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bibrig07
Oct 6, 2006, 8:02 PM
i am a guy and have a very hot friend. just resently he made it a point to let me know he's bi and wants oral sex from me. I really want to impress him with a mind-shattering blowjob,from start to finish. what is the best technique to make him cum extra hard. i am open to any and all ideas. thanks for your help.

DiamondDog
Oct 6, 2006, 8:41 PM
don't forget his balls/other areas, and keep in mind that not everyone can cum from head.

the rest should probably come natural to you, just do stuff to him that drove you crazy when you had sex with a man.

Don't forget to kiss/cuddle with him either. :) ;)

babbington
Oct 7, 2006, 12:18 AM
The key is to be intuitive. Remember that a fast, head-bobbing repetition may not be the thing that rocks his world. You don't have to use crazy, mind-blowing techniques every spare moment during a blowjob.

Also, put his orgasm out of your mind for a while, you're probably not going to make him cum in the first two minutes and that shouldn't be your concern in the first place. It's the journey not the destination.

I personally like a tongue licking coarsely along the bottom (the "V" side) of the tip of my cock while a firm hand strokes the base of my shaft.

Most good blowjobs are combination handjob/blowjobs.

Just read the signs, get a sense of the rhythm of his breathing and his muscle tension. Some people don't moan when you do something to them that feels good, but muscle tension and bated breath is how everyone orgasms.

DannyJ
Oct 7, 2006, 10:26 PM
Here's a story I wrote for someone which describes what works for me; I hope it helps...if you have any questions, please feel free to contact me and I will be happy to demonstrate in person on you, on him or on both of you (lol); enjoy (the story and the great experience you'll soon be sharing with your friend)...
I'm visiting my buddy, we're having a couple beers, watching a good porn or two and just hangin' out. My buddy's getting into the flicks; he pretends that he doesn't see me checking out his crotch, but he pushes his hips forward on his sofa and, after rubbing his crotch for a minute, rests his arm on the back of the couch and pushes his hips forward again. I ease my way closer to him, very slowly, just a bit at a time, to make sure not to take him by surprise, to make sure that he wants is what I hope he wants, to give him every chance to to let me know that he just wants to watch the film, that he's not interested in any other action; instead of straightening up in his seat, he rubs his crotch again and leans even further back in his seat…I move over to him and get on my knees with my head low enough for him to keep looking at the porn.
I start out by pressing my lips lightly against the top of guy's thigh through his pants just above his knee and kiss slowly, feeling his leg through the material, then move over to the other thigh and do the same. I move my mouth back to the first thigh and press my lips against the inside of his thigh with a little more pressure this time and repeat on his other thigh, then move back to the first thigh and, starting a little higher, kiss upwards slowly, zigzagging between his thighs, until I get to his crotch (still while his pants are on), like I'm kissing his cock through the material, moving my mouth over the area, pressing harder and harder...after a while, I open his belt, pants & fly, & keep on kissing through his shorts, tracing his dick with my lips. By the time he's about ready to lower his pants to his ankles, I move my mouth over the lump in his crotch, up and over the waistband on his shorts, push my lips against the skin on his belly and, reaching his cock, trace them along his shaft until I get to the head, where I slowly part my lips and use them to ease his dick into my mouth, helping the movement along with the back of my tongue, guiding him deeper and deeper into my mouth until his shaft is all the way in, where I hold him fast, swallowing my saliva while I keep my mouth fastened as tightly as I can around his dick. While my mouth is happily occupied, I place my hands on the sides of his shorts, and gently but firmly tug on them along with his pants; he helps by pushing his hips up so I can freely pull his pants and shorts down...he pushes his pants down, too, but I keep my mouth right there where it belongs: I only take it away because he wants to take his pants and shorts off, but after he puts them over to the side and gets comfortable again, spreading his knees and offering me his meat, I get back to business.
I use the tip of my tongue to lick my way from the bottom of his dick, by his balls, up the shaft to the head, swirl my tongue around, trace my way back down the shaft, then back up to the head again, where I slowly, steadily ease my mouth over the tip and head, down the shaft and keep going until he's as deep in my throat as he can be, bobbing slightly up and down a few times before bringing my head up to the top of his shaft, just before the head, pressing my lips firmly, feeling every vein in his cock as I go down again, swallowing as I go, still pressing my lips as my head comes up again, back and forth, back and forth, until I finally come up even more slowly, savoring every delicious inch, every throbbing vein, then push my mouth down the entire length of his shaft, all at once, gulping my saliva and his cock into my throat, keeping my face buried in his crotch as long as I can, swallowing, breathing, holding on with my lips.
I get into his scent, the texture of his cock, the salty sweetness of his pre-cum, the firmness of his hard-on, everything about him that oozes his maleness...I don't play with myself right then and there (I'm getting into what I'm doing too much to want to get myself off just yet); I just grab my cock and cup it, rubbing firmly, enjoying feeling the pleasure of my own hardness--the guy is straight, we both know I'm going down a one-way street, and that's cool with me--but he's cool, he rubs his foot against my crotch, letting me know he's having fun, too, that everything is alright. I figure this is, for both of us, a win-win situation, and I'm glad he's relaxed and we're going at a pace he's comfortable with.
At first, I go up and down slowly; after a while, I kick the pace up a notch or two, then go slowly again, but while my mouth is filled with his cock, my hand is caressing his sack, holding and fondling his nuts like the tender treasures they are, moving them around in my hand, folding my fingers over them and pressing them with my palm ever so gently...I put my thumb on one side of his sack, just above his testicles, and close it against my forefinger, not too tightly, just enough so that I can pull his sack down just a little while I'm working his cock with my mouth, just enough to make his cock throb and bob up and down with its stiffness. After a while, I let my thumb go, keep his sack rolling around in my palm and ease my mouth off of his cock, sucking my way up the shaft to the tip, then trace my lips down the bottom of his cock and onto his sack, kissing his testicles, first one, then the other, back and forth, slowly...I ease his testicles into my mouth, one at a time, surrounding it with my lips, my mouth, then move to the other, carefully, gently, wonderfully; then, I put my lips around both of them, rolling them inside my mouth with my tongue, playing with them there. Soon, it's time for my to ease them out of my mouth, but I keep my lips pressed to them all the while, and take one final lick of them with the tip of my tongue. Then, I put my tongue back on them as I lick my way slowly up the shaft again 'til I get to the top, where I open my lips a little more and go all the way down the shaft in one movement...now, I really get down to business, bobbing, swallowing, breathing, bobbing, bobbing, up and down, up and down, keeping the pressure on with my lips as I go up and down, up and down, over and over, feeling his cock get harder and harder, stiffer and stiffer as he starts to pump his crotch into my face, letting his pre-cum ooze into my eager mouth, letting his pre-cum flow out of his rigid cock and straight down my hungry throat, my mouth pumping up and down, up and down, his cock harder, thicker, readier, readier, ready to shoot, my mouth pumping up and down, up and down, up and down until I taste his first sweet shot, swallowing it, then his next, then his next, swallowing every drop of his hot, salty-sweet, delicious, thick load, mixed with his pre-cum, mixed with my saliva, leaving my mouth around his cock, feeling every wonderful spasm as he empties himself into me, feeling every wonderful bit of his man-flesh as his hardness slowly subsides, still inside my mouth, still sucking every last bit of my saliva/his jism, savoring, enjoying, relishing every last moment.
I leave my head there, letting his cock get softer in my mouth, still pressing with my lips, still letting the last delicious drops of his cum ooze down my throat. After a minute or so, still maintaining the pressure, I reluctantly ease my mouth off his cock, making sure I bring the last traces of his cum and my saliva in my mouth. I swallow thoroughly, then kiss the top of one of his thighs, then the top of the other one; finally, I kiss his belly just above his cock, then his cock itself, and, moving back to where I was sitting, let him relax and enjoy the feeling of having had his cock sucked ‘til his nuts turned inside out.

DannyJ
Oct 7, 2006, 10:42 PM
Oh, by the way...if you try this and it does help--please get back to me and let me know his reactions and yours (sort of like feedback!) Plus, one more thing: before you start, have a dry bath towel handy; when you're about to start going down on him and it comes time for him to lower his pants, have him lift his hips so you can put it under him (or if he just takes the pants off, put the towel where he'll be sitting or laying). That way, any excess saliva won't get on the furniture and can easily be wiped away while you're both enjoying yourselves (you won't want anything to distract either of you)...which means you'll be able to keep your concentration where it belongs! Once again, have fun!!!

surferboiZA
Oct 8, 2006, 4:18 PM
Dam Dude!
Dannyj, you coming to South Africa anytime soon? cos if you are, look me up!

Avocado
Oct 10, 2006, 5:26 PM
Enjoy it! Just don't cause him any pain or anything and you'll be fine. It's then up to him to like it or not.

wss30152
Oct 10, 2006, 6:52 PM
Dont forget to swallow!

joxbear69
Oct 10, 2006, 8:15 PM
like Diamond Dog mentioned--don't forget about the balls: roll them around in your fingers, tongue them, suck them.
Also don't forget the "taint" spot:--either with your tongue or finger.
And finally let your finger find his hole and see how quick you can make him purr, jump, cum.....

A great blow job has lots of sensual touch from the hands---not just stimulation from the mouth.

And don't forget to talk to him--ask him if he likes what you are doing, etc.

Enjoy!

yoyo4u
Oct 11, 2006, 1:06 PM
Occasionally let some "false" air sucked in between your lips and his cock. He'll go wild "hearing" sucking!

If you can make eye contact with him while his dick is in your mouth, make a reinforcing humming sound. Let him know you enjoy it as much as he does.

I hope I was able to help. I worked for me/us.

yoyo

poke_m
Oct 20, 2006, 5:04 PM
I personally like a tongue licking coarsely along the bottom (the "V" side) of the tip of my cock while a firm hand strokes the base of my shaft.


Most of the focus of this forum is on the shaft, but whatever you do don't forget the sack!

stormalong
Oct 20, 2006, 6:54 PM
good story!!! I'm going to try that technique, hopefully tonight!!!

Sparks
Oct 21, 2006, 7:44 AM
Just do what comes naturally. As a guy you know that a blow job isn't rocket science. Just relax, and enjoy the experience. Man to man, go for it dude. You won't regret it. :2cents:

ambi53mm
Oct 21, 2006, 8:52 AM
Here's a story I wrote for someone which describes what works for me; I hope it helps...if you have any questions, please feel free to contact me and I will be happy to demonstrate in person on you, on him or on both of you (lol); enjoy (the story and the great experience you'll soon be sharing with your friend)...



:bowdown: :bowdown: :bounce: :bounce: :bigrin:

WOW!That's got to be one of the hottest "blow by blow" descriptions of oral technique I've ever read.Totally friggen awesome DannyJ :)

Ambi :)

Herbwoman39
Oct 21, 2006, 10:20 AM
Just follow his lead. He'll whimper when you hit the right spots :)

Also, that little flap of skin where the shaft meets the head...lick the alphabet there. Hubby goes through the ceiling for that.

Doggie_Wood
Oct 22, 2006, 11:55 AM
Not much else to add - slow - no pain - watch scraping with teeth - the nut sacks - the area between the balls and the rectum - a rim job to boot -
Yup, just about covered it all.
Go with the flow and go slow - enjoy
:doggie:

citystyleguy
Oct 22, 2006, 6:28 PM
what the hell drives you insane when someone goes down on you!? then do that!!!!

willbeyours2
Oct 23, 2006, 5:30 PM
Hi There,

My thoughts on this are go slow and easy.Bring him right to the edge and slow it down even more. Take your time and enjoy every moment..... and so will he. If are both really into it, he will have a mind blowing orgasm.


Bill