How to meet other big married males

[Kamasutra69]

Any suggestions on how to meet other married bi-men?? Always have known since my early teens I was no but never acted on it until in my 50's. Had a wonderful time exploring this side of my sexuality with another man who was very patient with me. Had my second encounter last year and was to experience the various ways two men can pleasure themselves sexually together. Would like to continue so any suggestions on finding someone?

[Veryoralniceguy]

Try Squirt and Doublelist ads.

[Jozyxt]

Silver Daddies too.

I found being direct about the details on Double list will get you the best responses to an ad. It can take a while. I suggest you set up separate accounts for this activity. Email is easy to do, but get a seperate phone number as well. Either a prepaid phone or a VOIP app on you current phone. (LIke Google voice) This makes it easy to ignore occasional flake that may happen your way.

I too am a late to life convert to MM sex and am looking to get more of it.

[ajr12002]

To me it depends upon what you want. I feel like double list is random hook ups, but I definitely get the point about being direct. Been using Silver Daddies it’s ok. Been trying squirt recently TBD. SD & Squirt seem more conducive to meeting somebody and figuring out. Squirt for random hook ups too.

Too much flakiness though. It’s like chat a little bit, exchange pictures, agree on same page and move forward. That would be too simple, it’s just very frustrating. Aren’t we all after the same thing.

[Jkf665]

Sniffies.com

[Jozyxt]

To me it depends upon what you want. I feel like double list is random hook ups, but I definitely get the point about being direct. Been using Silver Daddies it?s ok. Been trying squirt recently TBD. SD & Squirt seem more conducive to meeting somebody and figuring out. Squirt for random hook ups too.

Too much flakiness though. It?s like chat a little bit, exchange pictures, agree on same page and move forward. That would be too simple, it?s just very frustrating. Aren?t we all after the same thing.

I have been back on DL the past few days looking for some head. I get these guys that can only ask where I live time and again, after I have said I can't host. They refuse to answer question themselves If they aren't just flakes looking for beat off material, then maybe they are bots, so I never answer directly or in the exact same way. After a few emails of not working toward a meeting, tell them to put up or shut up.

I started up on SD again too. The profiles I contacted haven;t responded. But I guess the activity got my profile turning up for others. So I get request form guys that live a 45 minute drive form me. Way too far. Since I am a non paying member, I just use the generic not interested reply.

It shouldn't take so much work to find a nearby regular reliable guy that wants to suck my cock without needing to pay for a room. But it sure seems to be.

[SuckerMC]

A very nice feature I like on Double list is the Favorites. If you save a ad as a Favorite and the ad expires or gets deleted and that person reposts that ad later at any time the it highlighta again in your Favorites list.

[jjourneyman]

Did you mean to post other "Bi" or "Big" males?

[ajr12002]

I have been back on DL the past few days looking for some head. I get these guys that can only ask where I live time and again, after I have said I can't host. They refuse to answer question themselves If they aren't just flakes looking for beat off material, then maybe they are bots, so I never answer directly or in the exact same way. After a few emails of not working toward a meeting, tell them to put up or shut up.

I started up on SD again too. The profiles I contacted haven;t responded. But I guess the activity got my profile turning up for others. So I get request form guys that live a 45 minute drive form me. Way too far. Since I am a non paying member, I just use the generic not interested reply.

It shouldn't take so much work to find a nearby regular reliable guy that wants to suck my cock without needing to pay for a room. But it sure seems to be.

well at least I am not going crazy. Thanks for the feedback.

[csreef]

I would say just listen to your married buddies. If they complain how their wife has Menopause and will not give them sex, they are a potential playmate. (2 CENTS WORTH. MILAGE MAY VARY)

[Jozyxt]

well at least I am not going crazy. Thanks for the feedback.


It looks like you and I and the handful of other men here are truly sane seekers in the bi/gay world. LOL

[Jazminedress]

When I travel, I look specific for Gay friendly hotels, then look to see if they have a bar, if nothing else, I usually get a few drinks paid for, and the company pays for the hotel, so there is that.

Other things, I stay away from the gay young peoples bars, I go to the more relaxed older crowd ones where I can sit and have a conversation

[BigAlNYC]

Did you mean to post other "Bi" or "Big" males?

"Big Married Males", I thought it was a thread about me!