View Full Version : Seeking advise from bi-females
Sparkles
Oct 2, 2006, 11:49 PM
Hi. This thread is looking for friends and advise.
I want to know what has worked and what has failed in relationships between bifemales and straight men when the bifemale is interested in persuing an encounter with another woman.
This is a vague topic because I don't know what I want yet - I'm posting to try to figure this out.
Rhuth
Oct 3, 2006, 12:16 AM
When leaving a monogomous relationship, you are heading into Polyamory (http://www.polyamory.org/) or Swinging (http://www.sexuality.org/mgswing.html). What works is consistant communication with everyone involved at all times. What does not work is trying to hurry things along. My stock advice (http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1818) is out of date. I have recently tempered my advice on visiting strip clubs, but the rest of it is still good information.
Best of luck!
:three:
Rhuth
Sparkles
Oct 3, 2006, 1:40 AM
Rhuth,
That is a lot of great literature info and quite a few ideas I had never really considered before. Thank you very much. I really appreciate it.
All the Best,
Sparkles :kay:
anne27
Oct 4, 2006, 5:20 AM
I've been married a long time (a century and a half by last count ;) ) and we are very secure in our relationship. I date women (when I'm not swearing them off) and have sexual encounters and have had one serious relationship, all while being married. My hubby understands my need for female companionship and we talk about everything. I feel that communication is the single most important thing in a relationship that is not totally locked.
With freedom comes responsibility.
Manda5
Oct 4, 2006, 6:23 PM
I know exactly how you feel, I have been wondering the same thing myself. I am a monogamist though, so I feel like I have a problem with wanting women all the time. I just feel like sex is the most intimate part of a relationship and I don't think I could share that with anyone else except for the love of my life...my boyfriend.
I have been thinking maybe bring porn and other types of things like that into the relationship but idk. Let me know how you figure it out...if you do???