How many guys are afraid to suck their first cock?

[Kip2june]

I am 57M in great shape and married. Have sex with the wife sometimes which is good. I have been interested in cock though for at least 35 years. I was not sure how interested until about 10 years ago. When out of town a few years ago I found a guy online that came to my hotel room and JO with me. I wanted to try sucking him, but he was worried about that so I did not. I was also very drunk. I came all over myself and then he came on me and that was it.

I have in the past couple years had a number of guys from squirt ready to meet and JO with me and who would let me suck their cocks, but I never quite pull the trigger to go through with it. It is exciting to think about, and normally after jerking off for a few days when I cum then I no longer think about it for a few days. Maybe I need to make sure I don't cum until I do it next time?? I really want to go through with it. I get hard just thinking about it and I imagine sucking guys cocks that I see walking down the street, etc....

Anybody else have problems getting that first one in their mouths?? I want to swallow too!! HELP!!!

Going to Reading, PA next week for a few days on business and then Cincinnati, Ohio the beginning of June for a week. So I have plenty of chances cumming up. :tongue:

Thanks for any tips you guys may have.

[Ashct22]

Just do it! If the thought of it makes you hard, you are ready. I guarantee you will be so glad you did. And once you have done it once, you will become addicted….

[csreef]

Listen, when you feel comfortable, it will happen. Take things in steps! Good Luck!

[Jozyxt]

I started by feeding. When I felt comfortable that I knew the game well enough, I sucked a cock. It was great and I am glad I did. I enjoy it every time.

[waitingtomeetyou]

I have had these fantasies for a long time. Finally I hooked up with husband and wife where the husband wanted to watch. But things kept going further quickly and I wanted to to suck his cock to see what it was like. I always lost my interest in thinking about sucking cock after I jerked off. But in this situation I had no problem sucking his cock or actually doing anything after I cum. I felt good being able to please the others no matter how. So I have gotten over the first time jitters. Things went on for a few months but has now ended. I know now I will not have problem doing anything before or after I cum now.

[Rest85]

I am 57M in great shape and married. Have sex with the wife sometimes which is good. I have been interested in cock though for at least 35 years. I was not sure how interested until about 10 years ago. When out of town a few years ago I found a guy online that came to my hotel room and JO with me. I wanted to try sucking him, but he was worried about that so I did not. I was also very drunk. I came all over myself and then he came on me and that was it.

I have in the past couple years had a number of guys from squirt ready to meet and JO with me and who would let me suck their cocks, but I never quite pull the trigger to go through with it. It is exciting to think about, and normally after jerking off for a few days when I cum then I no longer think about it for a few days. Maybe I need to make sure I don't cum until I do it next time?? I really want to go through with it. I get hard just thinking about it and I imagine sucking guys cocks that I see walking down the street, etc....

Anybody else have problems getting that first one in their mouths?? I want to swallow too!! HELP!!!

Going to Reading, PA next week for a few days on business and then Cincinnati, Ohio the beginning of June for a week. So I have plenty of chances cumming up. :tongue:

Thanks for any tips you guys may have.

It does sound like you are ready to try it. You mentioned that you wanted to suck the guy in your hotel room. I am sure you would have if he had been on board about it. I would recommend not having an orgasm when you are with someone until after you have sucked his cock. You mention how you no longer think about sucking for a few days after having jacked off. I am very similar in that way. If I am with someone and he wants to help me cum, I always ask to suck him before I get off. I want to be as horny and edgy as possible when sucking.
Good luck. I am sure your opportunity will come soon enough. Let us know when it happens, and what you think about doing it again.

[licyou69]

Not afraid as much as picky about the man/cock I want in my mouth and the cum I'll be swallowing.

[Kysquire]

It's a big step! I was a feeder for several years. I wanted to see what it was all about. Started out just jacking guys and one day I almost had to force myself to do it. I know I wasn't very good but after a few sessions I started to get comfortable with a cock in my mouth. Then, I had to decide to swallow the cum. So, for me it was a developmental thing. I did it in stages. So, to all FIRST timers, we all went through what you are going through.

[Jazminedress]

as CsReef said, when you are ready you will be ready...........sometimes the fantasy is enough, sometimes you need the real thing, only you can decide what is best for you. Yes, it is scary the first time, no different than the first time you have sex with a girl

[tongueteaser]

I was naturally nervous and was shaking when I met this guy first time. It felt strange meeting a guy the first time and I was about to suck his cock. All kinds of things racing through my head like should I ask for his cock or will he give me the go ahead. How big is it and will I suck cock to his expectations? Will he cum in me and how much and how fast? I talked to him for a few minutes to get calmed down. I was told to play with his cock and did so. He said why dont you suck on it now as it was rock hard. I was like a natural and surprised myself sucking his cock. I was in heaven and sucking and he came in me so fast. I wanted it to last longer. It was much easier meeting the second time

[KDaddy23]

I know a guy with a similar problem: He wants to suck cock but then he jerks off thinking about it and the urge to suck cock goes away. The thing to do? Don't think about it then jerk off; that will kill any cocksucking urges in a flat skinny second.

[SilkyHoseLover]

Guess it can be scary, but my first time was like falling off a log...

Once I made up my mind that I wanted to try it, it was something that I anticipated without trepidation, and calmly took that bad boy into my mouth for an experience like none other in my life to that point. It felt natural, it felt good, and I had absolutely no regrets or second thoughts afterward. I'm still the same person I was beforehand, just one who realized and acknowledged that he liked everything about sucking a cock!

But I get to know the other guy first - I don't just connect with someone from a hook-up site and go for it...

[Fzmr9t]

My first time, I just dropped to my knees, pulled his shorts and briefs down, took his cock in my hand and put it into my mouth. All without hesitation. It felt sooo natural!

[MontyinHamilton]

I was afraid for yrs to even meet up with a guy, it took forever to finally realize "hey, this is what turns you on, and you masturbate to it so why are you wondering if you want to"? So I met up with a guy who wanted to tech me stuff, we talked a few different times about my secret and then I asked if he wanted to j/o together, next time I let him blow me, then I blew him another day. I never saw him after that because he wasn't my type and seemed kind of needy and pushing me to start a relationship of sorts. But I knew with each step that I liked or at least was turned on by men, so when I found another guy later that I thought was handsome and my type moved forward again, I was nervous and chatty my first visit and nothing happened, same thing on my second visit but I decided after yapping away about my story and not wanting to go home empty handed or wondering just kissed him and enjoyed making out while he led the way and got undressed and I did the same. I stroked him and rubbed cocks and played with his nipples before heading downtown to the good stuff, kissed his torso a bit and kissed his shaft and head before licking and sucking that big cannon for about 30 mins, I never made him come which was a let down but he moaned and twisted and thrusted his hips and moaned my name a few times which was a turn on. Long story sort, I think we all take steps, it's like being a teen all over and kissing a girl, then next time you kiss her neck and shoulders and then go for the boobs, then you learn to undo a bra with one hand lol, which eventually leads to heavy petting and grinding and then getting naked and fumbling around til you get laid. It takes some people weeks or months to get to that place, others just grab a boob, finger the pussy and drop the drawers and stick it in the first time if the girl is ready too.

So yeah, being with a man is going to be a mind bender in a way, but once you tell yourself why waste time? And you just go with it if you like the guy, truthfully, once you suck a cock you will know instantly if it's your thing. And if you like it you really just opened a floodgate, once you have sucked 2 or 3? It's all you will think about sexually, I forgot women by my 3rd and knew I would be open to seeing men for more than just one offs and maybe find a long term guy to date or fling with. I still have doubts sometimes because of society in the past and because I still like women's bodies and their taste and smell, the soft skin and silky hair, everything I know and am comfortable with, but yet, though I like their bodies etc, for some reason I have no desire to sleep with them, I am attracted to sexy masculine men, I could start jerking off to a hot 30 yr female I think is attractive or who I might have went for earlier in life and yes, once in a while I can come to sex thoughts about them, maybe one in 20 times, but I usually have to flip over to thoughts of sex with men to get off, I literally explode in 5 mins and bit feels so good.. go figure, I think one thing that holds me back with men is they might be dangerous, or unclean or smelly and lacking hygeine, but so far every gay guy I met has had been really cool, had zero smell or taste, they shower up so clean there is no scent at all, no cologne even, just clean skin and the taste of their pre come in your mouth afterwards. So from being afraid and wondering for yrs to now wanting to smell a man's cologne and feel his hands on and in me as he kisses and teases me? Wow! It was well worth the wait, I just wish I had more courage earlier, but it is what it is. My advice? Just go with it and follow through, you will be just as scared next time anyways, so if you make a date, just go and see what happens, you can always walk away and try again, but you'll at least know if you want to try again, you won't be wondering as much at least.

[atxbi]

I know it took me a long time and a lot of thinking for me to get the nerve to go out and do it. And I’m sure like a lot of guys, when I finally swallowed my first load, I had almost immediate regret about why I waited so long to try it.

[jimkimball]

My friend started sucking my cock and always begged me to suck him and it took me almost a year before I finally did and loved it couldn't get enough .

[phalluster]

Kip2june I am just like you. Married, have good sex, but have been fantasizing about cock since I was a teen and got sucked at gloryholes many times. Now I want to be the one sucking and want to taste another man's cum. I met a guy online who seemed like the perfect man to connect with, but before I went through with it realized that me hooking up with him would really be no different than me having an affair with a woman. That is the entire reason I didn't go ahead and meet him. So to other married guys who have hooked up with men, how do you reconcile that?

[Neonaught]

Kip2june I am just like you. Married, have good sex, but have been fantasizing about cock since I was a teen and got sucked at gloryholes many times. Now I want to be the one sucking and want to taste another man's cum. I met a guy online who seemed like the perfect man to connect with, but before I went through with it realized that me hooking up with him would really be no different than me having an affair with a woman. That is the entire reason I didn't go ahead and meet him. So to other married guys who have hooked up with men, how do you reconcile that?

I'm aquainted with quite a number of men whose wives have cut them off from all sex so they get what the need outside of their marriages. The wives actions seem to justify the husbands actions in my book. How unfair is it to deny your life mate a happy sex life and then refuse to allow them to express their sex drive with others if done safely and discreetly? Now if the man has a happy sex life with his wife and still seeks elsewhere, then we start to get into the weeds. I'm one of the lucky few who has a wife who still has great sex with me but has never been able to match my sex drive, especially after a terrible car crash left her with some physical limitations. We're both bi and she has no objections to me enjoying men and couples alone but I cannot be with another woman without her present. That works just fine for us so I think common sense adaptations can be worked out if both partners love each other and have confidence in the strength of their relationship.

[KDaddy23]

The fear is real and that doesn't count being in that moment where there's a dick right there and waiting for you to suck it. That's even scarier and it's weird because you know that there are guys who suck dick and you can imagine yourself doing it - while being fearful of what will be said or done even if someone were to find out that you were thinking about this - but it's still very damned scary to suck dick for the first time and despite any knowledge and one's desire to.

I only know of one way to get over it. Just say, "Fuck it..." and do it. The truth is that it's not going to be a problem until it becomes one... or unless you make it one for yourself. Was I scared my first time? Nope and I probably should have been but it was... highly exciting and more so when I knew I shouldn't be doing it or allowing it to be done. But I've given enough guys their first cocksucking experience and I know what scares them and, until that moment, what prevents them from doing what they know they want to do. It's so scary because it's really "unknown territory" and knowing that people do suck dick doesn't help much because that's them... and now it's you. You either learn to conquer your fears or you let them consume you and that's about the size of it. Being married is the worst situation ever and there is a lot to be fearful about but even if you don't suck a dick, this, too, is a fear that must be conquered; otherwise, you're just going to keep living with it and I can't think of anything that's more mentally unhealthy than doing this.

But, yeah, the real fear is not really knowing what it's going to be like. Being sucked is scary but "easier" to deal and cope with compared to, again, there's a dick right there and now you have to get past the fear of it and take it into your mouth and, hopefully - and like so many men - you will find that it was "stupid" of you to be afraid to do it. You gotta figure out how to not be afraid and no one can really tell you how to do this.

[Silvano1249]

I have the same urge to suck a cock and I get very hard just writing this and I want it badly to the point of seeing men crotch always and imagining his cock deep in my mouth full of cum. Been looking for a while but have not found yet a cock to feed his cum to me

[ILickherwell]

Not cumming first definitely helps, also if you want to swallow ask him to hold your head so you cant back out.
That's what I did last fall, I'm looking to repeat until I'm more comfortable.

[Kysquire]

I started by feeding. When I felt comfortable that I knew the game well enough, I sucked a cock. It was great and I am glad I did. I enjoy it every time.
Same here! I love a blow job and my wonderful wife who I love dearly just doesn't suck cock. I'd go to the XXX theaters and let guys enjoy my 8" thick cock. Did that several years. Met a couple who hosted MMF's. She wanted to see her hubby and me suck dick. I didn't get much out of first sucking a cock since I was 13 probably because I was doing it so I could fuck his hot wife. However when I would go to the XXX theater I would let guys enjoy my cock but I started getting the urge to suck cock. I had a guy on his knees sucking me as I was sitting in an aisle seat and I motioned for another guy to bring his cock over. He walked over (he had been jacking watching me get a blow job) and I popped his cock in my mouth and it was good! My type of fun sucking cock while getting sucked. That's been well over 10-12 years and I still LOVE to suck dick and get mine sucked! On, my wife knows now. I told her that I loved getting a blow job and I was going to find people who would do it. I also told her that I loved her and was not not interested in getting involved with another woman. So I let guys suck me off and its fair and proper that I return the favor. She said OK but "I don't want any details and I don't want it in our home". She even gave me a couple pair of her lacy panties to suck cock in.

[Bluespark69]

Wow, I think you just wrote my profile for the most part. Same age, similar time frame, met once in a hotel with an older guy. I?ve been interested in playing with cock for several years now but have lists of apprehension, nervous, feel guilty, stds etc. I like others on here get hit and horny, want cock then JO then the want goes away. Lol. Til the next time I get horny!

I had one experience probably 10+ years ago while travelling on business. Previously I had been chatting with a guy off Craigslist, before they cut it off, then we hooked up. I was all nervous and scared I was going to be in the daily news. Turns out the guy was much older,70+, liked to suck and swallow, but when I tried to suck him, he then told me he doesn?t get hard or cum. He did suck me and swallow, then he left.
I shut down and killed all offline for awhile.

but for the last several years I?ve been interested in feeling a nice hard cock both giving and receiving it and maybe more, anal!

Anyway I still haven?t jumped in due to reasons above, plus, now I need the little blue pill to help with wife occasionally. It does work!

[nu2curious]

My friend started sucking my cock and always begged me to suck him and it took me almost a year before I finally did and loved it couldn't get enough .

That's what every guy says, " once you taste a dick you will love it ".

[twilde1952]

Sucking my first cock wasn't fear but thrilling and excitement of what was about to happen. My heart was pounding and I couldn't get down there fast enough to quench my thirst and desire to have a cock in my mouth. I hope I live long enough to do it again.

[jjourneyman]

I think most guys (and maybe girls) tend to over-think it. I was fortunate... the first cock I got to suck literally was just a few inches from my mouth, so there was no hesitation on my part. The second he let me hold it, I just knew what we both wanted and that was for him to fuck my mouth and throat, and let me swallow his thick load.

Once you get your first taste, you'll always want more.

I love feeding first-timers, and I try to make it as comfortable and stress-free as possible. There's nothing better than having an eager cocksucker service you... except maybe servicing one myself.

[Veryoralniceguy]

For me, it seemed so natural. I think I was born a bisexual. I started jacking off when I was 5 or 6. I was always wondering what other kids and mens cocks looked like. Then when I was 8, my mother bought me a seasons pass to the local public swimming pool. She’d drop me off in the morning and pick me up when I called and wanted to go home. My first trip to the swimming pool was amazing. When I entered the changing room and shower area, I saw so many cocks, I couldn’t believe how big the older mens cocks looked. All I could think about was what it would be like to suck them. A week later, I sucked my first cock, it all seemed so natural, I loved it. The thing I remember most, was how small my mouth seemed and how big the cocks were.

[skuz69]

I had been checking out men's asses ever since I was in college in the late 60's and early 70's, but never acted on it until just recently. Now, I'm sorry that I didn't start sucking cock a long time ago when I (and the guys I'm sucking) was much more attractive and could still get good and hard and shoot a nice load. So, I love it now, but really think I would have loved it even more if I had started in my 20's and 30's. I say, go for it when you have the opportunity. Don't wait.

[Biguyincolorado]

I never was afraid of sucking my first cock. Always felt like I would be missing something if I didn't suck cock. My first experience was so enjoyable and I still enjoy sucking cocks of all shapes, sizes and colors to this day.

[ilovetowatchcs]

If it's your very first cock you will suck, do your best to be in a place where you can take your time. You don't want your first blowjob to be a quickie.

[Finalygirl]

well you have to be more relaxed about it, if you stiffen up too much, then the head will always be there, try to let it develop out of a conversation and just touch the other person's pants every now and then first.

[dicktrobing]

Anybody else have problems getting that first one in their mouths?? I want to swallow too!! HELP!!!


It's all about swallowing another guy's pride and joy :tongue:

The real courage is making that call / contact with a guy and the walking through the door.

Once you are in the company of another man you both know what you both there for.

When you take his cock in your mouth you'll wounder what all the fuss was about

[tsd mstr]

Like so many others, I’ve wanted to experience anything and possibly everything with someone else that has a cock. I especially want to suck one and swallow, but alas will probably always chicken out!

[awibiguy]

I'm in my mid fifties and have been thinking about it for about 10 years. I'm worried about STDs. Everytime I get close to meeting a guy; I shut it down. Any advice on getting over the fear?

[Rocco]

I was in Juvenile detention as a kid. I was always getting in trouble. The guards at night would pull us out and rough us up in attempt to be at the fight out of us.
One night a guard pulled me out and took me to the basement. When we got there, I saw another guard. They made me strip naked and threw me into the padded cell.
Later that night they both returned and made me suck them. They told me either to suck them or they would fuck me in the ass. That was a lie as they took turns spit-roasting me. I was furious at first but after they returned me to my cell and knowing I had to keep the secret, it excited the 15 year old horny kid. It happened several times after that and I never said a word.
So, I had no choice or time to think about sucking my first cock, it was decided for me. I'm not bitter though, because because being in control of my own sexuality has opened many doors for me and brought me sexual pleasure.

[Johnyonenut]

I can relate to so many of you. I have fantasized about sex with a man for years, especially about receiving anal but sucking also. But being married, in my community and with my circle of homophobic friends there has never been an opportunity. Unless I am not picking up the signals. At my age it will probably never happen but would love to be in a situation to at least see if I could/would sick a cock.

[licyou69]

Not afraid as much as picky about the man/cock I want in my mouth and the cum I'll be swallowing.

18 months after I posted this, I found the right man, with the right cock, in the right situation, got down on my knees, and sucked his cock like a pro until he was cumming down my throat. If you want it bad enough, it will happen for you.

[travelingman5000]

I am a married, closeted bi guy, 55. I fantasized about sucking a guy for many years before I got up the nerve to do it. I hade been thinking about it since my mid 30s. I was always worried about STDs and was I going to hate what it tasted like. I did not suck my first cock all the way till just a a couple years ago. I have a married fwb who I hade been meeting with 4 or 5 times a year for a couple years. He loved sucking my cock and some times I would suck him a little but never all the way. I liked how his cock felt in my mouth, his precum tasted great but I was still nervous to go all the way. After a few years of us meeting one day I just told him I wanted to do it and to not warn me when he was going to cum, I told him to just shoot when he was ready. I went down on him and took his load, swallowed it all. Afterwards he went down on me and I was so turned on after sucking him off I hade one of the biggest orgasms' of my life. It was fantastic and the first thought that came to mind was, why did I wait so long to do this.

[DLazguy]

I wasn't necessarily afraid to suck my first cock, I was more worried about anyone I know finding out that I sucked cock. I CAN'T have my wife finding out or family/friends.

I would lose the desire to meet up after I cum too. Now I resist the urge to cum if I know that I'll be meeting anyone.

Im still worried about getting found out, but my urge to suck a big cock is getting too strong to resist.

[1972chaos]

I went through this as a teen. You do me I’ll do you type thing. As an adult it was about finding someone who I could play with in secret so it wasn’t going to out me. Then I found guys don’t really care and if you are in the right place you can find a few dicks to suck. Some guys spit some swallow some just suck then finish by jerking. I’m a swallower. Nothing to fear if you like your dick sucked and you like to cum without interruption you know what’s going to happen. Just find someone and try it. If you don’t like it then don’t do it again.
just if you jerk off while blowing him DONT cum first it you may lose your desire and end up leaving him hanging. For a long time I was that way if I came first I was done. Now it dosent matter. I might need a couple of mins to come down to finish him, but I have no problem finishing him. After a while it became all about the cum. It’s something special going about my day with someone’s cum in my belly or my ass. It’s my little intimate secret that only he and I know about.

[Kip2june]

I wasn't necessarily afraid to suck my first cock, I was more worried about anyone I know finding out that I sucked cock. I CAN'T have my wife finding out or family/friends.

I would lose the desire to meet up after I cum too. Now I resist the urge to cum if I know that I'll be meeting anyone.

Im still worried about getting found out, but my urge to suck a big cock is getting too strong to resist.

Well after starting this thread more than 3 years ago I finally sucked a cock and swallowed cum in April of 2024. Did it again a few times, then took a break for a while. I was not so crazy about it as I never get hard when sucking. I think I was too excited, and concentrated.

Just sucked another cock after a six month break which was my 7th cock. Now I love it more than ever, and was almost getting hard while doing it, and after he shot his cum in my mouth I kept his cock in my mouth for at least a minute and did get hard then. I was naked in the forest on my knees. LOL

I think I love cock, and love cum even more.

[Kip2june]

18 months after I posted this, I found the right man, with the right cock, in the right situation, got down on my knees, and sucked his cock like a pro until he was cumming down my throat. If you want it bad enough, it will happen for you.
My problem too. I am only looking for married guys who want a BJ. Getting better at finding them now.

[mwmcumslut]

My problem too. I am only looking for married guys who want a BJ. Getting better at finding them now.

What has helped you find them? That's what I'm looking for as well. Just trying to minimize risks...

[Footstep40]

The first one wasn’t an issue, as I knew him exceptionally well and we were both exclusive, just graduated and had a summer of fun exploration and kind of as much “love” as on can have at 18 before we both went off to colleges on almost opposite sides of the country. The second one was the scary one, just met the guy at a party the 2nd month of college, he was older, invited me back to his place, not familiar with what he liked, was looking for, and after making out in his living room and him stripping me down, he asked me back to his room, I sat on the edge of his bed and un-did his pants, he was a bit bigger, didn’t have the cute little curve my ex boyfriend had, kissed better though, I took him in my mouth and was still freaking out! Was I doing this right? According to my knew friend, it was ok, but he guided me with a few tips finally eased my nerves. I ended up spending the night, and the walk of shame the next day had me so paranoid I hit the student clinic, asked for all of the tests, was told I needed to wait on a few, stressed out for about a month, ignored his calls and pages(it was the 90’s) finally got a clean bill of health, and rea
out to the guy only to find it was now my turn to be ignored.

[KDaddy23]

The first one wasn’t an issue, as I knew him exceptionally well and we were both exclusive, just graduated and had a summer of fun exploration and kind of as much “love” as on can have at 18 before we both went off to colleges on almost opposite sides of the country. The second one was the scary one, just met the guy at a party the 2nd month of college, he was older, invited me back to his place, not familiar with what he liked, was looking for, and after making out in his living room and him stripping me down, he asked me back to his room, I sat on the edge of his bed and un-did his pants, he was a bit bigger, didn’t have the cute little curve my ex boyfriend had, kissed better though, I took him in my mouth and was still freaking out! Was I doing this right? According to my knew friend, it was ok, but he guided me with a few tips finally eased my nerves. I ended up spending the night, and the walk of shame the next day had me so paranoid I hit the student clinic, asked for all of the tests, was told I needed to wait on a few, stressed out for about a month, ignored his calls and pages(it was the 90’s) finally got a clean bill of health, and rea
out to the guy only to find it was now my turn to be ignored.

Wow. This is the kind of first-time story that guys who haven't sucked cock yet wants to avoid. The thing is that you won't ever know what's going to happen until you start doing it and it doesn't help that when you do it for that first time, you become paranoid and of a mind that everyone who sees you knows what you did last night. It can "take a while" for a guy to realize that, um, no - everybody not only doesn't know what I did, they don't even know who I am! Some guys relax after this and it's on to the next cock to suck while some guys remain paranoid and, often, to the extent that the people who do know them are asking, "Dude, what the hell is wrong with you?"

The last thing a guy coming home from this situation wants to deal with is people asking him questions he (a) doesn't want to answer or (b) is going to tell a big fat lie to explain why he's acting weird. Just know that a lot of guys have their very first time and... none of this shows up to mess with him so, new guys, learn from stories like this but remember: Just because it happened to someone else isn't a guarantee that it's going to happen to you.

Now, go ye forth and suck cock!

[Footstep40]

Indeed! My first time led to a summer of love and joy. Second time I was unfamiliar with my surroundings, partner, and worst of all myself. As I became more aware, I became more comfortable and less concerned about “what others said or were more likely not thinking”, which can be hard. Becoming more comfortable with yourself is truly when you realize it’s perfectly ok, and you blossom into your true self. I felt like a gigantic weight was lifted, and I enjoyed possibly some of the best sex ever, as I was completely comfortable in my own skin, and was able to relax and enjoy it, became pretty good at it too!

[KDaddy23]

Indeed! My first time led to a summer of love and joy. Second time I was unfamiliar with my surroundings, partner, and worst of all myself. As I became more aware, I became more comfortable and less concerned about “what others said or were more likely not thinking”, which can be hard. Becoming more comfortable with yourself is truly when you realize it’s perfectly ok, and you blossom into your true self. I felt like a gigantic weight was lifted, and I enjoyed possibly some of the best sex ever, as I was completely comfortable in my own skin, and was able to relax and enjoy it, became pretty good at it too!

So good to see that you [obviously] recovered from that moment! I read that it wasn't so much that the guy you were with "did you dirty" in your encounter but, yeah, you wake up the next morning, there's a naked guy lying next to you and, fuck, the reality of what y'all did slams into you and evokes the reaction you had. Some guys... don't recover from this reaction. New guys, learn from Footstep40's moment and the part that starts with "As I became more aware..."

Go ye forth and suck cock and have fun doing it!

[DLazguy]

I can't remember if I get hard while I'm sucking. I DO get extremely hard watching video of me sucking. I can't wait to a hard cock in my mouth again.

[Kip2june]

What has helped you find them? That's what I'm looking for as well. Just trying to minimize risks...

Sniffies.com is a game changer…just used their free version first, now have paid. It is great at finding guys, especially if you are near a populated area. With paid you can post what you are looking for and you get a lot of responses……So I will post something like the following.

Need a married guy to come to my hotel room and cum in my mouth. Or need a married guy to come to my room…let me lick and suck your cock until you cum on my mouth.

[hardcurve]

I had been fantasizing about sucking cock for years before I got up the nerve to connect with another guy. The meet up was going really well, with lots of stroking and nipple play. I was really turned on but a still nervous about sucking his cock, wondering if I would like it, would his cum taste good or awful, would I be grossed out. I just let the moment takre me and dropped on my knees and took his cock in my mouth. All that anxiety was for nothing. I loved the feel of it it in my mouth. A little later, while I was stroking him, he indicated he was about to cum. I hesitated briefly, until I saw the first drop of cum appear at the end of his cock, and then just went for it. Took him as deep as I could in my mouth, sucked and tongued his cock, while his cum spurted into my mouth. It tasted great!

[gmansam]

Not me I sucked my cousin off then swallowed his nut. We traded blowjobs for years after that.

[RICKCASV]

I was never afraid to suck my first cock. . I was bi-curious and had already let a man, a complete stranger, give me a hand job in a straight porno theater when I was 22 (this was in 1976). I knew I liked having my cock touched by a man but I wanted to see what it was like to touch another man's cock, take it into my mouth and find out if I liked sucking cock or not. I was living in LA and was very concerned about someone I knew seeing me so I decided to go to SF and visit a bathhouse there to have my first experience giving a BJ.

It was a weekday morning and I entered the bathhouse, paid my money and was given a towel and a key to a private room. I went to the room, took off my clothes and headed out to explore the bathhouse and hopefully hook up with a suitable man. I went past the shower area and came across the sauna. I decided to go in and found it empty. I sat for a while by myself and after about 15 minutes or so I was pretty hot and sweaty so I decided to go back to the showers and get cleaned up. After I washed I decided to head back to the sauna.

This time the sauna was not empty. There were two men in it. One at the far end of the sauna and one sitting on a bench just inside the door. I decided to sit down next to the man sitting on the bench just inside the door. Out of the corner of my eye I could see that he was touching his cock. The man at the other end of the sauna could see this and decided to leave. I wanted to let the man sitting next to me to know that I was interested in him so I put my hand down to my pubic hair and moved my hand back and forth, careful not to touch my cock. As soon as I did that the man put his hand on my back. That was all the encouragement I needed. I got up from the bench and moved in between his legs. His cock was semi hard and sticking out. I reached out with my left hand and started to gently stroke his cock. It was very large, thick and cut. It felt amazing to actually be touching another man's cock for the first time and feeling his cock get harder and longer in my hand As much as I enjoyed touching his cock I knew I wanted to take him in my mouth so I moved in closer, closed my eyes and took his cock into my mouth. I began to move back and forth on his cock, gently sucking him and paying special attention to the very large head since that was what I enjoyed most when a woman would give me a BJ.. I knew immediately that I could do this, that I didn't hate it and that I actually really liked having him in my mouth. I could feel his cock getting bigger and harder as I sucked him. The idea that someone could come into the sauna and see me giving this man a BJ crossed my mind but I was so into what I was doing I decided I didn't care if someone came into the sauna and saw me sucking this man's cock.
This went on for about five minutes and then the man said we should go to his room. He had become fully erect by then and his cock was about eight or nine inches long and very thick. I said OK and told him I was only interested in giving him a hand job or a blowjob. I wanted him to know I was not at all interested in him fucking me. He said that was fine and off we went to his room.

When we got to his room he laid down on the small cot that was provided. I knelt at the side and leaned over his waist, reached for his cock and resumed sucking him.. After a short time he asked me to lick and suck his balls and he spread his legs so I could move in between them and have access to his balls. Like his cock, his balls were big.. I licked and gently sucked on them for several minutes, slowly stroking his cock as it leaked precum while I was exploring his balls with my tongue and mouth. His cock and balls had a very strong musky masculine smell that oddly really excited me.

I wanted his cock back in my mouth so I started licking and sucking his cock again. I decided after about 15 minutes of this that I wanted to make him cum so I stared sucking his cock with a faster rhythm, paying extra attention to the large mushroom head with my tongue while sucking him. I had one hand on his cock and I cupped and gently rubbed his balls with the other hand. He was breathing harder now and his cock was leaking a constant stream of pre-cum into my mouth. Tasting his pre-cum got me even hotter because I knew he was getting closer to climaxing.

All of a sudden he took both his hands and put them on the back of my head. I sensed that this meant he was about to cum and that he intended to cum in my mouth. I wanted to see what it was like to have a man cum in my mouth so I kept on with my sucking. I felt his cock getting even harder and a few seconds later I. felt his cock spasm and I could feel the pumping motion of his cock ejaculating his cum into my mouth. There were about four or five really good spurts. It was a big load, very thick and very very tasty. I continued sucking until he stopped cumming and swirled the cum around in my mouth before finally swallowing it down. I quickly realized that having him cum in my mouth was something I really liked and that I would want to do this again with other men. The man took his hands off of my head. He thanked me and told me I gave a very good BJ and i left..I could taste and smell his cum for hours afterwards and was glad that I did because it was a great reminder of what I had just done for the rest of the day.

Little did he know that he was my very first BJ and cum swallow.

[Gregshaw]

+1 on all the "Just do it" comments. I'm also pretty sure you'll be really good at it, too. The first time I sucked a guy I was really worried that my lack of experience would be a problem, but I can assure you that it wasn't & my Top complimented me afterwards.

[ct_sounder]

I'm in my mid fifties and have been thinking about it for about 10 years. I'm worried about STDs. Everytime I get close to meeting a guy; I shut it down. Any advice on getting over the fear?

I hear ya. I don"t want to take chances either because I am married.

I go to adult stores that have private booths. Preferably with a glory hole. I only suck with a condom. Not the best but I can feel a cock in my mouth so it works for me.

[Kip2june]

Sniffies.com is an awesome site you can use anonymously and for free to find guys who want to be sucked. I only look for married, and less active guys who only want to be sucked. That way I can sort though those I want to suck and those I don't. Mostly I don't want them because of them being too active. Then you have to count on about only 15% actually showing up. That is another story.

[momandson30]

the first time i was creeped out by it, in high school my friend went to the music room alone... he pulled his dick out and asked me to suck him, i got soo creeped out... i decided to suck his dick, when i put it in my mouth i started liking it... i started sucking him until i made him cum.... after that i wasnt scared anymore it felt normal..

[remington12369]

I felt more afraid of my first man kiss. I had no idea if It would turn me on or if I would be repulsed by it. I am happy to say I loved it! As for cock sucking, I had already received a few blow job's from guys so returning the favor was easy.

[Sammyz]

Never had the chance, but if and when I do I will be really nervous.