How many others like me that crave a pretty cock and tight balls but just that

[tongueteaser]

I have never found myself attracted to a guy. I do to a sexy woman but never to a man. I have read so many stories where guys like to kiss and lick a guys ass and more. That turns me off. I am just turned on by a hard cock and also especially if shaved. I want to taste it so bad and feel my mouth around it. My tongue tracing the head and sucking it like a lollipop. Also deep and touching a guys tight balls or running the tip of my tongue under the seam. Also a guy grabbing my head and fucking my mouth or gaging me with cock . I am so turned on by sucking cock and being cummed in. I dont want nothing more with the rest of a guys body. Is there others that just like a cock and giving head. I never wanted recip either. Does not do anything for me. I want to hear others thoughts and if they like to get more intimate or how far they go.

[SilkyHoseLover]

I'm very much like you. Not attracted to men at all. But I did find myself curious about sucking cock, and went there. I immediately loved everything about it. I had a few preconceptions about just where this journey would take me, and expected that it wouldn't be very far. Kissing was a big stop sign -- I could NEVER kiss another man! Rimming was also off the table! I couldn't even conceive of rimming a woman's ass, let alone a man's!

I didn't make a long list of taboos, but it didn't take long for those that I had established to fall by the wayside. I've kissed, I've sucked and swallowed cum. I've rimmed, and I've enjoyed being penetrated by another hard cock. And I'm STILL not attracted to men...

In my case, this all may be possible because I enjoy cross-dressing and love to take on a feminine role in lovemaking. I like it to be a realistic experience for everyone involved, even though it's basically role-playing. I'm a sane, law-abiding husband, dad and grandfather in everyday life, doing all the 'guy things' around the house, as I always have.

My advice would be to accept yourself and your desires, and dip your toe into the water. Wade in a little and see how deep it gets. If your head is screwed-on straight, you'll still be the same decent guy you were after you've experimented, regardless of how far you allowed it to go.

[Grant_Norman]

Yes, I too am cock centric. I don't expect recip, but don't mind...feels good. Over years I've done pretty much everything with guys, but fixation on sucking the cock and swallowing the cum is where I am.

[licyou69]

I'm also not interested in the man, just his cock and his balls. I wouldn't mind strong legs and a firm ass to hold on to while his cock is being shoved down my throat and unloading his cum into my belly though.

[KDaddy23]

We get into this because we have this... rule about being attracted that's more of a general acceptance than a proven truth. I don't look at men and start drooling over what I see. Some guys are good-looking, and some guys aren't. That's not where the real attraction lies. There are still people who believe that if you're bisexual, you have to be attracted to men like you're attracted to women... and the truth is that some women are attractive, and some just aren't. I've been in love with a guy... and it was amazing but what I learned is that I don't have to be "romantically attracted" to a guy in order to want to get his cock and cum. I just have to like him enough to want to have sex with him. Appearances are what they are and, as I like to say, your eyes will deceive you so don't trust them... but look beyond that which your eyes see. It's okay to be all about the parts - a nice dick and ass. You don't have to be into the guy any more than it takes to get in his underwear and if he'll let you get into them.

The sex is very damned attractive. Okay... what else do you really need? The thing is that we've been socially conditioned to not be all about the sex and that their has to be a reason other than you're horny and need to get laid. The other person must be attractive to you and if you're bi, yeah, that attraction has to be the same as it is with women... and that's just fucking insane because people are different so to be attracted to a man in the same sense and way you'd be attracted a woman, well, insane and more so since, duh, men aren't women. I don't much care what you look like but I do care about what kind of person you are more than anything else. What matters more to me is do you have the desire? The size of your dick means nothing to me; whether you have hair or not down there means nothing but your desire to let me put my mouth on your dick and get you to cum means everything. If you're about mutual pleasure, that works and that means more than being overweight or any of the other stuff we tend to base attraction upon. And I learned the hard way that if it looks good, it might not be good. And I would submit to all of you here that if you're having sex with a guy, you have found something "attractive" about him even if it's just his dick.

Think about it. Expand your definition of what attraction means and being attracted does not always mean what everyone says it does...

[NJwood]

I’m also all about the cock. I want the intimacy with women and just a nice cock to suck or fuck me.

[Jozyxt]

I started out as cock centric. But I have started to enjoy kissing men. Rimming too. I was at a concert last night and found myself more attracted to the cute young countertenor that the hot soprano. So be careful, you knower know how things will change.

[KDaddy23]

The thing to always remember is that you can be bisexual any way you want to, and you don't have to conform to some imaginary standard; you can change how you want/need to be bisexual any time you want to!

[Jozyxt]

you can change how you want/need to be bisexual any time you want to!

I know what you mean, but alas I don't seem to be able to be as bi as I would like.

Sometimes just looking at a naked man is just a deflating turn off when I want my cock to respond. Maybe I just haven't found the right man to be bi with. :bigrin:

[Blondeblowjob7]

I’m a male cocksucker who is strictly a cocksucker cum slut with other men. I’m not attracted to other men. I’m physically and emotionally attracted to women. However, a big cut penis with a large mushroom head truly makes me feel weak in the knees around other men. I’m very attracted to certain cocks. I prefer giving head to a more aggressive feeder who knows how to put a cocksucker like me in his proper place sexually. However, all I do with men is give blowjobs, and doing kinky things with cum as a true cum slut.

[ScottSwallows]

I prefer balls that hang low.

[Ecloudz77]

Hello all.

What a coincidence..I have a pretty cock and tight but shaven balls..hehe

[Rest85]

I’m a male cocksucker who is strictly a cocksucker cum slut with other men. I’m not attracted to other men. I’m physically and emotionally attracted to women. However, a big cut penis with a large mushroom head truly makes me feel weak in the knees around other men. I’m very attracted to certain cocks. I prefer giving head to a more aggressive feeder who knows how to put a cocksucker like me in his proper place sexually. However, all I do with men is give blowjobs, and doing kinky things with cum as a true cum slut.

I'm the same. I have set up meetings with guys with the intention of only having an initial meet and greet without expecting to go further....just to talk and see it we both want to go do more.
Then I invariably ask to see his cock. Once I see it, I have to stroke and fondle it. Once i stroke and fondle it I can't resist sucking it. At that point I am a slut for the sensation of his cock spurting cum.
But, that's all I'm interested in doing with a guy.

[Jozyxt]

I prefer balls that hang low.

I'd love to see if mine are big and low enough for you.

[DLazguy]

I am not attracted to men romantically, but I can admire a man with a nice body, cock and balls. I love women, but I have never been attracted to an unattractive or fat woman and have not had sex with one. So why would I be any different with a guy. I won't play with an unattractive or fat guy, even if he has the perfect cock and balls. We all have our preferences. Mine is a guy that is in decent shape, not hairy, bigger than average cut cock, preferably with a good size pair of balls that are smooth and hang the right amount. I want to be able to suck his balls into my mouth or feel them slap against me when he's fucking me.

[tongueteaser]

I’m a male cocksucker who is strictly a cocksucker cum slut with other men. I’m not attracted to other men. I’m physically and emotionally attracted to women. However, a big cut penis with a large mushroom head truly makes me feel weak in the knees around other men. I’m very attracted to certain cocks. I prefer giving head to a more aggressive feeder who knows how to put a cocksucker like me in his proper place sexually. However, all I do with men is give blowjobs, and doing kinky things with cum as a true cum slut.
Very nice reply. Sounds just like me.

[tongueteaser]

I'm the same. I have set up meetings with guys with the intention of only having an initial meet and greet without expecting to go further....just to talk and see it we both want to go do more.
Then I invariably ask to see his cock. Once I see it, I have to stroke and fondle it. Once i stroke and fondle it I can't resist sucking it. At that point I am a slut for the sensation of his cock spurting cum.
But, that's all I'm interested in doing with a guy.

Sound like quite sensible to me also. Once I see the cock and its a nice looking cock and yummy head and hard then I want to suck that cock like now. I want to suck and taste that dick and get his cum

[happystick]

YES!!!!!!!

[Neonaught]

Seems to me the two of you met and once you get naked you might as well go for it! I guess this is why I never enjoyed strip clubs: if a naked woman is going to climb in my lap she had better expect to get fucked!



I am not attracted to men romantically, but I can admire a man with a nice body, cock and balls. I love women, but I have never been attracted to an unattractive or fat woman and have not had sex with one. So why would I be any different with a guy. I won't play with an unattractive or fat guy, even if he has the perfect cock and balls. We all have our preferences. Mine is a guy that is in decent shape, not hairy, bigger than average cut cock, preferably with a good size pair of balls that are smooth and hang the right amount. I want to be able to suck his balls into my mouth or feel them slap against me when he's fucking me.

[DLazguy]

As I said, I have to be physically attracted (face, body and cock).

[CockHummer]

This changed a lot during my life. When I was a younger adult man and teen, I fantasized about having sex with men, and I didn't think about kissing or playing with their breasts, but it was more than just the cock and balls I wanted. I craved being in bed nude with another guy and feeling our bodies rub against each other. as we moved for the purpose of groping each other's dicks. Hugging would certainly be part of it, and frotting our cocks together. I also fantasized regularly about taking cock up my ass, and I had a dildo I pretended to have bought for my ex-wife and got so into it that it ended up inside my anus--I mean the whole thing--it was one that didn't have fake testicles to inhibit that from happening, and I sure liked the feelings, both physical and mental, of having a hard dick giving me a rectal massage and being attached to anoth3er guy who was enjoying every feeling attached to fucking me there, in and out and in and out. I even had one crazy fantasy, where I was a female, getting fucked by my male lover. I would stroke my cock while masturbating, but I would fantasize that I was stroking his cock as it pushed its way in and out of my pussy, rather than my own. Of course, it had to be really dark for that one to work, but it really worked, especially if I let myself imagine that he was going to get me pregnant, of all the crazy things--I am a very masculine male and have no real feminine self-image, but it worked in that one fantasy dramatically well. I would also occasionally fantasize about French kissing my teenage boyfriend--the first guy whose cock I sucked, and I thought it seemed like an odd idea, but then I said, what about it should be all that different from kissing a female's mouth, and I added it to fantasies of sucking off his gorgeous, fat cock, and it really added something to the erotic excitement.! Before we got sucking, we would just spend a little while in foreplay, jerking each other off manually, while we kissed with deep tonguing and tasting every part of each other's mouths that we could reach and we hugged each other with the free arm that was not involved in enjoying the other's cock, and it was hot. It definitely added the spice of something new to my masturbatory fantasies of fucking my old friend. I would fuck him in a heart beat, but he had a neurologic problem that influenced his erectile function, and rather than look for ways to deal with that, he just gave up his sex drive altogether. It was a sad day when I moved back to the same area fairly near where we had grown up together and he informed me of that fact. I have to have sucked him off hundreds of times in my fantasies, because he was the first, and his cock was just amazing!

The crazy thing is that for a number of years, I had lost the ability to enjoy that part of homoerotic fantasies and interactions. I've found it hard to come close to getting a cock in my mouth, even though I crave it intensely, because I no longer find men at all attractive somehow. It may be because about twenty years ago, being somewhat creative and talented at using graphic apps on the PC, before it was an ordinary part of the internet like it is now to such an absurd degree, with futanari and big-cock shemales, I got very good at taking a photo of a woman I found really attractive and pasting a very sexy cock on the image so it looked realistic and in the "right" place, and that turned me on so much, that somehow the idea of finding guys attractive, just because they were the much more likely place to find the meat, faded away, and I've had the hardest time getting it back, because I really want to get some cock, balls, and cum in my mouth. Having some of he most intense orgasms of my life by jerking off fantasizing about gorgeous women with nice breasts and a beautiful ass and a really hot cock and balls just ruined the old ability to get off on fantasizing sexually about other guys, as much as my erotic love for cock still prevailed.

Just writing that as I did, though, and allowing myself to jerk off imagining that I was another fellow on here who wrote about how he has recently found a guy that lives near him and wants to have him suck him off about as often as he wants to do it, while viewing images of really pretty cocks online, just brought it back for me, and I think I may start finding men attractive again. It was the first time in years that I came hard imagining that I was sucking off another guy rather than a woman with a hot dick, and I really liked it a lot. Of course they will not be attractive the same way that a woman is attractive, but I find the idea of sucking off a nice cock much more erotically stimulating than I do eating pussy, so it will be worth my working to get there. I want another man in my bed, with his cock in my mouth. There are no two ways about it and in one sense, at least, no two ways to get there, either. I am bisexual, but I want so badly to get queer and really let myself enjoy some cock. I find I'm even starting to get off imagining rimming a guy, as long as I can give his asshole a good washing with soap and water before we get at it. I get a hardon just imagining starting out with my tongue buried in his anus, then licking my way up until I am sucking his balls, and then going up the face of his cock with my tongue, until I get to that gorgeous mushroom head, and I go down on it hard and suck like a mad man. I never found men as attractive in the visual sense as women, and I never will, but I don't need to to enjoy being with them sexually. A big hard cock that you know will be turned on by the idea of having you suck it is all that it takes. I'm so horny thinking about this, I'm about to cum again. There is not question. I need dick.

[nu2curious]

Yes I'm very fond of close huggers although a nice dick with low hangers is attractive too.

[seniorsucker]

I find it interesting that my sexual preferences are not all that unusual. I am in no way attracted to a man, nor would I consider kissing or cuddling with them. I am, however attracted to women. That being said my bisexuality must stem from the oral fixation I've had all my life. I love performing oral on men and women. I will bottom if the situation is right. I've had anal sex with women and enjoy it, but I really don't want to perform anal on a guy. My fantasy is to service a man/woman couple or even a group. I have no hangups on body types either. I thought this was pretty unique but I'm finding it really isn't. They need to come up with a term for this. It's not as cut and dried as just bisexual.

[RisingBi]

YOU KNOW, EVERY TIME I START ONE OF THESE POSTS, I'M THINKING THIS ONE I WILL KEEP NICE AND SHORT, JUST LIKE EVERYBODY ELSE'S. NOBODY WANTS TO READ THESE LONG EXPOS?S. DAMN! AND SORRY.

There are as many differences in people's sexuality as there are people. No, I'm wrong. If you include the time factor, it's many times greater than the earth's population. Many people change their sexual taste over time, especially bisexuals. From everything that I've read on forums like this over many years, it seems the majority of bi guys are only cock-focused, and many of them stay that way over time, and for the rest of their lives, and are perfectly content with that.

But as we can even read in this thread, others evolve to liking more aspects of the guy over time. I myself began by just fantasizing about cocks, and eventually sucking them. But as I watched more gay porn, I began liking the anal things I was seeing, and began fantasizing about that too. But in my first 21 years of getting naked with guys in real life, I had zero interest in anything anal with the real man in front of me. But then, still in those 21 years, my fantasies grew from the guy's asshole--rimming and fucking IT--to including more of the guy's body, and kissing, and having a deeper intimacy with HIM, fucking THIS MAN, and not just his asshole, and then even love, and--my God--even eventually fantasizing about having a boyfriend or husband!

But in real life, I had no desire for the guy I was having oral sex with. It was just his cock. But at home the anal and love fantasies continued. And certainly I had no desire whatsoever for any guys on the street with their clothes on, unlike my feelings for the women on the street I was attracted to. What the hell was going on? How can my fantasies be so different from reality?

But then at the end of those first 21 years, in 2013, at 51, I finally felt extreme lust for this young twink's ass in a bathhouse, and I went apeshit on his asshole, tonguefucking him for more than an hour before finally giving in to his screaming pleas and my own overwhelming desire to fuck him. Penetrating another man's hole is what changed everything for me, allowing me to get closer in touch with the gay side of myself deeply repressed, and finally accepting my bisexuality, and loving it. I stopped all anonymous cocksucking and just started getting together with local guys in each other's homes for both oral and anal play, and PLEASURE, and I was loving it, loving a guy's entire body, hugging and kissing.

But despite my continuing fantasies for it, I still never had romantic feelings for any guy I had sex with. But I did start noticing guys with their clothes on that I found attractive, and feeling desire for them--not as strong as with women, but it was definitely starting to be there. The gay part of me was coming more and more to the surface, to my conscious mind. So what has been going on with me for 29 years now?

Everybody knows about homophobia, and how biased against same-gender sex and love our society is. The pressure is so great from societal forces as well as family and friends in our own personal lives, that it's always a real struggle with those with same-sex curiosity to accept their budding bisexuality or homosexuality. Everybody knows this. But it's not just the external pressures that cause this difficulty with inner acceptance. I believe that there is a huge amount of internalized homophobia that all of us have. If you think about it, how can we not have that? But we don't think about it. In fact, most of us don't even let ourselves believe we have any internalized homophobia. I bet those of you that have made it this far into this book of a post are denying it right now! Our conscious mind is of course very progressive in our thinking, especially if we're actually engaging in taboo same-gender sex, or even romance. But our unconscious mind rebels, thinking there is something very wrong with our desires and activities, all pounded into us over our lifetime by society, generation after generation.

So because of this internalized homophobia, our unconscious mind just will not allow our conscious mind to do anything "too gay", like engaging in anal activities with a man or full body contact or kissing. In fact, it doesn't even let us DESIRE those things. So for 21 years, my true gay side of myself came forth in my love of gay porn and my gay fantasies about everything homosexual, but my unconscious mind did not let me feel desire for a guy's ass in real life; desire to rim and fuck him, or have him fuck me; did not allow me to like the rest of the guy's body or person, or to kiss him; and certainly did not allow me to fall for him--fall in love with another man! Verboten! ...Not until those desires naturally evolved within myself, poked their heads out of my psyche without me vehemently opposing them.

I'm not saying this is what's happening in you necessarily. Perhaps you are just a phallos worshipper, something that has existed throughout many of our societies for thousands of years. The erect penis is the epitome of masculinity, of strength and power. It's an archetype that's hardwired into our psyche. Of course it makes sense that men would desire cock. It's only internalized homophobia that prevents the majority of men from also lusting after cock. So I'm not telling you that you're wrong if that's all you enjoy with men. You are who you are, and you are who you are at this time in your life. Period. Good on you!

But I'm just talking about all the psychological stuff to give some of you pause--something to think about with respect to yourself. It certainly has given me insight into my own evolution of my sexuality, which has steadily progressed with more and more layers of that cabbage-like misinformed protective shield in my mind being gradually destroyed--a very slow removal of one cabbage leaf after another, with the light of my gay side at the heart of it slowly shining brighter and brighter through the remaining homophobic leaves of delusion.

And now, finally, another step--two weeks ago, I experienced the same feelings for a guy that I felt for my last girlfriend before we got together. I think I have romantic feelings for another man! Could it be? But I have received some good advice, in another thread that I started on this matter, to take it slow, see where our growing friendship goes, see whether my feelings are real, and see whether he has any reciprocating feelings, which I am suspecting, but can't yet be sure of. Right now it's just a new, so far platonic, and straight relationship. But whatever this is, I can say that it's still the next evolutionary step in my weakening my internalized homophobia, and accepting the gay part of myself more and more.

[licyou69]

I'm only interested with a full on relationship being with a woman. On a man, besides being attracted to and wanting to swallow the cum from a good looking cock, I also want them to have at least a hwp body. So, in that respect I'm attracted to men's bodies as well. I'm not attracted to the person in a male body though.

[phalluster]

I'm with many of you on the cock lust thing. I've adored looking at cock since I was a teen 50 years ago but only sucked one. At that time I didn't really love and I "decided" I was not gay. But my desire for cock has never really gone away, and it is limited to cock with no desire to have any other than a normal friend relationship with a man. What keeps me from acting on it is not latent homophobia but marriage to a women who is my soulmate. I was recently very close to hooking up with a man that seems like the perfect guy to have a FWB relationship with, but then it dawned on me that having sex with him would be cheating on my wife just as it would be to have sex with another woman. So I remain unfulfilled in my lust for cock, but comfortable with the decision.

[seniorsucker]

I'm not attracted to guys but I do like a hard cock. I've recently started embracing getting fucked. I like a good blow job as much as the next guy, but I have no desire to fuck anyone. I'd like to experiment with a transsexual guy. I'd like to see how I would respond to them. But I've talked to a lot of guys that feel the same way as I do. We will trade blows all day, but no attraction. That's why it irritates me when someone demands a face pic. I'm not kissing you. Don't worry about my face. I'm not worried about yours.

[guywholikesboth]

I love to suck cock but the one I truly crave is any uncut saw my first at 8 and fell in love with the way it looked sucked my first ones at 13 2 brothers they didn't know I was suck them both love it when I get to suck any uncut cock

[seniorsucker]

I'm glad to see I'm not the only one with this "affliction". I've always had an oral fixation. It's always been to my advantage. When It comes to women there isn't one single part of their body I won't kiss, lick, or suck. I kept my exwife producing milk for over a year after she stopped breast feeding the kids. I could give graduate level courses in eating pussy. The idea of sucking a guy's cock didn't come to me until I was in my 50's and my hetero sex life was waning. I'd watch blow job videos and suddenly realized I was wishing I was the one doing it. Once I actually gave a blow job, I'd rather do that than be with a woman, although they do enhance the experience. I'm very attracted to women, but I've never met a guy that I've felt that way about. I just want to suck their cock and if I'm in the mood let them fuck me. I like to jerk off while being fucked. I've never even had the desire to fuck a guy. But its nice to see there are others like myself. I just wish there were more tops and versatiles out there. I'm more than happy to let you suck me, but let me return the favor.

[Cock Spotter]

I'm very much a pretty cock and tight balls kind of guy (which for me is cut and shaved). Also not really attracted to guys (I mean I can appreciate a good looking person), but really just interested in everything cock.


In my case, this all may be possible because I enjoy cross-dressing and love to take on a feminine role in lovemaking. I like it to be a realistic experience for everyone involved, even though it's basically role-playing. I'm a sane, law-abiding husband, dad and grandfather in everyday life, doing all the 'guy things' around the house, as I always have.


Although I have not gone there (yet), I often think about taking a nice cock in my ass while dressed up. Perhaps it's the role-playing as you mentioned, but I more like the idea of getting fucked as a "girl" than as a man. I don't consider myself a CD and don't feel need to act feminine while playing with cock at any other time. Just in this particular scenario.

I'm new on here so if anyone knows of a particular thread discussing this, I would be grateful for a link. Thanks!

[twilde1952]

Not looking for a long term relationship just fun! Sucking, fucking, and cock worship. Getting naked and exploring.

[theoldervet]

very true, i just want your cock and cum nothing else

[theoldervet]

yes i love cock and cum, not the men, i just started thinking about getting fucked

[Biguyincolorado]

Me to a tee..... I love a nice cock and nice set of balls.... I can enjoy them for hours but just not interested in anything else, but I DO LOVE COCK.