Enoll
Oct 8, 2006, 12:54 PM
Let me just start by saying, I've always been bisexual, never confused about
my prefferance.
I never really thought it was a big deal untill I told someone in my 7th grade
that I was and they avoided me for the rest of high school. I guess I was lucky he didn't go tell anyone else, I was picked on enough as it was.
Now I'm out of high school and I only hang around those who I choose to.
Some of the guys I hang around with are like brothers to me.
I've only told three (four if you include that first guy in 7th grade) people that I actually have physical face to face contact with:
1. My girlfriend, who is accepting of everything and bi herself. Love her
to bits.
2. One of the girls I was friends with in school who I refer to as my sister. She freaked out abit at first but now only gets alittle arkward.
3. The old school bully who I became friends with after graduation.
He ended up trying to force a sexual relationship on me but backed off once I showed him just beacuse I was bi didn't mean I wouldn't break his jaw for grabbing me.
My friends now are typicaly the normal breed of people who were outcast
in school. Metal heads, nerds and one or two stoners.
None of them know I'm bi, except for the one girl who doesn't come out with us much.
Before I started seeing my girlfriend it made it very hard. I'd get hit on by
cute guys in clubs and I couldn't do anything about it. Now I've got a partner
of the opposite sex I guess they all just assume I'm straight.
I've always feel like I'm lying to them in some way when we go out.
As usual groups of young people do, they fling gay jokes and homophobia like there was no tommorow. Then tonight as we were comming home from a short night out my friend (who's basically my best friend/little brother) points out one of the small night clubs and says:
"Hey man, don't go in there, I've heard nasty things"
Expecting something like a violent history : "yeah? what's that?"
"Some guy I know said it's full of trannies and bi's".
Just then I stopped dead and just looked at him, didn't know what to say.
What do I do? do I come out to them and tell them how much
all the jokes hurt me or make me feel uncomfortable? or should
I just keep everything the way it is?
I might ask my girlfriend too...
I'm not confused about how I feel, but how others will react to
those feelings.
: (
I need advice.
my prefferance.
I never really thought it was a big deal untill I told someone in my 7th grade
that I was and they avoided me for the rest of high school. I guess I was lucky he didn't go tell anyone else, I was picked on enough as it was.
Now I'm out of high school and I only hang around those who I choose to.
Some of the guys I hang around with are like brothers to me.
I've only told three (four if you include that first guy in 7th grade) people that I actually have physical face to face contact with:
1. My girlfriend, who is accepting of everything and bi herself. Love her
to bits.
2. One of the girls I was friends with in school who I refer to as my sister. She freaked out abit at first but now only gets alittle arkward.
3. The old school bully who I became friends with after graduation.
He ended up trying to force a sexual relationship on me but backed off once I showed him just beacuse I was bi didn't mean I wouldn't break his jaw for grabbing me.
My friends now are typicaly the normal breed of people who were outcast
in school. Metal heads, nerds and one or two stoners.
None of them know I'm bi, except for the one girl who doesn't come out with us much.
Before I started seeing my girlfriend it made it very hard. I'd get hit on by
cute guys in clubs and I couldn't do anything about it. Now I've got a partner
of the opposite sex I guess they all just assume I'm straight.
I've always feel like I'm lying to them in some way when we go out.
As usual groups of young people do, they fling gay jokes and homophobia like there was no tommorow. Then tonight as we were comming home from a short night out my friend (who's basically my best friend/little brother) points out one of the small night clubs and says:
"Hey man, don't go in there, I've heard nasty things"
Expecting something like a violent history : "yeah? what's that?"
"Some guy I know said it's full of trannies and bi's".
Just then I stopped dead and just looked at him, didn't know what to say.
What do I do? do I come out to them and tell them how much
all the jokes hurt me or make me feel uncomfortable? or should
I just keep everything the way it is?
I might ask my girlfriend too...
I'm not confused about how I feel, but how others will react to
those feelings.
: (
I need advice.