View Full Version : What about straight guys?
JordanCD
Mar 20, 2021, 10:22 PM
At what point is a guy no longer straight? Is a guy who only dates girls but lets guys blow him still straight?
Alex_rose
Mar 20, 2021, 10:47 PM
If a guy thinks that way their in denial.
SilkyHoseLover
Mar 21, 2021, 8:43 AM
I tend to link this aspect of one's sexuality to 'attraction', and I won't even further separate it into physical/emotional/romantic subcategories, as there's no single correct answer. Anybody who's ever had an embarrassing erection caused by non-sexual stimulus, such as a physical exam, knows that erections aren't a gay or straight thing. They happen.
The first time I was surprised to have a man take me into his mouth during a threesome with my wife, I immediately realized that it felt good to have someone sucking my cock, and it didn't matter at all that the mouth belonged to another male.
Prior to that time, I'd always considered myself straight, but I have admitted and accepted the fact that I have evolved to enjoy and desire many types of sexual activities with other 'penis owners' to use the ridiculous phraseology of the current-day politically-correct culture.
So I'm here because 'bisexual' sorta fits me best, if a categorization is necessary. But I'm still 'straight' from a standpoint that I view women as the most beautiful and desirable creatures on the planet, and the gender that I want most to have as a life partner.
Why complicate things by trying to stuff everyone into a rigid category?
Tag200
Mar 21, 2021, 10:39 AM
I tend to link this aspect of one's sexuality to 'attraction', and I won't even further separate it into physical/emotional/romantic subcategories, as there's no single correct answer. Anybody who's ever had an embarrassing erection caused by non-sexual stimulus, such as a physical exam, knows that erections aren't a gay or straight thing. They happen.
The first time I was surprised to have a man take me into his mouth during a threesome with my wife, I immediately realized that it felt good to have someone sucking my cock, and it didn't matter at all that the mouth belonged to another male.
Prior to that time, I'd always considered myself straight, but I have admitted and accepted the fact that I have evolved to enjoy and desire many types of sexual activities with other 'penis owners' to use the ridiculous phraseology of the current-day politically-correct culture.
So I'm here because 'bisexual' sorta fits me best, if a categorization is necessary. But I'm still 'straight' from a standpoint that I view women as the most beautiful and desirable creatures on the planet, and the gender that I want most to have as a life partner.
Why complicate things by trying to stuff everyone into a rigid category?
i feel similar but will go further and say I only like men’s cocks not attracted to men or anything else with them simply cock
Flypaper
Mar 21, 2021, 11:11 AM
Totally agree. It’s a loaded and simplistic question: the first time I found myself naked on a massage table and my cock in a guys hand, I knew that I had crossed into a new realm of sexuality. Graduating to him amd others sucking me off, amd then me experimenting suck cock myself, never changed my desire for and enjoyment of sex with women.
I’m not straight and I’m not gay. I’m bi, and that’s why I joined this site!
I tend to link this aspect of one's sexuality to 'attraction', and I won't even further separate it into physical/emotional/romantic subcategories, as there's no single correct answer. Anybody who's ever had an embarrassing erection caused by non-sexual stimulus, such as a physical exam, knows that erections aren't a gay or straight thing. They happen.
The first time I was surprised to have a man take me into his mouth during a threesome with my wife, I immediately realized that it felt good to have someone sucking my cock, and it didn't matter at all that the mouth belonged to another male.
Prior to that time, I'd always considered myself straight, but I have admitted and accepted the fact that I have evolved to enjoy and desire many types of sexual activities with other 'penis owners' to use the ridiculous phraseology of the current-day politically-correct culture.
So I'm here because 'bisexual' sorta fits me best, if a categorization is necessary. But I'm still 'straight' from a standpoint that I view women as the most beautiful and desirable creatures on the planet, and the gender that I want most to have as a life partner.
Why complicate things by trying to stuff everyone into a rigid category?
guywholikesboth
Mar 21, 2021, 1:38 PM
i would say once he sucks his first cock or takes it in the ass
Rvdude05
Mar 21, 2021, 1:52 PM
Once that cock enters the mouth, you're either bi, or gay. Why worry, follow the pleasure it brings..
cornholejoe
Mar 21, 2021, 4:02 PM
over the years i have found out these guys are bi tops
jem_is_bi
Mar 21, 2021, 10:30 PM
I consider them straight unless they do what I do for them for sexual pleasure.
However, I do not seek to have sex with any guy I believe is straight.
tenni
Mar 21, 2021, 11:37 PM
A straight guy usually is aware that they are wondering about being with anther guy sexually. This is often long before they verbalize their curiosity.
I wonder why the OP has asked this question himself? Is he still wondering if he is straight?
MidTownBob
Mar 22, 2021, 10:08 AM
I've encountered guys who were curious, tried it, and then found that it wasn't their cup of tea. It'd be hard to consider them anything but straight.
tenni
Mar 22, 2021, 2:55 PM
I've encountered guys who were curious, tried it, and then found that it wasn't their cup of tea. It'd be hard to consider them anything but straight.
Guys who try m2m sex and decide that it is not for them have a tendency to return again to m2m sex/love for more. In some cases they come back to m2m sex decades later. I do not know whether the guys who come back and accept their sexuality. I do know that guys have mentioned trying and later come back to accept their sexuality on this site.
Oborokybiman
Mar 22, 2021, 4:20 PM
Once that cock enters the mouth, you're either bi, or gay. Why worry, follow the pleasure it brings..
That’s how I feel too. What difference does a label make? I used to worry what others think! But now I have “I’m bi and proud of it!” I’m just me.
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MrCocksucker
Mar 23, 2021, 10:39 AM
Only you can know your own heart and mind. If you still think of yourself as str8 then who cares what anyone else thinks. Just enjoy your experiences for what they are. Who cares about the label?
KDaddy23
Mar 23, 2021, 5:13 PM
If he says he's straight but likes guys sucking his cock, he is what he says he is... and as odd as that sounds. This gets all clusterfucky because we tend to think about whatever's going on... but not so much about what the guy thinks about himself and, importantly, why he says he's into this but he's straight. Some of it really is denial and for some guys, the notion and concept of sexuality doesn't mean anything to them because getting your dick sucked and by anyone willing to do it is just a good thing. A lot of guys believe with all their heart and soul that if they're not the one sucking on a dick, that means they're still straight; as long as they're not sucking dick or, gasp, taking it in the ass, it's not only "not gay" but he's still very much straight - and then even more so when he says it's not something he does all of the time. Which, of course, doesn't change the fact that he does it but this is the kind of thinking that will, can, and does make straight guys believe that they're still straight even though they've got their dick in someone's mouth or butt.
It doesn't really make sense and, on the real, it doesn't really matter if you're of a mind that actions speak louder than words and this is universally accepted as a truism... except when it comes to this. For those straight guys who are like this, their words speak louder than their actions and if they insist that they're still straight, then they're straight and nothing anyone can say to them is going to change the way they look at and think about themselves. Talking about it is interesting, though...
Jazminedress
Mar 23, 2021, 9:47 PM
If he says he's straight but likes guys sucking his cock, he is what he says he is... and as odd as that sounds. This gets all clusterfucky because we tend to think about whatever's going on... but not so much about what the guy thinks about himself and, importantly, why he says he's into this but he's straight. Some of it really is denial and for some guys, the notion and concept of sexuality doesn't mean anything to them because getting your dick sucked and by anyone willing to do it is just a good thing. A lot of guys believe with all their heart and soul that if they're not the one sucking on a dick, that means they're still straight; as long as they're not sucking dick or, gasp, taking it in the ass, it's not only "not gay" but he's still very much straight - and then even more so when he says it's not something he does all of the time. Which, of course, doesn't change the fact that he does it but this is the kind of thinking that will, can, and does make straight guys believe that they're still straight even though they've got their dick in someone's mouth or butt.
It doesn't really make sense and, on the real, it doesn't really matter if you're of a mind that actions speak louder than words and this is universally accepted as a truism... except when it comes to this. For those straight guys who are like this, their words speak louder than their actions and if they insist that they're still straight, then they're straight and nothing anyone can say to them is going to change the way they look at and think about themselves. Talking about it is interesting, though...
Kinda makes sense, guys in prison just calling it getting their needs met
tenni
Mar 23, 2021, 10:23 PM
The poll connected to this thread is interesting from the point that a very slight majority 51% support the thinking that a guy getting blown by another guy is still straight in the posters opinion. This includes situational biguy in prison who gets blown by a guy. To a lesser belief you are still straight if you blow a guy in prison and once let out of prison never experience m2m sex again....until.....?
Dy-No-Myte
Mar 24, 2021, 5:24 AM
Who cares?
Just give me a mouthful of cum!
SilkyHoseLover
Mar 24, 2021, 8:22 AM
This gets all clusterfucky because we tend to think about whatever's going on...LOL - you've coined a new adjective! Bravo! :bigrin: This brings it to a whole new level of ... of ... clusterfuckery!
It doesn't really make sense and, on the real, it doesn't really matter if you're of a mind that actions speak louder than words and this is universally accepted as a truism... except when it comes to this. For those straight guys who are like this, their words speak louder than their actions and if they insist that they're still straight, then they're straight and nothing anyone can say to them is going to change the way they look at and think about themselves. Talking about it is interesting, though...Yup -- the money quote! Interesting, indeed...