May have found a dude to mess around with.

[L0v3R]

He had mentioned he used to have a friend that he would let give him blowjobs.

I was thinking about telling him I'm bi next time I see him.

How should I bring it up? Should I just offer him a blowjob? I want reciprocation too.

I keep fantasizing about sucking his cock and him cumming in my mouth. I've been feeling very bottom lately.

[L0v3R]

Maybe I should ask him if guys really do give better head and tell him I'm bi and see what he says. This makes me nervous.

He is a little older than me and more masculine than I tend
to like. It's been hard coming to terms with the fact that I'm attracted to men. Most of the time when I masturbate I'm fantasizing about giving a blowjob and swallowing cum, I watch a lot of gay porn.

I don't know if I'm gay or if I just haven't done it yet so I'm thinking about it a lot.

I just need to do it. I've known since I was like 13. I just ignored it.

[Jazminedress]

detatch from it a little. What I mean is, quit thinking about gay or straight and just think about it as mutually getting off. If you enjoy it, then try again, if you dont, think of it as a masturbation day with a friend. In other words, just dont over think it

[L0v3R]

Well I'm not straight I know that much, I love women but always fantasize about guys. It's hard to find a guy I'm attracted to though. Usually they are younger and feminine and I'm in the dominant role.

Lately tho I have been feeling more submissive and bottomy. It's weird tho, when we met we were fighting over the same chick a bit. Lol at the time I was like who is this dude trying to cockblock me?!

Then later I remembered him talking about letting a guy blow him and I was like hmm.

Now I'm thinking of ways to get him to fuck me! Lol.

[GayGuy04]

Good luck with your friend let us know how things went about it

[Coastocoast]

I got together with a guy I had known for a while and it turned into an ongoing thing that lasted for more than a year. He at one point made an offhanded joke after his date the night before with a woman went south and it opened a door for me to ask. It started an as a matter of fact conversation that lead to more. He was frustrated and mumbled it had been so long since he had had a blowjob he would probably give one to get one. I simply asked him straight up would you? He ducked the question on the spot but I went back to it again later in a more private setting and he eventually stated he would. I moved on him and he did not stop me. In your case when you have the opportunity, simply ask did he give as well as get one? If he says yes, since he has already admitted he is open to same sex oral, ask him would you like to trade? What is the worst he can tell you... no? At least you do not have to dance around the issue of him being open to same sex oral which is usually the big stumbling block when there is an interest, you have that answer now.

[L0v3R]

I just need to get over the anxiety about it. He was open enough to talk about it. Maybe it was even a hint.

I've never been in a situation where I could talk about it and act on it.

[cuttin2dachase]

I would say he was definitely giving you not only a hint but an invitation to suck his dick. He put it out there that he felt comfy with getting a bj from a man. You missed a chance to explore it further in that moment. He may have some issues in openly declaring to you that he's bi. It also sounds to me like you are a bit hesitant to confide to him that you're bi. It's likely that both of you at least are quite bi-curious...also there's a big difference between feeling submissive and feeling bottom..just sayin'. So I would definitely bring it up again. It's up to you whether to be subtle or overt in seeking his cock.

[L0v3R]

Well it's all new to me. I never really considered anal very much. I always fantisized about sucking cock. I wasn't into anal very much with women either.

Lately Its been turning me on to think about letting go of the control and letting a guy fuck me.

[JordanCD]

What we know: he told you he lets guys suck his dick, which means you can bring it up next time you guys talk about girls or dating or something and he won’t think it’s weird.

What we don’t know: that he wants to fuck guys in the ass. So start with the blowjob. If you get that far, after a few blowjobs you guys will be more comfortable with each other so you can talk more openly then.

Right now just take it one step at a time. You don’t even need to tell him you’re bi, just see if he’s up for trying the blowjob thing.

[rukiddingme]

Next time you talk, tell him you were thinking about him saying guys have given him a blow job. And you have had several girls give you one, and always wondered if guys do give better ones, but never really knew a guy who would want to

[twilson22001]

Have a few drinks and just ask him about the blowjobs from guys and get him to tell you about it. Then just tell him you've always wondered what it's like to suck cock. Bet he'll tell you to find out!

[BrokenQuill]

All the advice above is very good. Get together for a couple of drinks and let him know that you are interested to find out what its like to suck cock. Things will develop from there.

Enjoy!

[averagejoe33]

Would you like to meet for a few drinks?


Have a few drinks and just ask him about the blowjobs from guys and get him to tell you about it. Then just tell him you've always wondered what it's like to suck cock. Bet he'll tell you to find out!

[bikurinpa]

Dont get ur hopes of to have found someone, I been looking for yrs, l bet l talked to over 100 who CLAIMED to be serous but still have yet to found one that really was serious! So many like to get on to chat then get their rock off then they are GONE!

[Buck Naked]

I suggest you use the same scenario Coastocoast (https://www.bisexual.com/forum/member.php?84382-Coastocoast) mentioned only reverse the roles, i.e. you tell him it's been so long since you've had a decent blowjob you'd probably give one to get one. See how he reacts to that.

[KDaddy23]

Well, if you were of a mind to, you could ask him if he'd like to have another friend who'd love to give him blowjobs instead of giving yourself a headache trying to figure out how to "sneak" your interest under the radar. Yes, it is risky but if you don't ask, you won't ever know but given that he even mentioned this to you - because some guys wouldn't - that just might be him telling you something but, again, if you don't ask, you won't know one way or the other and, you betcha - I'd be bold or crazy enough to ask him - but that's always been me.