how many of you have come out to your wives or girlfriends ?

[marine20]

i'd like to know how it went . did she hate, love it , or was she merely ok with it . in my case , i was married about 38 years before i told her. we had an open sex life , so i finally got the courage to tell her. she never had a clue that i was sucking cock since i was 24 , and was quite surprised . but she was cool with it . didn't want to hear any details , but i tell her when i'm going out to look for cock. when i come home she will ask me how it went. i wish she was more involved , but i guess i'm better off than a lot of guys .

[adamlily1972]

I did when we first started dating. I was 16, she was 17. She was squicked out at first, but eventually we worked it into our fantasy life together. She's a low libido and low kink gal, but she loves me and she tries. Still won't let me go play, though, which is why I'm considering cheating. It's been a long 30 years.

[SilkyHoseLover]

My history is too long to recount here, but I have the greatest wife of 50 years. We've both evolved wildly in that time, and part of that evolution was my realization and acceptance of wanting to enjoy sexual activities with other biological males. This is a relatively recent development, having taken place in the past 12 or so years. It occurred at a time when we'd been involved in swinging. Not long after that, we stopped that experiment - just at the time that I was moving towards the bi side. My wife told me that it was ok to explore this new area of sexuality. I did, very slowly and carefully, and mostly made her aware of the times that I'd partake. She had some curiosity and I told her some general details, but didn't get into an actual play-by-play.

My longer-term kink also involved a love of wearing stockings and panties, which she has also known about since the early years of our marriage. That, too, has evolved significantly in the past couple of years. I confessed that I wanted to investigate this further, moving into full crossdressing, so that I can enjoy physical and psychological sensations as if I were a woman when I engage in erotic activities with someone who enjoys that type of play. She has not only been supportive, she's bought me some lovely feminine gifts - nightgowns, stockings, panties, some jewelry, etc. My pseudo-feminine persona is not a turn-on for her, per se, but she loves me and wants me to be happy. (She's kinky in her own right, and I try to accommodate her special needs, as well...)

So I'm one of the rare fortunate ones who is able to be open and honest with my spouse, and have her blessing to experiment.

[bblover]

I have came out to my wife. Few years ago, I suppose. I had many experiences when I was younger before meeting her. On "Porn Nights" we would land on Bi threesomes. Eventually I admitted my past. She said she already knew. Thats why she started the bi porn. To help me loosen up and feel free to come clean. She's awesome.

[gmansam]

A few of my old girlfriends knew but didn't care so long as they got theirs. My wife does not unless one of them blabbed but I doubt it or we would have had that talk.

[NJwood]

My wife learned of my bi nature when we were dating. It came up while talking about threesomes. She wasn’t interested in females and I said I’d be fine with another guy joining us. That immediately had her asking if I had been with a guy before. I told her and it got her hot. I had one encounter while we were dating that she watched by webcam. We got married and it never really presented itself until recently. We have agreed to rules of engagement. She isn’t interested in participating but wants the stories, pics or videos of my encounter. It still gets her going!

[dickneeder]

My wife knows and tells me to have fun. We've played often with no guys. That is the only type of swinging we do. She's jacked guys off into my mouth, sucked them, helped them suck me and taken pics of the guys sucking.. we've found a black guy who we suck often. Some days it's me alone sucking and other days she and I suck him.. I came out to my last wife and that led to years of bi gang bangs. Me and several guys sucking each other and fucking all her holes. We've been working on stretching my ass and looking forward to the day she helps a guy shove his cock in it.

[CurEUs_Male]

I was 38 when I first recognized I had bi attractions... and I shared it with my wife as I realized it myself. We had been dabbling in swinging a couple years at that point, and it felt 'natural' to share it. She had been told by some old friends when we were getting married that they assumed I was gay, which was a surprise to me on two levels, one I used to have a super sexy GF in that friends group... and second - WTF didn't anyone ever mention it to me?!?!?!

She took in somewhat in stride, but over a few years it became more of an issue for her. She fell into believing some questionable myths of bi men, and even had an affair with a guy she believed when he told her i was already cheating (He was, in fact, having several affairs at the same time, despite being in an open/swinging marriage, and was also looking for guys in some cases as a bi man and other times claiming straight.) That was be beginning of several rough years...

Now, she is more accepting. She recognizes I am not headed out to leave her for a man. I am here to stay. She understands I need to know myself better through exploration. I struggle with it though, as having dealt with a cheating spouse, I do not want to engage sexually with another person that is cheating. That actually narrows down the bulk of the guys looking to play.

[ClassicPaCpl]

I came out to my wife. To my surprise she was really into it.. i was afraid she would freak out but she didnt and now supports it

[Passarino]

I told my wife when we were dating. I told her about my friend and me sucking each other off while looking at his older brother's porno magazines. She asked if I still thought about it and I told her I did but hadn't done anything since college.

About 20 years ago we had a threesome with a straight friend of ours. Afterwards she asked me that if our friend was gay would I have sucked him off? I told her I had to be honest and would love to have had the opportunity to suck him off. She said I should find a friend to do that with.

We talked about it for a while, set up some ground rules and since I have had three long term exclusive relationships with other married guys, one for 2 years, one for 6 years and my last one for 4 years.

[Rod_7_5]

Several years into our marriage, I told my wife about my oral and mutual masturbation activities with my best friend in college. It was after she’d opened up about her own bi-curiosity. Openly, she took the news well. She didn’t want all the gory details, but was accepting of it. But I also know that, privately, she was freaked out by it. I know she told one of her closest friends and told her that it was shocking and she didn’t know what to make of it all, that she “always thought I liked it a little too much when (she) played with (my) butt.” So, I’ve kept my continued bi nature to myself; completely coming out could either go over just fine, or explode. And, just because I’m interested in sex with men doesn’t mean I want to do so at the risk of a great relationship.

[JohnnyBisexual]

I told my wife that I was Bisexual several years ago, we are both now in our mid-sixties. She really freaked out, even though she was seriously Bi-curious when we were younger. We were even supposed to go to Provincetown MA one night to each hook up, but she chickened out, but told me to go. I didn't though. Another time we were in Provincetown and I made a comment about giving someone a blowjob and she told me seriously to go do it. I tried, but to no avail. When I met up with her she insisted on smelling my breath though. Years later when I told her that I had blown fifty guys she was just so angry, "Why didn't you tell me before we got married that you were Bisexual?". Wait, what? I brought up the fact about how Bi-curious she had been when she was younger and how those feelings had gone away since she went through menopause. She eventually calmed down and now we speak openly about my Bisexuality. She takes the attitude of "Don't ask, don't tell." I haven't given another guy a blowjob in quite some time due to Covid, but would certainly like to have some nice cock cum in my mouth again. A nice black cock would be the cherry on the ice cream. Oh, I have also shared my love of black cock with her too. Surprisingly that didn't phase her in the least.

[CockHummer]

I appear to be the only one who had a less than ideal or at least reasonably acceptable outcome, if I didn't miss something in the reading, anyway, and her response was just weird for the circumstances. I was not even actively involved with anyone and had no intention of doing so. I'm one of the souls on here who really doesn't find guys attractive in person, so I just felt weird yet, at the time, jerking off imagining I was giving a blowjob, and at the advice of a psychologist I was seeing for an entirely different problem but with whom I had shared that, I told her. I explained to her entirely truthfully that I might jerk off fantasizing about a man or a woman, but that I would never cheat on her and that I didn't find men attractive, so, in my mind, I was just between a pair of thighs with a cock in my mouth, and it was just another way I could get really hot orgasms when I jerked off. We had had a very successful marriage up to that point, and our sex life was marvelous together, but after I let that cat out of the bag, we were divorced within three years. Somehow, she just couldn't get around it. I frankly wish I hadn't told her, in retrospect.

[mr bill]

My history is too long to recount here, but I have the greatest wife of 50 years. We've both evolved wildly in that time, and part of that evolution was my realization and acceptance of wanting to enjoy sexual activities with other biological males. This is a relatively recent development, having taken place in the past 12 or so years. It occurred at a time when we'd been involved in swinging. Not long after that, we stopped that experiment - just at the time that I was moving towards the bi side. My wife told me that it was ok to explore this new area of sexuality. I did, very slowly and carefully, and mostly made her aware of the times that I'd partake. She had some curiosity and I told her some general details, but didn't get into an actual play-by-play.

My longer-term kink also involved a love of wearing stockings and panties, which she has also known about since the early years of our marriage. That, too, has evolved significantly in the past couple of years. I confessed that I wanted to investigate this further, moving into full crossdressing, so that I can enjoy physical and psychological sensations as if I were a woman when I engage in erotic activities with someone who enjoys that type of play. She has not only been supportive, she's bought me some lovely feminine gifts - nightgowns, stockings, panties, some jewelry, etc. My pseudo-feminine persona is not a turn-on for her, per se, but she loves me and wants me to be happy. (She's kinky in her own right, and I try to accommodate her special needs, as well...)

So I'm one of the rare fortunate ones who is able to be open and honest with my spouse, and have her blessing to experiment.
sounds like my wife. now that she has passed i dress almost daily.

[needalittle05]

been out to wife for about 35yrs. all started when we met another couple ( didnt know they were bi ) wifes started it out with a show for us one nite. after several meetings and a few 3-somes my wife told me he wondered if I was ever sucked off by a guy, that got me thinking. one nite she invited me over for some play. I got there before he got home and while talking she asked me if I would let him suck me off, I agreed and it all started there. we sucked eachother while she watched and later joined. after that nite we all enjoyed eachother as a bi 4-some. one nite he asked me to top him and we had great nites together for a couple years. now I play alone ( she knows) due to total loss of interest in sex

[Cum1st]

My present wife consented to watch me with another guy before we got married, but he didn't want to. Most of my Bi experiences happened before being with her. She's the last woman I've been with.

[wondering56231]

I came out to my now wife upfront. I knew I couldn't hide it from her and if she wanted to be with me she had to accept that part of me. Her exact response to me was priceless. "That's cool, I like girls". She loves watching the guys play and then join in as well as allowing me to indulge by myself. Best wife ever!

[Joboo]

Not me, I’m more hetroflexable.

[csreef]

I came out to my now wife upfront. I knew I couldn't hide it from her and if she wanted to be with me she had to accept that part of me. Her exact response to me was priceless. "That's cool, I like girls". She loves watching the guys play and then join in as well as allowing me to indulge by myself. Best wife ever!

WoW...Lucky you!

[Timmyy9966]

Yes we share cock

[Modude]

My wife knows that I'm VERY bi curious ( she's bi ) and has told me that if I act on my curiosity to just be careful.
She knows of my desires and urges and has told me that she would love to watch a guy suck me off and watch me take a cock in my ass,
so yeah....she knows

[sissyjackie]

When dating in 1980 told her I wanted to suck cock to feel her out. I told I wanted to share her with other guys. She thank me for telling but didn’t think it was going to happen. What I didn’t tell her I have sucked cock. We use to have kinky sex she use vibbotors on me dildo’s to. She would wear garters stockings heels skirts or dresses never any panties and flash guys for me but that’s as far as it went. I tried to get her to fuck other guys but she wouldn’t so gave up trying. I think she knows I have sex with guys but turns a blind eye to it. We stop having sex years ago

[cleves]

My wife does not know but I told her that if she ever has sex with another guy to save me the cream pie to eat. She does have a fantasy bull and she allows me to eat a fantasy cream pie.

[Horneyely]

My late wife brought a bi man home. First time while I was in my recliner, after a few minutes of talking he had my dick in his mouth �� swallowing my cum, With her watching. His next visit she watched us give each other head. Swallowing each other’s cum. The down side he never gets hard.

[Bicujr]

My wife is aware of it and it doesn’t bother her one bit. She is supportive and thinks it’s great.

[CurEUs_Male]

I've shared this before, and in several places.
When I recognized myself to be a bisexual, I shared my interests with my wife. We were, at the time, dabbling in swinging. It seemed natural to me, although it was a struggle finding like minded people. 20 years ago, the swinger community was still pretty hetero focused where it came to men. My wife wasn't thrilled, and went into some mental state around the unfortunate societal scripts, I must actually be gay, I'll leave her for a man... after a number of years, she started having an affair. The creeper that was her affair partner was feeding her all sorts of lies that I was already planning to leave her, I was already cheating on her, etc... we went through 3 ugly years of affair/discovery/reconciliation. It finally ended when I basically dropped a suitcase of clothes at her feet and said don't come home if you can't be open and honest... and then therapy and such....
10 years on from that ugliest of nights, we are in a better spot. He has learned to accept who I am. She encourages me to be more out, and to meet with others. She is still struggling with the idea of me having another sexual partner, but is accepting.

[Waylon]

I have had 3 side chicks over the years and they all knew I was bi and enjoyed seeing me with another man from time to time. But wifey does not know. She has her suspicions however since that time a few years ago when she was using her big 8 inch realistic cock dildo on herself while giving me a blowjob. She pulled her mouth off my cock for a minute and put the dildo in her mouth to taste her juices and I was so turned on I took the dildo and slid it in my mouth and opened my throat to take it balls deep. I face fucked myself for a few strokes as she watched in amazement and then put it back in her wet pussy. She said something like You better watch out or you'll be sucking off guys and went back to finish my blowjob.. I shot a big load in her mouth and after she swallowed she gave me a deep french kiss and said thats what my cum tastes like. .

[NWMichCPL]

Told my wife before we were married, started watching bi/gay porn with her and watched as she masturbated to it. She gets hot watching men sucking each other, she explodes watching men have anal sex.
We have had a few bi sex threesomes and she loves it, although she hasn’t seen me get topped or me top a man. She doesn’t want a FFM, it doesn’t turn her on, but she sure loves MMF threesomes and I’m good with that.

[dman8888]

My wife basically knew before I became "aware" and out to her some years ago. In hindsight, based on fantasies and such, I should have known much sooner. Anyway, initially she was very positive and encouraged me to find someone to explore with, but when things started to get kind of real, she got scared I'd leave her for a guy and asked me not to continue. She was and is still accepting of that set of desires, but it's toys and porn and fantasies for DMan8. And lately I'm worried that she's souring on it. I'm going to post more on that in a separate thread rather than clutter this thread with that set of issues.

[KrisKelly]

I have talked to a number of girls about this, over the years. I have known only 1 who was really into it. She was very dominant and not what I would call very attached to her husband. There was a distance between them, but neither of them minded. Of all the other girls I have talked to, some have been very tolerant dating a bi guy, but it seemed to me to only be tolerance and a desire to maintain their relationship. They didn’t “really” like it. I have heard two girls say that once they have seen their guys with another guy, they can never look at him the same. They still might love him, but they can never get as turned on as they did when they thought of him as a “real man.” I know we can be emasculated for a number of reasons, but this seems like a sure way to make it happen. I know this is only based on my experience and my conversations. I have initiated most of the conversations because I am curious, for obvious reasons. It one of the reasons that I have never tried this in my current marriage. I would never want to change the way my wife looks at me, or the way I can look at her sometimes and turn her into submissive jelly. That’s my dilemma.

[dickneeder]

From day one. I am tired of hiding who I am. She's ok with it. Actually supportive.

[blatant_bi_guy]

Well, I met my wife with 8" of cock up my ass (the guy'd finished and was passed out. It was an interesting party) so I guess the whole "I'm bi" cat was out of the bag.

[Bidirectional4u]

wife knew i was bi before we got married, turns her on actually

[McBice]

Lemme see here, with my first wife, the subject never came up because I didn't really have any inclinations or know I had any desires towards sex with men. Sherry despised the fact that she was physically, very feminine and sex just tended to remind her of that fact so it didn't happen very often and when it did, there was always a lot of alcohol involved on her part. Turned out that we were much better friends than we were married.

That leads to my 2nd wife. As Jean liked to say, she was 'very bisexual' emphasis on the larger part of the term, sexual. She both inspired and encouraged my exploration into bisexuality. So, technically, I didn't tell her I was bisexual, she told me. Sadly, that relationship ended after 12 years and a few years later, just when it looked like it might be getting repaired, she passed away.

My next relationship with my ex girlfriend, lasted for 7 years and also didn't require me telling her I was bi. Davida was also bi, although much less open about it that Jean had been. Davida had a taste for gay porn and fucking men. That led to a lot of bisexual adventures during those 7 years. Unfortunately, Davida was also an addict and that eventually led to the end of that relationship.

By the time I met my 3rd (current) wife, I was 48 years old, had been around enough blocks, and didn't really care who knew I was bi. As far as I was concerned, it was 'need to know' knowledge. The early part of my relationship with Robin was a bit tricky. She lived on the west coast, I lived on the east coast and traveled for work, so we spent a lot of time on the phone and camming on the computer. When we could get together, it was usually a weekend of nonstop sex. About the 3rd time we had sex, she started playing with my ass while sucking my cock. I didn't resist, in fact I encouraged her to continue. This became a regular part of our sexual routine. So much a part of our regular routine that, after I had moved to west coast, she took it upon herself to go and buy a strap-on while I was working on the road. My mistake was in assuming that at that point she had figured out that I was bi. According to her, she hadn't. Like Davida, she had a real serious thing for fucking guys, so we eventually graduated to a Feeldoe and a Rodeoh harness (Cadillac rig in our opinion) and she fucked me every chance she got. Again, I had assumed she had figured out that I was bi and didn't really need to spell it out for her. So, I had been on a 3 week tour in Europe and was in a hotel room in Berlin, waiting to fly home the next day. We were on Yahoo messenger with our cams on and talking about how we had 30 something hours before I would be home. Because the connection was a bit hinky and the audio was lagging badly, we were actually typing our conversation but could still see each other.

Robin: So I got a new outfit to go with my cock. So, you are going to let me fuck when you get home?
Me: Sure, I can't wait to see it.
She started smiling real big with that 'over the top' turned on look on her face.
Robin: So, are you going to suck my cock for me?
Me: Probably as soon as I drop my bags
Robin: If you suck it really good, I promise I'll fuck you into a lump
Me: I shall do my damnedest.
She was still smiling really big.
Robin: So...have you ever sucked a real cock?
Kinda caught me of guard with that but not bad.
Me: Well yeah
The look of shock on her face was almost comical.
Robin: What? Are you gay?
My turn to look shocked.
Me: Am I gay? What the hell? Am I gay. No I'm not gay, I'm bi.
Robin: What? You've had sex with a guy? And you're not gay?
Me: No, I'm not gay and yes I've had sex with a guy, several as a matter of fact, and women too. What the hell? How many gay men have fucked you into a lump like I have? I should think that would be zero. And how many straight guys have let you fuck them the way you fuck me? I'm also suspecting that would be another zero. So that should be pretty explanatory.
Robin: Okay let me wrap my head around this.
And thus ensued a lot of questions and my explanation about how I had assumed she had figured it out. After she had calmed down a bit...
Robin: So if you promise not leave me for another man, I promise I will fuck you really good whenever you want.
Me: Well...I dunno...oh stop with that look... I promise, but it better be really really good, not none of that one really shit, 2 reallys.
Robin: Okay 2 reallys
We have both kept up our bargain and had quite a few interesting and arousing conversations about our checkered sexual pasts.

[MAcpl69]

Sure and I'm so glad I did. Not only did she support me she agreed to an open marriage, now we both can fuck and suck anyone we want.

[SilkyHoseLover]

We have both kept up our bargain and had quite a few interesting and arousing conversations about our checkered sexual pasts.
Over the years, some of the most stimulating conversations I've had involved hearing of my wife's sexual adventures from before we got together. There weren't a huge number of stories, given that she was just 18 when we met, and she probably understated them somewhat, but she'd fucked at least two guys that I know of and had other sexual contact with another one or two. But I knew early on that she was one who, in her words to me in a parked car on a date one night, "enjoyed her sex". So I married her and have kept her around for 50 years.

We've had a very good sex life, and got into some kinky areas, including a time when we experimented with swinging. It was during this time that I eventually realized an interest in bisexuality. She, in fact, said to me after an early experience sucking the cock of another guy while the three of us enjoyed a soak in a hot tub: "Well, I guess you can consider yourself officially bisexual." I didn't disagree, and we've both been pretty matter-of-fact about it ever since.

We haven't talked about our early sexual adventures on numerous occasions, and I thought I'd heard all of her 'true confessions'. But I was stunned to learn from a bi friend with whom we had a threesome in April, that she told him a story from her long-ago past that she never told me! She's always been very straight and isn't turned-on at all by the thought of sexual contact with another female. But she told my friend that she used to go over to her friend's house in high school and they'd put things in each others' butts! I wasn't surprised that she'd experimented with being penetrated anally -- I know she enjoys that -- but to think of her as a high school girl, and having another high school girl do that with her really got me going!

I'm such a lucky guy. At 68, my wife still loves sex, she knows I'm bisexual and allows me to play, sometimes joining in, and has taken an increasingly supportive role in my interest in cross-dressing. It's incredible liberating to be able to be out in the open about our desires and kinks, and still retain the deep love and respect that we have for one another.

[csreef]

Over the years, some of the most stimulating conversations I've had involved hearing of my wife's sexual adventures from before we got together. There weren't a huge number of stories, given that she was just 18 when we met, and she probably understated them somewhat, but she'd fucked at least two guys that I know of and had other sexual contact with another one or two. But I knew early on that she was one who, in her words to me in a parked car on a date one night, "enjoyed her sex". So I married her and have kept her around for 50 years.

We've had a very good sex life, and got into some kinky areas, including a time when we experimented with swinging. It was during this time that I eventually realized an interest in bisexuality. She, in fact, said to me after an early experience sucking the cock of another guy while the three of us enjoyed a soak in a hot tub: "Well, I guess you can consider yourself officially bisexual." I didn't disagree, and we've both been pretty matter-of-fact about it ever since.

We haven't talked about our early sexual adventures on numerous occasions, and I thought I'd heard all of her 'true confessions'. But I was stunned to learn from a bi friend with whom we had a threesome in April, that she told him a story from her long-ago past that she never told me! She's always been very straight and isn't turned-on at all by the thought of sexual contact with another female. But she told my friend that she used to go over to her friend's house in high school and they'd put things in each others' butts! I wasn't surprised that she'd experimented with being penetrated anally -- I know she enjoys that -- but to think of her as a high school girl, and having another high school girl do that with her really got me going!

I'm such a lucky guy. At 68, my wife still loves sex, she knows I'm bisexual and allows me to play, sometimes joining in, and has taken an increasingly supportive role in my interest in cross-dressing. It's incredible liberating to be able to be out in the open about our desires and kinks, and still retain the deep love and respect that we have for one another.

You are very blessed!

[SilkyHoseLover]

You are very blessed!

No question about it. At times, I just thank my lucky stars. At others times, I don't think I deserve to be so fortunate. But I have tried to be a good husband and a good companion for her all these years. She's a gem!

[hung4you]

My wife and I met in collage, at of all places an orgy on campus on a cold December night. 1984. 12 of us all naked and sucking and fucking each other when I cummed in her and ate her pussy she fell instantly in love with me. She had seen me sucking cock and swallowing cum that night but wanted me to cum in her. Ever since then after over 30 yrs of marriage we are still at it having fun like no other.

[wifekinky4husband]

i'd like to know how it went . did she hate, love it , or was she merely ok with it . in my case , i was married about 38 years before i told her. we had an open sex life , so i finally got the courage to tell her. she never had a clue that i was sucking cock since i was 24 , and was quite surprised . but she was cool with it . didn't want to hear any details , but i tell her when i'm going out to look for cock. when i come home she will ask me how it went. i wish she was more involved , but i guess i'm better off than a lot of guys .

He wasn?t bi. I introduced him to it but only after a very very long time of years sex play. My man was enamored by my love of sucking his cum out of his cock and I that he never hesitated to kiss me not matter how much cum I had in my mouth or dripping down my chin. I loved that about him. Then there was also that when his penis was buried in my mouth and throat he had no problem with me reaming his anal hole out with my fingers. The final sexual acts that sealed the deal as far as I was concerned on the whole marriage thing were the few times we were at sex parties and he was right there when I sucked off several guys as well as letting them cum in my pussy and he had no problem kissing me or fucking me after them. I knew he had A LOT of potential and he knew of my crazy kinky likes with no balking whatsoever. As for my man doing it these day ? oh my goodness I cannot imagine not being right there, helping out, taking picture, spreading, stuffing, talking dirty, kissing on him, staring into his eyes, or at his backside being ravaged, and so forth.


I have came out to my wife. Few years ago, I suppose. I had many experiences when I was younger before meeting her. On "Porn Nights" we would land on Bi threesomes. Eventually I admitted my past. She said she already knew. Thats why she started the bi porn. To help me loosen up and feel free to come clean. She's awesome.
I agree, if I?m gonna watch porn that would be it for me as well. And you have a keeper there dear sir.

My wife learned of my bi nature when we were dating. It came up while talking about threesomes. She wasn?t interested in females and I said I?d be fine with another guy joining us. That immediately had her asking if I had been with a guy before. I told her and it got her hot. I had one encounter while we were dating that she watched by webcam. We got married and it never really presented itself until recently. We have agreed to rules of engagement. She isn?t interested in participating but wants the stories, pics or videos of my encounter. It still gets her going!

Ahhhh stories, pics, & videos BUT I still have to be there for it all, that was the whole purpose of going this route in the first place. I cannot imagine NOT being there.


My wife knows and tells me to have fun. We've played often with no guys. That is the only type of swinging we do. She's jacked guys off into my mouth, sucked them, helped them suck me and taken pics of the guys sucking.. we've found a black guy who we suck often. Some days it's me alone sucking and other days she and I suck him.. I came out to my last wife and that led to years of bi gang bangs. Me and several guys sucking each other and fucking all her holes. We've been working on stretching my ass and looking forward to the day she helps a guy shove his cock in it.

Whaaaa you?ve never taken one anally? Whhaaaaa? I can?t believe your wife hasn?t led the charge on this one ? it is SO freakin HOT!!!


I came out to my wife. To my surprise she was really into it.. i was afraid she would freak out but she didnt and now supports it

Yes scary to come right out, that is why it took me years to get my husband there. Hope your wife participates, it is so much fun!


I came out to my now wife upfront. I knew I couldn't hide it from her and if she wanted to be with me she had to accept that part of me. Her exact response to me was priceless. "That's cool, I like girls". She loves watching the guys play and then join in as well as allowing me to indulge by myself. Best wife ever!

Yes Yes YES, wive?s should always participate in some manner. You all know that saying, a?couple who plays together stays together (if they are truly playing & connecting ?together?).


My wife knows that I'm VERY bi curious ( she's bi ) and has told me that if I act on my curiosity to just be careful.She knows of my desires and urges and has told me that she would love to watch a guy suck me off and watch me take a cock in my ass, so yeah....she knows

watch me take a cock in my ass ? WHY is THAT so HOT??? Still to this day I barely get enough of this when we get with other couples. Soooooo, have you done it for her yet to be there and see???


Told my wife before we were married, started watching bi/gay porn with her and watched as she masturbated to it. She gets hot watching men sucking each other, she explodes watching men have anal sex.
We have had a few bi sex threesomes and she loves it, although she hasn?t seen me get topped or me top a man. She doesn?t want a FFM, it doesn?t turn her on, but she sure loves MMF threesomes and I?m good with that.
she gets hot watching men sucking each other, she explodes watching men have anal sex ? Again yet another wife who really gets it!!! We should form a band of wives who get off on their men?s? extracurricular activity.

I have talked to a number of girls about this, over the years. I have known only 1 who was really into it. She was very dominant and not what I would call very attached to her husband. There was a distance between them, but neither of them minded. Of all the other girls I have talked to, some have been very tolerant dating a bi guy, but it seemed to me to only be tolerance and a desire to maintain their relationship. They didn?t ?really? like it. I have heard two girls say that once they have seen their guys with another guy, they can never look at him the same. They still might love him, but they can never get as turned on as they did when they thought of him as a ?real man.? I know we can be emasculated for a number of reasons, but this seems like a sure way to make it happen. I know this is only based on my experience and my conversations. I have initiated most of the conversations because I am curious, for obvious reasons. It one of the reasons that I have never tried this in my current marriage. I would never want to change the way my wife looks at me, or the way I can look at her sometimes and turn her into submissive jelly. That?s my dilemma.

I get that. I truly do. I think it takes people with a very specific mind set to be okay with it. Emotionally it is probably tough on the average mare since her mindset it all about that stallion. For me and my friends it is a logical conclusion of, we can make love to our husbands, we can do oral, we cum play, heck we can even do anal but what we cannot do it feed them real live penises that are attached to our bodies, or fill their mouths full of cum from said penises, and we cannot fuck them anally filling them full of real cum. However, our bi sexual husbands can! Oh and for those of us who are into loads of cum, you need more than one penis, it is just a fact of life one cannot produce enough quick enough. Even hermaphrodites as a single mate wouldn?t be enough. So do you two cum play and anal play any, much?


Well, I met my wife with 8" of cock up my ass (the guy'd finished and was passed out. It was an interesting party) so I guess the whole "I'm bi" cat was out of the bag.

Well said! Lol I love that, no way she can ever say, ?Oh I had no idea.? I assume you two do bi A Lot??? And hopefully still taking large cocks on? ;)


My wife and I met in collage, at of all places an orgy on campus on a cold December night. 1984. 12 of us all naked and sucking and fucking each other when I cummed in her and ate her pussy she fell instantly in love with me. She had seen me sucking cock and swallowing cum that night but wanted me to cum in her. Ever since then after over 30 yrs of marriage we are still at it having fun like no other.

Wow I bet the two of you have some wonderful tales to tell????

[BiVers240]

My wife and I are both bi and open to one another about it. She has her girlfriends and wants me to have boyfriends.

[Veryoralniceguy]

Worked with gal about 40 years ago and had an affair for a year with her. She loved to suck my cock and always swallowed. She also had the wettest, hairiest pussy that I loved to eat. One time when I’d finished eating her pussy and she came, she said I eat her pussy better than wan old girlfriend she used to have, I said that we had something in common, we both like to eat pussy, she just smiled. Then she asked if I ever sucked another man’s cock. I said yes and she smiled and said we both have that in common. After that, she always finished sucking me by sharing my cum with me. I knew she was married, but she told me she liked having sex with me better, that I was so better at eating her pussy. She liked my bigger cock and my stamina. One day, we were scheduled to meet and she showed up with her husband, didn’t know what to think. She said he’s so horny and wants to suck you off while you eat my pussy. Turns out he was bisexual like me, but liked guys more than gals. It was a very fun evening.

[Cynthia_CD]

Told mine I was a Crossdresser after we had been dating for about 5 months, Telling her I was Bi was a different story. I knew I was but admitting it was harder than telling her that I loved to wear makeup, dresses, and lingerie, weird.

She was totally okay with the whole thing and even said she kinda had an idea I was.

[LVTOGP]

Told mine I was a Crossdresser after we had been dating for about 5 months, Telling her I was Bi was a different story. I knew I was but admitting it was harder than telling her that I loved to wear makeup, dresses, and lingerie, weird.

She was totally okay with the whole thing and even said she kinda had an idea I was.


Im kinda in the same boat but I don?t think it would go well, this girlfriend pegs me fists me, knows I?ll wear a dress around the house, no issue with ,me fuckin myself but has mentioned men would be odd... any advice on bring it up?

[Grant_Norman]

I came out to my ultraconservative, decade long no-sex or touching wife that since 2015 I've been full blown bisexual with well over 100+ different guys. Of course, it is mist likely headed for divorce, but I really don't care because I've endured 22 years of her narcissistic personality disorder. Unfortunately, ther is no cure for NPD and with age it is just getting worse.

I was not going to continue the abusive talk, which would be even much worse now from her homophobic ways, so I'll be glad to live out the rest of my life as openly bisexual. And, yes, after 10 years of no pussy I've also added eating pussy back to my joys. Unbelievable, what joy. I will always amazingly sucking and fucking cock, but having both is truly great.

Grant

[Neonaught]

I came out to my ultraconservative, decade long no-sex or touching wife that since 2015 I've been full blown bisexual with well over 100+ different guys. Of course, it is mist likely headed for divorce, but I really don't care because I've endured 22 years of her narcissistic personality disorder. Unfortunately, ther is no cure for NPD and with age it is just getting worse.

I was not going to continue the abusive talk, which would be even much worse now from her homophobic ways, so I'll be glad to live out the rest of my life as openly bisexual. And, yes, after 10 years of no pussy I've also added eating pussy back to my joys. Unbelievable, what joy. I will always amazingly sucking and fucking cock, but having both is truly great.

Grant

Sounds like you put up with her shit for far too long. Congratulations on your liberation!

[Grant_Norman]

Thanks...it has been way too long

[dowmass]

I came out to my ultraconservative, decade long no-sex or touching wife that since 2015 I've been full blown bisexual with well over 100+ different guys. Of course, it is mist likely headed for divorce, but I really don't care because I've endured 22 years of her narcissistic personality disorder. Unfortunately, ther is no cure for NPD and with age it is just getting worse.

I was not going to continue the abusive talk, which would be even much worse now from her homophobic ways, so I'll be glad to live out the rest of my life as openly bisexual. And, yes, after 10 years of no pussy I've also added eating pussy back to my joys. Unbelievable, what joy. I will always amazingly sucking and fucking cock, but having both is truly great.

Grant

so when did you come out? That must be a gigantic decision , no matter what the circumstances?