james1715
Oct 10, 2006, 5:28 PM
I told my girlfriend of 6 months that i was confused about my sexuality and that i have thoughts about males sometimes. This was getting me down a lot and so i wanted to get it out. We talked for a few hours on the phone and she actually told me that she had similar concerns about girls sometimes, but to me it seems to be affecting me in a more profound manner. Im being treated for depression and possibly anxiety or bipolar disorder, so dealing with this is difficult.
Telling her was both amazing to get it off my chest and disappointing as well because it seemed to have killed the relationship some, which at this point in time (currently this happened like 2 or 3 weeks ago) it feels like the passion in the relationship is beginning to fade.
I cant tell if i genuinely dont care for per sexually anymore or if its something else just basic to a heterosexual relationship such as: she being too clingy/comitted, me feeling closed in, me feeling like i want a hotter girl. The confusing thing about it is that it seems like i feel attracted mostly to girls and less to guys, but not as a constant amount 7 days a week (like 70% girls 30% guys). Its like within a day it will change, or it will be neither, or both.
My girlfriend is good to me, she loves me, and i care about her a lot. When i have sex with her now it seems like i can not have a clear mind to be there, 100 percent, with her. My head is somewhere else. I dont know if this has to do with depression or something else. Im talking to a pyschologist but i am seeking help here, she knows about all of this btw. Its rather confusing, does anyone have insight into this?
Telling her was both amazing to get it off my chest and disappointing as well because it seemed to have killed the relationship some, which at this point in time (currently this happened like 2 or 3 weeks ago) it feels like the passion in the relationship is beginning to fade.
I cant tell if i genuinely dont care for per sexually anymore or if its something else just basic to a heterosexual relationship such as: she being too clingy/comitted, me feeling closed in, me feeling like i want a hotter girl. The confusing thing about it is that it seems like i feel attracted mostly to girls and less to guys, but not as a constant amount 7 days a week (like 70% girls 30% guys). Its like within a day it will change, or it will be neither, or both.
My girlfriend is good to me, she loves me, and i care about her a lot. When i have sex with her now it seems like i can not have a clear mind to be there, 100 percent, with her. My head is somewhere else. I dont know if this has to do with depression or something else. Im talking to a pyschologist but i am seeking help here, she knows about all of this btw. Its rather confusing, does anyone have insight into this?