Here's A Question For You

[KDaddy23]

​How much time do you spend actually looking for a guy to have sex with?

[bikurinpa]

​How much time do you spend actually looking for a guy to have sex with?

Too much! weeding out the BSers and the dudds, (Ghost outs) is the biggest problem, too many has no real intentions of meeting, just like to chat just to get their rocks off!

[stevelover]

Too much for the total lack of success I've had.

Maybe if I let go of the requirement that they not be cheating on their S/O I'd have better luck, but I'm not interested in being party to that drama-even if it never reaches me personally.

[cornholejoe]

not much since i have a few i know they usually call me

[SilkyHoseLover]

Too much! weeding out the BSers and the dudds, (Ghost outs) is the biggest problem, too many has no real intentions of meeting, just like to chat just to get their rocks off!

Just gonna pretend that I wrote this. Sums it up very concisely! :bigrin:

[Jozyxt]

Way too much. So many are flakes or not suitable.

I have one guy from Double List that I'm chatting with now that keeps hinting then pulling back. He's off work on Monday and if he doesn't suck me then, I'm going to drop him. Anther guy who was completely earnest turned out to be immensely obese so I'm not interested in going back with him. I really want a suck buddy that can be a regular.

[csreef]

Seeing how there is a Global Pandemic going on right now, I'd say not too much. . .

[jem_is_bi]

No problem now, I have a long time partner.
However,before being with him, it was relatively easy to get a sex meet up.
Quickest was 4 hours. First time with present partner to took 2 days to arrange.
Yes there were some that just suddenly lose interest in meeting. But, so what? Never took to much of my time

[Neonaught]

Probably too long but it takes a lot of effort to locate the pearls among the swine! I usually readtthis site and several others (Squirt.org, Adam4Adam, Doublelist, etc...) every morning over my morning tea and breakfast. Maybe 2 hours a day,

[Cynthia_CD]

I started thinking about actually finding an FWB around this time last year when we were coming out of our first lockdown, that didn't happen. Here I am again this time not looking for a real person but just other people with the same passions.

But at least 3 hours a day.

[SlowNEZ]

​How much time do you spend actually looking for a guy to have sex with?

I size-up guys all the time ... grocery stores, restaurants, office visitors, hardware stores etc, ... looking for some guy I’d consider doing. But none appear to be the man that I see in my fantasies.
However, I must admit that I am always on the lookout for that standout.

[twilde1952]

no hours none zero.

[SuckerMC]

no hours none zero.

Same.


-Edit-

Allow me to correct that. I look often on sites like Doublelist. Even here sometimes. One day a few months ago I finally got the nerve to answer two very goods ads in which I was looking for. Nothing for that day but to make contact with and continue it for a little bit until a good time to meet up could be set. It ended after a couple emails back and forth.

[Neonaught]

Same.


-Edit-

Allow me to correct that. I look often on sites like Doublelist. Even here sometimes. One day a few months ago I finally got the nerve to answer two very goods ads in which I was looking for. Nothing for that day but to make contact with and continue it for a little bit until a good time to meet up could be set. It ended after a couple emails back and forth.

This is far too common and I hear from some of my playmates that it happens every single time they come across a likely prospect. It's very disheartening.

[BackyardShaman]

For right now one, but before the pandemic I’d go to a video store and hang out till one of 3 guys I know showed up, that would take usually about an hour or so hanging out in the viewing rooms watching Shemale bi and gay and straight porn, knowing roughly when one might show up, or a suitable guy usually married looking for some quick action.

[Closet-peeker]

I found a guy on Grindr in the next town over who likes me to go round to his and suck him off until he unloads over my face. Thankfully he’s Available fairly often. He’s got a wonderful big penis and loves filming me worship him with my mouth. That’s the arrangement. I turn up, get naked, suck him off and then go home to my wife. Perfect.

[SuckerMC]

This is far too common and I hear from some of my playmates that it happens every single time they come across a likely prospect. It's very disheartening.

It was my fault. I let my nerves get the best of me. Hoping I can eventually get past that and eventually make things happen.

[Dy-No-Myte]

A lot of time most of which is spent weeding out the phonies and degenerates.

[Cum1st]

Not a lot. So many are looking for right now, have age restrictions that don't go up into the seventies, aren't looking for a safe comfortable LTR, or don't reside nearby.

Also I'm not trying very hard. The willingness to step out comes and goes.

[asimov800]

I don’t try hard, but do look on double list and silver daddies at least twice a week. As much as just surfing/perving the web as honest search. Reality is that I have only found about 5 guys with these sources, and only two have been repeat meets, but months apart for the repeats. Age is a factor (67 here), I can’t host, and others have limited hosting occasions.

But if you happen to be in northeast Florida - drop me a line. :suave:

[stonebow]

Not much really. I could spend a lot more time on it but I have a pretty busy life and frankly, not a load of opportunities for sex with even the one or two regular guys I've been with the past few years. I try to increase my chances by being open to "friend of a friend" scenarios. One in particular has a large circle of bottoms...his "stable" as I call it. Some of those guys are versatile so I'm totally up for meeting them....IF it should happen to come about. If not....oh well.

[gmansam]

Not much since CL and everything on line is being "monetized".

[Cumseeker]

I don't spend much time at it, unless you count internet time here and on silverdaddies. I will attempt to send a meaningful look to a prospect, or even sometimes a wink.

[rukiddingme]

I do a lot, but mostly interested in a friend for one on one ongoing. Not really into hookups. Would rather have a friend to hang out with and share intimate times when we can

[Rest85]

I spend far too much time fantasizing about it and placing ads for it. Then I have spent too much time meeting to screen out guys, or trying to work out hosting issues. That is why I am looking for a good match for a regular. It would free up so much time if I knew that I had a regular guy to suck from time to time.

[tastessogood]

I’m always looking for any sign in every guy that he might be open to guy play.

[lancer525]

Over the past year, not much at all. Over the previous fourteen years, at least 5 to 8 hours a week. Without any success.

The closest I ever got to it was a guy that met for golf and lunch, and then I never heard from him again. I've had two other "damn close" events, but both flaked at the last minute. Al that over fifteen plus years, with no results.