Nocockyet
Sep 25, 2020, 11:46 AM
I apologize up front for the long post.
as a child before I even started jacking off, I came across the “everything you wanted to know about sex book” in my parents room. I read something in there about men and anal, and how it could feel good, so I tried it. Here and there over while growing up I tried making little phallic devices to try but never ever thought about them as dicks. In fact, the book specifically talked about a woman doing it to a guy, so I never thought of it as gay or bi even. The years go by, I realize that I am an extremely awkward and shy person. There were so many chicks I wanted to be with and just didn’t have the nerve. And all the while experimenting with home made toys. It never really did anything for me until I was in my late teens and WOW! I finally figured it out. Still was completely turned off by the thought of being with another man. I finally overcome my shyness long enough to meet someone and start a life together, And... introduce a little ass play into the relationship. I think that the time it was only used as something to spice things up, kinda like when I was younger, I needed a little extra kink to make it interesting. Now during the last 30 years the toys have become more and more like dicks, and bigger as well. The wife and I stopped using them together, and I started a quest to get bigger and bigger toys and more realistic. It was about 2 years ago I started fantasizing about what it would be like to actually be with someone. I can imagine the whole thing, sucking them off, and then have them pound me relentlessly until I blow. However, I just cannot picture kissing them, or having any kind of relationship. I still hurt my neck checking out women, and Truly want to get with women, but still in the back of my mind have accepted to some degree that I would like to at least once try a real cock. Unfortunately, now I need a rather large one to satisfy me.
is this normal? Can anyone else relate?
as a child before I even started jacking off, I came across the “everything you wanted to know about sex book” in my parents room. I read something in there about men and anal, and how it could feel good, so I tried it. Here and there over while growing up I tried making little phallic devices to try but never ever thought about them as dicks. In fact, the book specifically talked about a woman doing it to a guy, so I never thought of it as gay or bi even. The years go by, I realize that I am an extremely awkward and shy person. There were so many chicks I wanted to be with and just didn’t have the nerve. And all the while experimenting with home made toys. It never really did anything for me until I was in my late teens and WOW! I finally figured it out. Still was completely turned off by the thought of being with another man. I finally overcome my shyness long enough to meet someone and start a life together, And... introduce a little ass play into the relationship. I think that the time it was only used as something to spice things up, kinda like when I was younger, I needed a little extra kink to make it interesting. Now during the last 30 years the toys have become more and more like dicks, and bigger as well. The wife and I stopped using them together, and I started a quest to get bigger and bigger toys and more realistic. It was about 2 years ago I started fantasizing about what it would be like to actually be with someone. I can imagine the whole thing, sucking them off, and then have them pound me relentlessly until I blow. However, I just cannot picture kissing them, or having any kind of relationship. I still hurt my neck checking out women, and Truly want to get with women, but still in the back of my mind have accepted to some degree that I would like to at least once try a real cock. Unfortunately, now I need a rather large one to satisfy me.
is this normal? Can anyone else relate?