What Type of Bi am I?

[louis45]

24M here thinking through my sexuality. I?ve always considered myself straight, because I am physically attracted to women. I?ve never seen a guy and thought, ?wow, he?s hot?, or felt myself romantically attracted to another man.
However, gay porn and the thought of gay sex does turn me on. I have experimented with anal play. Men?s faces don?t turn me on, but seeing a big cock does make me hard. While I could not see myself romantically with another man, I could see myself sexually.
What does this mean? Are there different types of bisexuality?
Thanks in advance for any advice.

[SilkyHoseLover]

The thoughts you've expressed have been repeated by many men, many times in this forum. It's a continuum, and you're still young, perhaps just beginning to have these feelings. For a lot of bisexuals, 'It's all about the cock', and they have no other interest in intimate activities with men. This may be a passing fancy, the way you'll always be or the beginning of an evolution that takes place in the coming years. Just keep in mind that, no matter where you go from here, being interested in M-M play, whether it's oral, anal or both, doesn't mean that there's something wrong with you. Love and respect yourself, always.

I'm at the opposite end of life from you, and for most of my time on the planet, I had similar feelings. But I eventually realized that I did have some interest in cock, and I've found myself embracing a range of behaviors that started out with the rigidly-defined parameters that you've mentioned, but have broadened into areas that I never expected that I'd go.

So relax, and don't overthink it!

[Cum1st]

I haven't considered myself straight since recovering from the emotional shock of stepping over the line of giving my first BJ. The act didn't turn me off. I eventually started to crave it more and more.

Seeing a man sucking on another's cock isn't my kind of porn, although seeing a guy pull his friend's cock out and take it in his mouth in real life did excite me. Anal porn is the gay porn I like - just the equipment that's in the shorts.

Toward my last MM experience of many over close to forty years a hookup wanted to make out. I steeled myself and put myself into it. It was a dizzying experience. I can see myself doing it again, but watching it in a video not so much. Two women kissing, now that's hot. Seeing a well built man is more likely to trigger a little envy than wanting to want to run my hands all over his body. The situation may present itself some day, and I may get into it especially with a guy that wants it. I've always been up for adding sexual pleasures when available.

Romantically I really fall for women. That is one reason I'd rather have a man on the side. Another is having a buddy to pall around with having some common interests with whom we can have unbridled pleasing and being pleased sex. We could touch each other spontaneously like it used to be with my present wife, my previous women, and with a previous FWB.

Beyond cock bisexuality isn't a simple thing. Go for what you want, and try new things at your own pace. If a guy wanted his nipples sucked would it really be that hard to do?

[tuckedboy]

Based on the information, I'm quite certain that you are a hetero-romantic bisexual. Like you are turned on by both cocks and pussies but you can only see yourself dating with women. That's totally normal in the world of bisexuality my friend!

[dan.woodlawn]

I think sometimes people overthink it.

Not EVERY woman turns you on...in your head there is a scale for what appeals to you and some patterns emerge. Smile, breast size, butt size, height, hair and skin color...and you rank based on preferences.

The same is true for men...

In your case, the men cluster at the bottom of the "list" for dating purposes.

However, for sexual purposes, some men might cluster higher than some women, again for your preferences...

Take the same 100 random people and everyone on this site would rank them differently.

I have dated or been "with" in some capacity at least 1 LGBTS person...but still gravitate towards Female life partner. I could also see a poly relationship if it was a natural fit.

In all fairness, welcome to the team of having all this crap rattle around in your head all day long.

[Neonaught]

I would not worry about it or seek to get some kind of label applied to it. You have your individual tastes just as well all do. Enjoy them!