is it wrong

[mr bill]

since my wife passed, i have been dressing more and more.
i am afraid i am going crazy.
all i think about is what will i wear when i get off work. i loved my wife, still do.
am i ok or need help

[twilde1952]

No you're not going crazy, but it might be a good idea to talk to someone about your grief and how to handle it a little better and take some of the pain away to help manage the grief. We all need help now and then.

[dan.woodlawn]

Barb, you were dressing fem before your wife passed. What might have changed is that you miss her more and relate more in female clothes. I dont think you are in a place where you can make long term decisions given all the tumult of the last couple years.

Do what you want, be safe, and see where you end up in a couple years. People change and you dont always know how its going to change.

[Jazminedress]

Honestly, its hard to tel from a forum.........in one respect you could feel more free now, but honestly, it doesnt sound like it. As others have said, I weould highly encourage seeing someone, it couldnt hurt

[csreef]

If it helps you get thru your Grief, I'd say keep doing it.

[void()]

*gives mr bill a big warm hug, steps away and speaks softly* Agree with consensus. Keep doing what helps, maybe see a pro to help with grief. You're not crazy, yes, I would know. *grins and wanders along*

[redngoldpride]

Try not to stress my friend relax when you think of her embrace her totally and completely. She is with you and love yourself and all that you enjoy if it is the lingerie or skirts/dresses be yourself and keep her in your mind and heart

[mr bill]

thanks for the support.
now i want to find out if i like anal or not. i need to know.
i am more and more expressing my fem side.
where can i get female hormones for hrt

[mnjack]

mr bill,
I, too, have lost two wives whom I loved so, while I am not where you are, I have lived in that neighborhood. I have great sympathy for what you are going through and wish you the best.

If embracing your feminine side is what you want to do and comes from a healthy place then go for it! I would urge you to seek professional counselling about your grief before you undertake something like HRT to ensure that what you plan is not an unhealthy reaction to your loss. Hormone therapy at our age (I am a bit older than your profile age) is nothing to mess with unless it is monitored by a trained physician.