A big question about "Daddy Bottoms"

[dowmass]

I am 60 and so a "Daddy". I also happen to be a "total bottom".

I was wondering if there are younger tops that love fucking a older "DADDY BOTTOM"? I once had someone call me to say that he had a thing for "daddies" and he would love to have an ongoing thing - and fuck "daddy" on a regular basis. As in most cases, this guy was a (Snow) flake and promptly disappeared.

When I go on Double list, when I search for "daddy", it is all about younger bottoms wanting to be topped by older Daddies. Of course there are the older top daddies that want to do a younger bottom. I haven't come across a younger top wanting to mount a "daddy".

To me, that would be an ideal situation. If a hung hard, virile younger guy loves to top "Daddy", that would mean hours and hours of bliss - but does that really happen at all?

[Jozyxt]

Bottoms seem to outnumber tops online by a large degree. IME you will get better results if you can be flexible in what you are willing to do (like just giving head) and if you can host. The more available you make yourself the more likely you are to find compatible partners.

[KDaddy23]

My 40-something protege just loves fucking 60+ daddies which he doesn't seem to have a problem finding (or finding bottoms at all). On the other side, he gets a lot of hits from 20-somethings who want daddy (him) to do them. I remember him saying once that a 20-something wanted to top him but he's got a "thing" about 20-somethings so he turned the guy down. Even he mentions that there seems to be more bottoms - of all ages - than tops and he also sees a lot of versatile guys who are willing to bottom for him. Many of the 60+ daddies he gets with are bottoms and the few I know of are more of a mind to bottom. The one 70-year-old I've gotten with a few times doesn't consider himself a daddy but he's 100% bottom and told me that it just works for him - and he doesn't suffer from ED.

Even I get a lot of "requests" from younger bottoms wanting me to do them but few younger tops are looking for a daddy they can bang. It happens but I guess it all depends on where you are in the world and the men in the area...

[dowmass]

Bottoms seem to outnumber tops online by a large degree. IME you will get better results if you can be flexible in what you are willing to do (like just giving head) and if you can host. The more available you make yourself the more likely you are to find compatible partners.

I wouldn?t insist that the guy that gets his cock sucked also take my ass. I am trying that route and soon I?ll write about how far I got.

[KDaddy23]

"I wouldn't insist that the guy that gets his cock sucked also take my ass."

Hmm, that sounds like fun to me. When I'm gonna bottom for a guy, that dick is gonna get sucked before the fact! I've had guys do me without being sucked first and it wasn't that much fun; made me feel like something was missing.

[cornholejoe]

i have done it with some younger men but have more fun with older men

[dowmass]

"I wouldn't insist that the guy that gets his cock sucked also take my ass."

Hmm, that sounds like fun to me. When I'm gonna bottom for a guy, that dick is gonna get sucked before the fact! I've had guys do me without being sucked first and it wasn't that much fun; made me feel like something was missing.

i agree. I have had two tops so far. The first insisted on wearing rubber while being sucked. Now that may be a safe thing to do, but it wasn?t very appealing. The next thing i knew we were in bed and he was lubing my pussy. The other top went straight to topping me for over an hour non- stop.. he tild me later that he had been ?partying?.

ideally I would like to suck a dick before taking it in. However some people want just a BJ. Nothing will persuade them to top a guy.

[Warmnsalty]

Dad bottom here as well, the struggle is real. Most younger want to bottom, I LOVE when I find a younger top, but it's few and far between

[Neonaught]

Dad top here. I usually avoid the younger guys online. Most never show up or are running the badger game con. I've had a couple make very clumsy attempts to extort money from me.

[dowmass]

Dad top here. I usually avoid the younger guys online. Most never show up or are running the badger game con. I've had a couple make very clumsy attempts to extort money from me.

When you say "made clumsy attempts to extort money from me", what was their modus operandi - if you can share ?
I haven't given this "extortion" thing a thought - fortunately my tops were 40 plus and decent dudes.

[KDaddy23]

@dowmass: There are a lot of young guys who are basically whoring themselves; they insist that if you wanna get with them, you have to have a job, a home you can host in, a car, and be able to literally take care of them in that sugar daddy/kept woman kind of way. I've seen some who threaten to expose the guy who rejects their proposal... and like the young idiot really believes that he can do that when most guys online looking for sex do so anonymously and not keen to make a lot of details about themselves that public. Those fools are a rare occurrence... but the ones who want you to pay (in some way) to have sex with them? They're out there and, again, it's mostly young 20-something dudes.

What they don't know or care about is that they ruin things for legit 20-somethings who are looking for a daddy to have sex with and all they want to do is have sex with zero strings attached.

[Neonaught]

When you say "made clumsy attempts to extort money from me", what was their modus operandi - if you can share ?
I haven't given this "extortion" thing a thought - fortunately my tops were 40 plus and decent dudes.

The Badger game is one of the oldest cons in the book. Google it. These "young men" (who really knows how old they actually were) would engage me in conversation claiming they were of legal age, then we exchanged some pictures. Bingo! A short time later they suddenly cop to being underage. Later, someone claiming to be their family contacts you and demands a meeting to discuss your "crime". I refused and pointed out I had done nothing illegal and hung put. A day later I get a call from someone claiming to be a police detective. The attempt was clumsy because the idiot used the same name when playing the "cop" as he did when he claimed to be the "boy's" dad. Whoever it was also could barely speak english.
Protect yourselves out there guys.

[dowmass]

The Badger game is one of the oldest cons in the book. Google it. These "young men" (who really knows how old they actually were) would engage me in conversation claiming they were of legal age, then we exchanged some pictures. Bingo! A short time later they suddenly cop to being underage. Later, someone claiming to be their family contacts you and demands a meeting to discuss your "crime". I refused and pointed out I had done nothing illegal and hung put. A day later I get a call from someone claiming to be a police detective. The attempt was clumsy because the idiot used the same name when playing the "cop" as he did when he claimed to be the "boy's" dad. Whoever it was also could barely speak english.
Protect yourselves out there guys.

i had a couple of guys write to me, claiming to be ?navy seals? that are now getting out of the armed forces soon. I have seen their posts repeatedly on Doublelist. Probably the pictures were fake and these are attemts to extort money.

One good thing.. their description of themselves was flawless , and too good to be true. I thank them for that!!!

[dowmass]

Absolutely true. So well written, KDaddy23.

Thanks.

[stonebow]

i have done it with some younger men but have more fun with older men

Yeah the few younger guys I've met seem to tend toward the flakey/flighty side. I much prefer older tops too.....experience counts for so much.