A question about younger Tops.

[dowmass]

Do you know of anyone that?s a younger top, that?s F*cking a bottom that?s 20+ years older?
in your opinion how does it feel to have sex with a daddy bottom that?s older?

An unconnected question.. would it matter to you if your older bottom doesn?t have a hard dick (ED issues)
He more than makes up for it - he is a great kisser, a great cocksucker, has a very tight ass, and is a great lover.

your thoughts?

[redngoldpride]

If my bottom has ED issues it does not alter my need for us to both have a satisfying , pleasureable time with such a great contentment that we are looking forward to our next time together

[Neonaught]

I have a couple of older buddies that have had prostate surgery so total ED and no cumshot. Their asses and mouths still enjoy my cock so it doesn't bother me. I can only suck slimmer cock anyway after a jaw reconstruction.

[dowmass]

Thanks! As compared to being with a younger guy, how does it feel fucking an older bottom? Does it feel different in terms of how they “serve”, and how they are in bed?

[KDaddy23]

My question would be: Why would you think there's some big difference in this? When I was younger - in my 20s - and getting with guys in their 40s/early 50s - I'd have to say that any differences I noted were... minor. Sure, they wanted a "young stud" to top them and very sure about what they wanted and without any unreasonable expectations and having sex with them was less... hectic, for lack of a better word. Other than these things - and some other stuff I can't think of right now - the only real difference noted - and compared to having sex with someone more my age - was there was less drama involved. Now, having bottomed for guys my age and for guys in that 40-50 range, guys my age were about trying to bang me through the bed and all that but the older guys were not of a mind to do that, well, not often and definitely when I'd make it clear that I don't like being hammered.

Otherwise, if there were differences, they were personality on top of their idea of what fucking a guy meant and how that's supposed to work. To me, those are expected differences so they're not of any real consequence because if I'm topping a guy of any age, well, I'm topping him and the same for bottoming. How guys behave in either situation? Yeah, don't get me started but I've often wonder why we make a difference here other than the younger/older thing that rocks a lot of guys' boat. It's being screwed. The way you want to be or the way the other guy wants to. Either ridden hard or not so much.

I topped a 72-year-old guy off and on over this past summer. He did, in fact, suffer from ED and felt some kind of way about that but I could suck him into a semblance of hardness and he could cum a little but fucking him was like any other guy I've ever fucked - but if there was a difference, it was that he was "submissive" in that he preferred to be a bottom. The main thing is that the differences in our ages didn't mean anything to either of us. The last time I bottomed for someone in their 20s and I was in my mid-40s, eh, he wasn't as good at it as he claimed but I didn't expect him to be; it was like he was trying to prove something to me and if so, he failed to prove anything or impress me with his prowess all that much and more so when he came in me inside of four minutes and after going on and on about how he was gonna give it to me real good and other nonsense that I don't pay attention to: Don't talk shit - just bring it.

Is attitude a thing in it being different? Is the difference in maturity a determining factor in the young/old dynamic? I'd say your experiences will differ and might even differ from any expectations or other notions you may (or may not) have. Just my $0.58 worth.

[Tight1-4u]

KDaddy is spot on!! I might add that one or two things might be slightly different.. now this is going to be dependent upon the individual.. older tops are quite deliberate in their sex.. they know what they want and how they want it.. younger tops may not.. they may be still figuring out those things.. most older tops know how to use what they have..
now there is something to be said for the young top that has a really nice cock and going for the ride,, letting him bang away figuring it out.. it can be very erotic having a younger stud top with lots of stamina banging away for a long time,, just go for the ride.. lay back relax and let him have his way.. now I am not saying that the younger are better or worse just go for a ride you might find something you like too..

[KDaddy23]

KDaddy is spot on!! I might add that one or two things might be slightly different.. now this is going to be dependent upon the individual.. older tops are quite deliberate in their sex.. they know what they want and how they want it.. younger tops may not.. they may be still figuring out those things.. most older tops know how to use what they have..
now there is something to be said for the young top that has a really nice cock and going for the ride,, letting him bang away figuring it out.. it can be very erotic having a younger stud top with lots of stamina banging away for a long time,, just go for the ride.. lay back relax and let him have his way.. now I am not saying that the younger are better or worse just go for a ride you might find something you like too..

Right - I thought about those couple of things but didn't mention them - that's my fault. When you've been both the younger and older guy and being screwed, it's about perspective and what you've learned from your bottoming experiences. Younger guys fuck like they have something to prove while older guys fuck like they have nothing to prove. Youthful enthusiasm versus the more chill attitudes older men have. At some point and when you've bottomed a lot, you're aware of the individual differences but you kinda just don't care if the guy topping you is a young stud or an older one... as long as they give you a good fucking. Still, the level of experience can be a factor but not so much of one since there are guys my age who are just now in the party and they're figuring out some stuff - and just as some younger guys might be doing; life experience and sexual experience aren't always at the same levels.

Fun to think about this stuff because there's some... historical-type stuff about the younger/older dynamic but when it's time to "bend over and grab your ankles," what really matters is did you get fucked (and creamed)? Did you find it to your satisfaction? If the answers are yes, then anything else is just a rather fascinating and interesting thing to just think about.