Enjoyable anal sex

[JordanCD]

What has you anal experience been? Pleasant, painful? Do you seek it or avoid it?

Seems like a lot of people don't enjoy anal because of the discomfort. Personally I found that you can train your hole to be permanently more flexible (without damaging it). I did it because I wanted to be ready for a cock/toy whenever the opportunity presented itself, rather than experience pain or have to say no.

I found that if you're patient and work your way up over time, it won't cause any issues (the anus will contract back to normal after sex). The only side effect is you might have a slightly plumper and more wrinkled hole in the end - which I think is more attractive anyway. I found the alternative to training is pain and discomfort every time you're trying to stick a phallus into a hole that's just not used to being stretched, or worse - tearing of the tissue and causing permanent damage.

And the training process can be a lot of fun (trying different toys and working your way up to the next level). It can really spice things up in the bedroom. I had a lot of fun training myself and my partner, and now we can enjoy anal play whenever we want, whether it's my thick 8" cock going into her ass or a big toy going in mine. We just start slow, but within a minute we can go all out.

Hoping others can share your thoughts on this or other experience you've had. Do you enjoy anal or not? Why?

[Nocockyet]

It started for me as a curiousity. I stumbled upon a book about sex in my parents room and it had a section about male anal play. I was a horny 15 year old already bored of jerking off so this seemed like something I wanted to try. I started small, and worked my way up. I was not into the idea of having the real thing until now. And I'm ready for whatever they got.

[KDaddy23]

For me, I went from doing anal almost all of the time to only getting into it with guys I feel very close to. The pain and discomfort was, to me, just a part of it and something that couldn't always be avoided due to lubrication methods - spit would work but not as good as anything more slippery - and cock thickness. Despite this obvious thing, I do enjoy it - I just choose my moments in this. My neighbor got to barely get the head of his dick in me before he lost his load and I wasn't disappointed by that - but he got to, at least, do that much because we have a special connection.

[cornholejoe]

my late wife started with fingers a buttplug and later on with a strapon this went on for 30 years so i really enjoy anal got liking it more when i got the real thing

[MAcpl69]

Love anal sex, give or recieve, only have had toys in my ass so far. Would like to get a real cock in there soon!

[ClassicPaCpl]

To my, it started with my wife fingering me during 69. I really loved it and we started using small toys and gradually getting larger ones and then she pegged me.
I find too much lube is ALMOST enough! But my trick to a no pain anal is before hand, Insert a toy. My go to is a glass dildo with bumps going all the way down it.
I let that stay in me for about 10 minutes. In that time we either watch each other or do a little oral. Once im comfortable and happy... I remove the dildo and i am ready to enjoy the thrill of being penetrated.. Oh yes... More lube is added! I find the type of lube is important as well... For us, we use a pure organic Coconut oil... Sounds stupid but it seems to work better than most anything else

[csreef]

For me I would have to be very comfortable with the man before. Also if a woman wanted to peg me , I would have to be comfortable with the idea of it, and with

her also.

[Jazminedress]

I enjoy the level it brings you too, and maybe a little bit of the control knowing I am turning him on

[Birob67]

What has you anal experience been? Pleasant, painful? Do you seek it or avoid it?

Seems like a lot of people don't enjoy anal because of the discomfort. Personally I found that you can train your hole to be permanently more flexible (without damaging it). I did it because I wanted to be ready for a cock/toy whenever the opportunity presented itself, rather than experience pain or have to say no.

I found that if you're patient and work your way up over time, it won't cause any issues (the anus will contract back to normal after sex). The only side effect is you might have a slightly plumper and more wrinkled hole in the end - which I think is more attractive anyway. I found the alternative to training is pain and discomfort every time you're trying to stick a phallus into a hole that's just not used to being stretched, or worse - tearing of the tissue and causing permanent damage.

And the training process can be a lot of fun (trying different toys and working your way up to the next level). It can really spice things up in the bedroom. I had a lot of fun training myself and my partner, and now we can enjoy anal play whenever we want, whether it's my thick 8" cock going into her ass or a big toy going in mine. We just start slow, but within a minute we can go all out.

Hoping others can share your thoughts on this or other experience you've had. Do you enjoy anal or not? Why?

I love anal sex. Ever since i was a teenager. Love fingering or being fingered. A nice dildo and of course my lover's beautiful cock

[Nocockyet]

I enjoy the level it brings you too, and maybe a little bit of the control knowing I am turning him on

Yep, exactly. Knowing that someone is enjoying me and getting pleasure from my ass would be a huge turn on

[wifekinky4husband]

We are finally reaching more break throughs. Since the shut down we went from 6-8 couples down to 2, finally back to 3 now. I set up a pegging board challenge/game with my husband and over the shut down we practiced a lot! I am now able to take up to 7x5.5 inches anally and am I Very Proud to say my husband can now take 8x6.5 anally. We had another couple where only the wife would handle her husband's size, but this past weekend he was able to get the entire length and girth buried to the hilt in my husband's a**. We had been preparing for this to try to get this couple back into swinging with the group. It was as beneficial for them both until now. My husband getting fucked by this huge piece of man meat has been the highlight of our sexual experience thus far. You have no idea what it was like to see, feel, touch all around, this massive cock pulsating buried inside my mans so overly stretched crazily tight anal hole. His wife and I couldn't get enough of feeling it. The other two couples are going to freak when the witness it next weekend. Hottest piece of fucking ever!!! It took a lot to get my husband to this point but he even says it is worth it. How full he said it felt and when he came inside him as it stretched him to his maximum limits was over the limits of orgasmic. I can tell you from our side of it and others, his orgasms from being anal ravaged were so heavy and loud people down the street heard it. I am still hot about it as are the other couple and my husband. He let me know, he is totally up for all the anal fucking we can give him now. That is also a first!

[csreef]

We are finally reaching more break throughs. Since the shut down we went from 6-8 couples down to 2, finally back to 3 now. I set up a pegging board challenge/game with my husband and over the shut down we practiced a lot! I am now able to take up to 7x5.5 inches anally and am I Very Proud to say my husband can now take 8x6.5 anally. We had another couple where only the wife would handle her husband's size, but this past weekend he was able to get the entire length and girth buried to the hilt in my husband's a**. We had been preparing for this to try to get this couple back into swinging with the group. It was as beneficial for them both until now. My husband getting fucked by this huge piece of man meat has been the highlight of our sexual experience thus far. You have no idea what it was like to see, feel, touch all around, this massive cock pulsating buried inside my mans so overly stretched crazily tight anal hole. His wife and I couldn't get enough of feeling it. The other two couples are going to freak when the witness it next weekend. Hottest piece of fucking ever!!! It took a lot to get my husband to this point but he even says it is worth it. How full he said it felt and when he came inside him as it stretched him to his maximum limits was over the limits of orgasmic. I can tell you from our side of it and others, his orgasms from being anal ravaged were so heavy and loud people down the street heard it. I am still hot about it as are the other couple and my husband. He let me know, he is totally up for all the anal fucking we can give him now. That is also a first!

What I wouldn't give to hook up with you two! WOW!

[redngoldpride]

I just love anal sex , with both females and males who enjoy it with me or want to try it , it takes a bit of time even if we have engaged in it before but once I am in it I go slow and wait for them to let me know how deep , fast or slow and how hard , there are a couple of married couples who just love watching up close each other taking my cock and keeping the sexy tight anal ring wet , I just love to hear the coaching of their partner ....... Oh god I love it

[George51]

I have only been fucked a couple of times. Many years ago. The first time, the guy's cock was so small it really was not too pleasant. He could hardly enter me. The next time was a guy with a rather larger member. Much better. Foolishly, through my age and guilt I told him to stop. One of life's mistakes.

I want to try again. :)

[RisingBi]

I have ever increasingly enjoyed more and more anal sex with guys over the last few years, having the 20 years prior just been enjoying oral sex with guys. Something just changed in me that first night of anal sex, and allowed me finally to deeply connect with and accept my bisexuality. My road to that seems to be the asshole. I love how it looks, and I love licking it, fucking it with my tongue, and inserting my cock deep inside it (mind you, I LOVE cock too and think it's the most beautiful thing in the universe). But I think it's that intimacy, of being inside of another man, and everything about giving him so much pleasure, that I enjoy so much. But the chemistry needs to be there with the guy, and I need to have at least some kind of emotional connection with him: I need to like him, and to want to bond with him sexually.

And I want to have that intimacy with him through my own ass as well. My now ex-girlfriend used to peg me, but all I ever thought about when she was fucking my ass was how I wished it was another man, with a real cock. I had been talking with guys at the beginning of this year, shortly after my ex and I broke up, for me to finally bottom with someone. But Covid stopped that. I can't wait for the pandemic to be over so that I can finally enjoy fully versatile anal sex, and best of all to find a regular fuck buddy that I can bareback with, lovingly breeding each other's assholes. I really enjoyed breeding my girlfriend's asshole so often. But I think the real peak of my sexuality will be in sharing that intimacy with another man.

[Flypaper]

This!

Ive made no secret of my aching desire to offer up my virgin ass to a truly loving guy. I can imagine the rush of escote,ent amd pleasure as he enters my freshly licked and lubed ass. I’d be a total bottom slut with the desire to reciprocate i the first of many nights together breeding each other as Friends with amazing benefits.


I have ever increasingly enjoyed more and more anal sex with guys over the last few years, having the 20 years prior just been enjoying oral sex with guys. Something just changed in me that first night of anal sex, and allowed me finally to deeply connect with and accept my bisexuality. My road to that seems to be the asshole. I love how it looks, and I love licking it, fucking it with my tongue, and inserting my cock deep inside it (mind you, I LOVE cock too and think it's the most beautiful thing in the universe). But I think it's that intimacy, of being inside of another man, and everything about giving him so much pleasure, that I enjoy so much. But the chemistry needs to be there with the guy, and I need to have at least some kind of emotional connection with him: I need to like him, and to want to bond with him sexually.

And I want to have that intimacy with him through my own ass as well. My now ex-girlfriend used to peg me, but all I ever thought about when she was fucking my ass was how I wished it was another man, with a real cock. I had been talking with guys at the beginning of this year, shortly after my ex and I broke up, for me to finally bottom with someone. But Covid stopped that. I can't wait for the pandemic to be over so that I can finally enjoy fully versatile anal sex, and best of all to find a regular fuck buddy that I can bareback with, lovingly breeding each other's assholes. I really enjoyed breeding my girlfriend's asshole so often. But I think the real peak of my sexuality will be in sharing that intimacy with another man.

[Jamie19]

It gets much better with time. I've always been sort of obsessed with anal. So as a young teenager I remember putting a finger in my butt and sometimes other things like small vegetables lol. It's weird how that develops - this was before I'd ever watched porn and was before I was even really even sexually aware.

My first few times at anal sex hurt quite a bit but I used desensitizing lube which actually made the sex kind've lame. I would just be really sore the next day I but I wouldn't notice when the guy was fucking me as it was basically numb. The guys were younger usually so often inexperienced and bad at sex too, which didn't help.

But yeah, it gets better when you learn to relax and learn how to clean yourself beforehand (so that you're comfortable and not self conscious) and when your butt hole gets accustomed to having things put in it. I've got to a point where if the sex is good I can start cumming while the guy is fucking me, especially if he has a big dick and knows how to use it properly. I have never experienced pre-cum when I'm not receiving anal sex; that's the only time I get it, when the dick first goes in. I don't think there's anything better than that filled-up feeling where you can feel his dick stimulating your prostate and you get that tingly feeling in the dick. Sometimes I literally crave it like nothing else. x

[Jamie19]

I also think there's still a lot of shame around having and enjoying anal sex. So I didn't grow up in a really religious family or anything but it was the countryside so there was still a bit of old fashioned stigma attached to things like homosexuality or being effeminate or trans etc. I remember as a kid hearing my gran say disparaging things about 'sodomy' for example.

Of course, the stigma can actually make it more of a turn on too. There were definitely times when I first started hooking up with guys where the fact that (in my mind) we were doing something naughty and 'wrong' made it hotter. But it's double-edged because oftentimes you will feel ashamed about the act after. It's healthier to let the shame and guilt go and accept that it's natural and fun. I actually enjoy anal sex a lot more now that I have a healthier emotional relationship with it.

[tongueteaser]

Yes I never had actual anal done to me yet but want to. I also know what you are saying about the Naughty feeling thing. I have only given a BJ to a guy and always fantasized about giving BJ to a Transgendered babe. I got such a naughty feeling letting a guy fill my mouth and sucking him that I was rock hard and came myself. My last girlfriend used to lube me push a small vibrating toy into me as she sucked on me. I m so tight and the being full feeling made my legs shake at first. I felt so naughty and she would make comments about how she wanted to see a guy fuck my tight little ass. I never did it yet. I would desire to find the right partner to take their time and penetrate me. I am so submissive and need it but has not happened yet. Nice to read others that have done or tried it.

[Chester1954]

With Covid shutting everything down I have become quite horny for a cock to suck. I went to an adult superstore and bought a dildo to suck. After sucking it a few times I wonder where else it would fit so I went to Lovers Lane to get a cleansing kit after cleaning I lubed up and at first it hurt but once it was in it felt pretty good. It felt so good I went back to where I purchased my first dildo and got a bigger one it felt pretty good. Now I have a strong desire to either be pegged or fucked by a guy. To tell the truth I really want to be spit roasted.

[BigAlNYC]

From the first time I figured out that men did this, I was pretty obsessed with anal sex. Especially getting a hard cock up my ass. When I was a teenager I had a phallic vibrator I had gotten ahold of somewhere, some of my mother's old clothes, and a jar of vaseline, and I would put on the clothes and try to work the vibrator into my ass while I jerked off. Soon enough I figured out how to take the whole thing in there. So, even though I was still a little scared at the thought of getting fucked, I knew that I could take it (and enjoy it) if I found a willing dick. When I was 18, after sucking several cocks, I finally got what I wanted and I loved it. I went crazy, back in those pre-aids days, finding ways in my midwestern city to get fucked whenever possible.

Then came aids, and girls, and marriage, and although I still sucked a cock or two at the ABS or the gay porn theater, and still thought about it a lot, I didn't really have much sex with men and didn't get fucked for about 9 years. One night though, when I lived in California, I drove into a cruisy rest area to take a piss. I saw a husky white guy staring at me while I was exiting the bathroom, with a look I recognized as definitely showing interest. I sat in my van in the parking lot, not driving away, thinking about the possibilities, when he came to my window and said "My boyfriend loves to fuck big chubby asses like yours, is that something you'd be up for? If you're into it I'd love to watch him fuck you". I was in a horny daze, thinking I shouldn't do it and just go home to the wife, but what I said was "yeah, sure".

The boyfriend turned out to be a very tall thin black man, with a very nice 8" cock After a lot of foreplay between the 3 of us in the back of my van, including me giving a lot of head to the original guy who cruised me, I felt the boyfriend feel up my ass and tentatively stick a couple of fingers around my asshole. Now I was hugely excited, and I asked him to stick his fingers in me. He lubed up 2 fingers and fucked them into my ass until they were all the way in. I hadn't had anything up my ass in a long time, but this felt great, and soon I was riding his fingers hard. It wasn't long until he had me over the foldout couch I had in the van, bent over, with my now hungry asshole exposed and waiting. He put some rubber on that beautiful cock, a glob of lube on it (I was already lubed up from the finger fucking) and slowly worked that dick into my under-used asshole. Soon enough he was pounding into me, and the old feelings returned and I loudly said "fuck me man, fuck me as hard as you want". He pushed my head down into the couch and rode me good and hard. I heard some grunting and saw his friend jerking his hard cock, and then felt his warm cum landing on my back, neck, and cheek. Soon enough the boyfriend was yelling, and filling up that condom with his load. I reached down and felt the cum dripping from my own cock, and knew I was going to be a fuck freak again now.

I was so excited I went home and pounded the hell out of my wife's pussy. She wondered aloud what had gotten into me.

[RisingBi]

It gets much better with time. I've always been sort of obsessed with anal. So as a young teenager I remember putting a finger in my butt and sometimes other things like small vegetables lol. It's weird how that develops - this was before I'd ever watched porn and was before I was even really even sexually aware.

My first few times at anal sex hurt quite a bit but I used desensitizing lube which actually made the sex kind've lame. I would just be really sore the next day I but I wouldn't notice when the guy was fucking me as it was basically numb. The guys were younger usually so often inexperienced and bad at sex too, which didn't help.

But yeah, it gets better when you learn to relax and learn how to clean yourself beforehand (so that you're comfortable and not self conscious) and when your butt hole gets accustomed to having things put in it. I've got to a point where if the sex is good I can start cumming while the guy is fucking me, especially if he has a big dick and knows how to use it properly. I have never experienced pre-cum when I'm not receiving anal sex; that's the only time I get it, when the dick first goes in. I don't think there's anything better than that filled-up feeling where you can feel his dick stimulating your prostate and you get that tingly feeling in the dick. Sometimes I literally crave it like nothing else. x
You sound so so hot, Jamie! Anyone who gets the honour of fucking you is the luckiest man in the world.

[Jamie19]

You sound so so hot, Jamie! Anyone who gets the honour of fucking you is the luckiest man in the world.

Lol thanks. I always thought I was a freak growing up but it turns out being a freak is more fun when you get a bit older. :bigrin:

[Caffeine2000]

I haven't tried anal with another man, but an ex girlfriend was very interested in anal--first receiving, but eventually wanting to try it with me. I was quite reluctant at first, but she managed to convince me, after a while. We went to a sex shop together and chose a dildo and some lube. I remember being quite apprehensive about the size and thickness of the dildo. Still, I felt a kind of kinky thrill at the thought of it. After having a few drinks and getting relaxed, she placed it between her thighs and asked me to suck it, which I did, feeling vaguely embarrassed but excited at the novelty of it. After that, I got on my hands and knees and she lubed up the dildo and slowly pressed it against my ass, pushing it in slowly but firmly. I remember feeling the coldness of the lube, then the sensation of being filled up, moaning and grunting as she penetrated me. I hadn't thought about it for quite a few years, but sometimes I fantasise about being in the same situation with another man.

[Fluid]

Had been curious about M2M sex in my early teens, read a few porno paperbacks about "straight" man getting fucked. The detail about how it felt really turned me on. Then I watched the movie Deliverance when it came out in 1972, I was 15 at the time. The rape scene with the hillbilly turned me on so much. I wanted to be the guy squealing like a pig. It took a few years of nervously trying to get fucked only to end up sucking a few cocks in public restrooms .

One late night hit the rest stop between Seattle and Tacoma went into the woods behind to find a guy playing with his hard cock. All I was wearing was sweatpants and a sweater, I pulled the sweats down and bent over in front of him. I had been drinking so I was less inhibited. He dry fucked me for about two or three minutes, dumped a load in me and pulled out. I remember thinking is that all I get? Another guy came down where we were as the first guy was leaving. He offered up a hard cock but I had to guide it in my ass and basically work his cock with my butt. He lasted a little longer and I was really starting to get into pumping my butt and clenching my ass. I realized then anal sex would be great only if the guy fucking me could last longer!

As time went by I stopped the anonymous outdoor restroom hook ups and concentrated of meeting up with those who can host or renting a motel room. I have found the more I get into being fucked the quicker they cum, so I learned to loosen up, letting them pound away, anticipating them cumming and milking his cock out of it's load. Sadly most married bi men don't last very long, especially the first time. If we keep meeting it gets better. The best I've ever had was paid for, gangsta type with that elusive BBC. He was willing accommodate a submissive sissy bottom for a fee. Unfortunately the quality of service deteriorates after the initial hook up so it's a real hit and miss situation.

Fulfilling my anal sex desires has evolved over time. I find myself frustrated with trying all of the sites, Squirt, Silver Daddies, DL etc etc. I'm getting too old to be a prime bottom. Recently have sought out professional Male/ Female Doms that offer toy and strap on play, humiliation, orgasm denial and other kinks. I've focused my cruising on sites looking for those who like to use toys and hand play. This seems to be the most reliable way of getting the fucking I want.

[Caffeine2000]

Had been curious about M2M sex in my early teens, read a few porno paperbacks about "straight" man getting fucked. The detail about how it felt really turned me on. Then I watched the movie Deliverance when it came out in 1972, I was 15 at the time. The rape scene with the hillbilly turned me on so much. I wanted to be the guy squealing like a pig. It took a few years of nervously trying to get fucked only to end up sucking a few cocks in public restrooms .

One late night hit the rest stop between Seattle and Tacoma went into the woods behind to find a guy playing with his hard cock. All I was wearing was sweatpants and a sweater, I pulled the sweats down and bent over in front of him. I had been drinking so I was less inhibited. He dry fucked me for about two or three minutes, dumped a load in me and pulled out. I remember thinking is that all I get? Another guy came down where we were as the first guy was leaving. He offered up a hard cock but I had to guide it in my ass and basically work his cock with my butt. He lasted a little longer and I was really starting to get into pumping my butt and clenching my ass. I realized then anal sex would be great only if the guy fucking me could last longer!

As time went by I stopped the anonymous outdoor restroom hook ups and concentrated of meeting up with those who can host or renting a motel room. I have found the more I get into being fucked the quicker they cum, so I learned to loosen up, letting them pound away, anticipating them cumming and milking his cock out of it's load. Sadly most married bi men don't last very long, especially the first time. If we keep meeting it gets better. The best I've ever had was paid for, gangsta type with that elusive BBC. He was willing accommodate a submissive sissy bottom for a fee. Unfortunately the quality of service deteriorates after the initial hook up so it's a real hit and miss situation.

Fulfilling my anal sex desires has evolved over time. I find myself frustrated with trying all of the sites, Squirt, Silver Daddies, DL etc etc. I'm getting too old to be a prime bottom. Recently have sought out professional Male/ Female Doms that offer toy and strap on play, humiliation, orgasm denial and other kinks. I've focused my cruising on sites looking for those who like to use toys and hand play. This seems to be the most reliable way of getting the fucking I want.

I remember feeling "confused" about that scene in Deliverance, too.

[tongueteaser]

Never did it yet. Sounds so damn exciting though reading all your posts. Seems exciting for a guys cock to own my ass and pumping me from behind. Maybe if I find the right size one that wont hurt.

[williamg]

I enjoy my wife pegging me. And I use my own toys as well! I so want a real cock though. To feel his texture of his veins... The shape of the head... The pulsing of the shaft... His balls slapping my ass... I see no downside to anal! Oh fuck...

[Johnyonenut]

I have topped a few times, both a guy and gals, but never bottomed. Had chances when I was younger but didn't take up on them, which I regret. I have enjoyed using dildos on myself as long as they aren't too large, length isn't an issue. Can no longer top due to ED but would love to find a nice guy to fuck me. Bareback would be great so that I could feel his cum inside me but that is too scary today.

[Ccmmss]

Giveing or receiving anal is a special act. Both have their own eroticism for me. While it took me until into my 40s to do it. I am happy to have done it and continuing to do it. The right guy makes all the difference. One bud in particular can go all night with me. Taking his multiple loads is special. Another bud I topped recently and shot so hard and so much. It totally relaxed my system.
So mant good times are had with the right guy.

[Boynextdoor11]

To my, it started with my wife fingering me during 69. I really loved it and we started using small toys and gradually getting larger ones and then she pegged me.
I find too much lube is ALMOST enough! But my trick to a no pain anal is before hand, Insert a toy. My go to is a glass dildo with bumps going all the way down it.
I let that stay in me for about 10 minutes. In that time we either watch each other or do a little oral. Once im comfortable and happy... I remove the dildo and i am ready to enjoy the thrill of being penetrated.. Oh yes... More lube is added! I find the type of lube is important as well... For us, we use a pure organic Coconut oil... Sounds stupid but it seems to work better than most anything else
Yeah, it's great that you mentioned lube. Was very helpful for me as a beginner - no pain and discomfort. But I'd prefer water-based lube, like this (https://joynights.org/best-lube-for-fisting/#product5) one for example. Of course it depends

[gale_mn]

I love anal at the first time he put his duck in

[Bi-Rõnin]

Absolutely love it, crave it all the time. Besides the physical pleasure that comes from being f* ** in th a**. Its also the mental aspect of having someone inside of me

[pepelucho169]

In my case I have not done it with a cock, I should do it with my fingers and a toy, it is not something common, but the anus is a very sensitive area, of the girlfriends I have had, 3 have given me a rimming and one has Penetrated with a finger, at the moment of excitement it is very exciting but not something I do all the time.
When there are times that I am very excited I use a dildo

[tommyswing]

It was a long journey for me. I didn't think of being a bottom till I hit my 40's. I was too tight to take a cock in me. My g/f used to finger me while watching porn, and eventually able to get 3 to 4 fingers. When i was 50 i finally able to lose my anal virginity at a movie house Leisure Time Cinema here in florida. Since then every time I've had someone inside of me, it's been a wonderful experience I love the feeling of a fat, warm cockhead opening me up, the fullness, and the submission, and sharing my feminine side with him. I love a plump cock for anal, it sets off all my endorphins, I wake up so happy.

[Joboo]

My friend who was fully gay wanted to top me. All I was in it for was oral, liking giving as much as receiving. One night I let him try but the pain was too much, he got a couple of inches in. Problem was lubrication, only saliva was used. I often wondered later if we had used lube if I would have liked it. So some years later I tried it with a toy that was well lubed. I got absolutely nothing from it, actually lost my erection.

[Tight1-4u]

for me I love anal.. it is what I am looking for all the time.. being sub bottom only I have never topped an don’t suspect I ever will.. there is just to much pleasure in being bottom.. i truly love being fucked knowing that he a guy has his cock buried balls deep in my pussy.. his carnal desires trying to make me pregnant.. me a guy doing the things that he needed to get him horny hard and wanting needing to put his cock in me and breed me is just so very erotic.. I love the feeling of his cock inside me.. I love to feel him thrusting in and out of me..I love to feel his body stiffen up his cock swelling up.. hear him grunting as he thrusts into me the last few times to get as deep as he can in my pussy.. then to know he is blowing his baby batter all in me.. there is to much pleasure not to bottom.. I love sex with men being their slut..

[Jozyxt]

I have used toys in the shower off and on for years so I know there would be no problem getting a cock in. I really get a lot of gratification from provideing womens orgams and have more recently found gratification in sucking cock. So it would seem to be a natural step to letting a man penetrate me. One guy tried to while sucking me, but was not wearing a condom, so I told him, "No." I also told another time while he was sucking, that if he had a condom, I might change my mind as i really would like to return the great orgasmes he's brought to me and experience them with him. Watching his face, feeling his dick thrust in me and encouraging him as I do when he is sucking me.

Last time he sucked me, he had some home made porn. But couldn't find the remote to start the video. Maybe it will all work out one day soon.

[ScottSwallows]

For me it was a little painful because I couldn?t relax.
I found that anal sex while spooning is much easier.
But that?s just me.

[bibtmguy1]

Anal tearing does happen to bottoms...it happened to me...i was a teen...but they lubed up more kept fcking me, my anus was on vire and i was having body quaking cum, even-though i was shriveled up limp, not touching myself. Even now my ass pussi is a GASH but its not uncommon, i did go back , cumming like that made up my mind for me.

[Footstep40]

I would say for your first time, spooning is probably the best possible position, or on your stomach. I absolutely love missionary with men, looking up watching their face, kissing, etc. very pleasurable! I’m not saying that I have never had unpleasant sex, or no pain, but those obstacles are usually avoided with a lot of lube, some prep, or having him be-a bit more gentle and slow down.

[peiguy]

I started anal self exploration early, using things like a well lubed screwdriver handle, english cucumber, golf balls in a condom. Enjoyed it immensely. Later learned about prostate. When I met my wife she would massage my prostate when we were dating / engaged / early in marriage. When she syopped I bought toys, starting with an aneros, then more aneros, then lelo, njoy etc.

[RisingBi]

I would say for your first time, spooning is probably the best possible position, or on your stomach. I absolutely love missionary with men, looking up watching their face, kissing, etc. very pleasurable! I?m not saying that I have never had unpleasant sex, or no pain, but those obstacles are usually avoided with a lot of lube, some prep, or having him be-a bit more gentle and slow down.
That idea of spooning your first time is very interesting. A top so far, and not much of that either, so far, I am more and more thinking about bottoming for another guy. Even though I know it would be pleasurable for me, the idea of giving my body to him for his pleasure alone is becoming more and more of a desire for me. I would love to be selfless in that way, and offer the most intimate part of my body to another man for his pleasure and happiness. Up to now I was thinking more of giving him my ass in doggy position, but your spooning idea seems good too.

Initially I was thinking of being on top and lowering my virgin asshole over top of his cock, and riding him like that (which I have done so many times with my dildos). But now I'm thinking that's perhaps too much of me in control, and I'd rather give him the control and the pleasure that that brings, just give him the gift of my body for him to use as he wishes--but with lots of lube, lol.

Of course, overall I want the missionary position that you are describing, really actually making love together, kissing each other passionately while I give myself to him, looking at his face and into his eyes as he deeply enjoys my ass, and then as he gives me his seed (after I go on prep of course). All of these experiences of bottoming is what I'm ready for now.

But I don't think I want it to be just casual. I'm done with casual sex. I want something more meaningful between a guy and me, about friendship and mutual caring, and then my gift to him of my asshole would mean something, not just to his cock, but to his heart.