. If I am just feeding, then who cares.
Modude
Sep 11, 2022, 10:09 PM
Refreshing to see that body type for the most part isn't a big deal, having been in the lifestyle ( where hygiene would still be no.1 , but body type would be a BIG no. 2 ), where nearly every profile has a requirement that potential playmates be HWP....it's good to see personality rate so highly here. For me, hygiene and personality can easily beat out body type, we had dinner once with a potential playmate couple, and the woman was a fairly large girl ( I'd guess at least a 100 lbs. heavier than I am ) but she had an incredibly warm, bubbly personality and had beautiful hair, skin, makeup, manicure, clothes.... total package....and I found her extremely sexy and desirable.
Unfortunately for me, although my wife thought her husband was a nice guy and attractive enough....she said he just didn't do anything for her on the personality level....she thought he was kind of ho-hum....so I never got to play with his wife, damn I wish I had !!!!!....
Warmnsalty
Sep 12, 2022, 7:25 AM
1. Hygiene - DDF
2. body type
I'm not looking for a relationship, just looking for cocks and cum so personality doesn't matter. If things click, and he wants service regularly personality will come into play but if it's just a one off hook up I don't care, I just want cum.
KDaddy23
Sep 12, 2022, 4:06 PM
Refreshing to see that body type for the most part isn't a big deal, having been in the lifestyle ( where hygiene would still be no.1 , but body type would be a BIG no. 2 ), where nearly every profile has a requirement that potential playmates be HWP....it's good to see personality rate so highly here. For me, hygiene and personality can easily beat out body type, we had dinner once with a potential playmate couple, and the woman was a fairly large girl ( I'd guess at least a 100 lbs. heavier than I am ) but she had an incredibly warm, bubbly personality and had beautiful hair, skin, makeup, manicure, clothes.... total package....and I found her extremely sexy and desirable.
Unfortunately for me, although my wife thought her husband was a nice guy and attractive enough....she said he just didn't do anything for her on the personality level....she thought he was kind of ho-hum....so I never got to play with his wife, damn I wish I had !!!!!....
I don't know about other guys but I learned that body type doesn't matter. He has a dick. It works the way dicks are supposed to work. I grew up having sex with guys and, yeah, fat guys need sex, too, and just like the really skinny guys do and, yeah, even the "ugly" ones. What matters is... the desire to do something. Hygiene and personality. I've yet to meet a dick that I couldn't suck and regardless to the guy's body type, oh, like the 400-pound guy who wore my ass out having sex with him: Sucking his dick was easy... because it's supposed to be easy. That and I've never been a superficial kind of person.
CockHummer
Sep 13, 2022, 3:50 AM
I have the problem that I don't find men attractive, anyway, so if their body type is a turn-off to boot, that only makes it worse. I'm the same way with women, even though I am prone to find them attractive. Thus, for me, they are all three important. I want to find someone in some way attractive in both their appearance and their personality, and of course, when clothes are coming off, being clean is essential. I think just given the natural way that you get close to a person, appearance is obvious first, like immediately, then personality, and finally cleanliness, so I observe them in that order, but they are equally important.
Grant_Norman
Sep 13, 2022, 4:45 AM
Hygiene, then personality and body type is overrated...
yes obviously
Tight1-4u
Sep 14, 2022, 4:33 PM
hygiene
personality
body type
nu2curious
Sep 14, 2022, 6:13 PM
Obviously hygiene is a deal breaker for sure. When you see a man walk out of the bathroom without washing his hands, wreaking with BO or very poor dental health, all are strong indicators regarding the man in general . On that first one I see about 8 out of ten leave the bathroom without washing up . Nothing will get me moving the other direction faster than poor hygiene.