Sex Survey For You & Your Partner(s)

[billy_campbell]

This list contains several questions to help you and your partner determine the sexual activities that you might both enjoy together. Pretend as though your partner had asked you to engage in the following activities and answer either with a YES (you would to at least try it), NO (you would not want to try it) or with a MAYBE (you may be willing to try it under absolutely perfect conditions).

Honesty is very important to both you and your partner’s sexual fulfillment. This is not the time to be shy. If you think you might be wiling try something, now is the time to let your partner know. After you have both finished, go over the list together and let your partner know how you answered. If you both answered YES to an activity, you may now make plans to try it. If you both answered NO, just move on to the stuff that you both liked. If either of you answered MAYBE, find out just what it would take to make the perfect conditions necessary to try the activity. If one of you answered YES and the other answered NO, find out why you differ on the activity. Perhaps through patient communication, you may both find a way to make each other happy through bartering with other activates or perhaps through mutual sexual fantasy.

The only rule here is that neither partner is allowed to judge or get angry with the other partner because of their answer. Remember you are only answering the question as though your partner asked you to perform the activity. If you answer YES it doesn’t necessarily mean that you are even particularly aroused by the activity. It just means that you are not physically or emotionally opposed to the activity.

Would you do the following for your partner if he or she asked you to?

Manual Sex
1. Watch your partner masturbate ______
2. Watch you masturbate ______
3. Mutually masturbate ______
4. Manual clitoral stimulation ______
5. Manual penile stimulation ______
6. Manual testicle stimulation ______
7. Manual vaginal stimulation (fingering, g-spot, etc.) ______
8. Vaginal massaging of male arms, legs, back, etc. (pussy massage) ______
9. Penis to breast stimulation (titty fucking) ______
10. Vaginal fisting ______

Oral Sex
1. Cunnilingus (tongue to clitoris) ______
2. Fellatio (mouth to penis) ______
3. Tongue in vagina ______
4. Licking and sucking testicles ______
5. Licking/drinking vaginal secretions ______
6. Licking/drinking semen ______
7. Deep-throating penis ______
8. Sixty-Nine (mutual oral sex) ______

Anal Sex
1. Analingus (licking anus) giving ______
2. Analingus (licking anus) receiving ______
3. Anal fingering giving ______
4. Anal fingering receiving ______
5. Anal sex ______
6. Strap-on dildo ______

Intercourse
1. Role-playing ______
2. Position experimentation ______
3. Experiment with delayed gratification orgasm ______
4. Sex in water (pool, hot-tub, bath tub, shower) ______
5. Intercourse in different rooms ______

Toys
1. Cock-rings ______
2. Vibrator (clitoral) ______
3. Dildos ______
4. Vibrating dildo ______
5. G-Spot dildo ______
6. Butt-plug ______
7. Sex furniture (benches, wedges & swings) ______
8. Penis extension ______
9. Artificial vagina ______
10. Nipple clamps ______
11. Edible lotions ______

Watersports
1. Urinating on clitoris ______
2. Urinating on penis/tesicles ______
3. Urinating inside of vagina ______
4. Urinating on torso/abdomen (male receptive) ______
5. Urinating on breasts ______
6. Urinating on anus (receiving) ______
7. Urinating on anus (giving) ______
8. Drinking urine (receptive) ______
9. Drinking urine (giving) ______

Bondage, Spanking, Submission and Domination
1. Blindfolding ______
2. Wrist bondage ______
3. Ankle bondage ______
4. Spanking with open hand ______
5. Spanking with wisps (cat-o-nine tails) ______
6. Spanking with crop or paddle ______
7. Acting submissive (slave fantasy) ______
8. Acting dominant (master/dominatrix fantasy) ______

Outdoor/Public Sex
1. Nude beach/resort ______
2. Public exposure (flashing) ______
3. Manual fondling (i.e. groping under the dinner table) ______
4. Car sex (secluded area) ______
5. Car sex (public area) ______
6. Loud sex in hotel room ______
7. Sex outdoors in forest or park ______
8. Sex outdoors at adult resort ______
9. Monogamous group sex (with other non-swinging couples) ______
10. Monogamous group oral sex (with other non-swinging couples) ______
11. Sex at office or place of work ______
12. Sex in front of non participating spectator(s) ______

Multiple Partners - Manual
1. Threesome FF/M (females touch each other, male only touches primary partner) ______
2. Threesome FMF (females touch male only & vice/versa) ______
3. Threesome FFM (all freely participate) ______
4. Threesome MM/F (males touch each other, female only touches primary partner) ______
5. Threesome MFM (males touch female only & vice/versa) ______
6. Threesome MMF (all freely participate) ______
7. Foursome MF/FM (only females touch each other) ______
8. Foursome FM/MF (only males touch each other) ______
9. Foursome MFMF (all freely participate) ______
10. Mutual masturbation orgy ______

Multiple Partners – Oral
1. Threesome FF/M (females orally stimulate each other) ______
2. Threesome FMF (females only orally stimulate male & vice/versa) ______
3. Threesome FFM (all freely participate) ______
4. Threesome MM/F (males orally stimulate each other) ______
5. Threesome MFM (males orally stimulate female) ______
6. Threesome MMF (all freely participate) ______
7. Foursome MF/FM (females orally stimulate each other) ______
8. Foursome FM/MF (males orally stimulate each other ______
9. Foursome MFMF (all freely participate)
10. Oral Orgy ______

Multiple Partners – Penetration
1. Threesome FF/M (females penetrate each other, male penetrates primary partner only) ______
2. Threesome FMF (male penetrates both females) ______
3. Threesome FFM (all freely participate) ______
4. Threesome MM/F (males penetrate each other) ______
5. Threesome MFM (males only penetrate female) ______
6. Threesome MMF (all freely participate) ______
7. Foursome MF/MF (females penetrate each other)
8. Foursome FM/MF (males penetrate each other)
9. Foursome MFMF (all freely participate)
10. Orgy ______

[kshotbiman]

ummm cant fill in blanks.....

php failure?


lol

u cant expect me to cut and paste then edit that list!



:eek:

[DiamondDog]

interesting survey but where are the options for mm/mmm/mmmm sex, or anal fisting?

[matterinhand]

NO. NO. NO.

DO NOT PUT NUDIST BEACHES DOWN AS A PLACE FOR PUBLIC SEX !!

There are few enough places where nudists can go outside the 'club' regimes, the last thing we need are people turning up thinking its a place that because you're naked you're going to have sex.

I can seperate my sex life and my nudist / naturist life.
When I go to a beach where I'm allowed to get the sun all over I don't want to be approached by people wanting sex, I don't want that for my partner, my friends who are into nudity but not swinging, or anybody.

Its bad enough already with the sad shits in the sand-dunes getting their kicks from watching naked people, and possibly getting gratification from someone who thinks that its compulsory to have sex because they're near nude people.

Here in the UK we've lost a beach near Liverpool because of the overtly sexual activities of some people, and there's talk of shortening the section of the beach at Studlands because of the growing number of exhibitionists and open air sex addicts using the dunes.

(Nothing wrong with open air sex, just don't do it where people not expecting it might be offended or embarrassed.)

So, once again,....

DO NOT PUT NUDIST BEACHES DOWN AS A PLACE FOR PUBLIC SEX !!

[Avocado]

Here in the UK we've lost a beach near Liverpool because of the overtly sexual activities of some people,


Maybe they sell hubcaps as sex toys there ;)

[jedinudist]

NO. NO. NO.

DO NOT PUT NUDIST BEACHES DOWN AS A PLACE FOR PUBLIC SEX !!

There are few enough places where nudists can go outside the 'club' regimes, the last thing we need are people turning up thinking its a place that because you're naked you're going to have sex.

I can seperate my sex life and my nudist / naturist life.
When I go to a beach where I'm allowed to get the sun all over I don't want to be approached by people wanting sex, I don't want that for my partner, my friends who are into nudity but not swinging, or anybody.

Its bad enough already with the sad shits in the sand-dunes getting their kicks from watching naked people, and possibly getting gratification from someone who thinks that its compulsory to have sex because they're near nude people.

Here in the UK we've lost a beach near Liverpool because of the overtly sexual activities of some people, and there's talk of shortening the section of the beach at Studlands because of the growing number of exhibitionists and open air sex addicts using the dunes.

(Nothing wrong with open air sex, just don't do it where people not expecting it might be offended or embarrassed.)

So, once again,....

DO NOT PUT NUDIST BEACHES DOWN AS A PLACE FOR PUBLIC SEX !!


THANK YOU matterinhand!!!!!!! Please DO NOT equate nudism and or nudist beaches/facilites with swinging/swingers clubs!

[shameless agitator]

Great survey. I have to figure out how to casually slip this to all of my prospective partners. Does the fact that I answered yes to everything make me a total perv? Actually on watersports it was mostly maybes.