Bisexual becoming more and more gay...the money shot

[Grant_Norman]

I will ALWAYS be bisexual...it is core to who I am. I've started even outing myself...told my son this week and going to even out myself to my Christian conservative Trumpian wife before long...no more stories or hiding it from her or anyone...wouldn't mind doing it if I were just meeting a guy now and then, but my new job I started with a gay guy I was blowing off/on for 5 years now (and his partner who died in July) has brought me to a true gay level of sex. We have little in common, but he's really a good, caring, and loving person, my sex with him has led me to a "gay love" relationship with him.

We are both extremely horny all the time and suck/be sucked by multiple guys all the time...many by ourselves and many of those in 3/4 somes. All so very very hot, and then home to frigid wife, who is very nice but always NPD.

For those that haven't followed my threads, I was getting so tired of trying to slip out and see him...45 minute drive to his house and 45 min back...huge time to try and cover for being away....I got a job (for real) working for him...minimal pay and light duty, but my wife packs my lunch and I'm off to see him 2 days a week...of course my "work" time also includes upto 2 hours "play" time, but I have come to enjoy it so much with him that I really look forward to it.

Of course he is basically out, but was also married 25 tears has two grown daughters and son, and also had an 18 year hook-up with a woman, but he really just thinks of himself as gay now, not bisexual. I still feel women are super super hot...but have sucked well over 50-75+ cocks and swallowed probably close to a couple hundred plus loads in last 5 years...so the reason I feel I'm bisexual and not gay

Still, this being bisexual is an unusual situation...I feel all men who watch porn are un-admitted bisexuals if they try to tell people they're straight...why do we all love the "money shot"? Every guy loves to watch a cock cum...how much more can a guy be bi or gay?

Some thoughts to think about...oh wait, I have to go to work

One of my dreams...Jolene Brooks

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[tenni]

How you define your sexuality is your business but it can be confusing for yourself and others when a bisexual person refers to having “gay sex”.


If you identify as bisexual you really can not have “gay sex” because you do not identify as gay.


It may be clearer to refer to “same gender” sex and opposite gender sex. Gay people are only attracted to other same gender people. Gay people do not have opposite gender attraction: neither physically nor emotionally/romantically. Gay people are physically and/or emotionally/romantically attracted to others of their own gender. IMO, a bisexual may not be attracted to same gender and then find themself growing attracted to same gender people. Emotions may develop after years of denying such attractions.


Bisexual people are physically/and or emotionally/romantically attracted to both male and female people. When a bisexual has attractions to both genders it is probably best to refer to “same gender” sex than “gay sex”.(because they are not gay…right? :)

Bisexuals might be wise to correct emerging bisexuals who throw the term "gay sex" around simply because they may not see the relevance of avoiding such terms.

Transexuals and those attracted to transexuals are often referred to as “pansexuals”. It gets a little fuzzy as to whether pansexuals can be bisexual or be referred to as pansexual. Those stating that they are bisexual but only a man's dick. Transexuals in transitions are generally not wanting to show their penis (so I'm told) Posting "chick with dicks" pictures is rather rude to transexuals in transition and pansexuals who objectify transexuals should do some research on transexuals and their journey.


. If you are bisexual, you do not identify as gay. Someone who use to identify as bisexual and now identifies as gay” do tend to create problems for bisexuals with gay people and especially gay people who argue that there is no such thing as bisexuality. Such gays state that bisexuals are confused and will eventually identify as gay.

[Jazminedress]

wow, that jolene brooks is hot

[csreef]

wow, that jolene brooks is hot

I'll second that!

[Jozyxt]

wow, that jolene brooks is hot

Thirds here. I'd love to spend a long evening alone with her. It might even induce me to do something unnatural.

[Jazminedress]

Thirds here. I'd love to spend a long evening alone with her. It might even induce me to do something unnatural.

If I looked like that I would invite a couple of you over just so I could show off

[SlowNEZ]

If I looked like that I would invite a couple of you over just so I could show off

Hey, Jazmine. That’s what I fantasize that you look like.

[KDaddy23]

That it’s called gay sex is kinda simple since it’s always been equated to being gay but instead of reinventing the wheel, we should just call it having sex and leaving out sexuality and gender. We get tunnel vision in that we assume that if two men are “together,” then both are gay and that might not be the truth... but while many do not understand bisexuality, they do understand gay easily enough so they don’t get that the relationship doesn’t really define the individuals who are in it.

Even if I’m having sex with a gay man, I am still bisexual - the act doesn’t define me even if we keep calling it gay sex because it is homosexual sex plain and simple - it’s two guys doing the nasty with each other. I’m okay with calling it gay sex, bisexual sex, or just plain old sex because what it’s called doesn’t matter... but having sex does.

Being bi is only unusual if an individual has reason to find it that way. Guys watch porn money shots all of the time... and what that have to do with anything? Is he bi or gay for watching a dick pumping sperm? He is whatever he says he is and even if someone else has reason to think he’s full of shit and trying to hide something about himself - maybe he is, maybe he isn’t... and either way, does it matter at all? Probably only if the guy in question wants to get in your underwear and, yeah, he could be gay, bi or, according to himself, as straight as a ruler and if you can have sex with him and he’s game and down for it, does it really matter how he identifies?

If a bi guy feels he’s more gay than bi, that’s how he feels about himself and I’m thinking things would be a lot less complicated if we’d just accept that it’s how he sees himself and remember that no matter how he does this, how you see yourself can be different... and, yeah, you can call the sex whatever works for you.

[Jazminedress]

Hey, Jazmine. That’s what I fantasize that you look like.

I wish

[Greenie1]

Count me in Jaz, from what I see, you look great! Besides, I think you probably have a much better attitude and way about you. I always enjoy hearing your point of view on things. Oh, and your pictures! Yowza! Happy New Year to you!

[Jazminedress]

Count me in Jaz, from what I see, you look great! Besides, I think you probably have a much better attitude and way about you. I always enjoy hearing your point of view on things. Oh, and your pictures! Yowza! Happy New Year to you!

Thanks, but damn that chick was smoking

[Greenie1]

True, surely is quite hot!

[SlowNEZ]

Jolene Brooks is a dish! ... plus, she drinks coffee ... my kinda gurl! I’ll have mine with cream, please.

[void()]

Transexuals and those attracted to transexuals are often referred to as “pansexuals”. It gets a little fuzzy as to whether pansexuals can be bisexual or be referred to as pansexual.

"Huh, how 'bout that?" Define myself as bisexual. Can admit though I would most assuredly enjoy sex & or relationship with transsexual. I love & enjoy people, at least those I cho/ose being around. Don't concern myself too much over labels. Kind of borrowing the Richard Bach philosophy, "argue your limitations and they become you." Rather be sure I control my limitations instead. *shrugs* Probably a "just me" thing. :tongue: :)

Ah yes, that Jolene Brooks can set on my lap, or I hers any time. :) I'm sure we could talk heatedly about whatever come up.

[void()]

If I looked like that I would invite a couple of you over just so I could show off

Oh honey, you don't need to look like her at all. You peachy enough all by youself. ;)

[KDaddy23]

Transsexual can be bisexual - I know three of them who are. I had asked them why they kept their dicks and they all said, "I'm a girl now... but I still like having sex with girls!"

[RisingBi]

Transsexual can be bisexual - I know three of them who are. I had asked them why they kept their dicks and they all said, "I'm a girl now... but I still like having sex with girls!"
I think that's wonderful! Good for them. But that got me wondering what a bisexual woman feels about pre-op MtF transexual women. I've only ever heard from bisexual men, including myself, in this forum and so many others, about their love for such transsexuals (at least in their fantasies, since very few have ever been with a transexual woman). But I've never heard from a bisexual woman. Ladies?