Do you have days that have you fantasizing more than others?

[titeabs]

Today, during a lull in work, I found myself yearning for some hot men...........I haven't been with a man in five years, but the fantasies have been wild!! Today, moreso than ever, I got sooooooooooo hot and bothered , I needed to cool off.........needless to say, I stopped home for lunch and took about two minutes to satisfy my craving. :tong: But I am still easily aroused about some hot man taking me.........
Does anyone ever have moments like this? During work? And what would be peoples' feedback for this type of arousal-fantasies about same sex are great/innocent? Or not healthy?
And would you want to be more aggressive at fulfilling this fantasy with the real thing, and hopefully suppress the daydreams? Or do I need therapy with a sexy therapist who can sit on me while I'm on his couch? :bigrin:
Just curious. TIA

[cand86]

I've come to the conclusion that my desires lead me, not the other way around. I can't control 'em, and they sure have a mind of their own. Sometimes I try to convince myself casually that, 'nah, I'm not really that into girls', and then someone walks by and, good God, I swear I'm lesbian. And these thoughts always come at the most inopportune moments! Sometimes when I want sex on the brain, everything there is very trite and boring. But then other times those thoughts pop in unexpectedly- take a few weeks ago, sitting in class listening to my teacher, when it dawned on me, just like that, "I would sooo love to bend him over a desk." Not even my "type", not being particularly sexy, no leading up to such an act, just that right there. There's no accounting for it!

As for your questions- are the daydreams just that (like I think in my case), or an indication of your yearning for the actual thing so that it is dominating your brain? If it's the latter, you might want to give fulfillment a thought, if you're so inclined. Are the daydreams healthy or do they require therapy? I've always thought the only way something becomes unhealthy or a problem is if it causes you/others pain or disrupts your life. It doesn't sound like you're having trouble functioning because of the fantasies, so I say live it up! Enjoy living in your mind while it keeps it so nice and hospitable in there for you! That's just my two cents, though . . .

[DiamondDog]

you're perfectly fine.
you just want a hot and handsome MAN to take you that's all!

[titeabs]

Thanks diamond and cand, I loved both your postings!! And cand, if you are ever in the detroit area, and want to bend me over a desk...........ooops, sorry I digressed. ;)
Great , here comes another fantasy with a dominant woman!!

[wantus269]

I have daydreams all the time, almost daily, that cause me to be completely side-tracked and oblivious to whats going on around me. I was in a meeting one time with some really high-up business people and they were talking and discussing things and I was dreaming about having a big hard cock in my mouth and they asked me several questions before I even knew they were talking to me. Then they wanted me to explain a diagram on the board in front of everyone and I had this massive hard on in my slacks.