Some thoughts for you TOPS

[Tight1-4u]

so I spent some time with a guy this last weekend.. he is a very nice guy.. we seem to get along well.. he is a top that talks a good game.. he has a very nice cock 8-8.5? and really quite thick.. and y?all know I like thick!! Anyway being sub bottom I truly love sex.. to the point.. as bottoms we try to give you tops what you want and need to be pleasured.. and in doing so we are pleasured!! That being said there are a few things that we both can and should learn from each other.. let?s start with the first initial penetration
few if any bottoms like being rammed full deep the first time in.. now don?t get me wrong there is nothing wrong with going balls deep the first time.. just make sure you have used more than enough lube and go in slow and deliberately.. let him open up to you.. forcing it in is painful and you hurt him and you may be done before you get started.. then once you get in give him a moment to settle on.. get comfortable with you in him.. this will allow him to relax and enjoy the ride.. remember you are inside him!! Now when thrusting away pay attention to your bottom.. we like to moan.. when we moan it means you are doing something good.. keep at it.. the more or louder he gets the better you are doing.. listen watch, if he is moving he either is pushing back on you and liking what you are doing or trying to adjust so it feels better.. now here is one thing you should really listen to.. while fucking him don?t pull it all the way out and ram it back in over and over again.. no one likes that!!! It hurts it is hard to line things up so you don?t damage his ass.. you risk causing tears or rips!! Those tears take a couple weeks to heal.. and it hurts like hell!! Sure you will slip fall out now and then just take your time and get back in gently.. there is nothing wrong with pounding rough sex just pay attention to getting in.. now lastly be involved spank us, pull our hair, and choke us a little, you will be surprised how much that will enhance the whole experience for both.. just have fun, be playful, enjoy

[dowmass]

so I spent some time with a guy this last weekend.. he is a very nice guy.. we seem to get along well.. he is a top that talks a good game.. he has a very nice cock 8-8.5? and really quite thick.. and y?all know I like thick!! Anyway being sub bottom I truly love sex.. to the point.. as bottoms we try to give you tops what you want and need to be pleasured.. and in doing so we are pleasured!! That being said there are a few things that we both can and should learn from each other.. let?s start with the first initial penetration
few if any bottoms like being rammed full deep the first time in.. now don?t get me wrong there is nothing wrong with going balls deep the first time.. just make sure you have used more than enough lube and go in slow and deliberately.. let him open up to you.. forcing it in is painful and you hurt him and you may be done before you get started.. then once you get in give him a moment to settle on.. get comfortable with you in him.. this will allow him to relax and enjoy the ride.. remember you are inside him!! Now when thrusting away pay attention to your bottom.. we like to moan.. when we moan it means you are doing something good.. keep at it.. the more or louder he gets the better you are doing.. listen watch, if he is moving he either is pushing back on you and liking what you are doing or trying to adjust so it feels better.. now here is one thing you should really listen to.. while fucking him don?t pull it all the way out and ram it back in over and over again.. no one likes that!!! It hurts it is hard to line things up so you don?t damage his ass.. you risk causing tears or rips!! Those tears take a couple weeks to heal.. and it hurts like hell!! Sure you will slip fall out now and then just take your time and get back in gently.. there is nothing wrong with pounding rough sex just pay attention to getting in.. now lastly be involved spank us, pull our hair, and choke us a little, you will be surprised how much that will enhance the whole experience for both.. just have fun, be playful, enjoy


Great piece information - very well written.....lovely to say the least.

There is just one perspective which was different for me as a bottom. When my top took his 8.5 inch dick all the way out, and put it in - it was heavenly. Just to describe that feeling - there was a feeling of "Vacuum" or void being created, and it was a feeling of ecstasy being filled in. Possibly he did not "ram it in", but I can say that it was a wonderful experience. My top pulled out his dick and put it in about 6-7 times in the course of around 75 minutes.

[Tight1-4u]

Great piece information - very well written.....lovely to say the least.

There is just one perspective which was different for me as a bottom. When my top took his 8.5 inch dick all the way out, and put it in - it was heavenly. Just to describe that feeling - there was a feeling of "Vacuum" or void being created, and it was a feeling of ecstasy being filled in. Possibly he did not "ram it in", but I can say that it was a wonderful experience. My top pulled out his dick and put it in about 6-7 times in the course of around 75 minutes. Yes I agree that taking it out and putting it back can and dose feel amazing.. note: I said ram it back in.. I have been with a few guys that ramming seems to be part of what they think makes then aggressive, rom, in charge.. it just hurts.. but removing it and then getting back in a bit so as not to tear or rip anything then if you want to drive it home by all means yes!! I love being pounded!! You said he did it 6-7 times over 75 min.. I am talking out and right back in over and over like a jack hammer!! Just give it a bit of ease both will like it because the bottom will like it..

[Jazminedress]

I differ, but, then again, if sex was all one way, it would become a little vanilla and it wouldnt matter who you are with...................slapping me in the face with your dick, spanking or choking, we are done, just not my thing.

I dont mind a little aggressive sex as we get worked up, but a personal thing, I like the slow and deliberate, but thats just me and your mileage may vary.

[Neonaught]

Well said Tight! As a lifelong top who has bottomed a half dozen times I can testify to the accuracy of everything said. I'm large and have to carefully dilate my bottoms before going in or it's painful for me to see their faces twisted in pain and knowing I'm causing it and I lose my erection. Always use more lube than you think you'll need and get him opened up with fingers (while hot kissing is my preference) for a decent internal. Once dilated slowly enter him and let him feel every inch of you until you bottom out. Pause and allow him to adjust to you before going at it more intensely. You'll both have a more enjoyable experience and depart looking forward to more!

When I bottomed the first time he was totally inexperienced and just rammed it in to the hilt. I was in agony and by the time it got easier, about 6 strokes in, he came and that was the end of that! My later experiences were taken at a gentler, more measured pace with plenty of preparation before the big entry. The experiences were far and away better for both of us. Bottoming doesn't really do anything physically pleasurable for me but I have deep feelings for the guy in question and do it for his pleasure. I find it very erotic giving myself to him and the experience is always intense for us both!

[KDaddy23]

I do tend to think that some guys spend way too much time watching porn and then getting it into their head that just hammering the daylights out of your hole is the way it's supposed to be done... and that's the way you like it. I get annoyed when a guy does that pulling out and ramming it back in thing; you got it in me so leave it there and stop fucking around and making me uncomfortable! If I tell you to stop, just stop... and don't make me stop you; if I tell you before the fact that I do not like being hammered - you might think of my asshole as being a pussy but it really isn't - then don't hammer me; don't even think about doing that choking shit or trying to restrain me - I react very badly to such things and I do mean very badly.

Your words are good things for tops to be aware of. This is supposed to be fun and pleasurable and it's on them to not make it a bad decision on our part.

[cornholejoe]

when you get it in me leave it there and fuck me like a woman that means leave it in and give me a good fucking

[BiGuyinMA]

I hooked up with a guy about a year ago, an airport hotel in Portland, ME. He didn't have a big cock, probably only about 5" max (and that's a generous estimate) but he used that thing so well I had one of the few hand free orgasms I've ever had...