First time doesn?t match up with expectations?

[CuriousSub]

Any guys (or ladies) here find that their first experience fell far from expectations?

I?m just wondering how many people, especially those who may have fantasized for a long time before taking the plunge found that they didn?t enjoy it, or that it wasn?t what they expected?

Did any of you dislike it and grow to love it?

Did any of you go back to only fantasizing? Or currently reassessing whether they want to try again?

[atxbi]

I think most guys including myself come away with the thought, why didn’t I try that sooner. What took me so long.

[Jaxxx]

My firsts all happened with youthful experimentation, before I had opportunities to experience hetero sex. We were best friends. It started with ending up jerking off together with magazines. It evolved into jerking each other and eventually mutual oral. Those were all good experiences. Towards the end of it, he decided he was gay, so wanted to kiss and fuck. I tried it and didn't like it. I tried a few more times to make sure to the same result. It ended after that. I'd still enjoy stroking and sucking with another guy, but I get sick of being told I don't know what I am missing, not being interested in anal, because I do know and I don't miss it. The first (and last) time I was with the last guy, I was very clear that I was not into it. So in the middle of some good mutual oral, he sticks his finger in my ass, thinking it would change my mind. Well it only changed my mind about doing it with him again.

I'm currently chatting with a very curious guy, who seems ready to take the plunge. If he's like most, including the OP, It will be hot to see him sucking for the first time and loving it.

[KDaddy23]

My first time was amazing... but in giving a lot of guys their first experience, many have said, "Why didn't I do this before now?" but a few found or decided that it wasn't their idea of fun. I know that some guys get an expectation in their head about what they want it to be like and often get disappointed when the reality doesn't match their expectations. Now it's a matter whether they're gonna try it again or just give up trying. I've known guys who didn't like it the first time but did it again and, wow! And some just confirm that they didn't like it the first or second time.

[SilkyHoseLover]

Since we're discussing initial experiences, rather than the 'first time' with a give individual, this is an easy one for me to answer.

I'm late to the party in discovering the joy of intimacy with someone who has the same body parts that I do. (It was a lot easier when it was permissible to say 'same-gender, or same-sex'...) But since that has happened, I've been basically delighted with each new activity that's been added to my repertoire. I didn't approach this with many preconceived prejudices or expectations about a given act, although I did have a few lines I thought I'd not cross -- like kissing. One by one, though, those have mostly fallen by the wayside.

I've found that I will probably enjoy any activity that I'm physically able to participate in with another like-minded individual.

[bi-curious24M]

Before I messed around with a guy for the first time, I didn’t think about how facial hair would feel against your neck of face. I hated it. He tried nibbling on my ear and I could facial hair against the side of my face and I hated it. But the sex was awesome and I really enjoyed sucking him off.

[Christopher South]

I actually figured my first time would be terrible. I had never been with a guy, never had sex with anyone except my wife and never been naked in front of anyone other than my wife. I had masturbated to gay fantasies and felt shame afterwards. Met with a guy, exchanged blow jobs while laying naked on his bed and was a great experience. And as atxbi said, I wondered why I waited so long to have this experience.

[chongster]

My first time was great for me but not so much for him. We were both first timers and it was really hot when we were sucking each other and got into a 69 but then he asked me to fuck him. Well, at that point in time I really didn't have any interest in fucking another guy but I was so turned on at the time that I was all for it. I've taken many girls anal cherry and I know how to do it by starting off slow and gentle with lots of lube. I put a condom on and lubed both of us up, when I got just the head of my cock in his ass it was to painful for him and he wanted to stop. His ass was so fucking tight I really wanted to fuck it but I took it out.
I rolled him over and went back to sucking his cock but I guess the moment was lost for him because he was limp and wouldn't get hard again. Then he wanted to leave. I had to jack off while reliving the whole thing over in my head but I knew then that I wanted more! That guy deleted his profile and I never saw him again.

[delpark]

My first time I had no expectations, it just happened unexpectedly one night. My friend and I got to exploring one another, I enjoyed the feel of his hard cock in my hand. When he asked me to take his cock in my mouth, I eagerly did so. It felt like the natural thing to do.

[Cum1st]

It was the early 70's and very unmanly to be queer, but being sexually adventurous, doing something new sexually in itself was not an issue to me.

He sat next to me in the local watering hole. I knew what he wanted when he asked me to go home with him, and was up for it. I was also aware that others in the busy bar may know he was gay, and seeing me leave with him... (2 + 2). Actually the only one to make note was the bar owner, and that was another story, not a problem.

With the first issue overridden by alcohol he insisted we drop my car off at my place. He didn't want it parked in his driveway overnight. I don't think he and his mate were out to the neighbors which at that time could have been more than uncomfortable in a small lot development. I didn't feel trapped.

We arrived at his home and went up to the master bedroom. I met his partner who came in to gather some of his things and went off to the guest room.

We got undressed and got into bed. I quickly slipped under the blanket and started on his cock in a 69. I knew what to do. My first live in GF was a great cock sucker, (and swallowing was part of it). Part of wanting to have sex with him was I missed her and the long numerous sessions we had while we were together. He was my first warm body after that. She had left a couple of Bi, porno paperbacks behind. No pictures, but they helped my hand a lot.

Anyway, he came pretty fast. If I'd been more experienced and someone attacked my cock like that with his cock in my mouth I might have cum pretty quick too. At the time if a woman had buried my face in her beaver and attacked my cock with enthusiasm... I didn't have any problem taking and swallowing his cum. What I missed was the rest of sucking a cock, and without that stimulation I didn't cum.

In the morning he drove me home. When I left the evening before I brought the dog in. There was a heavy snow going on. Apparently Savage didn't care for being inside alone, and the place was a mess.

He asked for another session, and I declined. A few weeks later he approached me again in the tavern, but I wasn't ready. I never saw him again. Eventually the urge built to point that I needed cock. In the mean time I avoided a blatant, dream hookup with the bar owner and his pal.

My story has a happy ending - many happy endings.

[tastessogood]

I was very young and had seen older men’s cocks in the changing room and showers at the public swimming pool. I had been jacking off for years thinking about sucking one of their cocks. I finally got my chance when one of the guys noticed I had been looking at his cock. He came over and asked in a low voice if I liked it, his cock was hanging right in front of my face. I said yes and he said to meet him outside. Long story short, we got in his car, he slid his dry suit down and his cock was rock hard, I just leaned over and sucked him and Swallowed every bit of his cum. It was everything I thought it would be, I was so hooked on cock sucking, I did it every chance I got. I was 8 or 9 at the time, I’m in my seventies now and I must have sucked thousands and thousands of cocks over the years, but I still remember my first time. I didn’t know what cum was until that first blowjob and i loved the taste.