On edging.

[dowmass]

I?ve met someone that says he?d like to be sucked, but wants to be edged.
i have heard of this technique, but really how is this to be done?
is there a technique to master? Thanks in advance for your replies.
not sure if this will help, but he?s hung.. 8 inches, thick and cut.

[Rest85]

Tell him that he can pull away when he gets too close to cumming and give himself a break till he calms down. Tell him you'll be glad to stop and start as he chooses. That way he can allow himself to edge and treat you to a strong spurting load when he finally allows himself to get off.

I find it is best to let the guy control the stopping and restarting when he wants to edge. It is too easy for the cocksucker to misjudge and not stop in time, especially if it is someone you haven't sucked often and aren't familiar with the signs of when to back off.

[Veryoralniceguy]

I’d like to edge a guy, but most want a quick blow and go experience.

[jjourneyman]

I agree with Veryoralniceguy... Edging takes time and self control, whether you're edging yourself or someone else. It's been my experience that most guys who are looking for a bj are either too nervous or in too big of a hurry to let you linger too long. Most are just looking to get sucked, cum, and leave - your classic blow-n-go.

I have had a few regular FWBs who would let me take my time and stroke and suck them to the brink, then we would take a break and have a beer, watch some porn or something for a while before we went back to it. In fact, I had one friend who would tell his wife he was going golfing so we'd have several uninterrupted hours to spend sucking and fucking.

In terms of technique, I've found the best way to edge a guy is to start with a good massage (I even invested in a portable massage table and several bottles of unscented oils for such occasions). As a precursor to the main rub-down, I like to start by stroking and gently sucking his cock and balls, just enough to get him good and hard, but not too much to make him cum. This also tends to get me hard.

Then I move on to the body rub where I only pay slight attention to his cock with an occasional stroke or suck. By this time, his pre-cum is usually flowing pretty well, which I love being able to squeeze out and clean up with my tongue.

After 30-60 minutes of this treatment, he is literally ready to explode. At this point, we're ready to move to the couch or the bed. I always like to give my partner the option as to where he wants to finish, in my mouth, ass or on my body. Although I prefer one of the first two options, I'm also OK taking his load on my face or chest. It's entirely his choice.

I've found this approach works well for a number of reasons. Not only does it physically feel good for the receiver, it's a relaxing and calming experience. And, from a psychological standpoint, it serves to create a total power shift toward the climax. While I am largely in control during the massage/foreplay phase, he is in control of where and how he wants to finish. Whether I end up swallowing his load, taking it deep inside me, or feeling it splash across my face or chest, the result is a win-win!

While I'm not opposed to blow-n-goes - they're definitely better than nothing - I absolutely prefer a long edging session time permitting.

[KDaddy23]

Time is always the enemy. When I have the time to give a proper blowjob, it can take a while - I'm not in a hurry for him to cum. I'm not deliberately edging him - I was like this before I even heard of this - but, yeah, if I have the time to suck him for a long time before he cums, that works. If a blow and go, well, that works, too. Personally, I'd rather cum sooner than later; there's the chance that I'll get overstimulated - and not the other guy's fault - and won't be able to... and that tends to piss me off.